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Body Confidence Issues

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Question - (16 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2010)
A female Norway age 30-35, *insko writes:

Hi, im a almost 18 year old girl and im to afraid to show my body to anybody, not even myself sometimes.

i just wonder, how can i get more confedence?

im almost with a guy but, if we get togheter what the fuck should i do?

do anyone have any advice to how to get a better confedence?

lots of love from me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):

Hi Linsko, Dont panic!

First of all you need to love your body before you will be able to accept that anyone else will.

Take a long hard look in the mirror, if you look real close you'll find imperfections, sure you will. There is no such thing as perfect! But when you look at other people, do you see there imperfections? No! And noone will see yours either. All those little things you dont like...no one will even notice. Especially a boyfriend, as he will already be besotted with you if he wants to take things further that he'll just think your body is amazing (men are very easily impressed anyway!)

Another tip is that confidence is sexy and CAN be faked. I used to be body concious but pretended to be confidence and you know what...after a while i wasnt pretending anymore!

Hard to explain in text but if you have any questions just ask.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):

I know it's easier said than done but just let it happen, if you're going to have sex just take your clothes off! Don't think about it too much because once it's happened you'll be fine!! Well in my experience anyway.

Why aren't you confident? Confidence is sexy and that a guy likes you should tell you you are sexy!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):

I'm self concious myself and I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. Whenever he tries to kiss my stomach I cover it with my arms and I cant imagine sleeping with him because I hate my body so much. He reasuures me though he makes me feel beautiful sometimes despite the fact I dont think it. If this guy your getting with is so lovely he will do the same and reasuure you that there is nothing to dislike and soon enough you will get to the stage when you trust him and actually belive him.

Hope I helped.

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