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I know the chances are slim but I worry I am pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Im 15 in 8 days and i think i might be pregnant... I have been seeing the father for 5 months, i wasnt drunk and we didnt offically have sex, he went up me a tiny bit without a condom, i know there isnt much of a chance but im still worried. What should i do! X... (57 words

I can't stop feeling jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and everythings been fine until he signd up to facebook and now I'm obsessed with checking his posts and everything he writes on his female friends walls. Last week he went out for a work do with men and women he works with - includin... (192 words

My boyfriend is taking another girl to the prom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend is a year above me, so i can't go to his prom. He's told me that he's taking another girl and I really really don't like it. I've told him but he keeps reassuring me that it's 'not a real date' but I still don't want him to. He knows I get jealous really easily but ... (73 words

There is a boy I like but I am worried he may have given out my msn

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - there is this boy i like and i thought he liked me 2 then he got hold of my msn and we spoke and stuff but i dont know if he is interested and i gt 2 new peopel add me has he been giving my msn out ?? but poepel i dont know has added me befor but i dont know if to block and ... (101 words

Are other girls like this, or is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Am I the only person who is bipolar about masturbation? :/ Like, sometimes, I like doing it, and it feels really good. But then, sometimes, maybe afterwards, I'll ask myself what I just did, hate it, then squeeze my eyes shut and wish I could just [stop]. A few days later, ... (164 words

My wife had a fling and I am worried about our marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 51-59 - my wife has been talking to some guy she met at work about 10 years ago.it started on the internet and then got to the point where he started calling my house to talk to her.they hooked up about 2weeks ago when my wife said she was at her mothers.i put a recorder in my house ... (598 words

I'm worried she is losing too much weight for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (? age 18-21 - Well my best friend started dating a family friend a couple of months ago. My friend over heard them talking and we found out her boyfriend called her fat or something like that or had to lose weight. Well she is now on a diet is doing a lot of exercise and i mean a lot like ... (161 words

When he's sober and calmed down from the drugs he makes me feel like the luckiest girl ever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have bben with my boyfriend for some time now and nothings really has changed as far as i feel for him. I still get butterflies when i speak to him. hes the first real relationship ive had, and i love him a lot. ive made commitments and lets just say gone furher than kissing ... (217 words

Should I tell him I think she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder? She's pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1712 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Should I tell the husband of a friend I strongly suspect has Narcissistic Personality Disorder that I think she has the disorder? He and I had a past crush on each other and she knows this. She is 8 months pregnant with their 1st child. We all no longer speak because of her ... (127 words

He said we'd grown apart, but I can't move on! Can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - (I'm a 22y/o, male) I split up with my boyfriend (20y/o) three weeks ago, we'd been apart for a few months because of his university but made the effort to see each other often. He said we'd grown apart and he didn't want to be in a long term relationship (we'd been together ... (161 words

He's always on his Xbox and when he's not, he's sleeping. I hardly see him anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hi, recently my boyfriend is acting strange, i dont know what too do, he's always on his xbox and when hes not he's sleeping, he hardly talks to me, hardly kisses me anymore, when he wants something thats when he comes across all nice and pays me attention, in the past two week... (96 words

Should I be worried about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I have been wondering about my bf. Recently he has been so..... vacant, and I wonder if it is worth it, being with him I mean, for example; today I went up to him and said hi, I went to give him a hug (we did that a lot) but he totally backed off. He just stood in the corn... (77 words

I found condoms in my BF's car, but we don't use them!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need help!! I just found condoms in my b/f car. Thing is we dont usaully use condoms. (well we dont)The last time we had sex we did but just because my b.c was acting up but it is a diff brand that we used, then the ones I found. I have never seen the ones he has in ... (99 words

It feels like there's something in between us, that I can't get close to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi, i live at uni in the same house as my boyfriend, we have been together for four months. just recently i have been feeling really down and have been told by a counciler that it is depression, but im not sure why but when i am with my bf it comes on worse. I have told him ... (284 words

Why is he being like he's being? I've given him loads of chances.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - dated this guy for around two months then he had a few problems, family being ill and his grandpa died. i was sympathetic listened, lots of hugs. good shoulder. then didnt hear from him for a week, 2 weeks i did but only texts to explain why he hadnt seen me , he was jsut very ... (745 words

My boyfriend is cheating on me! Should I leave? or stay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, ive just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me. im unsure on what i should do. whever i should leave him or stay. please help... ... (27 words

The guy I like his flirting with somebody else, and she's no good for him! what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 16-17 - I really really like this guy. He usually pays alot of attention to me and hangs out with me and walks to class with me. But lately he's been flirting with this other girl who is sooo not his type she the type that will break his heart in a few days. i dont want him to get his ... (74 words

Is he just kidding by saying I'm annoying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - How would u know if your guy friend was kidding? He says that I'm annoying! Everytime we talk he says i'm not smart and i say hes a nerd. But i'm just kidding! He knows that I'm joking with him. How can i know he is? He smiles when he says i'm annoying and he wont miss me.... (58 words

Do I break up with her before or after valentines day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - After much difficult deliberation, I think it is time I break up with my girlfriend. Or, at the very least, have a much needed "state of the union" conversation that will quite likely end in our breaking up. We've been living together for almost a year and a half, dating for... (146 words

Does she really loved me or is it time for me to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys, Hope you guys could help me out here. Im really lost in this current relationship with my girl now. We been together for about 26months. we been all good had some argument though out this 26months we could solve it easily always. However, from the sta... (261 words

How do you know when love can conquer all or when you have to call it quits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been struggling w/ my marriage and am in the process of getting a divorce. This is a painful decision, as I have two kids, but am not in love and have not been in a healthy marriage for years. During this process, my boss and I have become quite close and he has ... (284 words

Do men only cheat when they feel like less of a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is it true that men only cheat when there girldfriends make them feel like less of a man?... (18 words

My boyfriend keeps saying I cheated but I didn't! are we over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I let my boyfriend use my laptop he found some pictures of me and my friends haveing fun at homecoming when I studied abroad in college last year. Now all he keeps talking about is how I cheated on him which I really didnt. We were jsut posing in the pictures and having a good ... (64 words

I don't like my father's inappropriate behaviour! Should I be worried?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1125 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I think my father is acting really weird. I've never been too close to him and whenever he wanted to kiss or hug me like my mother does, i silently rejected him because I didn't like it. That made him angry and we started to argue about unimportant things every time I rejected ... (179 words

Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?

This question has 60 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it felt really slimy and bumpy.... (155 words

Girlfriend is angry over my happy ending massages...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have been dating my new girlfriend for about 4 months now and things are going okay. Yesterday my g/f and I met a group of friends for drinks after work. One of my good friends got a little buzzed and he accidentally blurted out to everyone at the table that a group of us ... (230 words

Too close for comfort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year. I love him to death and I let him know it. We live together with my son from a previous relationship and he is an amazing father figure. But the re-occurring issue in our relationship is his involvement with his ex-girlfriend. ... (213 words

Is my friend possessive, obsessive or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am girl and I joined college last year and made friends with this girl in my class and subsequently joined her group. Everything was fine, we sat together in a same lesson and got on well. About a month into knowing her I sent a text message starting ‘Hey Hun….’ (short for ... (1518 words

Why is my best friend being a prat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - my best friend called me a boring skan.k cos i said i wont sleeping with strangers like her when we go on holiday. we were married on face book and i took it off..she said am pathetic.. and i just said i dont wanna be married..why cant she apologise she wrote back ... (172 words

Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for trying to make up after fights?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend a lot, but its just it's a long distance relationship, so we argue quite a bit, and basically every time we have an argument, I get angry about it and can't be affectionate as I would normally. He tries to 'kiss up' to me after we argue by being like 'I love ... (110 words

So couple of things, should I persist with her to give it ago or is she right and we should just stop before either of us gets to attached again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I met a girl on the internet through online gaming, this was about 8 months ago. We chatted casually on and off till just before Christmas when we started talking a bit more and exchanged facebook details and stuff. We started to flirt more and more after that and on ... (476 words

Is she just keeping me as a back up in case her other guy does not work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - theres a girl who said she liked me but wanted to wait till her head was in the right place for us to have a relationship, shes not talked about getting to gether and she keeps going to see other boys who like her. im pritty sure (her freinds told me) that she is with some one ... (136 words

I'm gay, she is straight! An unrequited love story!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1712 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hiya, I'll try to make this short (and not too boring for whoever is reading!) It's a pretty traditional story of unrequited love with a best friend, the problem is that we are both girls. I'm gay, she's straight. I told her I was gay a few years back and she was shocked (I ... (243 words

15 with a planned pregnancy!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test . All Of them were negative' ... (167 words

If you haven't argued does that mean your not being honest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is it true that if your in a relationship thats been going on for say 5 months, and you havent argued or disagreed or havent just wanted to be alone for a day. Is it true that one of you isn't being honest? I've read that if you havent done those things and fought by 5 months ... (130 words

My bestfriend is into drugs and alcohol. How do I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so me and my ex-bestfriend i guess have been friends for a long time. Early when i first met her we were instantly friends and she was hanging around a bad group of people who like cut themselves and everything but she didnt. Her dad died like not to long before she ... (922 words

I have hurt a girl emotionally, but I really want her and I care for her so I cant just let her go easily!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - hey,, i have hurt a girl emotionally accidently, i had some problems and i couldnt keep in touch with her,, i really like her and care about her!!,, since then she doesnt wanna talk to me or look me in the eye,, i have tried to talk to her before but she seemed hurt and ... (185 words

I want to marry her but she is just too worried I will leave her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi i am in love with a Russian girl, who is now 19 and i am 22 year old in India,. i am a security trainee in National guards of the country and also a student (majorly in university) the problem is that my girl always asks me when i will come to her(since we never met e... (240 words

She said our friendship willbe over if I date a guy of a different race.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi i really need advice here as my really close friend has turned round 2 me n sed our friendship is ova if i go out wid this lad (who is coloured) n i ment 2 b meetin him n he has sed that he really likes me n we have never met b4 jst come really close friends on facebook ... (126 words

Why does he say he is still in love with me and has had sex with both myself and a new woman ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - why does my ex still call me and text me if he has a new relationship. why does he say he is still in love with me and has had sex with both myself and new woman (until i found out).He was trying to convince me that we are not over. why does he tell me he wants to get rid of ... (111 words

I am expected to conduct myself a certain way but the rules do not apply to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for almost 13 years. We married 2 years ago. My issue is the fact that the relationship is so onesided. I am expected to conduct myself a certain way but the rules do not apply to her. I am a clean freak and she is a huge slob. She constantly ... (157 words

My mum says I have to dump my boyfriend when he turns 18!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Ok so i met this guy while i was in placement and we liked eachother so we started going out.....well he got discharged before me and i got discharged soon after him we've been going out for almost a year now and my parents havent met him yet. I really like this guy and my ... (126 words

What sex games do you like to play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - I thought it would be fun to get a list going of games that you like to play with your lover. My wife and I like to play games once in a while but it is hard to find a place that offers good ideas without trying to sell you something. I will start it off: Each take 8 in... (193 words

My relationship seems a little one sided...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half now, things have been going great for the most part. I love her a lot, she loves me, but I feel like she doesn't always take mine or my family's feelings into consideration. We rarely fight, but thats just becau... (105 words

I'm in love with a Muslim girl and I'm worried her family wont approve of us having a relationship

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1163 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, im in love with a muslim girl and she loves me (non muslim) im worried in case her family dont agree with this relationship, even though they appear liberal and welcoming to people... im scared to ask her in case i offend her or cause doubts and i lose her - as i dont know ... (76 words

Should I contact my friend or wait for her to reply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have a long distance relationship with an incredible lady. She's my best friend and I'd love it if one day we were more. At one time we used to talk everyday, sometimes several times a day. Over the last couple months as her work has increased and her time is limited ... (251 words

How can I please him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so I'm slightly embarrassed about this... but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend now for coming up 6 months, though we've known each other 4 years. I love him very much and trust him completely, and I just want to please him, so I need some help. We started havi... (226 words

Advice for online long distance relationship? What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1693 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi there.. so I'm kind of in an e-relationship with this guy who is 6 years older than me. We've been talking for 6 months. He lives in canada and I live in australia. We have a strong emotional connection (I know its the internet and all.. but it really is there) Lately he... (253 words

Why did my best friend say all those horrible things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - me and my best Friend were talking about a holiday we are going in summer.. shes all going on bout how many guys were going to have sex with..i told her no..am not going to sleep with Random strangers thanx..she said i'd be drunk so i wont know what am doing..i told her when ... (202 words

He keeps coming in and out of my life...I don't know if I can get through this again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, Ok so here goes. I was with a guy that i trully fell hard for, around Christmas time he messed me around and stood me up xmas eve when we were supposed to go to his mums, he just never called...there was a heated argument tears and and a slanging match..we ended ... (349 words

Can you have all the elements of a great relationship but not be in love with that person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - Is it possible to be great friends with someone... hanging out a lot, going out to dinner, movies, plays, etc... Able to be yourself with them, be extremely physically attracted to them, have amazing sex, and NOT have any feelings for them? i.e.... being in love?? Any opini... (54 words

My husband and I are separated but he is seeing another girl... is there any hope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My husband and I are separated. We both worked through these issues on our own but now he met another girl. I'm due in April with our first child and he came up to the hospital yesterday because I was in preterm labor. His car is broken so he had no other way but to have this ... (286 words

How can I stop worrying so much about getting hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hey there well ok i have a huge problem, i have been in a relationship for 6 and a half months...but we have known each other for a year and have been through so much since we have known each other, and im madly in love with him and am deathly scared of loosing him or getting ... (165 words

How can I make the distance between us disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my partner now for 2 and a half years. We recentley moved in togeather. Now I love him very much, however he can not tell me he loves me or even how he feels about me. We hardly talk and if we do it is always me making the conversation. I feel there is a ... (140 words

I am finding it hard to move on when she places all the blame on me for splitting up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - recently broke it off with a long term girlfriend b/c of some big differneces we had been having..I broke it off 2 mo. I have been secretly hoping she would come back and haven't been in the best state of mind..I mailed a closure letter that stated why I left, ect..she mailed ... (374 words

I eat less and excercise but I keep putting on weight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I Do not know what is going on with my body! I eat less do more exercise , walk atleast 1 hour now per day (try to). How ever i keep on getting fatter. My stumic is like huge i never had one now its big and wabbley . The last few months i realised im getting bigger almost like ... (211 words

I get erections too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - i get an erection to easily i can not even walk and hold hands with a girl, or sit with a girl. i am 26. this is the biggest problem in my life. how can i even have relationship.... (39 words

My parents wont listen, I am 14 he is 24

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - im 14 and going out with a 24 year old. We both love each other very much but my parents hate him.I can understand why but they cant accept that im actually happy. He still wants to be with me even though my parents have givin him loads of grief in the 2 weeks that they have ... (68 words

Is it must for a girl to cum during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I want to ask a question. Is it must for a girl to cum during sex. and how do you make a girl cum?... (24 words

My wife no longer trusts me over online conversations with my landlady.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello there, I'd really appreciate your advise/help on my situation. Here's my story... I'm 29 and my gf/wife is 32, we live together now for about 2 and a half years, the relationship is going on about 3years now. We got married last month while on vacation, we haven't... (1132 words

What should she being doing during foreplay so I can come in 5-6 min of penetration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - what type of a foreplay can arouse the couple to have enjoyable sex ... in the past i've been addicted to porn and masturbation, as a result got the problem of delayed ejaculation, I still have tht prob. I've been reading alot about what women want, and what men want ect sort ... (201 words

I really like a work mate, how we get to know each other better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am 27 and I fall for a colleague who is 35. She hinted that she doesn't want a boyfriend who is 8 years younger than her. She also said she is in a relationship for years. I asked her out few times. She brought her friend along. Then, I asked her not ... (251 words

The girl I love thinks I am a cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my girl friend. And actually i saw the girl(lover) in m... (442 words

I have been diagnosed and prescibed medication for mental illness but am concerned about side effects

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have been living with depression for 10 years it is the point where my daily funcioning is almost non existent no memory, concentration, i cant even make a decision and everything is big deal to me i am paranoid about people and analize every conversation i have with ... (201 words

Yet another 'best friend might be more' debate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - I know this is a recurring theme on here, but you get such different advice! Some people say it is impossible to get out of the friend zone while others know best friends who have become lovers and partners. What doesn't help is women sending out mixed signals of confu... (161 words

He cheated, lied and got a woman pregnant....why did he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am heartbroken, my partner who I lived with for 3 years not only cheated and lied for the last 8 weeks of our relationship but got a woman he had a brief fling with pregnant. He has shown no remorse for what he did and has walked away from all our responsibilities, he has ... (77 words

Should I try and start a relationship with him despite the age difference making it illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - This is something I really need help with. I'm only 15 and I'm very interested in a 21 year old. Yes, I completely understand it's illegal but do laws bury my feelings for someone? No. We've yet to begin a relationship but we've already had sex. Now please don't jump to the ... (190 words

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Could i be pregnant if my husband cum inside me 2times directly after each other. Then i get my period a couple of mintues later! ? Is it possible? Well we are trying to conceive.. But it happend to me a day ago.. ... (43 words

How do you ask someone to kiss you or hint at it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - im 15 years old and i have never kissed anyone! i really really want to! i have someone in but i have only known him for like 2 months. how do you ask someone to kiss you or hint at it?... (41 words

I wish I felt the same way about my husband as I do towards my lecturer....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm married and I love my husband dearly. However, last year I gave up my full time job to return to full time study in University. Since the very first day I have been besotted with my Physics lecturer! He's married with children; married or not, he is completely "out of ... (527 words

Please tell me I'm not the only one who thinks he has feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have a problem, I've been in love with my best friend for quite sometime now and i told him i had feelings for him, but he says he's not into dating. we have messed around before and kissed too but i can't tell if he has some hidden feelings. every chance to go out with a ... (142 words

Why do I still feel so alone and worthless despite being surrounded by people that love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1612 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend,friends and family that all love me...but why is it that i still feel so alone and worthless? I dont think any of them know whats really going on with me, I've told my boyfriend plenty of times that i feel alone and maybe he could up the love a little bi... (261 words

I get so wet during sex I cant even feel it! What's wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have a quick question for yall! My husband and i always have great sex......but for some reason i have been getting so wet we cant feel it! Its always been easy for me to get wet but its such a turn off when we cant feel it and we have to stop just to wipe off a lil. Do you ... (145 words

I'm only happy when I am chatting to him online, but I feel guilty because he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1716 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i fall in love with a guy. but he has gf now. we met on the website. It’s happy time when I chatting with him.I don’t know why sometimes my feeling of guilt for his gf is so strong. I know I must be wrong for his gh. But I don’t wanna leave him. my feeling miss him is very... (146 words

We've been dating for 2 and a half years, how do we make our first time special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - i want to have sex and i know she does too. any tips to making our first time special. we have done everything but sex basically. been dating 2.5 years and i think its just time.... (36 words

How can I make my girlfriend more committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - How can i make my girlfriend more committed. I feel frustrated showing her so much love while she does nothing. I have talked to her so much about it but nothing has changed. Should i walk away or what.... (39 words

I want a sex with no strings attached relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am not at all ready for a new relationship. I think it could be years before I want to get into something serious again (long story). So I'm wondering lately (because I love sex) if it would be a good idea to find someone who wants a purely sexual relationship. I could never ... (91 words

I think she may be mentally unwell, but the police say just stay away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - hi im robby, i shall begin with my question and then explain some what would all you out there do ? how would you handle or deal with my situation ? i met a beautiful woman approx 2 years ago, during this time together we have shared all the emotions possible, we hav... (365 words

My ex stays in touch, is he just being "nice" as my friends suggest or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm not even really sure where to begin on this one. Basically, I am an older woman still interested in my much younger exboyfriend. We dated for 7 months and he left me over 2 years ago. The break up was bad, but he is a nice enough guy to show that he still cares about me... (341 words

She has stopped communicating, and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Here's my dilemma: This girl and I agreed to get to know each other before we jump into a relationship. She had just gotten out of one when we had told each other that we really liked each other and we shared a kiss and affection (but we didn't go all the way). For 3 months we ... (329 words

My girlfriends phone was busy for 10 minutes when I tried to call her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - what message is my girlfriend sending to me when she denied talking to anybody yet her phone kept being busy for 10 minutes when I had been calling her?... (29 words

I am pregnant and my boyfriend can't marry me because it will break the other girl's heart

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5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi everybody,i think you gyzs for all those good idvices and ideas that may lead my relationship.therefore,i have a problem and i need some advices from anyone who cares about my situation.this is my problem:i have been with my boyfriend for two years,since the beginning of our ... (140 words

My boyfriend wants me to swallow

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5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - my boyfriends been trying to get me to swallow, but im so nervous ill puke or something, because I have heard nasty stories about it. i was told this joke: do you know the difference between like and love? spit and swallow.. it made me feel bad. like i want to try it i really ... (78 words

When together he constanly shows he loves me but when we are apart he hardly even texts me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - my boyfriend is in college and i only get to see him a few times. whenever we are hanging out we have a great time, share laughs, and he actually shows he loves me, but when he's at college he hardly texts me, always partying, being shady, and shows no sign he loves me except ... (144 words

I've just realised me and women see things differently

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I need some insight. From women especially...(guys feel free to share if it has happened to you...) It's a little long winded, I apologize for that but I want to be thorough. Here's my situation. I am engaged. Totally in love... My fiance and I have had past arguments wh... (839 words

She is not a virgin but wants me to wait 4 or 5 years for marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - After dating my girlfriend for over a year, she mentions for the first time at random, that she's not a virgin. Before I heard this, I assumed she was, because of how she acts, how reserved she tends to be. Also, she seems to criticize others for not being mature enough to... (132 words

He is never there when I need him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ive been with this guys for 4 years now, and it always seems to be about him. I got him a hampster for christmas for it to be like our pet type thing, he gets to keep him, so I choose the name theodore for him, well hes telling everyone its jose. it upsets me because i named ... (158 words

He lied to get me into bed, & now I am constantly reminded of this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (? age 30-35 - i am struglling very hard to get over a bad relationship. I slept with a guy who has a gf becuase he fed me promises of us being together but he never left her but still he was contacting me.I have tried really hard to distance myself from him but the problem is that we are in ... (217 words

Am I in the friend zone, or is she being sexy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I made a joke to my female friend listing all of a particular girl's sweet, lovey-dovey qualities and then saying they made me want her (the girl) to give me a blowjob. My friend jumped right in saying that the guy she's dating doesn't like blowjobs at all but she really e... (201 words

I has started to move on and now hes disrupted me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Met a guy last year on holiday and he was quite possesive of me at first. then he seemed to want me to chase him, stupidly i did and he backed of. I stopped and just left him alone, didnt bother to contact him. I started to move on with my life and met someone else who wants me ... (199 words

How can I tell if I had drunken sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - How can i tell if i had sex? Yesterday night i got overly drunk and remember most of my night but now my friend is telling me we had sex I'm not worried about being pregnant or anything but just for the sake of curiosity i want to know if it really happened or not.. i t... (110 words

Have I broken up with one abuser to end up with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi i am having problems with my boyfriend whom i love dearly, we have been together for 14 mths and had a good relationship until the past 2 mths, he proposed to m within 6 weeks of meeting me.A bit about my back ground, i have been in a bad relationship for 14 yrs with an ex ... (694 words

Why is it that a guy can get over a girl so easily but the girl is left feeling like shit for years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My ex of three years and I broke up seven months ago due to him cheating. And I'm still completely messed up about it. And yet, he was able to get over me within a few... hours? It's so aggravating and it kills me inside even more! I hate feeling this way! They've since ... (104 words

He ended it saying he had personal problems, but should I try to get in contact again anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1718 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advice for the advice that is given :) wow, i have no idea where to start.. i was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in love with her). so that ende... (274 words

Why do I feel wempty and lost without male friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel lost right now. I hate being the way that I am, but I have yet to figure out how to be different in my friendship patterns. My ex boyfriends end up being best friends. Of course, an exes are going to drift away after a while, even if it takes a decade. That's what's ... (366 words

I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace and she is not feeling me. Is ... (61 words

Our mothers had an argument and now she ignores me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1644 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have posted a question a few weeks ago about a distant cousin of mine,which I am interested in(not as much today).She is my age,and is the daughter of my much older cousin,so this would make her my first cousin once removed. Anyways her mom and my mom got in an argument... (155 words

It's all going down hill - talking, sex, time together

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5 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay here the who thing its all started about 5 months ago everything was good ,hot and heavy untill then . then i started to notice things like we don't talk unless its really important . hes up all night and sleeps all day . im up all day and sleep all night . he talks more ... (104 words

How can I make him pay me more attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - So my boyfriend of 10 months have been having some probems he does not really pay me that much attention, he spends all his time with his friends playing video games and such and comes home at around 2 in the morning from their house ( we live together) so now i have been ... (92 words

So many sizes o.O

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - OK here is the deal. I want to make sure i have protection in case I ever go too far with a girl... but the thing is i have no clue what my "condom size" is. so I guess I could use some suggestions on how i should narrow my searching down. P.S. if its not illegal to say t... (81 words

So did I actually have an orgasm ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

5 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - my bf and i have been having sex for about three months now an i had never came but he said he thought i did the other night because apparently my vagina got suddenly hotter and i got soo much wetter, but i never felt anything spectacular like people say. so did i actually have ... (58 words

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