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anonymous
writes:Hi.I a 36 year old male. I am married. I feel that I have a problem. I abolutely adore dressing in womens clothing, but more the raunchy/kinky clothing such as pvc/rubber, boots, bright red lipstick etc. I told my partner after a very short time after we met and it didnt seem to bother her, but Ive never 'done' it in front of her. It always has to be done when she is out or when she has gone to bed. I find myself creeping round the house so as not to make any noise and then I am quite happy to sit in front of the television 'dressed'!!!I have also dressed in the morning when I have been alone and got on with the normal chores of hoovering or ceaning and I love it. I have my own selection of clothes, footwear and makeup.One day I am going to be caught red handed, and I have been very close in the past. That worries me and the last thing I want is for it to happen, but I also would like her to accept it or at least try to understand.Im not getting any younger and I constantly worry about it. Its eating away and getting me so down.What do I do? Even if I could have a female friend who would understand...that would be of so much help. I feel like Im going mad.What do I do?Thanks for any constructive comments Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): Well, this is tough indeed.
You know, you could just let go of your love of cross dressing. It might be a better solution to your problem. Don't force yourself, but just try, whenever you think about cross dressing try to turn it into something constructive, like maybe designing the type of clothes you like to wear. That way your wife can sort of get into the business with you. And you can both explore your love of this stuff. That is just an idea, but you get what I mean. Turn the bad into something good.
What you want to do is be a free man. And there are ways of doing that. You want to be accepted for your cross dressing. But maybe the better freedom is just to let it go. Think about it.
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