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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need some creative ideas!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with this girl for a few months now and i love her deeply. the problem i have is it gets boring after a while because we've done pretty much everything there is to do.(except for sex, this will come much later) i've been to her house she's been to mine its ... (183 words)

She doesn't deserve him but what did I ever do to cause this distance between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here is my story its my senior year in high school and the boy that I plan on pursuing a relationship with is still with his girlfriend of 4 years off and on she cheated on him numorus times and he has taken her back but a couple of weeks ago he actually caught her in ... (200 words)

When is it to much masterbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This probably a question asked quite a lot, but i cant find any other references to it on the site...my question is that i am a chronic masturbator, I also find it difficult recently to get a proper erection, and don't feel attracted to women, i want to know if i stop ... (73 words)

How can I deal with missing my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid- I'm in a long distance relationship with the man I love. Our relationship is strong and we really do love each other (yes, I am young, but I really do think that he is the one.) However I hate being away from him and the hours we can talk are limited. It physically ... (94 words)

Two guys one choice to make.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, A = Boyfriend(about 7 years) B = ex (known each other for 12 years, dated 5 months in high school, on/off for the past 3 years. I wanted to break up with A because I realized that he's probably not the right one for me. In addition to the fact that I've thought o... (399 words)

Husband walks out, how do I pick up the pieces?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 19 yrs old housewife and my husband (29 yrs) says we are over. i met him in my country ( he is a soldier) and we only spent a 3days together becuase he was leaving soon. So he went back to America and we just talked on the phone from time to time. and my family s... (599 words)

Will my breasts grow anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and have small boobs. i dont mind the fact that they are not big but i hope that there is a chance they will grow. its the main thing im self concious about. i just hate being self concious about them. my friends have amazing bodies it makes me feel so unattractive.... (55 words)

My ex keeps contacting me, when he was a total jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If anyone can give me their opinion? I broke up with my ex about 5 months go. He met someone else and i found out about it. However, many times he would try to speak to me again just when I was starting to move on. I would ignore his communication but he insists. I know its my ... (361 words)

Without a boyfriend but the urges are strong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and want to make out (or have sex) with a guy. i am afraid if i have sex i will get pregnant. besides i dont have a boyfriend so I can not satisfy my craving to make out. what should I do?... (45 words)

I like this girl but need help approaching her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - )I like this girl would like to get to know her more as only get the chance to say hi and chat on facebook. if there was anything ever to bcome im abit worryed because i know her dad very well they run a shop in the town and her dad and friends always help me and i get on ... (123 words)

I cheated. What can I do to try and fix things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, i cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend, i feel really guilty about it and made up a different excuse to split up with him, his friend is acting like nothing has happened what can i do?... (38 words)

When will enough be enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. But im really struggling. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 3.5 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do think he has strong feeling... (621 words)

Ex contacts me after months. What could she want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

- Hello all My ex split from me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Today, i have received an emai... (135 words)

Boyfriend says no porn, yet I catch him watching it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm so devistated right now. I have begged my fiancee to watch porn with me but his excuse is that he has me so he doesn't need to watch it. But just last night I caught him in the bathroom watching porn and relieving himself. That really hurt my feelings that he... (133 words)

Shaken trust from the past now has to face boyfriend betraying me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, moved cities to be with him ( I live on my own, he still lives at home. We are 22 and 24). Before the relationship became official, I saw him texting his ex. I told him im not comfortable with whomever im with talking to their ex's ... (387 words)

Pubic hair has to go. Any advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I feel little bit embarrassed to ask this question but I`m not comfortable to talk with persons face to face about that. Here`s the thing: before I get into sexual activitys with my boyfriend I want to remove all of my pubic hair. I already shave bikini-zone and it`t fin... (139 words)

What to do with best friend?? I am hitting rock bottom...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Titled by poster) I really don’t know what to do anymore… I have this best friend. We met about 2 years ago in class. We hit it off from the beginning. I’ve always been a private person and the more I got to know him, the more I trusted and confided in him. He ... (626 words)

He's married, could he be interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not interested in getting with a married man, but I am wondering what his behavior means so that I know how to act accordingly (if its friendliness, I'll continue to be friendly, if its interest, I'll know to show him that I'm not going to be falling for a married man). I ... (480 words)

Advice for getting back to dating after harsh breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I spent a long time getting over a bad break up which hurt me alot and I still can't think about. I've recently met someone at a party; we hit it off and now we've been texting. He wants to meet me, but the problem is I'm terrified of what other people will say about me getting ... (130 words)

How can I become more confident and look people in the eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone i was wondering if you could help me :/ okay so, i have a little problem, i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i go really red easily. and i was hoping you guys could give me some tips on how to control my nerves! Thanks for reading, xxx... (60 words)

Should I get my friend to ask him if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy who goes my kickboxing aged 15-16 and i have fancied him for ever /well since i met him lol\ hes started to notice me more as time has gone on. the lats time i went kickboxing he kept trying to stand next to me when we where in lines. then next we had to go in ... (139 words)

How do I trust my friend again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend was one i those people i trusted, but she accused someone else for doing something but it was she who did it. I was mad at her! she lied to me and i thought i could trust her! i dont want to forgive her... what should i do?... (50 words)

How do I ask her out in a way that's romantic, yet not too cheesy if she says no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so tomorrow I'm gonna hang out with this girl I like and I want to ask her out. I want to ask her out soon after I see her tomorrow, that way if she says yes we can do what couples do and if she says no we'll still have time to hang out (I'm totally prepared for rejection, ... (257 words)

Should I go out on a date with my friend in spite of being married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married but i want to be with my friend and he wants to be with me but i don't think it will lead to sex should i go out on a date with him or not? I mean i am not saying I don't want have sex with him I do but we are both a bit more mature than that or at least i hope ... (69 words)

Is it bad that I 'make things easy'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked this question a bit ago, but I don't think I was clear enough in what I was saying, so I'm going to try again. I don't see this as a compliment, but probably half the people in my life have told me something along the lines of: "I like you because you're easy/You make ... (413 words)

Do late night texts mean he's looking for a 'booty call'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "i've heard a lot about when you receive a text from a guy after 10pm it's supposedly a booty call. we're not old enough to go to bars yet, but we do get drunk...by "booty call," i don't necessarily mean sex, just the fact that a guy is using you. if a guy wants to text you, ... (64 words)

Is my relationship with my fiance on the rocks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My fiance and I have been engaged for about a year or year 1/2. Lately, I've been concerned: (1) When we're on the phone, he doesn't really talk to me. He says that since we've become engaged, there's really nothing left to talk about; (2) I don't know how I'm supp... (424 words)

If your partner says they love you, yet you don't feel the same way yet, do you tell the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering. What if you're in a relationship and your partner tells you that they love you but you don't feel the same way at least not yet. Do you be honest with them about how you feel or do you lie and say I love you back so they won't feel bad?... (54 words)

Could this pain have to do with an abortion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had really bad charlie horse like pain in my pelvic area after sex last night. today my cramp are not as bad but they still hurt a little .I did have an abortion in january please help me what could it be ... (45 words)

We broke up but I want her back. Do her actions enforce that she feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex gilrfriend and i were together 2 years when we broke up do to fighting for like a month. we were fighting do to stress in our seperate lives and our relationship as acouple. but we didnt brakeup over or during a fight we brokeup on goodterms agreeing to a brake.we have ... (238 words)

Does this guy I just met like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have boy issues.vOk, so for the pst few months I've been going to this new church, and I started liking this boy, and I really want to know if he likes me. He has been showing some signs, by always sitting next to me, trying to tickle me, long tight hugs, looking at ... (79 words)

Are my rough tendencies in bed the same as abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, as you all are pretty much aware, I am against hitting women. However, I like to whip and spank women during sex, and I like sex to be as rough as possible. (consensual of course) Anyway, I know who I am and that I don't pose a danger to anyone I am sleeping with, bu... (111 words)

Will my boobs ever grow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey ppl, i'm 14 years old and i'm still a 32A. It's so depressing and i keep crying about it. Do you think it will EVER grow?? What age does a girl stop developing?? and If there's ANYTHING to help it to grow quicker?? Thankyou for your reply (when done) xx... (57 words)

My girlfriend wants a break, yet she insists on us hanging out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month. So within that one month, I've tried leaving her alone, and just focus on improving myself as a person. Not just for her, but for me too. When she first wanted to go on a break, she said that it would be best if we ... (226 words)

I am financially supporting my ex. Should I stop now before I get hurt again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help on this!i was in a relationship with someone whom i loved..we are both born again bt he break up with me after he told me he never loved me he loves other girls and infact GOD didnt tell him to marry me..even though it was hard for me 2 accept it,i later take it as ... (188 words)

How do I deal with trust and jealousy in this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend lives in another state. im being really irrational but i can never see him and im afraid he will forget me and or find someone else. sometimes he doesnt call for one or two days and there is a new girl on his facebook and its driving me crazy wondering who she is. ... (123 words)

Will this guy give me a hard time at school after what happened in the bathroom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just need some advice, How do i deal with people who accuse me of something really random, like walking into a room where they are gith in front of you, and they say 'what you looking at' and start getting defensive, something like that happened to me today, and i am worries, ... (165 words)

Is it my fault that he abuses me? How can I leave him now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, I really need some advice - even though deep down im sure I think I know what to do.......but while I am writing this - I dont I really dont know what to do. I am in a relationship - we have been together for 10 years and he is my first. We got married last year in ... (770 words)

My abusive boyfriend is attempting to emotionally blackmail me into staying with him. Should I believe it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two years has physically, emotionally, and mentally abused me for two years. I finally found the strength to try and leave him and he is throwing countless excuses in my face that make me reconsider... he was extremely depressed and needed patience from me... (339 words)

I moved into my friend's dad's house, and I'm starting to become really uncomfortable. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im Blue, Its my first time asking a question on here so bare with me. I am 20 years old and have just recently moved into a friends dads place, I am studying. He saw a note on my nannas table that said I was moving out to the Caravan Park. He didnt like that idea or ... (200 words)

I wanted to leave my boyfriend, but he made me feel guilty. Now I am cheating on him with the guy I liked. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years in november as i had feelings for someone else. after seeing how hurt he was i got back with him the day after. it was a rushed decision, just like the decision for him to move in with me and book a £4000 holiday for december. my ... (166 words)

Should I fight for an older man who has a child on the way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello...im having a hard time and i need advice..im a 17year old girl and i started meeting this man who is 29 ...he started to really like me and i really like him but i dont know about the age difference...no body knows about me and him because the age difference...but he ... (90 words)

How do I get through the break up process? Should I get revenge or get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend (ex, actually) and I were together for 3 and a half years. He has a huge issue with my past, because when I was 15 I had a huge, unrequited crush on my then best guy friend. This guy was a little older, and he liked me a lot, but just as a friend. Nevertheless, we ... (561 words)

Should I let a guy I just met in college distract me from my four year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i have been with my current bf for 4 years now and we got engaged a few months ago... i was really happy at the time but now that my 2nd semester of college has started ive met a guy here who im starting to really like. ive tried picturing my life either way but i still ... (63 words)

I don't like my boyfriend's new friend. How do I address the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a problem with my fiancée new friend. He started a new job in November and he met this guy his colleague who always wants to hang out with him. Now I met the guy and he is a bit of a loner... But he is very annoying and rude and always interupts- which is oviously wh... (123 words)

I am jealous to the point of being enraged! How do I control my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is not healthy and i know i shouldnt be bothered but this feeling in me is as though i get stabbed right at the core of my heart everytime i see this girl in my college. this guy and i used to be really close and almost get into a relationship but anyway i had bee... (284 words)

Am I doing the wrong thing trying to change sexualities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I am really confused. I left my husband 3 months ago because he was abusing me...he was hitting me.....anyways right after that i spent a very short time with a loser who only wanted to use me for sex and obviously that didn't work out either.....so now i am really confused...i ... (132 words)

How do I deal with feeling ashamed that I wasted time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel ashamed. this guy and i were about to be an item until something happened. everybody knew that we went for dinner every night and what not. everybody knew we were close. anyway, we're not talking anymore now. i hate all the places i went with him with. worse still, i... (90 words)

Spoke to him every day for fifteen years, now he's cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys. My questions is regarding my ex/on-off partner. We've been together for years and split up on-off over the last 18 months. We always stayed in touch and stayed friends and there are still feelings between us and we are still attracted but because he has 'issues' with ... (576 words)

Does my teacher fancy me or am I just being silly ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i am having this major love/hate realationship with this male english teacher in my school. Ive liked him for atleast 3 years now. But ive always felt a connection between him and me , his eyes are so hypnotic. Then i went to see a play with my drama class and he was there ... (525 words)

Is it ok for a Indian man to date/marry a white woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met a nice Indian man. I am a white female and have heard some rumours that Indians can not date/marry white woman. I am not actually looking towards marriage yet as im only 20 yrs old. He has sent me love songs and he seems real into me. One of the songs was I Want... (98 words)

Did my girlfriend just break up with me? I don't understand what happened!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My girl wants to have a baby with me. I was scared about this at first, but she wants it so much and I love to see her happy and see her smile, so I started to convince myself I was ready. But she got in my face last night about it, and finally I asked her about the planni... (278 words)

How do I find a balance? I was happier when I was fat, but I do enjoy my body and being attractive to the opposite sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This may seem like a strange question but it is something that has plagued me since about the age of 16. It is to do with beauty and mental state. Basically from the ages of about 12 to 15 I was huge I weighed close to 22 stone, which wasn't as damning as you may think as I a... (413 words)

I don't want to get hurt again so should I try to forget about him while he's gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK so here's the thing I have been flirting with this guy for a long time and I wasn't sure if he liked me back. I know now that he does because he told me. He's been so sweet to me and makes me feel so special. The thing is I have been badly hurt in previous relationships ... (141 words)

I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm. I've orgasmed in the past with previous boyfriends but with my current one, whenever he pleasuring me it feels good but then it starts to feels really intense and sensitive and rather than come, I start trying to get him to stop as it ... (78 words)

Why do guys only want me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - everyone i meet says am really friendly and really sweet. they all say i have a great personality. guys thinks am cute and sexy..but they just want me for sex and off course i don't give in cos am not the type to sleep around.. i want relationship+sex not just sex. ... (149 words)

After our troublesome trip to Mexico I think our relationship might be over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got back from a 5 day trip to Mexico with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. I have barely seen or spoken to him. We left after only being officially together for 5 months. The trip was not too much fun. He was pulling away before the trip which I wasn't taking personally because he ... (612 words)

Should I be friends with him after he hurt me so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'll try and make this short. I was in a very long term, happy relationship. We split up amicably-ish about 5 months ago. He hooked up with an idiot of a girl straight after. She is such a loser! Amongst many idiotic things she does, she constantly gloats about him and is '... (196 words)

Should I waste my time, or am I looking to much into his feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since but she was upset and wanted to ... (319 words)

Is this an actual period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys hope u can help me. i had my last period 6th feb which lasted for 5 days, then i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 18th feb so the next day i took the morning after pill, however i has intercourse with my boyfriend again on the 22nd feb and today which is... (83 words)

How do I make him want to make the first move on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

- Guys i need your help!! I've been seeing this guy now for about 2 months and at the start we only really got together when we were drunk. But then after a few weeks sober he started to introduce me as his girlfriend which was nice because i did quite like like him. We never had ... (276 words)

Why am I losing weight? And how do I get back to my old weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys i have notice lately that i dont eat as much. my mum and my boyfriend told me that im losing so much weight. i dont think that i have eating disorder but why am i losing weight i use to be 47kg, size 8 and now i weight 43kg size 6. how cn i get my weight bk. plz help ... (62 words)

Please help me before I make the greatest mistake in life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl i love, i stay in different country from her. I meet on dating site just 4 months before i travel back to my country to meet her. The first day we sex she get pregnant, now i am back to the country i work. And i do not intend to get married to her because i wi... (181 words)

Can you get anything longer lasting for your nails other than nail varnish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have long natural nails, the length of your typical false nail. I more often than not wear a 'french manicure' style varnish with the white tips.. My problem is that the nail varnish doesn't last long and often chips or flakes off, so i'm considering checking out a nail bar ... (81 words)

Our non existant sex life post abortion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again. I wrote previously about my abortion (see my other question - to those who responded it was much appreciated). This is a bit of a follow up but I am asking for help and advice again. I went through with the abortion last Saturday. I won't lie, it wasn't a plea... (495 words)

First online relationship .. confusion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We “met” on a fan website for our mutually favorite band last april ‘09. I had just gotten out of a rather serious, and seriously bad relationship with my ex live-in boyfriend, so we both decided it would be best if we put off meeting and took time for me to heal. (I had pretty ... (532 words)

I don't know what went wrong in our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl i like.We were good friends and the friendship turned into love and we were really good together...there were fights but we managed...there were times when we went on a break and didn't speak to each other for a month or so but she came back..... The same thi... (136 words)

It bothers me when my girlfriend masturbates. Can you help me understand why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Preface: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We've been sexually active for slightly longer than we've dated. That aside. My problem: It bothers me when she masturbates. But the problem is, I can't pin point why. Its the "heart break" feeling that yo... (135 words)

I am jealous of his female friends and I hate his porn watching!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with a guy for about 9 months, and though he he treats me well and makes me feel special, I found out while being with him iam extremely insecure and jealous. Him also being in a pretty well known band makes it worse for me, even though iam happy and support their ... (160 words)

How do I reconcile with a life of at least 30 more years of not being in a mutually loving relationship?

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25 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I feel doomed for life. Except for short periods of time, I don't believe I've ever been with someone where both people felt mutually and enduringly in love with one another. I know people who never fall out of love, and I too have gone through long periods where I have not ... (282 words)

Sould I stop talking to this married man for good?

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25 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hey, I need your help. Please don't be so mean against me when you read my story, because we all make bad choices and I never planned on being with a married man nor do,I want to break up anyone's marriage. So, here's the story. Some years back I met this man. He lead me ... (444 words)

I don't know whether my girl loves me or not

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25 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me whether she loves me or not. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my girl friend. And actually i s... (439 words)

Should I go out with my ex boyfriend who lied to me about having cancer and is a lier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Let me say the basic im a 15 year old girl when i was 14 i went out with an 18 year old he was a sweet heart nice,sweet,kind and all other good stuff one bad thing about him is that he lies alot about things that are important like him having brain cancer (his mother told me ... (163 words)

Is that weird that I want to try anal sex?

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25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, this one is a bit different, I want a woman's opinion. As I said before, I'm 17 years old and a virgin and I don't plan on having sex untill I'm married. But I've always wanted to try anal with who my future wife will be, but I don't want to hurt her and I really hope ... (73 words)

I am afraid of the consequences for my family if I leave my husband

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i fought 2 days ago because i let my maid wash clothes...my bad relationship started 10 years ago when he started womanizing with about 5 different women....i was submitted to slaps,kicks,gunpointing,shouting,black and blues,all kins of battery and ... (359 words)

Is this love... for a priest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, Please don't angry with me, I know that this is wrong, but actually i just want to share my feelings. You know I have a friend of mine who is a PRIEST, he is not handsome actually, but he is Good. We became closed, I realized one day that I am in loved with this priest... (145 words)

I can't work out my boyfriend's brother

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years now, and i moved in with his parents and his brother 1 year ago.I think that his brother likes me but i hope I'm just being paranoid. Every time he gets drunk he finds a way to come talk to me and says things like "I'm so glad ... (150 words)

Mr X and Mr Y both want to be "my guy"

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently dumped my long term boyfriend at the beginning of this year. I then got together on the 'rebound' with Mr X which i ended up quite fancying. We had a brief fling which fizzled out, which I didn't want to but started moving on anyway. I started seeing another guy (Mr ... (252 words)

Everything I have done has been for him, now I find he is having an affair

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out very recently that my husband was having an affair for the last 6 months. I am not sure if I can forgive him or ever trust him again. It's not like it was a one time thing. He wasn't even the one to tell me, I had to find out when I intercepted a phone call from her ... (197 words)

My ex is dating somebody else, should I fight for him?

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked a guy for 2 years and we dated for 6 months. I just recently found out that a montha and a half before we broke up he was talking to the girl he is dating now. I still love him and I don't know what to do. Do I fight for him?... (54 words)

My boyfriends parents wont let him come and see me

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy I really like. He lives 2 hours away and his parents wont let him drive down to see me. He told me he likes me so much. We don't know what to do because we want to be together but we wont be able to see each other. We don't know how he can ask his parents. ... (85 words)

My boyfriend knows I get violent when I drink, is he being inconsiderate by planning a birthday party?

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am currently dating someone who can drink socially,without getting crazy. However, I can't. He knows this, and discourages me from drinking because it always ends up with me saying hurtful things to him, and sometimes even violence. However, his birthday is coming up, ... (94 words)

Is it possible to suffer injuries during sex with a large man?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What kind of internal injuries can be suffered during rough sex that lasts for hours? My new BF has a large penis and after our most recent encounters, I am still sore 2 days later. Internally and it burns when I pee. He used a condom and says he doesn't have STDs... I think ... (89 words)

He seems to have lost feelings for me

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Married for 19 years, love my husband with all my heart but can't seem to continue to deal with him always being in a bad mood. He never seems happy. He says it's all due to finances but we both make good salaries. He is constantly talking about money. I often feel he thinks he ... (157 words)

We often go out as a foursome and I fell in love with the other guy

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So i fell n love with someone that is not my husband. I know it does not sound possiable but it was. Im still n love with him but we broke things off. One reason cuz he and I both know that im still n love with my husband and i never would leave him and him and his wife wer... (257 words)

Does this girl like me or is she just being friendly?

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25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing. There's this girl who was in my freshman writing class two years ago, and I didn't speak to her. The class would divide itself into discussion groups, and it just so happened that she was replying to almost everything whatever I had to say. We happened the ... (1102 words)

Does he really need time to think, or should I just move on and date someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Once again. Another question. I'm very confused about what to do right now. It is a complicating situation. I have written about the same guy and relationship a couple times in the last few days. I guess to fill in up to current situation, dating 2 months, lived with him after ... (585 words)

Help, my weight problem is making me feel like crap!

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts. ok ive yet to meet any female that doesnt have this problem. but ive been feeling really self concious about my weight. the thing is that i know im over weight but my dad (very unpolitley infront of family and friends) pointed out to me that im *quote* "For go... (122 words)

How come all of a sudden I am so insecure in my relationship?

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I first started dating my BF I was really carefree, nothing bothered me and everything was just great. We’ve now been together for about 6 months and lately I find that little things like him not replying to my texts quickly annoy me, or that he sometimes doesn’t seem too ... (241 words)

I've lost the urge to have sex with my boyfriend

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont get aroused or excited by my boyfriend of eight years we have a five year old son and it seems the enchantment to be next to him and the need for sexual gratification has become harder to deal with because I always want it but not from him. i love him and I am his best ... (107 words)

She is expressing interest in me but already has a boyfriend

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25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i got on facebook last week and a girl i used to be friends with before graduation but had a falling out with decided to message me because of a conversation i was having with someone in a post. She more or less admitted she had always had a lot of respect for me and she ... (301 words)

Oh NO! I think my crush might be gay!

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my crush is gay. How do I ask him? He has become a very good friend and if he is gay, I would still continue to be his friend, I just do not want to offend (? i'm not sure how he will react, we have mutual acquaintances that are gay, so I know he is not homophobic, but ... (64 words)

On again, off again boyfriend doesn't feel like the one.

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years and 4 months and we been on an off for like a year now and im wondering should i call it a quits now after so many breakups?... (37 words)

Troubles at work, and I can't quit!

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boss hates me! I just started working at Taco Bell because Im a 21 yr old college student and I needed a job with flexible hours plus I have two out of country trips so I need a flexible job. Ok so here's the problem. The hiring manager was really nice to me at first and ... (313 words)

Hung out with my cousin and my boyfriend is pissed I didn't beg him to come.

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem trivial but my boyfriend is making a massive deal about it. My cousin is here form overseas and i want to spend as much time as possible with her as i have not seen her for 6 years. i invited my boyfriend to go karting, ice skating, to the local pub, all t... (231 words)

I'm confused about my sexuality since she dumped me!

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25 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've started to question my sexuality alot. When i was smaller around 6 or 7, i experimented with my cousin and another boy. i also remember seeing a movie where i saw this transexual guy and i was confused.. after all that though, i was interested in girls. Just recently i ... (378 words)

Does he like me? Whats my next move?

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25 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all, heres my situation i met a guy recently and at a place where me and my mates meet up for a drink and he was a new house mate of one of my friends. By this time we had mooved on to another pub, and me and this guy and his brother (cause his brother had the car)... (559 words)