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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Something is surely wrong in the relationship. Correct?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay so to me this is does mean somethings wrong in a relationship but i want to get opinions from the rest of the unique world. when a boyfriend looks at club websites that show, you know the nightly pictures of the people (mostly women of course) who have been there. O... (126 words

Feeling Neglected: Should I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend LDR use to enjoy to each other's company. School started and well we both got busy which I knew was bound to happen. Last week, we got into a huge fight because he has a tendency to hide his problems from me or anyone. He has been really depressed because of stress ... (296 words

Guys showing interest only because of my breasts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Can guys be interested in a girl just because of her breasts? I feel like the only reason guys are interested in me is my breasts, like that's the only thing they see. I obviously want a guy to like me for everything that I am, not just to get with me cause of my breasts. ... (83 words

What's the deal with my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - One of my friends has large translate that as HUGE breasts. She pointed out to me that I have small breasts. I said,"So what?".She said to me,"You don't have to worry about them".Now she is going and talking behind my back to other guy friends of mine that I am worried about my ... (58 words

Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey everyone:) I need help. IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum. Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance i could be pregnant. i ha... (97 words

Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy through a mutual friend. i always knew the guy from high school. For about 2 months i was told that the guy was interested in me.from past dating experiences i was just more comfortable being by myself,so i really didn't pursue the guy. my number was given to him ... (538 words

Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swore she would never take off... (241 words

I threw the relationship away all for a few weeks of fun, and now he wont take me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years before i moved away to university. He's the most perfect guy imaginable. Good looking, fun to be with, kind, caring everything. He's three years older than me and had his own business where as I'm still young and well a student. When i moved ... (398 words

Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 1625 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 month etc , dependent on what he ... (213 words

What does a guy think or feel when he see a missed call from his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf broke up with me about one and half month ago, he wanted to stay in friends however I did need space for myself, so didn't contact him during the past one and half month. Yesterday I have finally decided to give him a call however he didn't answer, I remembered he was in ... (106 words

Why did she say "eww" around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Last night, my crush was at my house (only because she was with her Mom to pick up her brother) and we were all gathered in the living room. Eventually, I got up to go get something to show them. As I was walking by my crush, she couldn’t keep her eyes off me. I noticed this ... (135 words

Why is my boyfriend becoming so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 9 months now. Hes 20, and i'm 18. We've been through so much and its been really difficult but we've made through it. Hes always been the jealous type, but recently its been starting to get out of control. Last night i wore a ... (595 words

I still love him despite the hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - [Moderator's Note: Original Post contained vast amounts of song lyrics and bible passages, these have been deleted in order to shorten the post and highlight the actual question] Hey so I have been lost for a while now. I was dating someone who i was madly in love with. I ... (572 words

Should I give him a chance or just dump him? I don't want to waste my time on another guy who is wrong for me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles. I have posted on here and good some great feedback so I am back again. I just started dating this man from work (3rd date tomorrow) and he seems quite nice in one way but he is very very rude about his exes, including a wife and a long term ... (419 words

How can I get to the heart of this young lady? I'm sure she likes me too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, There is this lady i'm really in love with and have tried all can to make my feelings known to her but anytime i tried, the more she gets mad at me and warns not to raise that issue of love. Cupid, what amaze me is that she responds to my calls and ... (148 words

On one hand its like back off, but on the other its like don't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Well could do with some advice again, ive been seeing a girl now for a couple of months. Things have been going great, just casually dating once a week to start. The last couple of dates we have been on have gotten fairly intimate, didnt go all the way though. We have a mutual... (409 words

How can I stop worrying all the time and learn to trust him and have fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey there, i need some help i think i could be the worst possible girlfriend ever, alls i do is worry about my bf hurting me, by keeping things from me or cheating on me...he has an ex girlfriend who lives 2 hours away, where he use to live, and on his phone next to her name... (310 words

What does it mean when a guy says "lets just be friends"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

13 February 2010 (? age 22-25 - Ok so i'm so depressed right now. i keep trying to end a relationship, well it was never really a relationship more seeing eachother. And every time i do it ends up starting agen not llong after,i can't let him go. But the other day he ended it said he just wanted to be frien... (71 words

Does he want to gangbang?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1601 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Question: My boyfriend doesnt know but i know he watches porn which is fine cuz i do it but most of the time i notice on the history on the computer he watches a lot of gangbang pornos and its mostly like 5 black guys and one white girl. does this mean he has or wants to ... (81 words

Our sex drives have gone down the drain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8months now and we have a strong relationship. when we first met our sex relationship was great... but now it seems boring we have tried to spice it up a little by having sex in other places as well as trying different possitions ... (63 words

Does the problem lie with him or should I be taking anti-depressants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im kinda confused about my relationship right now with the guy I've been dating off and on for 4 years now. When we are together everything seems perfect, but when we are apart its like war world 3. we fight all the time, and when i try talking to him he just says im bitching ... (410 words

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 years, and it was only 6 months ... (163 words

Am I dealing with a commitment-phobe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Have been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and things in the beginning seemed to be great..we had similar values, family, ect..I thought we had fun , we went on 2 vacations, ect ect..We have somewhat of a long distance relationship and only see each other once a week ... (320 words

Should I continue loving him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello there So there's this guy that I really like.. he claims to like me back. but he's stuck in a relationship with a girl who basically forced her love on him. She threatens to harm herself or something if he breaks up with her. Thing is, we've both confessed our fe... (159 words

What should I wear on our second date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (F - I am going on a second date and trying to decide what to wear..when we first met after e-mailing on a dating site..i wore my black jeans that i like, and this top that shows cleavage with a black sweater and boots this time i was thinking of wearing this black mini skirt... (236 words

How do we make anal sex less painful as a couple?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, all! My boyfriend and I have been together for a fairly long time (three years), so we've done almost every kind of sex imaginable... except anal. He's literally the only guy I feel comfortable being naked in front of but anal sex is definitely something I'm conscious ... (172 words

At first he seemed interested, and now he only chats for sex. What happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - i met this really amazing guy on a social site and we would talk for hours everyday then it moved to sending naught pictures then it moved to the webcam.then he started disappearing and getting offline when i would get online.and giving short responses when we would talk.i was ... (148 words

How do I know if it's really love, or if it's just wanting something I can't have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I don't really know what to do. I'm an 18 year old girl and I have boyfriend who I'm mostly happy with. But my problem is that whenever I break up with my boyfriends I want him back as soon as he doesn't want me. My ex, we'll call him Lo, has recently gotten over me for another ... (116 words

Should I put up with her ex's restrictions? Or should I leave the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been in a long-term relationship with a woman for 8 years. We met each other at work, and progressively there has been pressure added such that social contact with other employees is not acceptable. The other challenge is her ex-husband which continues after all these ... (228 words

What do I do when he isn't respecting my schedule?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have got a bit of a beLATEd question for you...dating a seemingly wonderful man- EXCEPT he has serious problems lately respecting my time schedule. I cannot study around him when it's crucial to get things done (we're both med students). He asks for HUGE favors ... (102 words

I should want to be with my wife, but I really want to be with the woman I am having an affair with. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am 41 years old married 15 years with 3 kids under 12. I met someone 9 months ago and have been having an affair since. I told her I was married when we met. I told my wife that I was in love with someone else and i did not love her. I filed for divorce but can't follow ... (119 words

I'm afraid of being hurt due to his past actions. Should I pursue a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello, I dated a guy for 2 months who wasnt really that into me although he was always replying my e-mails and calling me on the phone but left him cause he was not really clear and sure about what he wanted from me.Now after 3 months he calls again and wants to talk to... (75 words

If a guy rejects you but wants to be friends, do you stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello , I would like to ask a question if a man you liked was not really intersted in you and asked to be friends with you. Would it be right to be friends with him.... (39 words

How do I make her see what she's doing is crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello all at cupid Im writing this on behalf of my freind And to honest with you all i dont actually no why she did it in the first place but she wont listen to me so hoping seeing other peoples comments will help her Anyway a couple of months bk my m8 got a random t... (417 words

Should I take his threats seriously? Or is he just trying to manipulate the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Please help asap! Theres this guy that i know we really like each other and may enter into a relationship together. Anyway he has this female friend that he slept with numerous times but denies doing it anymore,i saw a txt on his phone before saying he has feelings for her but ... (244 words

How do I get back to talking with him after a long period of silence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok everyone Please help me i really need lots of advice hear, well i like this guy still even tho we do not speak anymore, we stoped talking early november last yr, over something really silly,, bear in mind i only new him for a few weeks and slept with him twice and befor... (124 words

Should I still be her friend in spite of our past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey. I met this gilr and we became really good freinds,as time progressed we got even closer but she was always unwilling to commit. I always liked her more than she liked me. Anyway just as things were starting to go good and she started to really like me I hurt her by ... (193 words

She asked for a break, but I want her back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1588 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - The girl I have been dating I have known almsot all her life. I'm 22 and shes 18. I have known her since she was in 2nd grade. Its my est friends sister, we dated a year and a half ago behind my friends back for 4 months and then he found out and flipped out so we broke up ... (235 words

Valentine's day plans gone wrong...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1626 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi, I've been planning valentines day for a little while now, but its falling to bits, i did have a restaurant booked for valentines day with a set menu for 48 pounds per person, in the last week the restaurant have asked for an extra 40 ontop to keep the table i booked f... (348 words

We have been together for 9 years but he is taking another woman out for Valentines Day!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1626 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi AUnts and Uncles. I'm really distraught because my boyfriend told me a few days ago, after an argument, that he is going out with another woman (from work) tomorrow for Valentine Night and that he is going to 'stay over' at her place. We have had out ups and downs but ... (380 words

I get jealous of the special way he treats his wife but I am very dependent on him! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have a lover who is married for over 20 years. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now. I am 32, he is 50 now. i love him so much and he loves me also but he loves his wife and children. most of the time, i get jealous and hurt because of the special way he treats his wife. ... (93 words

He used me as a substitute girl! How do I teach him a lesson?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - we've been relationship for 6months.before relationship he told me he has a gf 3yrs ago,she cheated him and went to overseas with her new bf. i comforted him and later we're in love. then later i found out that he still keep in touch with his ex while dating me through someo... (166 words

Should I give him a shot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I dont know if i should give this guy a chance or not.. i was out with my friends for a night out and ended up getting quite drunk. I met this guy and we hit it off and made out for hours. But now I'm just not feeling 'it'. He has been calling me and stuff wanting to go out and ... (115 words

He called me lazy because I wasn't enjoying having sex with him and now he hasn't contacted me! Should I take it that it is over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to cum so i got soo tired am gave up..(i wasnt enjoying it) he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing he was trying to make me wet ... (165 words

I love her and miss her so much but if I get back with her she will hurt me again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, When I meet my GF she was became the girl of my life, yeah not only she is the first girl in my life but also my first love. You know it was a kind of loving someone without EXPECTATION. She pretended to be a very simple girl and very responsible. I used to believe ... (346 words

How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every day, but at the same time he ... (440 words

Am I supposed to believe he loves me after all this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1626 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - I believe I know the answers to these questions but am really looking to see what others say. I know my husband tells me I'm wrong, but, I don't think so. Does a man love you when: He cheats on you, gets the woman pregnant, doesn't tell you about it for almost 4 years. He's "h... (178 words

I want her back so badly but her friends and family are standing in the way of us being together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1560 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - please help me for god's sake....i am going crazy and dont believe i am writing this....long story short,she was my soulmate...we were together for 2 years and were committed...we hanged out at many places and had become most important part of life for each other....she was a ... (658 words

Can stress and anxiety manifest itself like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm really in need of some advice. I recently found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me for a long time while we were together and I ended things. Ever since, I've been through a million emotions and needless to say, very stressed out. I've felt fati... (147 words

I seriously need some career advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1620 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I seriously need some career advice. For 10 years now, I've worked in admin in various roles in corporate companies. Last year, I gave up the 9-5 slog and studied journalism fulltime.. thinking this would give me the chance to have a more exciting stimula... (1276 words

I feel like an idiot for letting this go on for so long! Will he ever stop lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - my husband cheated for five years with a person at work. I was suspicious of their friendship bet he said "only friends." They took trips together and he would call from cell to tell me that he loved me. Someone sent me a letter telling me all of this and asking "Who is ... (375 words

He's pushing things too quickly for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok well basically i met this lovely guy on thursday night and we really liked each other. But now i feel bad because now i feel totally turned off by him. I do this every time and i usually regret it. My friend first of all put me off him because she was laughing away saying he ... (153 words

How can I stop cheating on partners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey everyone.....Im 16 years old and I have this problem. My problem is that with every boyfriend I had, i've cheated on. I can never have a boyfriend and not cheat on him. Its something that i hate doing and I know its wrong but I cant help it.....cheating is like an addictiv... (83 words

Am I really the reverse ugly duckling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i feel ugly. my self-esteem's really low right now. i fancy this guy in my college who keeps adding really attractive girls in facebook. we've been on the edge of becoming an item for a long but eventually he suggests us to be best friends. is it because i'm ugly? i feel really ... (85 words

What should I wear for the second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F - I am going on a second date and trying to decide what to wear..when we first met after e-mailing on a dating site..i wore my black jeans that i like, and this top that shows cleavage with a black sweater and boots this time i was thinking of wearing this black mini skirt... (179 words

Why is my boss telling me about personal information?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1630 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have had a crush on my principal for a while. I am a manager at the college he manages. He is married so I am not pushing anything. I too am in a relationship. I had a meeting with him recently and within our conversation he mentioned that he is not well and is in pain c... (151 words

My husband can't get me pregnant. Should I have sex with his brother instead?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1606 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age - I Love my Husband Very much, I do respect my husband, But we are not having Kids, as we have check-up with doctor, Test was Positive. Then I thought to have a sex with family member i.e. My husband brother, I respect my husband brother, I am attracted to my husband brother, As ... (118 words

Was kissing my teacher on the cheek a bit too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1614 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - So, my teacher is like... more than a teacher to me. He is my mentor. He has done a lot for me and helped me so much in life situations and how I can deal with them. Because of that, he has made me a happier person than how I used to be (which was a negative, down person.) We ... (232 words

How can I get over this feeling of needing to be with my unaffectionate boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1630 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone i finaly took everyones advice including you guys on leaving my unaffectionate boyfriend that never pays me any attention...... I cant stop thinking about him and i dont really want to leave him but he acts like he doesnt care about me ......how can i get over this ... (57 words

Why aren't guys interested in girls who are interested in them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Has this ever been the case for you: The guy(s) you like aren't interested in you, but the guy(s) you don't like are the ones who are? This seems to hold true for me all the time! I don't know, could it be that because I'm the nice girl, guys who aren't really secure go... (84 words

How do I inform my daughter that I can hear her masturbating in her room?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - My 34 year old daughter's room is above mine. I've been hearing her masturbating. It wakes me up and I'm amazed she doesn't know it. How do I tell her to pick another time when I am not at home. She's been wondering why I have been sleeping on the couch in the living room. ... (84 words

Is it weird that I am uncomfortable with my boyfriend alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - i feel nervous to call my bf on the phone and to go on dates with him alone. is that weird?... (21 words

How do I tell my son about his biological father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - My son is six years old this week and he is curious about his father as he sees all the other children at school with daddies yet he does not have one. I've always tried to enstill in him the importance of the people who are here, raising him and that DNA does not define or ... (663 words

Can a man tell if a girl has had sex on anygiven day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is there any way that a man can tell if a women has had sex with someone else the same day he tries to have sex with her as well?... (30 words

My daughter found my sexual conversation on Facebook!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I am a forty-three year old married woman of eighteen years with four children. My marriage has always been rocky but we have stayed together through thick and thin. Before I was married to my husband, Tim*, I was engaged a man, Carl*, whom I was dating for four years prior. At ... (216 words

Am I an idiot for even trying to contact or see this person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1630 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was dating this girl for about six months, she was very nice and good to get along with for the first while. After things got a little comfortable whenever i asked how she was doing or how work was it always seemed to have some type of depressing story to go along with her ... (259 words

Am I the only who think he's lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Previously, I needed different opinions on what I should do concerning my husband of 10 years. recap he's cheated on me 3x times! The last fling was "supposedly" only on myspace! Why couldn't me, his wife be a friend on his page also! Anyway, I go to have my well woman exam I ... (98 words

Why won't my boyfriend's parents let me sleep over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1630 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I am 20 and he is 21. We have always taken things slow and have by no means been rash or irresponsible. My parents have always bestowed a lot of trust in me and they are far from strict which I feel has made me a more ... (463 words

How can I see myself as sexy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1627 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - How is it possible to look at myself, knowing I am not a model, knowing it is unrealistic to desire to be super skinny, and still think I am sexy and beautiful? My fiance thinks I am sexy, why can't I? I hide it quite well, as he believes my confidence is one of the sexiest ... (95 words

Help!!! Is there ANYTHING I can do to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - In the summer of 08 i started dating this amazing girl after years and years of just wanting to tell her how i felt i finally got the chance to tell her after a friend of mine started dating a friend of hers. She told me she felt the same way too and it was just instant love. ... (535 words

If you love someone tell them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (M age 51-59 - A few years ago i fell in love with someone who i am still in love with. she got divorced although it wasn't because of me. she got divorced before i fell in love with her. she used to live i california and then kansas. i live in michigan. she grew up in michigan. i wasn't in ... (295 words

Is there a way I can keep a good flow of intimacy while putting on his condom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - About a month ago, I gave up my birth control pills out of health concerns. My boyfriend was fine with it and we've basically just been orally satisfying one another - which really isn't the same. We've spoke about trying condoms, but we tried them ONCE before I went on BCP and ... (210 words

I have 126 days to ruin his wedding!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1628 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay, ive had the guy as my best friend since we were 10 and 11.. we are now 24.. he is getting married in june to his uncle's step child... and he and i have been through everything together... he has always called me to tell me that he loved me and goodnight.. and still does ... (171 words

How can I let these boys know I only want them as friends...

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13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have just started my first semester in college. I didn't know anyone coming into it, but within the first week i had made a fairly large group of friends. And it's great hanging out with all these new people, the only thing is every single one of them is male. This isn't by ... (240 words

Is it ok that I’m having a fling while I’m biding my time until I can be with the guy I love?

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13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My LD bf and I just broke up a little less than a month ago. It was pretty mutual, although he initiated it. Neither of us could handle the stress with no reward. We decided to remain friends, however in the last couple of weeks he has been calling, texting, and IMing me ... (253 words

My friend and I had sex and now he is pulling away...

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13 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Looking for advice. I met a guy at work about 5 years ago and we really hit it off. We quickly became close friends and had lunch together and hung out at work almost every day. Then we started hanging out outside of work occasionally. And now I would consider him my ... (135 words

Is it wrong that I'm totally freaked out?

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13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Basically i met a guy last night and he was really nice to me and we hit it off. But i have a serious problem where i get totally freaked out when a guy suddenly becomes too eager!! He has been texting me all day and i had to pretend that i was going for a nap so that he would ... (139 words

Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history?

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13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello, my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We've been together for about four years now and we feel ready to lose it to one another. Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history? Or am I just being paranoid? I want us to ... (122 words

He said he doesn't know if he still has feelings for me any more.

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13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - after 5 and a half years my bf told me he doesnt know if he still has the feeling for me anymore. when we first got togtehr we started going out in the first copuple of days and we have been together since. we work togther and have been living togther for the past 2 and half ... (422 words

I had sex with a bodybuilder!

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13 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone ..thanks for reading , Im in a spot here and I really dont know what to do ! I had always wanted to go to bed with one of those really BIG body builder guys at the gym , just watching them always got me aroused . Then one night at a party ( when my b... (251 words

Crossdresser going mad!

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13 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi. I a 36 year old male. I am married. I feel that I have a problem. I abolutely adore dressing in womens clothing, but more the raunchy/kinky clothing such as pvc/rubber, boots, bright red lipstick etc. I told my partner after a very short time after we met and it didn... (263 words

I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal?

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13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - It is a relationship question, but not like boyfriend or girlfriend - just friends. I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal? My oldest friend is hmm...in his forties, just had his first ... (386 words

My husband bought a gift for another woman!!!

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13 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I found out by chance that my husband of 24 years bought a work colleague a 'valentine' gift of a heart necklace this time last year. He actually ordered it on valentines day so it didn't arrive until at least the day or two later. He is saying that it was just a gift as s... (123 words

I don't want to remember a friend who makes me feel guilty every time I look at him or think of his name.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

13 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey here's my dilemma, i see a guy i fancy every day vertually without fail almost every other hour, it's enevitable, we both live in the same village and we go to the same school but thankfully we're not in the same year. the annoying thing is, is that his mum hates me and he ... (267 words

I don't know if I should date him or not as he's practically family!

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13 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm honestly not sure how to go about my situation. I've been hanging out with a guy that I've fallen in love with over the past year.. I haven't told him, because I simply don't want to weird him out. Why? Well, he's not technically family. However, my parents incl... (144 words

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