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*ewbeauty25
writes:hey . im sitting here feeling drain used and disrespected. feel like everytime im show someone my ture self and give them my all they disrespect me or take advantage of me . i dont treat people this way so why am i attracting this type of behavior.. im tired and feel like giving up .. no matter wat i do to make people happy they dont seem to THINK that im worry of it.. this is due to me having family members who has spit on me . pulled my hair . kicked me outin the street .. every year since i was a child i (encounter) heartache ..now i am receiving it from men (AS A GROWN WOMAN) i love and give myself to .. i feel the need to speak to someone about this ..because i dont have the strenght anymore to fight . i fight with my family, my boyfriends and even the women at my job .. im a good person DAMN IT AND I DESERVE A GOOD LIFE AND GOOD PEOPLE AROUND ME .. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. XOXO..HOW DO I GET RID OF MY NEGATIVE ENERGY..?(MODERATOR NOTE: The item in brackets was corrected so the Agony Aunts could better understand the OP's note. English may not be the OP's first language.) Reply to this Question
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (16 June 2010):
Hi i am so sorry to hear that, i have always been low in self esteem so my mum gave me this book Feel the Fear and do it anyway by susan jeffers, it has helped me so much. I think whats best for you is to find who you are, to be on your own and gain your confidence and self worth back and ask yourself what you'd love from life you'll never be happy with anyone if you're never happy with yourself as you'll always feel incomplete. There is a saying "Just when your in need of a cheering squad you find yourself faced with enemy troops". Basically try to find happiness within yourself and everything you do in life will be an achievement and you will find someone who loves you for all of you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): This sounds like myself. I also want the right positive people around me.Just try and not depend on anybody to make you happy but yourself. Concentrate on you.
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