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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I go ahead with my plans to study abroad or give them up for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i just need advise on whether to go ahead with my past plans on studying abroad or whether to leave them behind at the risk of regretting them for my boyfriend. It would be for a period of 4months. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months and I the relationship is ... (278 words)

I adore him as a friend but his lies are making me feel uneasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive known this guy 6 months and we've become very close friends very quickly. ive been a rock to him since his wife left him 7 months ago but i have a major problem he lies to me. i know this because he tells me lots of things which dont add up eg he told me he owned 2 houses ... (190 words)

Should I be concerned that he has not told me he loves me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for 6 months. He cares about me, respects me and is concerned for my well-being. I've met his family and friends and I'm a big part of his life. He's told me that he can see spending the rest of his life with me, that he feels complete with me, that he... (147 words)

I could accept that she just doesn't like me but why was she so interested in me the night before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, i met a girl that i really liked at a bar the other night, and we just had a great conversation. i wasnt drinking, she wasnt drinking, i was just being myself and the reason i didnt ask for her number is that i dont really pick up girls at bars, i prefer to get to ... (144 words)

How to provide her with comfort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters aged 14 and 16 and I get on ... (229 words)

How long to wait for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I just ended a relationship for many reasons and our sexual connection was weak. Most of the time it was just straight sex. We had oral sex maybe every blue moon. When I was married I enjoyed oral sex very much and have missed it along with the whole fore play ... (204 words)

He's messing around with my heart...should I just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm really stuck and needing advice desperately! i split up with my boyfriend of 4 years over christmas and new year, it was my idea for us to split up. I had become very unhappy in the relationship and it was at a point where it had become violent. Towards the end of it i ... (361 words)

I spent Valentines Day spent alone while my bf preferred to be with his friends!! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for like 3-4 hours now, with his ... (118 words)

Is he pulling away because of the grief/stress in his life...or has he lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it grief, or lack of interest? My bf recently lost of a loved a while ago and has been having a very difficult past few months. I have been by his side trying to be supportive and helpful. We live together. The past few months have been difficult financially, and we ha... (259 words)

We have a baby, I'm pregnant again and we have age difference problems... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28, my partner is 17 years older than me. We've been living together for 7 years now, relationship was always up and down, but generally alright. I have never cheated on him and don't have anybody in mind now) Now we have a 2 y.o daughter and I am 4 months pregnant!... (180 words)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our relationship was never a smooth one, ... (414 words)

Why do guys only see me as sex object?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 and i've never had a guy on valentines day. I'm always single and lonely on v days:( All guys thinks Im cute and sexy and they only come to me cos of sex. Been single for 14 months now (no sex) and all the guys that have come my way just wanted sex and off course, i sa... (113 words)

My husband didnt buy me anything for Valentine´s Day :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really sad because my husband didnt buy me anything for Valentines Day, and the worst part is that he tells me in the morning that he didnt get me anything, and that he will buy me flowers tomorrow.(which he probably wont) I just said its ok,you dont have to, and I ki... (263 words)

Single, lonely, jobless and a virgin! Feeling down..can you help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm single, lonely, just got terminated from my first job (not my fault, long story), virgin, living with my parents, and don't have many friends. I know people have worse problems, but I get down. :( I know that I can find a gf if I ask a bunch of chicks out, but I don't ... (67 words)

Is my bf gay/ curious?? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for just over a year. About a month ago I moved out on my own because I could no longer tolerate the living situation I was in. For 6 months my bf lived together and in those six months our relationship went from good-bad-worse-terrible. The last ... (754 words)

I had an " Accident " during a lap dance. How can I prevent this from happening again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - While attending a particular club, I became extremely aroused. I finally found this glorious sexy lap dancer. I nearly made it to the end, but as she was grinding me, I unfortunately ejaculated. I was incredibly embarassed and rushed to the rest room to clean up . The d... (109 words)

Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really confused...could it be a sign ... (67 words)

I'm 13 and I know I love my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [MOD NOTE: Two questions combined from the same poster] 1. What does "seeing each other" mean? I know it has something to do with boyfriend/girlfriend, but I dont know! 2. Help, please! I think I love my best friend. Well I don't think, I know it! He's never had a girlfriend... (206 words)

We have sex once a week and he thinks I am a sex addict?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi My husband thinks I am a sex addict and it is making me feel paranoid. We have been married for a year and have sex about once every week and a half to two weeks. He says he is attracted me, but we barely have it. The only time we do is when I approach him. At least one ... (95 words)

We were both drunk - he kissed me but didn't get my number. Should I try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was out at a bar last night to see some bands play and I ended up talking to the sound guy, who was really cute. He was flirting with me heavily and I ended up making out with him. This is so out of the character for me, since I haven't hooked up with a guy at a bar since ... (224 words)

How should I express myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im beginning to hve feelings for ... (247 words)

21 years old and really struggling with my sexuality!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. sorry this is quite long but i really need some help. I'm 21 years old and really struggling with my sexuality. I have a BIG dilemma. about 2 years ago i had a 6 month relationship with the most amazing guy ive ever met. i loved everything about him but we live... (427 words)

I don't know why I am married but I don't know how to walk away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married nearly 10 years and have two children, one 9 months after my wedding day! I have tried to keep the marraige together time after time. I know he loves me it is just we have nothing in common. He is as romantic as a brick and when I try and explain how I ... (179 words)

How do I forgive myself for being so foolish????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi I wonder if anyone can help me, last year I admitted to my husband I had made such a mess of our personal finances we had less money that he thought we had and I was in a terrible state. He told me he would never trust me again and that he wanted to leave or I should go. I ... (390 words)

Lust for youth minister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hello, for 1 1/2 years i have been wanting, needding to have sex with my youth minister. it all started when she held me late one night to help clean up the building. and she leaned over exposing major cleavage. i feel like i'll have a burden off me when i do this. ... (77 words)

He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ever had sex with and im 16 and ... (126 words)

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up with him, last night i stayed t... (360 words)

Does he like me more than he's admitting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday was my birthday and my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked by him and his back was turned so I decided that I would give him a hug. I tackled him for an unexpected back hug and almost pushed him into someone. He was like what are you doing but in a good way. Then ... (215 words)

MY boyfriend is telling his ex he loves her!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hmm, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we've done everything. However, i went through his chat logs today and i saw that he's telling his ex that he loves her and she is saying the same back (even though she has a boyfriend too.) I really don't know ... (80 words)

30 years old and never got my first kiss!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have strange question - pathetic really, I am 30 years old and never got my first kiss. Can someone tell what a kiss feels because I'll never be kissed due to my appearance. I'd really love to know. If you're wondering why it's because guys are too busy and seem to cons... (61 words)

I know he doesn't like me but its confusing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I still have feelings for my ex. He already made it clear he only sees me as a close friend. We never did anything when we were together not even kiss this is why we broke up he saw our relationship as more as a friendship, we act more like a couple now. Im confused coz i wud ... (466 words)

Dating sites... what a load of con men!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I would just like to tell any person that gets involved with a bloke on a dating site to be very careful. I met one I actually thought was a decent one never met him just talked. I actually thought something was up so offered to leave him alone for a bit which I did so ... (126 words)

How can I get her to change her mind about me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi about 1 year 7 months back I slept with a prostitute, I started talking to her and I fell in love with her, then I got her to stop all the things she is doing and I am helping her and the family. She stopped prostitution and started doing a normal job and I gave the extra ca... (237 words)

Help me out here! What would you do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with the guy I was seeing a few weeks ago. There were alot of reasons that broke up with him, even though I cared about him a lot I couldn't see myself with him in the long run, and our personalities were not compatable in the least. Here is my problem: I really miss ... (166 words)

He doesn't want to take away my virginity...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why would a guy who wants sex with me so bad initially, all of a sudden think that he wouldnt want to take away my virginity for he's afraid I'd regret one day, in case that he's not going to be my boyfriend? i told him once, love-making's special to me and i would only wan... (237 words)

It was bad enough him breaking up with me but now he's going to crush me completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my BF just broke up after 9 months of dating and he within a week told me that he likes one of my closest friends, I dont know how to tell him that i dont think its a good idea without hurting him or telling him i still love him! He hurt me and i can never forgive ... (74 words)

Best friend always tries to steal my boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, there is this boy I really like so I am trying to get with him. Bit every time I turn round my BEST friend is flirting with him, and she knows I like him. How can I tell her nicely to back pod? And why is she doing this, she does it with every boy I like!?! Sooo annoying... (60 words)

Opinions needed! Question about birth control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I just got the depo prevera shot like 2 weeks ago, and my boyfriend decided about 3 days after getting the shot, it was okay to cum in me.... what are the chances of me getting pregnant?... (39 words)

I don't feel special to him... Am I being childish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well,I'm with a man who doesn't say "I love you too" when I say "I love you" because he feels he should say it when he wants to, and not because I feel like he should. He says he loves me, just very rarely. Now, it's Valentines Day and my man that I have been with for 10 ... (349 words)

He's married, but I love him!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal, I do trust him. He has been... (449 words)

Is it common to have erectile dysfunction at 43???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) age - I'm reading all kind of statistics about ED. But I'm confused. My husband has had it since 43, and he heard it from the doctor, that is very common in that age. Yet nobody we know has that. How common is that? Are we alone?... (45 words)

Is the "play it casual" approach working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi had some advice last week. I had met a man on a dating site and had been talking to him for a few months when things changed and we decided to leave each other alone for a while I asked when would be a good time to text him I had some good advice from caring guy, griffo. ... (167 words)

Will she still be thinking of me and treasure my gifts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I've been waiting for this girl for 2 years. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She has on and off feelings towards me. She says her bf is possessive and controlling. If she were to initiate to break up, he wouldn't allow and even if she did, they'll ... (267 words)

Am I being selfish or am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid. its my birthday today and my bf of two years has not called or text me. A few days ago he was complaining of not having money for petrol and food for himself. Last year he did not come to my birthday lunch. Am I wasting time with this guy or am i been selfish? ... (60 words)

I was hoping he'd ask me... what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in December my town had this "teen" dance thing - where all the high school in the area were invited. i went with a few of my friends and saw a lot of people i knew there... i saw this kid who i meant through a friend, i didnt even talk to him at the dance, because ... (226 words)

Hairy tummy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Not a relationship question but need some answers. I have a really hairy tummy and over the past few years i been using the veet wax strips to get rid of the hair and its worked well. Now latley when i've used it i seemed to have got a rash on my tummy which sor... (136 words)

I just want my best friend back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid agony aunts, and uncles. I've been broken up with my ex for about a year now, and am in a very loving relationship right now, I have no problems with my current relationship. My problem is that me and my ex were best friends for years, and even after the break up ... (355 words)

In shock and scared for my future...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to turn to. I want to ask silly questions like "how do I make the pain stop?", but I know there is no easy answer because I've felt this once before. My problem, other than being dumped out of the blue by a girl I loved, is that I have nobody to talk t... (297 words)

Is there any way to determine if a much younger woman is attracted to you? What do I look out for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age - I am attracted to this younger lady whom I would guess is around 20 years old I am fifty but my question is is there a way to determine if a younger much younger girl is attracted to someone like me who is fit? Are there signs I can watch for that gives me the green light ... (76 words)

Teen boyfriend troubles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this guy, and i have been out with him like 3 times. He was my first boyfriend, and I've had a thing for him ever since. Then one day we met up for a pull, do not know why, and then a couple of weeks later he says this 'we are technically secretly seeing eachother' I was ... (184 words)

I think his behaviour is cruel! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what is going on with my ex at all !. We went out with each other on and off from 2004 - 2006 , and we kept intouch every now and then after that by text messages. Then in 2008, i bumped into him once when i was in a club. We said hello to each other but then he ... (747 words)

Boyfriend flirts with all my friends, what should I take it as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 9-10 months and he flirts with all of my friends. He knows I'm sorta pissed at him right now-but he doesn't know why. So he's trying to think of a way to make it up to me. I love him and care for him, and he says he loves ... (102 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a commited and long distance relationship.my bf has gone crazy.he says he wants to study and won't allow nebody to interfare,not even me. :( he has started ignoring me.even on valentines day,he didn't msged me much,and when i wanted to talk he said can't msg.i mean ... (153 words)

Help me! I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who I will call Holly in this post. Holly and I have known each other for about seven years now. Holly is married to my husband's brother. Before I even met my husband seven years ago (I was a senior in high school), I had a crush on his cousin. Holly wa... (1037 words)

Am I being blind or just paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted to know if I'm being paraniod. My bf and I have been going out for 6 months now, we have a age gap of 10 years, he's 21 and I'm 31. I've got 3 kids and he has none. He cheated on me in our third month, told me the truth about it. I let him go but he came back ... (207 words)

Will it frighten him off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in my 40's so should know better - but I sent a valentines card to someone I have liked for ages. I didnt sign it and it just had 'happy valentines day' inside it. He may or may not know that I sent it. He is really shy and although we go out together and he emails me every ... (128 words)

Will sleeping with him make things better between us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to my sister's boyfriend's best mate which ive only just started talking to, and he said he liked me and i liked him. i went over his place and and we hung out for about 4 or 5 days and then he was saying he was bored. and i was curious as to what i could do ... (229 words)

How do men handle breakups, I know they work differently than girls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm just wondering how guys handle breakups? does it even bother them? do they cry? is he still thinking about me because it hasnt been long since we split? And how is he gona react to me telling him i hate him because he hasnt spoken to me since i said that. is he hurting?... (64 words)

Why does he want to keep me a secret? Is he just using me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im seeing this boy, and he asked out another girl (my best friend). So i immediatly dumped him, my friend didn't know we where going out (well seeing each other) at the time, so I didn't say anything. Luckily she said no. Then about a week later he said to me, "want to ... (128 words)

I thought he really liked me but it seems not to be the case. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Right so Friday night, I went to a party and I ended up spending pretty much the whole night with the guy I like. We don’t tend to speak much in person but a lot on Facebook. We were both pissed and he came to sit by me for most of the time I was there. He was constan... (299 words)

Is he being honest or is the relationship going to end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for 5 months and everything has been great until now. He's asked if he can have some space as he's got some problems he needs to resolve - basically he's he is beginning the proceeds of a divorce from his ex wife. He's also got other things to sort such ... (214 words)

How does one stop being so full on in the early days of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Bit of an obvious question but wanted some opinions. How does one stop being so full on in the early days of a relationship? ... (25 words)

Selfish sister???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

- I just want to see if anyone else finds my older sister as selfish and thoughtless as I do? Basically, shes 35 and has her own family - 2 kids and a husband, nice home etc. Im 26 and about to have my first baby. For as long as I can remember, my sister has had a best frien... (330 words)

Help peeps!!! How can I find out for sure if this guy at work likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a supermarket in the floral department and he works in the produce department and they are in the same area. Hes a few years older than me and everyday he works he comes over to me and says hi and strikes up a conversation. Throughout the time we work he comes back to ... (306 words)

Am I REALLY that repulsive???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a great guy for abt 2 months. Things have gotten more intense the past couple of weeks (lots of kissing). Last night, I really wanted the sex to happen ( and it seemed like he did too). Then when I was mostly undressed (underwear only) and in bed, he ... (307 words)

Great date, great sex... and now no call from him!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy two weeks ago and he was very interested right away. We kissed right away as we were out dancing and drinking, and I tend to move fast with guys. He got my number and called me the same night when I got home! We talked, but I was more interested in someone else ... (487 words)

Terrified to meet up with him in case he doesn't like me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a guy online for a while. i really like him and he really likes me. i like everything about him, his personality and his looks but he lives in a different country so i cant just go on a date with him! hopefully in a few months when we finish our studi... (166 words)

Should I cut off all contact and move away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want your opinion about a family problem. I am the 3rd sibling of 5. As a child I was abused by my mother and later, by an older sibling. I was always the black sheep as we were growing up. I suffered a nervous breakdown and spent a number of years self-harming. I am over ... (297 words)

Help! How can I tell him I want to stop having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I tell my friend I want to stop sleeping with him without him reacting badly? We have a FWB relationship I guess but we are unbelievably close. I'm worried if I say I want the sex to stop then the hugging, kissing, spending time together etc will too. Truth is I don't ... (91 words)

Opinions needed!!! How do you know when your relationship is coming to an end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm 24 and been with my partner 3 years. I do love him but I'm not sure if i am in love with him. After 3 years we only now started going out places because I basically have to keep on at him because he doesn't take me out anywhere. Well last nite we just went to a p... (373 words)

When is the best time to end it with him?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about two months. I knew it was stupid to even get in a relationship because I'm moving countries in the summer. All along he's had moments where he's just really annoyed me. He never knows when he takes things to far, whenever he hurts me he ... (199 words)

She's calling me a stalker and now won't talk to me...

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in the 10th grade and i REALLY like this one girl who is in 9th grade. I talked to her once and we had alot in common. I tried talking to her more over facebook because i hate face to face conversations with people i like, makes me nervous. After I tried talking to her she ... (110 words)

I treat them so special yet they don't seem to see it. What am I doing wrong?

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - it seems like every time I try to talk to a girl they are interested in me but then they always try to talk to other guys behind my back. I do everything for them but they don't seem to see it. after a certain stage in dating, I treat them like they are the only girls in my ... (73 words)

Girl advice needed on how to get to know her better!

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm 16 years old. this is weird, but i've talked to this girl, texting wise, a lot. i never really talked to this girl with a long conversation before but my friend told her i liked her, and i basically admitted to her that yes i do like you, and im actually really ... (126 words)

Our relationship is going down the drain... help!!!

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Aunts and Uncles: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Our relationship is going down the drain and I'm trying desperately to save it, but I'm in need of advice as I don't know how to deal with this. I consider myself to be a smart, caring, well-rounded gir... (622 words)

What changed in our relationship that is making him go?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What changed in our relationship that is making him go? This is the last thing I thought I would ever be doing at 2:30am on Valentine's Day. Last night my boyfriend of 2 years asked me to sit down and talk with him and continued to express to me that he feels he needs to leave... (495 words)

Sad from hubby's silent treatment

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Two days ago I went to my husband crying and told him I was feeling emotional over some deceased pets and wanted his support. He was hugging me and telling me everything was going to be fine and while looking over my right shoulder he blurted out "now that's a pretty girl!" He ... (349 words)

I am thinking of waiting until the baby is born to break the news that I want a divorce.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my question. I am 25 and have been married for about 7 months now. since getting married, my wife and I have been fighting non stop. Also, she got pregnant (4 months now) and now we are expecting our fi... (452 words)

What can I do to make him jealous and find out if he still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I still have feelings for my ex and at time he seems to act as if he does as well, he's always asking me if i got a man or if im seeing other guys... but im not so i always say no. I really would like to know if he still has feelings for me... What can I do to make him jeal... (113 words)

Should I tell the boy what might be coming for him or just wait it out?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey on friday i was at a restarunt with my best friends and my boyfriend and his friend. My best friend had to be getting to know one of my boyfriend`s friend and she barely talked to him. [she said she was nervous and so forth, and after the date she cried cause she thought ... (307 words)

Help!! How can I find out more about his past sex life without sounding paranoid???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my boyfriend. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he is far more sexually experienced than me. We have been sexually active for months now with each other and he claims that our sex is the best he's ever had. But sometimes I get insecure that ... (182 words)

I don't want to lose one for the other, when both of them aren't mine to begin with...

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14 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - O.K. I'm losing a friend (let's call him 'Y') I've had for almost 12 years. He and I dated ages ago, somewhat into our friendship. I never expected to date him, though I always did like him. We broke up (also ages ago), but remained tight-knit friends (his insistence at first), ... (541 words)

I'm in love with two women. Who do I choose?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love two women and I don't know what to do. Mary was my first lesbian relationship / first girlfriend ever. We connected very strong sexually, but the emotional and basic relationship compatibility did not match, even though we were madly in love with each other. We ... (403 words)

Why do men act like this? What does he want from me?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so i met a guy a while back (he is my friend's cousin), we only met two times, but got along really well and felt that both physical and emotional attraction was there. unfortunately he had to move outta town for school, so just kept in touch over MSN. We are both single, ... (280 words)

I caught her red handed cheating on me!!!

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now.. i am not happy with her.. i caught her red handed cheating on me but she always tries to convince me in a fashion that i was wrong... i dont trust her any more... i really wanted to break up with her but am not able to do it.... ... (79 words)

It hurts that my best friend never stood up for me...

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart is broken. This guy and I talked for about 2 months, I would never make it official because there was always something not right. I figured I better stop leading him on so I stopped talking to him. Later on I found out my best friend was talking to him, and he was ... (170 words)

Why didn't she say bye to me personally?

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My crush and her family were at my house last night (mainly to pick her brother up). When it was time for them to leave, I courteously walked them out to their car. Her mom and brother said good night to me, but for some reason she didn’t. There were past times when she did. ... (133 words)

Seems he doesn't like me as much as I first thought...?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have been talking to this guy for two months. We hung out twice and he seemed REALLY interested in me. Our conversations were about future plans for dates so I really thought he wanted to continue our relationship. I had warning he was a player but his friend told my ... (258 words)

Was his reason to cancel legitimate or was he blowing me off?

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14 February 2010 (F) - I was supposed to go on a second date with this guy tonight.. supposed to meet at 9.. i needed a little more time so i texed him saying is 9:30 ok? and he says cool at about 9.15 i get a call from him and he didn't sound too happy and he said he got a bad phone call about... (221 words)

I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be around.. I have a witty sense of... (462 words)

I feel neglected and stupid, I don't know what he wants from me?

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend in Afghanistan right now. I know he's been very busy and working hard. We talk on Facebook and recently added him on Skype. The other day he had poor connection on Facebook so he sent me a note on Skype telling me we should use that instead. Well, I asked hi... (214 words)

A man is obsessed with me, please help.

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14 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I am trying to end a relationship with a man who is obsessed with me and intent on marrying me. He is a good man and he truly loves me and wants to protect me. But he is controlling, and even though I love him, I can't take the control. I keep seeing my self through his... (247 words)

He tends to give off mix signals...

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14 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old in high school -- high school is a tough time in a girl's life. So this boy and i have been talking forever since summer 2009 ... i asked him how he felt about me but i don't think he fully understood the question. he answer " i feel like we are really g... (154 words)

How to get the girl?

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14 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi About 4 months ago I asked this girl i really liked to go out with me , she said yes :). but soon after she told me she didnt want to anymore even though she had told her freinds that she really liked me. We have started to connect again but now ive found out that shes ... (101 words)