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He called me lazy because I wasn't enjoying having sex with him and now he hasn't contacted me! Should I take it that it is over?

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Question - (13 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to cum so i got soo tired am gave up..(i wasnt enjoying it) he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing he was trying to make me wet again so we could to it..but i wasnt not getting wet..he was not turning me on.

he took me home.. and when we were in the cab..he was all going on about how i couldn't take his dick and how i only done 10mins and he didn't cum blah blah... and calling me lazy..it was soo embarrassing..:(

and now he hasnt contacted me.. am just moving on..:)

i take it is over then??

thnx.. why did he behave like this??

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (14 February 2010):

baddogbj agony auntI think it's over and I think you are lucky that it is!

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (13 February 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntAt least for the sake of truth, you should have reason, why? What causes this thing unpleasant?

It is not big thing or long time penetration here is reason, but he has less water, means more flesh without water [semen], than how your mind read it or feel it as pleasure? However, he wanted to make himself as hero, who make love without ejaculation??? He is ignorant fool, but you should have this lesson.

I learn about one female, in this site, saying about his lover, who make her cum [make her feel orgasm] simply by touching her...and she confess that this is the special reason she afford her lover financially, because he is not earning, and busy in writing novel....that make them quarrel, but she confess that he is so pleasing that she don't want him to leave.

you body and your mind is quite honest in give you correct report, so, do not confused your self by accepting her accuse that you are lazy. Don't try to contact him, but if he ever in future, remain firm with your mind's report.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

He sounds a complete tool. Just move on and dont think about him anymore x

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (13 February 2010):

janniepeg agony auntHe is behaving like this because you are giving him blue balls. He's taking it personally that he sucks. He's either going to find some girl who likes him or read books on sex to brush up on his skills. Your body doesn't lie. You don't like him that much and he knows it. He's the one who's embarrasing himself in the cab and I guess the cab driver was laughing his ass off inside. Big dicks don't mean everything.

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A female reader, laceytopgirl United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2010):

laceytopgirl agony auntLol what a idiot. Until recently all men i had slept with were only init for themselfs, and he seems the same, If e hasnt contacted u he obvoiusly isnt too pleased witgh the performance but if e didnt turn u on,e didnt turn u on. his fault lover not urs..

i would laugh at his expence

and how cringey that e said all that infront a a taxi driver, u had a lucky escape i rekon lol x

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