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*antbelievehisluck
writes:Hello, Uhh, okay so me and this girl like each other, we've met up once and both really enjoyed ourselves, we only talked which was great I felt like I got to know a lot about her. we're meeting again and this time i really want to kiss her, I wanted to last time and regret it, I just couldn't find the right moment, and was wondering when would be, if any a good moment to go for it.Thanks. :S Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Sounds to me like she is a very immature girl - she was "play" fighting you? That is just dumb! Move on to another girl who is more mature and would appreciate you.
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reader, cantbelievehisluck +, writes (22 June 2010):
cantbelievehisluck is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNoooo, I didn't start the fighting, she was beating me up!
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (22 June 2010):
Stop with the "play fighting" now. That's not play, that is being agressive and it's what 12 year old boys do with each other - you don't do that with a girl you like - ever! No wonder you had a problem! The notion that she was so hurt by her last relationship is nonsense. You came of as such a nice sweet guy the first time - so disappointed to hear about the play fighing. That's just plain dumb and not at all romantic. Don't ever do that again. Understand?
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reader, cantbelievehisluck +, writes (21 June 2010):
cantbelievehisluck is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirstly id like to give my thanks :)
Buuuut, sadly I couldn't find the right moment, and i wont be seeing her again for a few weeks, i find she is a very hard person to understand, 'cus when we last went out we had a great time talking, this time we spent a lot of it hitting each other with pebbles and almost play fighting, I mean we had fun but of course I came off worse (I'm not gunna' to hit her, don't worry) I just cant read her. she keeps herself to herself. I know in her last relationship she was very hurt when it ended, and was wondering if that could be the reason why its hard for me to understand her. Any hints about how to get through to her? :S
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Aaaww, thats so sweet! Right moments usually include that silence after you've both laughed and are smiling, or on her doorstep saying good night...don't be quick about it, that can end up with you bumping heads or something :p gently cup her face with one or both hands, look into her eyes for a few moments, gently brush your lips against hers, then, kiss her (no tongue though and not for too long). Some guys think its cute to kiss a girl as shes talking, but nope, a lot of us dont find it so cute :p
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (17 June 2010):
So sweet and nice! There is never an exact "right" moment for a kiss. Never force it or yourself but when you feel that it is the right time tilt your head to the right or left (which ever is comfortable for you and a good angle) and move in a little - if she catches your cue she will do the same. If that does not work you can always ask her "Can I kiss you?" I don't know about the rest of the females on this site but that has almost always worked for me personally. If you can't or don't want to do either of those two things then wait until you are parting company for the evening and saying your goodbyes, a good night kiss then is usually appropriate. And please no tongue action on the first kiss. Trust me on this one. Ok? Good luck. You sound like a nice guy!
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