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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:About a month ago, I gave up my birth control pills out of health concerns. My boyfriend was fine with it and we've basically just been orally satisfying one another - which really isn't the same. We've spoke about trying condoms, but we tried them ONCE before I went on BCP and he couldn't stay hard because he hated it so much. However, it was a really thick, rubbery smelling Trojan. I did some research and found some thin condoms with good reviews. I made him a Valentine's Day basket and I picked up some Durex Extra Sensitive condoms. I'm sure he wouldn't like the mechanical feel of stopping what we're doing so he can tear open a little wrapper and try on the condom. So, I was wondering how I could possibly make the experience more enjoyable by doing it for him? Is there a way I can keep a good flow of intimacy while putting it on? I'm worried he won't stay aroused! Oral is good and all, but it really just feels sooo much more emotionally satisfying to make love. Are there any other good condom brands that have that "barely noticeable" feel about them?
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 Now, you will have to ask the skilled ladies on here exactly how this is done, but I once had a g/f who would put a condom in her mouth and roll in on my erect penis from tip to root in one smooth action, and the feeling was SENSATIONAL!
Certainly not a turn-off or an erection-loser......
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 February 2010):
We use durex and they are pretty good.
They also do a range of "fun" ones, like tingly minty ones etc.
I find the best thing to do is just to give him lots of stimulation, then put it on for him quickly and carry on with the fun asap.
There ARE other options for you though. Have a look into the coil / IUD. They are non-hormonal, and although some people have heavier periods on them, it's got to be better than hormones / pregnancy if he really doesn't like condoms.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 When my husband and I used condoms I used to put them on while licking his balls. Seemed to work ok. We always used the Durex light ones too and although he says it's still not as sensitive as being bare it still feels pretty good.
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