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Can it really be true love at 14?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm sure to myself that i'm in love with this guy, we've been together for a almost a year, we broke up once but got back together. So lately he's been having money problems and his mom just had a baby, and he's been sooo busy with everything, he barely has time to talk to me. ... (262 words

My girlfriend told me I would be a terrible person to have around during childbirth! Why does she have something against me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1513 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Just a quick one cos i am completely clueless... My gf and I were watching a delivery program tonight following various women through their labours and births. During the show she remarked that I would be a terrible person to have around and i probably wouldnt buy her ... (286 words

His last text was positive, but I have had no sign from him in a week. Why?

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23 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Met a nice guy all was going well from our first date and after. Lots of phone calls and texts, both enjoyed each others company or so it seemed. No contact from him in a week. His last text was positive which I replied to. Why? [Moderator's note: It might be useful if you ... (68 words

A guy took advantage of my girlfriend at a party, I don't know what I should do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1510 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Recently at a party my girlfriend of nearly 3 years had too much to drink and says she blacked out and when she came to she was being taken advantage of and got the guy to stop and she left immediately. I know she's not to blame completely but i do know if she knew her limits ... (214 words

My parents are separated and I don't wish to see my mother, she is the only bad thing in my life!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Ok i know what everyone is going to say but i genuinely hate my mum. She walked out on my and my sister about a year ago to be with another guy leaving my dad with all her mountains of debt and responsibilty for the both of us. She apparently left due to neglect f... (377 words

I know he loves me but I just don't know why he behaves like this

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - So me and my boyfriend were going out for 3 years and now he left me because supposedly he didnt deserve me but u heard from a friend that he said that he did love me but he was barely going to start going out, and he wont reply to my texts and he deleted me from myspace..he ... (106 words

My friend always says hurtful things to me, why does she act like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

23 February 2010 (? age 30-35 - When I hang out with my friend, she always has some little put downs to say to me. Like insisting that my hairstyle is bad, implying I'm stupid, her job is more difficult than mine, etc. And these things started escalating, to the point where I could feel her animosity just ... (267 words

Should I take Him Back One Last Time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about a full year, on-and-off. Our breakups were always stupid, sometimes because of rumours/misunderstandings, and once because he lied to me about himself. Afterwards, though, he explained it was only because he wanted to seem good enough for ... (258 words

She had sex with 3 of my friends and I can't get past it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1513 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now, but recently I started feeling differently due to some issues with her past. Basically without jumping into too much detail she had sex with three of my friends,one which she "dated" and the other two were bas... (196 words

Is it a bad thing to get so jealous over the little things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 16-17 - heyy okay so i really really like this guy and he talks with other girls and walks with other girls. and i get really jealous but then i realized that he talks and filrts with me way more. but i cant help that i get so upset. okay so my question is it a bad thing to get so ... (64 words

My husband's porn use has affected me badly..is this normal?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay, this is going to be very long so please bear with me. When I first got with my boyfriend in August '08, I made it very clear to him that some very bad things had happened to me in the past concerning sex when I was only young, and that because of this I regarded sex very... (384 words

A womans need to feel desired and my husband falls short of that!

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23 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 12 years. During that time he has never complimented me or shown much attraction to me. Actually he has made negative comments about my looks, like my breasts arent perky or my skin has scars from pregnancies etc However he has always had ... (207 words

After five years I've reconnected and wonder if I should try to rekindle the old flame

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've recently reconnected with an old friend via facebook. Back in college we were really close. We had on and off romantic engagements but managed to stay really good friends despite the rollercoaster that our trying to be involved with eachother created. After college we ... (322 words

I had a deeper level of understanding with my ex, I want the same with my current girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years and we both love each other but we may have personality conflicts. She has a lot of trouble understanding me and a lot of the time we're not on the same page. This is frustrating especially since in my last relationship, my ex ... (536 words

My mother says my hanging out with a 19 year old is the same as statutory rape!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My mom says that I shouldn't be able to hang out with my guy friend whos 19 and im 14. She says its " stagetory rape" but I looked it up and its only if you do sexual intercourse things. I wanna hang out with him but she says its just " bad news" and he likes me, but she says ... (123 words

I am hoping I am adopted so I can be a US citizen and work for the FBI

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23 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - hello readers well where do i start. for some reason i feel that i am adopted i do look a bit like my mum and dad but i feel that it is just a similarity i have always felt that i wanted to be adopted and my real parents (thats if i am adopted) are american or canadian for ... (336 words

I like this girl on Facebook!

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23 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Mod note: 2 postings from this user, based on the same topic. 1)I like this girl would like to get to know her more as only get the chance to say hi and chat on facebook. if there was anything ever to bcome im abit worryed because i know her dad very well they run a shop ... (192 words

What is this guy's true sexual orientation? Help me figure this one out!!

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have a good friend who I love very much. I would like to have taken our relationship further but on the occasions when we have shared a bed he has not made any move other than a cuddle. The last time we shared a bed I took all my clothes off and I told him take his teashirt... (339 words

Need the adult kids to move out as I'm stressed out with their lack of respect!

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23 February 2010 (? - I am deeply bothered by something. My ex husband and I are no longer married, because when we were married years ago, he had absolutely no respect for me. I felt I didn't deserve this. I worked hard at being a good wife and Mother. I had always asked him to back me up whenever ... (248 words

This guy just uses me and I am struggling with ending this once and for all. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - How can I end an on-off relationship? I really really really like this guy, but he's using me and the only thing I should do is to end it. I'm struggling to do so, and when finally do I know I'm going to struggle to get over him. Please offer any advice on how I can do this. ... (92 words

I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ... (42 words

My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things that one of us thinks i... (519 words

I want to make it work with my husband but can't stop thinking of this other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my ex-lover Steve broke up almost a 1 year 6 months ago. Since then I have tried so hard to move on and get on with my life but I am finding it really difficult. I hate to admit but there is still a part of me that loves and cares for Steve even though we haven’t seen ... (291 words

How can I deal with an emotionally hurt girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - So please let me set the sence- My Gfs mother died 2 years ago, in her sleep, which obviously mortifiyed her! than 2 weeks later her than current BF hung himself! fast forward to today! the other night she was telling me what a terrible day she had had having to visit the hos... (178 words

Should I ask her to have sex?

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23 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have asked out a girl at my school, we're both 14 and if she says yes I want to ask her if she will have sex with me. Will she think it's too soon? If so should I ever ask her. But I cant help it, i masturbate over her 3 times a day and have fantasies about me and her in ... (68 words

How can I make him more into me?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - DEAR CUPID! There's a guy at work I have been messing around with secretly for a little bit now. The thing is, he doesn't want anything serious and my problem is that I know this but still really like him... I think about him all the time .... I always tend to like guys that ... (102 words

Can't find the right one! Am I too picky?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have trouble relating to a lot of girls......so I am 20 Years old and to put it bluntly most girls 18-20 aren't exactly the brightest ones around my parts. I have gone through my "partying" phaze and all of that and yea of course I still party every now and again but I can't ... (96 words

Should I be leery of my boyfriend after all he's done?

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now with a break. the break was caused because i had been told he was talking to girls online seductively, so i went online on a fake account and he then did things on webcam etc. thinking i wouldnt find out. how... (147 words

Scared of getting hurt!! Please Help

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so heres the story. I have been talking to this guy everyday for the past few months and we are meeting up when im off work for a weeks holiday which is in 2 weeks(Its the only time we will both be free cos the days he has off i work and vice versa). We have talked about ... (199 words

He's sending a gift to my house and I am afraid my Mum might see it!

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - my long distance boyfriend is sending a gift to my house through the post and i`m worried it might be something sexy like a thong or something and that my mum will see it. he said that he hasn`t put his name on it but he would love to see me wearing it but he also asked me to ... (79 words

His friends hate me, so we've kept our relationship a secret!

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i went out with this boy for 4 months but one of his best friends liked me so once me and my ex was over me and his best friend started going out but we had to keep it in secret because his two friends hate me and they were going to fall out with him because of me. They thought ... (152 words

Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1513 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a size 6-8 like he prefers. I'm a ... (284 words

Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about whether I should wait for marr... (78 words

He relies on me for his 'fun'...is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay, so I'm kind of seeing this guy from school. I say kind of because we're not officially a couple, I have no idea what we are! We don't talk about it much, and I don't really want everyone to know anyway, my friends wouldn't approve although my mother would! He is really ... (339 words

Dating 5 years and he never has invited me to his house to meet his roomies!

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. A year ago he moved into a house with 3 girls and 1 guy. He never once asked me what I thought about this arrangment. A year later it still bothers me and we fight about it at least once every 2 weeks. My biggest problem ... (133 words

My friend ignores me and I feel unappreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1502 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 16-17 - I feel as if my girflriend is completley ignoring me. During class she goes and talks to every other person in the class but when i want to talk she just moans and says i have to get my work done it makes me feel so un-appreciated it makes me feel as if i dont care about her ... (97 words

I like having nights to myself, but my girlfriend wants to be with me, all the time! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my girlfriend... I can't remember the last time I went a night without seeing her. It was probably about 8 days ago now. I'm the kind of guy who likes time alone, or in the company of guys (this is common, right?) My girlfriend doesn... (426 words

Devastated...my gf is flirting online! Help!

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Girlfriend is flirting online Today i found out an email by my gf sent to another man. asking him to visit her. and how much she is sorry for not talking to him. i was devastated because the date and the time showed was the time i am sleeping on her house. ... (60 words

When I menstruate..I am in so much pain! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hiya, well im 14 and my periods get really sore, so sore that i cant even move out of my bed, its a mission trying to get to the toilet. so i was wondering if anyone could help me. i want to ask my mum about contraceptive pills, they can regulate my period and i think i need ... (93 words

I don't get on with my mum, how do I tell my parents I am pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1469 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 years old. Yesterday i found out im pregnant. The father is not my boyfriend and never was. I have never been more scared in my life. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad because me and my mom don't get along. My mom is re-married and just had a baby a year and ... (236 words

Is she using this 'parking arrangement' to sort of flirt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 51-59 - This might be an unusual question but I have been having some fun with this one lady I am attracted to where she works I don't work there only visit when passing by the area. It has to do with the parking arrangement in the parking lot but no parking is private for you ... (468 words

I'm not gay, but I like to watch gay porn. Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1510 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Okay, so I am between 18 and 21 and i've never had sex (with a male nor female). At age 15 and 16 I started watching regular porn, and masturbated. After a year or two I began getting interested in the guys in the clip. In regular porn the girl has to be amazingly hot, and the ... (150 words

I feel guilty about asking my mum to move out when I got married

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I wanted my mom to be on her own and get her apartment after I got married. She finally got one and will be moving soon and I feel sad and guilty now about this, I thought that this is what I wanted but now, im not sure. I have mix feelings about this. All I wanted is some ... (82 words

Both my ex and my current boyfriend want me to have an abortion, but I want another child. What do I do?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know it is my ex - boyfriend's kid. He and my boyfriend wants me to have a abortion. my friend wants me to keep the baby and she promised to be there for me. I dont know what to do. she had an abortion from when she was with my boyfriend. They both ... (79 words

I wonder if he's trying to tell me if he just wants to be friends?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I seem to be in a current situation where things began fairly straight forward yet has come to a weird conclusion. I have a crush on this guy who at first seemed like he liked me back (I've known him for a couple of months now). There were several signs that I thought were ... (419 words

The man I had an affair with has called me 8 months after it ended, should I call him back?

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23 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I need help! the guy i was having an affair wtih for the pass 3 years called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost 8 months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (43 words

Can anyone give me some advice about how to handle my friend? I'm sick of her attention seeking ways...

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok, I am writing this for advice about a friendship. I had a few relationship problems with my boyfriend over the last year. However we seemed to have overcome this and are now very close and very happy. My advice is about a friend. When i split with my boyfriend in 2008 ... (1429 words

I just hate the fact that my ex saw I was unhappy with my new man!

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - A few years ago I was in a serious relationship with a guy, I was in love with him and he made out he was in love with me and serious about me we were together for 3years. anyway things changed and he seemed distant from me I always asked what was wrong but he never wanted to ... (637 words

How can I put him past me if he is now coming to me in my dreams? I feel like I have lost my one true love...

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for going on 19 yrs.. been together for 23 yrs. I had a horrible childhood. An abusive alcoholic father. When I got with my husband I was almost 18. Never had the feelings of "TRUE LOVE" with him.. thinking back.. I feel I started a life with him to escape ... (913 words

I am going insane and finding it very difficult to move on after the break up, please help?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have just recently come out of a 1 and half year relationship.I am having problems dealing with this pain and I have done so much to try and forget this, but its clear that I am affected quiet a bit. My ex was a best friend of 2 years before we got together and we got on well ... (607 words

I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. ... (972 words

Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't help but to look at other ... (65 words

I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership by outside the family. I feel ... (166 words

What's the etiquette for "friends with benefits"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1502 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I suppose it's a little late to ask this question since I'm already sleeping with the guy, but hey. Better late than never. I met him at a show about a month ago and we found each other physically attractive. He lives about three hours away from me and neither of us is looking ... (304 words

Should I continue with this marriage or just forget about it?

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23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 22 years old, i left my country to another country for work, when i wish to return back to my country i called my friend ex-girl and plead her for a serious and decent girl like her. She gave me her friend number, i and her friend open communication and i fall in love w... (279 words

I love her to pieces but she is losing all her friends over a guy!

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Everyone knows that when a couple gets together at first they can't be separated right? Like as people call it " The HoneyMoon stage " Well My used to be best friend is going through that stage and is losing all her friends. She started seeing this guy nearly two months and ... (372 words

I'm paranoid about my penis size, so much so I cant even use urinals

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm 18 years old and i'm really self conscious about my penis size, whenever i'm out i need to use the cubicle instead of a urinal just in case someone notices. i dont know if i'm being too paranoid because i've got no one to compare mine to. would appreciate replys thanks... (52 words

How can I make myself irresistible to my boyfriend?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello everyone, Ok so im a 16 yr old girl...got a nice boyfriend who i really love. I just thought that maybe you could give me some tips on how to make myself irresistible to him. I dont mean anything like sex but just getting him a bit horny and stuff:)... (52 words

I am in love with two brothers and I don't know what to do!

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone please forgive me i am not good in English. l am in love with two brothers.l was actrated to Daniel since 2008 l use to tell my friend how l feel about Daniel so when Daniel asked my friend out she asked me if l was ok with her going out with Daniel and l ... (267 words

What does this comment mean from a random girl on my boyfriend's Facebook wall?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are in a distance relationship. This past weekend he went for some homecoming event and after the event he called me and we talked. Just recently a random girl who's on his friend's list leaves this comment on his wall "Just wanted to say hello, it was gr... (69 words

At best a weak love triangle

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Was with a girl for four months. Very passionate for the first two and then a drastic cooling off on her part. I had some problems of my own in the latter two months, and she had a lot of university stress - things eventually came to a close on Christmas day. The next week she ... (291 words

I've realised I'm being played but I don't want him out of my life completely, how do I go about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1505 days ago

23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello guys, im back again for more advice.im the girl with the 35 year old that seems as if he has a curfew, but anyway i would like to know since i realized im being played and used how do i go about the situation? i know the smart thing to do is let him go, but i really do ... (217 words

Is it normal that I need at least an hour before I can get another erection?

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23 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi Im with a new partner now, and things are going well. However, she is very demanding in the bedroom. When ive orgasmed i need at least an hour before i can get another erection, if weve had lots of sex the night before it might be two hours. Obviously i do other th... (113 words

Why does my ex stay in touch with me when he is in love with another girl? Is it possible for him to love both of us at the same time?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a question to all. Is it possible for someone to love 2 people at the same time? How do u know if he loves the other more than you or the opposite? I mean, i have nothing more to offer to this guy..nothing. I don't call him, he initiates the contact. I don't see any re... (202 words

Does he seem into me, or was he just being nice?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice on my status with my brother's roommate, who I increasingly suspect might be interested in me, but has yet to make any moves. I am a little hesitant myself with the fact that he's my brother's roommate and if we did date, I would be making my brother ... (1355 words

Should I just accept a sexless marriage or is it time to call it quits?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I have only been married 3 months, and already everything has changed. He has completely lost any interest in sex. I am trying everything I can think of. The only time we have been together in the last month was when I roleplayed a fantasy of his. I do not want ... (149 words

Does my ex girlfriend still have feelings for me?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - So me and my ex broke up 6 months ago and just recently during christmas break she came down(she lives in SF and I live in OC) and I went to her parents house to visit her within an hour she wanted me to leave because she couldn't be around me or talk to me. She had a hard time ... (282 words

How do I handle this situation? I'm sure she does love me but then there is another side to her that I just don't understand

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23 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - Ok.. need help.. ive turned into something i never thought imaginable. If its long ..sorry LOL. Ok almost 2 years ago i met this girl, well kinda near where i work, she was 40 ish, very attractive. Anyway prior to that i chatted to a guy who was with his girlfriend, then a week ... (892 words

Should I give him some space seen as he is becoming increasingly passive in our relationship?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello Everyone, Im dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and everything was going well until the past few weeks. He doesnt call when he says he will and when I ask him why he tells me he fell asleep before he could. We have had a huge fight about him being passive in our r... (258 words

Is silence the best thing here or should I just confront him?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My ex and I dated for about 3 years. In those 3 years we've had our ups and downs. Those downs and break ups largely in fact all to his part. He has cheated, broken up with me, treated me bad and all, then come back, beg do the same thing again. He came back ag... (213 words

She is always on my mind

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - During High school (10th grade to be specific 2003) I met a girl named Sara. She was the same exact height as me and had the same humor I did. We soon became best friends and I was sleeping over her house 24/7 and if I wasn't there she was sleeping over my house. From time to ... (698 words

He said he could feel the same way about me, but now he is with my new best friend!

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I'm Jodie and I'm fifteen. I moved schools at the start of January and I've started to chalk into my friendship groups. But there is a boy there that I would say I am now very fond of, and maybe even love if I thought about it enough. I told him three nights ago tha... (182 words

Whenever he has a relapse it really weighs on my mind, how can I cope with these feelings?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend who I am very close to. He is a drug addict, but often times stops using 'for good', with the help of rehab or 12 step programs, only to relapse eventually. Each time this happens, my heart sinks and I do not like the way he acts sometimes when he's high. He ... (198 words

Can I wear the same jeans again for a third date or will it look bad?

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23 February 2010 (F - I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he said he would see me ... (257 words

Is his flakey behaviour normal?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Known this guy for 4mo.we've hung out a handful of times - he msgs all the time to see what I'm doing/how I'm doing.the thing is he's incredibly flakey.he's invited me to see him at work 2x and canceled both times..because he claims he couldn't get a break long enough to see ... (162 words

My boyfriend's stressful situation is making me stressed too, I don't know what to do anymore....

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Here is my story, my bf went to his country outside the Us for his granddad like 2 weeks.The reason why he went there with his family because of his granddad. He is so sick and about to die.. In His country he try to call me everyday for the 1st week but second week he didint ... (373 words

I have not had my period this month, does this mean I am more likely to be pregnant?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i have had my period twice last month in January and this month in February i havent yet to get my period dose that mean i more likely to be pregnant... (31 words

I told her how I felt about her and things have become weird between us, will things ever improve?

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I recently told feelings to my friend who is engaged (She lead me on, she is a very good friend of mine, and I have always been there for her when she needed me), after telling feelings to her she said that she does not want to talk to me, then after couple of days she told me ... (238 words

How can I cheer her up and show her I do trust her?

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23 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i told her just dont and her ... (244 words

My brother will hook me up with the friend I like

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I like one of my brother's closest friends. According to my brother, this guy would be over the moon if he knew I was interested in him. He's offered to make it happen if I let him say something to his friend. So my question is, should I let him? There are two problems - 1, he ... (109 words

Has shaving given me a rash or have I caught an STD from his pre-cum?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I recently decided to shave my vagina to see how it would work, especially since my bf and I became sexually active. The first time I shaved it was all good, when I shaved it again and rash has started to form and its really itchy. My boyfriend and I did have unprotected sex a ... (94 words

How should I approach my girlfriend about changing her attitude?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello, I'm having this problem with my girlfriend of 7 months, she is really obstinate, or pigheaded any way you wanna call it. Although as pigheaded as she is, she is really good, and nice. She loves me a lot, I can really tell, even with my defects I know she does and she ... (660 words

How can I get him to trust me again after I lied to him?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - So I've been going out with my boyfriend for seven months. We'd been acquaintances for four years, but had only seriously started talking and hanging out since the middle of June. He'd been in two other serious relationships before ours and I'd never really had a serious ... (1270 words

Should I keep trying to call after the fight?

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - My GF and I (4 years, getting shaky) had a fight via Instant Messenger (don't ask) a few days ago. I called her immediately after with no response. I waited a couple of days and called her again, today--no response all night. What's the deal? Should I just wait? Should I s... (83 words

Why am I jealous of my ex being in a new relationship when I am dating someone?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - hey i have a pretty common problem. I am in a great relationship right now but have just found out that my ex is now dating someone. now i am feeling kind of jealous. what am i supposeed to do?... (40 words

His other women are making me miserable but he is denying me a divorce

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23 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Married for 33 years.My husband used to be rude sometimes, and very lovely others. 15years ago I got a phonecall telling me he has a son out of our marriage and still is this woman. I had a very rough time.Asked him for divorce. he denied. this woman used to call me every... (153 words

How can I forget him now? Seeing him again has set me back more than ever...

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23 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Recently, I have decided to try to get busy socially after over 2 years of pretty much doing nothing. My ex left me over 2 yrs ago, so I figure it's time. About 4 weeks ago, I found out what he's been doing lately, and that made me feel worse, it made the obsession stronger, so ... (395 words

Can we ever get back what we had or am I just wishing?

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23 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have this problem i have a kid with a man when i was 18 he didnt see the child again till he was 10 we slept together again now we are going to where he lives again for the first time in 7 years. to make the story short i cheated on him is why we broke up to begin with but ... (118 words

Should I give up on this guy who is so openly ready to commit to a relationship?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok this is a new one for me so any input is greatly appreciated. Met a guy online a few weeks ago, we email and chat once a day or every other day. He has my phone number but I don't have his. I do not ask or even mention anything about this but after about a week we are ... (400 words

I enjoyed our day of sex at the hotel despite both of us being in relationships, but now he has become distant. Was it just the thrill of the chase or did I not live up to his expectations?

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am soooo confused! After a lot of flirting, sexting, and finally making out, I slept with my co-worker. He pursued me for a long time, I was supposedly this dream of something he could never attain. We spent an entire day together at a hotel. I thought the sex was really ... (285 words

Looking back and wondering .......

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm curious to know what would be the best thing to do in this kind of situation. At Christmas last year, I'd been dating a guy for 4 or 5 months. We've since split up so this is just a hypothetic question. For weeks leading up to Christmas he was saying how excited he was a... (141 words

Can a formerly emotionally abusive man change for the better?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Do you believe that a formerly emotionally abusive man can change for the better? A man who, at one time, raised his hand to his woman? Or do you think a tiger will never change his stripes? ... (47 words

We have been together 2 years but she wont give up her boyfriend because she wants kids of her own

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok i have a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend. me and her have been going out for just about 2 years now and now want her all to myself. i have tried to tell her that i dont want to share her with anyone anymore but she said that she wants kids of her own so that there wi... (113 words

Do girls my age masturbate?

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23 February 2010 (F age 16-17 - Okay, I'm 13, and I've been masturbating since I was 10. I'm a girl. and I'm just so confused on how many girls my age do it. I feel kind of weird cos all my girl friends except for one claims that they dont do it.. I feel very alone. and I just want to know if other girls my ... (64 words

I'm in love with my best friend, and he has a girlfriend! What do I do?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - K so i me this guy met a year ago and i instantly liked him. We started hanging out more and more and i'm actually in love with him now. the problem is he's a complete flirt and he flirts with me and every other girl. people thought we were dating when we first starting hanging ... (162 words

What did he mean when he said he doesn't want me to be his rebound girl as it would not be fair on me?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ive recently been getting close to a guy I have known for a while. We have been flirting and I will admit that I like him a lot. He broke up with his ex before Christmas but he said that he didnt want me to be his rebound girl as it wouldnt be fair on me? What does this m... (100 words

How do I start talking to him over the internet?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - So there was this guy on my brothers hockey team (who is one year younger than me) who kept kinda flirting with me at his hockey tournament . i was seeing another guy at the time , so i didnt really flirt back much . remember im only 15 !!! so im just looking for a fun ... (242 words

How do I stop myself from getting hurt? I love her and help her with money but she does not feel the same for me...

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23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - there is this girl i really like, i help her with money. without my help she cant live. i love her a lot but she does not love me. i understand the situation. now i want to be friends with her and help her and not love her. what must i do. i have tried a lot and when this i ... (135 words

Does she want me? Or does she want to have sex with me?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey it's Rocco again, I got another question people! Well I gots the girl issues :-) I invited you to a hotel to go with me in 4 weeks and she don't deny wanting me but she is willing to share a bed with me and she doesn't deny wanting me because she always changes the subj... (100 words

Torn because of my loyalties.....

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. Unique situation. My best friend (girl) was dating this girl, and they just decided to be friends after a few months. Her stepfather and my friend have been in a relationship since August 2009. The complexities come into play because he is still involved with her ... (276 words

How do I play it cool with him and wait patiently?

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi! 4 weeks ago I left nyc and relocated to a new job in my hometown, there is a guy who works with me--- we knew each other casually through mutual friends, before this work thing. Well needless to say, since working with him I developed a major crush on this guy. He is ... (358 words

Am I being unreasonable to want sex more than just on our days off?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and living together for almost 2 months. He's 34 and works in the daytime, 9-5, and I'm 24 and work in the evening, 3-11. He picks me up from work every night but when we get home he goes straight to bed because he's "so tired". ... (126 words

Do all girls only care about themselves?

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23 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Ok i need some answers please. I have this girl that is my friend, but she only talks about herself, in 3 years that i know her, she has only asked me how i was 2 times. I mean i know women need attention, i always put attention and care for her, but men she really only talks ... (159 words

I feel so helpless, my boyfriend has had to leave to continue access with his daughter

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23 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is a difficult one. Me and my partner have recently seperated but still love each other very much. We had been together for 6 years and lived together for four. I have 2 daughters and he has one that lives with his ex. His daughter had been staying over for weekends and ... (556 words

My boyfriend has changed and he wont talk to me about it

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23 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We started off really close. He could even get up to go to the bathroom without kissing me first. He used to always cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me goodnight. and since he only works 4 days a week we'd spend the 3 days he has off ... (190 words

I have a boyfriend but want to find my old teacher to see if I still have strong feelings for him

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - wow man am i happy to find this , its funny finding that there are people who feel the same way about some teachers that i do,. in high school i thought it was wierd and sure i joked around with my friends about getting teachers but we never took it seriously. except there was ... (234 words

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now she is pregnant

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok so my boyfriend of about 7 months cheated on my with his ex. they had sex and now she's pregnant . I can honestly say he was my first love so I can't hate him . but I'm mad at him . I can't get over the fact that he cheated . I need advice on how to talk to him about wa... (77 words

How do I ease my feelings of guilt?

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - So,I did some bad things. i been dating my boyfriend for over a year now . .well for a few months i was seeing another guy.what i mean by that is that i would hang out with him. without my bf knowing. and just talk. i didnt think i was cheating because we would not mess a... (443 words

Is my younger cousin flirting with me?

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23 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - OK I need your advice i can't stop thinking about my younger female cousin because when were around each other she gives me these looks like she likes me more than a cousin should and when ever were with family she would rather stay by me than anyone else I'm mean I'm not ... (88 words

We met online and are in love but he refuses to come and meet me

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23 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well, I met this guy through a mutual friend. Well I wouldn't say met because we've never seen each other. In any case, we started talking and things became serious..we fell in love. The problem is that we've never seen each other, and every attempt to see each other fails. He ... (158 words

I accused my fiance of cheating and now she is thinking of not marrying me

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23 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - This past week I accused my fiance of cheating. I really hurt her feelings wit dat, and now she is having seconds thoughts of marrying me. What can I do to fix it?... (33 words

I need to come to terms with the fact that we lost our baby.

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23 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi everyone , need help cuase i not sure even i come to term bout something well me and my girlfriend did make love last july, then she had implant in her as we agree on but what are the chance are for her got pregnant before she had implant even now she recent ... (118 words

Is it normal that he started masturbating in front of me the second time we had sex?

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23 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - after my boyfriend and i had sex for the second time in our relationship, i got tired and came off him, and he started jerking himself off infornt of me. is this normal? or is this as____ish? or does he feel that confrontable with me that he did that?... (49 words

How do I tell my teacher I love her?

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23 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks.... (45 words

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