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*radsxx
writes:Hi im a 16 year old boy from england and i recently gor asked out by another boy. He is gay, i am not. It started with a talk on MSN and he asked me if i would go out with him i said no, but then i kept on thinking that gay sex might be ok and i should try it. My friend rachael says i should do it, cause we all live 1 life. I'm sure if i asked he would have sex with me, but im not sure what to do please help.
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reader, faded  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 indeed you have one life, but make sure you`re capable of taking responsibilities for your decisions. If you`re not gay, why would you accept?
does it make you curious?
take care!
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reader, Ganymedes +, writes (17 January 2010):
How do you know for sure whether you really like girls if you've never had sex with a guy and vice versa? I was married to a woman for four years and never knew I preferred men.
Be totally upfront and honest about your intentions and I'm sure all will be fine.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (11 January 2010):
 Ditto all that everyone else has written. Sounds like you have a pretty open minded - especially for someone your age. You just need to make your friend understand that you're being open to exploring your feeling... and it might... or might not work out. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you have sex with him unless you're in it for more than just experimentation - unless he's cool with that... and knows that.
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reader, lolli-pop +, writes (9 January 2010):
dont have sex with this guy just for the hell of it because he has feelings as well. if you want to know how you feel then go out with him a couple of times to see what you think after then decide where to go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Just go out- as mates. See if you enjoy yourself. If you have fun and you feel something towards him you might want to kiss etc but for now just hang out with him and see how it goes. At the very least you might make a life long friend. Like your mate Rachel says, you only get one life ;)
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reader, bradsxx +, writes (9 January 2010):
bradsxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes i do no him in person known him for 4 years
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reader, bradsxx +, writes (9 January 2010):
bradsxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi person who asked the qustion her lol
ye i know him in person i've known him for about 4 years now but only a year ago did he tell me he's gay
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (9 January 2010):
 1) If your asking, then you already have doubts, trust your own mind2) You haven't mentioned if you have already met him, if not then please ensure to meet in a public place and make sure someone you trust knows the detals3) Yes Rachael is right we do live one live, however than one life is important so don't be hasty in things4)Give yourself time to 'find' yourself regarding you sexualityBest wishes
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (9 January 2010):
Have you actually met this guy in person yet? If it's still an online friendships, remember that there are all sorts of perverts and weirdos on the net who pretend to be who they are not. Be very very careful in that respect.
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