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writes:Is it bad to be a 17 year old virgin whose never had a boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): hey it's great.
you might as well wait till you're in college and try to find a SERIOUS guy. you have no idea how much we care about that. then he will respect you a lot more! for us is big deal. imagine if you find this wonderful, honest, serious guy who falls in love with you and you are a virgin. you will have the best relationship ever, much much better than your girlfriend's back in high school
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reader, hopelesswonder  +, writes (15 January 2010):
hey, u really shouldnt be worried at all, if ur 17 and still a virgin, im 22 and ive had a couple of bad relationships, if u can call them that lol, and even i am still a virgin, which feels wrong to me, but like i said, ur 17, so theres no rush.
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reader, kaseeiy +, writes (10 January 2010):
im 20 and is still a virgin with no boyfriend. I think its great that you still have ur gift. Im a christian and im saving myself for the right man. Something that runs through my mind often is...He has to prove my heart that he is ready to go inside. im not lettin someone who's gonna leave me in a minute have the most precious, sacred, and treasured thing that i own and have complete control over. my advice is..try to wait for your man to come to you, dont u go finding him. it might be hard, but in the end, it's gonna be worth it. i promise.
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reader, Beau_Gallante +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Nooooo sweety, its not :). Trust me Im 22 and still have not had a boyfriend/sex. Just enjoy your years hopefully until after college...although college is where you will more than likely meet that guy.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 January 2010):
Nope, it's great.
Have a look at all the spotty immature pathetic and childish little boys in the years below you at school.
Are you really really upset that you didn't give yourself away at a young age to a guy just like that?
Wait till you find a man to be with. Men are so much better than boys.
I'm so happy I waited till I was 17 to lose MY virginity. My friends CRINGE when you ask them about their first time.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): I'm 17, a virgin and never had a boyfriend. I don't think that's bad.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
Of course it's not. You're not pregnant, you have no STD's, you haven't been used. There are plenty of reasons that it's a good thing, none that it's a bad thing. Just keep focusing on yourself and your life for now, and you'll meet a great guy who'll love you when you're ready.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (9 January 2010):
No, not at all. Be glad you're not one of the girls worried about an STD or a baby on the way out of sheer stupidity. Don't feel bad about yourself, be happy that you are. Things will fall into place eventually and it'll happen--trust me, you have lots of time to have all of that happen. I had a boyfriend from 16-20, and I definitely wish I didn't waste my time on that, if I had known better and focused on my education and what was really important, I probably would have been better off long ago.
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