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anonymous
writes:I have caught my husband masterbating and i'm wondering if there is something wrong with our sex life why do he feel he needs to do that when i'm in the house? I can see us doing it together or me watching but, he is doing it without me when i'm in another room. is this normal or is it me?
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reader, pyan  +, writes (9 January 2010):
hi
you said you seeyou both doing it together or you watching does he know that as i think its normal what he is doing and you may find you are in his thoughts whilst he is doing it. you sould ask. pm if you like
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): As the other's have said..
Maybe he's trying to rub one out to take the 'edge off' for later in the evening/night ????
Any correlation between his flying solo and you guys fluffing the sheets ?? He might be a minuteman and just wants to last longer for you ??
I seriously doubt it is you!
(try asking him?? what did he say??)
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 Good and great your this saying...'I can see us doing it together or me watching but, he is doing it without me when i'm in another room. is this normal or is it me?".. He is just unlucky on judgment.
You can change his choice in your favor. Talk with him quite openly and frankly. When you get chance to do it together, check your and his excitement melt with each other. Let him know that you are no different than him in enjoying sexual stimulation. Share fantasy with him, which will increase your intimacy, and also honesty of relation.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 January 2010):
I'm sure it's not your sex life. The thing is he may just need a quick fix. If you are worried, just try to spice things up a bit in the bedroom (underwear, order him about a bit and such). But I'm pretty sure it's not you.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 January 2010):
 Even when married, partners will also spend some occasional time privately masturbating. If you never masturbate at all, I think it would be unusual. In my opinion, some masturbation alone by married partners does not portend a problem.
However, his stimulus is likely pornography, which can become addictive and may eventually affect normal sexual relations. If his interest and attention to you begins to lessen, then there can be reason for concern.
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