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writes:I am from india and live abroad with my sister. She is 25 and i study in medical college. I am 20. She is not my real sister but is adopted. She loves me a lot, and so do i. Recently she was involved in a fatal car accident. She was in hospital for a long time (more than 2 months). I helped her all the time in these months and have to suffer in my studies. she thinks my loss in studies was because of her and now she feels very guilty. Now she is healthy but keeps on feeling the same guilt. please help me improve our relation. Reply to this Question
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reader, v712 +, writes (10 January 2010):
v712 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI too think time will help. She is still in pain. Thanks for the reply.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 It will get better in time. time is a great healer. She will get better.
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reader, v712 +, writes (10 January 2010):
v712 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanks for the reply. I have catched up with my studies, but still she is still feeling the guilt. I don't know why.
I got the extension in my medical studies and i am completely on the track now.
I had talked to her many times but still she is in same guilt. Doctors say it may be due to a mental breakdown. But she is fine in every other task except this relating to my studies.
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (10 January 2010):
Your sister has been through a horrendous experience. She is probably still very depressed about it and probably still in pain. It was very kind of you to help her through. She feels guilty for your studies. The only way to solve this is to keep communicating with her and tell her it is OK and that you will catch up. Often universities will offer extensions for mitigating cricumstances.
Good luck with your studies.
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