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I never got over my ex but I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend!

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11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Ok.so i have a boyfriend.but me n my ex never got over eachother.i just needed space.so ive ben talkin with my ex about how we wana get back n how he loves me n im his everything.the thing is i thought he left me cuz he didnt care 4 me.but he told me a min ago he left so i culd ... (126 words

My boyfriend wants to get married but I can't get this other guy out of my head!

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11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. When we first starting dating I was working at a restaurant and met one of the waitors there who just blew me away. Ive never met anyone like him EVER! He ended up leaving and going to school in another state bu... (188 words

I want to give him a second chance but will my friend get mad at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My now bffl used to go out with this guy. Then i like the guy so, i asked him out. We went out for 5 months and he would always be there for me, so sweet, and he was the perfect guy!!! Well, so i thought. But as it turns out, he was going out with someone else at the same time. ... (151 words

How do I move things forward? He won't make the move!

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11 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - EX BF, keeps asking if im dating, atleast 10 times.. Im single he is not, he ended it nearly one year ago, doesn't seem happy in new relationship. He recently started flirting with me, contacting me, he suggests to meet up for coffee a few times, but for some reason doesn't a... (115 words

Do I trust him after his flirtiness...I'm in turmoil...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age - Hi everyone, When your partner has made you feel so insecure by having flirty/sexy and emotionally close relationships with other women which he thinks are 'just a game' and you are distraught when you find out, how do you ever trust him again?? Is it normal to then question... (157 words

Too much foreplay?

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11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - This shouldnt be hard to answer really guys sooo... Basically, when my and my girlfriend first started having sex, i was perfectly capable or lasting a long time. But all of a sudden i started coming almost instantly after penetration...i thought it was a one off but then it ... (142 words

How do I get to the bottom of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - ill make it short i was in college when a girl on my course said " i said to Ashley hey your going out with Kim aren't you? (that's me by the way and yes he is) and he just mumbled yeah a put his head down well she said she asked him what kind of answers that and she said he ... (151 words

I don't know why I don't feel like everyone else my age seems to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Ok so, I have no desire to have sex or do anything sexual at all. I’m in those years where I should be horny and thinking about sexual things but I don’t at all, I don’t even masturbate(Nor do I want to). And on the rare occasions that I do get horny; I don’t do anything. I ... (127 words

I love her and she's worked so hard to get her life together, but can I get over her past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Should I stay with my ex-girlfriend? I am 24 and she is 27. I love her and am miserable without her but her but her past bothers me. Before she was with me she had sex with at least 15 people (I've been with 7) and even had threesomes. She was with a drug dealer for a ... (291 words

I'm feeling like my marriage was based on lies...i don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have just found out through a source of my own(not him) that my now husband was in love was somebody else while he was with me. It happened years ago before we were married but I now feel that our marriage is based on lies. I don't know that i can trust him. Plesae help !!... (57 words

Who should I lose my virginity to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hi. im 13 14 on valentines day and im a virgin. i was going to lose my virginity to my ex. i loved him so much and i still do but i just wasn't working very well. i could only see him about 3 times a week so we finished last march. we were going out for a year and three ... (149 words

How do I give a really good handjob?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - how do i give really good handjobs? ive given my boyfriend a few, but he doesnt seem to enjoy them, he says he does afterwards, but it doesnt show. he wants me to give him head but i dont want to, i just want him to really enjoy it and for me to see he does.... (56 words

Why is my boyfriend starting to distance himself, when everything is going well?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - We've been dating for 9 months, so we've pretty much went through almost everything. From him losing interest, being too controlling, and me being sick of putting all the effort into our relationship because i wasn't getting anything back. Everything has been going great, but ... (310 words

What are some comfortable positions for a "quickie"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so i need a little help me and my husband have busy schedules and does anyone know any comfortable sex positions for a "quickie" as some might say he says i pick the sex position and idk what position to do it in can anyone please help me... (49 words

Is it wise to leave my 28 years old fiance for a 53 years old man?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - It's about 5 years already that I'm just attracted to older men.I can not be with young guys for too long.I find them boring,unreliable,hard to deal with... but because of my mum who is so angry at me for loving an older man that she just saw his picture and almost cried co... (306 words

Will the court take my kids away from me just for smoking pot?

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11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there...I smoke weed and have 3 kids...I don't smoke around them and they don't know that I do it. My ex-husband knows that I have always smoked weed and now that I pushed for child support, he started calling DCF on me...twice in the last 6 months in hopes that I will get ... (327 words

Ideas for Valentine's Day if you're single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - What does a single guy do for valentine's day weekend? This is a light hearted thread for actual ideas - if you want to rant about the lameness and/or commercialisation of the day, and how it's totally rubbed in your face that your single - then start another thread! :) (A... (75 words

How can I make all these feelings fade away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1611 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - well i am 16 and i have this huge crush on this boy he is in the same class with me we became friends for a littel bit but we're not that close we hung out together a lot this days i can't hold it i feel like i am going to explose with my hidden feelings he doesn't know that i ... (95 words

Is it possible to miss a period after ovulating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend haven't had sex, but i've read on the internet that you can get pregnant without having sex but it's a lot less likely. My period is late but I know I ovulated. I was also under a lot of stress just after i ovulated and I know this is a reason that I could ... (69 words

My sisters breasts are bigger than mine, will he choose her over me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hi, I am with a man, and I love him and he loves me deeply. But he is very, very sexual. He watches porn all the time and he basically has one of the highest sex drives knows to man. Well, I have this insecurity. I have really small breats and I know he wou... (162 words

Why does monogamy exist? What's the use?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Why does monogamy exist? I don't get it. A lot of people - men and women - cheat. I've not been cheated on, but I see it happen often. It's often been said humans are not monogamous by nature, and I guess it's true. I get that people need love and everything, but then why ... (101 words

How do I deal with a break up when he's dating a girl with the same name as me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi im 16 years old and dealing with a breakup. i was on and off with my ex for 2 years. He was my first love and everything. We would always get into stupid fights and go on a break that did not even last for more then a day. Three weeks ago he randomly was like we dont work im ... (211 words

I don't trust him at all and worry for my friend. What should I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - A friend of mine is dating a guy that I think I may need to talk to her about. I have had concerns about him before, because, while he is a nice guy, I've learned that he has over $30,000 in cc debt and had this much 2 years about but rolled it over into his mortgage (my friend ... (229 words

I want to lose my virginity, but told my boyfriend I already have!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1571 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - i am 14 and i want to lose my virginrty..but the thing bout it that i hve a new boyfriend and i tld him that i lost it ...so wht do i do?? n will he tell if i did not lose it when we nave sex...?... (47 words

I told myself I would move on and be happy, but what happens now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, A few years before meeting my boyfriend, I flew back to my homeland to spend some time with my family. I was then introduced to a close family friend, who was just 2 years older than I. He was really handsome and he became interested in me right away. I thought ... (952 words

Why must I wait weeks to hear from her and months to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Oh boy, I have problem. I don't even know where to start with my question so I'll just tell the whole story. I have two very important women in my life. The first is my girlfriend of five years- my love.The second is a very close female friend who we'll call "Suzie." Before I ... (707 words

This guy despises my family...what would you do in my situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (? - Female here, 54. I have a bf who is 52, never had children. He and I have been dating, for 4 years. In Sept 09 he moved to go to work, at the other end of the country. Where his own family (brothers, neices, nephews, aged father) lives. The reason he wanted to do this was: ... (747 words

Is it normal for a man not to send their loved one, a Valentine's card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Should a man you are seeing send a Valentines? Hi - well my guy has never really been Mr Romantic and he does send Xmas and birthday cards - but last year there was no Valentine and this year he said he hasn't got round to getting me a card yet (so probably won't) - so should I... (74 words

Everyone else has relationships and I feel alone! Help!

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11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hello. I'm a senior in high school and I'm 17 years old. I've been depressed lately because I don't think I'll ever be happy in a relationship. I've had two official girlfriends and many unofficial ones. I am usually excited and interested to be with girls and get to know them. ... (402 words

Is there a surgery that reconstructs a hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear its a problem of my best fried sidra plz help her. Hope you have good health with your family members and friends. I have very difficult situation in these days. I am 26 year old unmarried girl. When I was 18 or 19 years I start intercourse with my boyfriend due to not r... (178 words

Pictures of couples make me feel so alone. What to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I get jealous when I see pictures of couples (like on facebook)...I just realize I'm alone. :( I then get mad at the thought of thinking how this one girl played a bunch of games with me 5.5 years ago. I really haven't had a gf...I get angry and feel down..I could ask a ... (101 words

The ex factor - am I being jealous for no reason or should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1618 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year (but have been best friends for 5) and am very much in love and think we have the perfect relationship. We talk about being together forever, having kids etc and in 3 moths we are off travelling around the world together for a year ... (695 words

Will my army love come back for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am not really sure I want to be writing for advice. Reality is, the more people discourage me, the more strongly I feel they are wrong. I am completely aware of how unlogical everything is about to sound. Something I have had a hard time facing is why I can not make logical... (1339 words

A precaution for dating sites... don't fall for scammers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I just want to bring up a serious issue happening on dating sites like Match.com, yahoo personals, OKcupid.com. I have my profile on some of these popular dating sites that I mention and from my experience some of the people on there are scammers. I was recently deceived by one ... (437 words

Does his silence mean that he was cheating or that he was offended I asked?

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11 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I asked my 36 year old boyfriend just before Christmas if there was someone else (as he had been acting 'off' for several months). He hasn't spoken to me since. Do I take it from this that he was seeing someone else or was he offended that I asked him? I sent him several ... (345 words

How can I spice up our sex life and make things more intense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi guys! me and my boyfriend really want to spice up our sex life and try out different things, so im after some tips or past experiences that have been good! good foods to useee? or positions or foreplay that might make things more intenseee? literally anything! thankyou!... (48 words

He's married to my friend, but we're together and I'm jealous of the time they spend together.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi there, Im really not sure anyone can help me but i need advice. I have been very hurt over the last 2 years by somebody who i work with. it is a very long story but to cut it short i fell deeply for a man i had known for three years. we would meet on occasions and had a cl... (502 words

Is it possible to be too tight for penetration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - So here`s the thing. I`m with my boyfriend about 4 months now and I know it`s not such a long time, but I`m pretty sure that we met each other very well so we started in last two months talking about having sex for a first time. We are both virgins and I`m sure I want to lose ... (169 words

It gets hard, but I can't finish! Am I having prostate problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1620 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I'm 43 years old, all my adult life I've enjoyed good sex most days, and when not with a woman my hand has been perfect, and never had any problems. About a year ago, I began to notice that it was getting difficult to shoot. At first it was no great drama, I leave i... (239 words

I like this guy, but around him I sweat like crazy and can't concentrate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - So I'm 14 and there's this guy in my class that I have a crush on. I've liked him since 5th grade actually. I've never told anybody I like him because he used to be the kind of nerdy guy that didn't have any guy friends and was friends with mostly all of the girls. I wasn't one ... (231 words

Why can he be all over other girls but when I talked to a guy innocently he won't forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. I have a boyfriend. Hes a great guy and he really cares about me. He has his flaws and faults but who doesnt? I love being around him. He makes me feel loved and special. However he is very insecure and this has caused us many problems. H... (1009 words

I don't want to upset my single friend by kissing my boyfriend in front of her, but it's Valentine's Day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hey Its Valentines Day Soon and i don`t know what to do. i love my boyfriend fraser more than anything and me and him and all our friends are going to the cinema together. most of us going is full of couples e.g me and fraser, jasmine and hugo, edwin and amber, sadey and... (134 words

Should I count the condoms and see if he used any?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm not one to constantly seek being in a relationship and my past (and only) three relationships have resulted in heart ache purely for me. That being said I have an air of being promiscuous (a misconception) due to my large amount of gentleman friends and courters. I j... (290 words

I'm worried his ex is his ideal woman that got away! Is he settling for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm dating a military guy, He's in the Navy and this is the first time I've ever been involved in a military relationship. Next month will be our one year! We're living together, but of course he's not home right now, he's out to sea. Back in 2006 he was involved with a girl. ... (320 words

What could be the reason for these heat rashes?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi! I'm 18 years old and for several years now I've been having heat rashes. Sometimes I just get so hot I wanna go swimming in ice and the next moment I'm cold again. What could be the reason for these?... (41 words

He says he loves me but only wants to hang out when he's drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - ive been texting this boy for 2 months and we seem to get on well.. however hes on the fat side and people keep telling us that im totally out of his leauge at first i didnt really see it but ive been having a lot more attention of boys and am kind of drawn to telling this boy... (160 words

Do you think she will take me back after she gets her space?

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11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - My ex left me after i got mad at her and accused her of cheating she told me that she couldnt date a person she doesnt trust and that doesnt trust her but said she wanted space i didnt give it to her until a few weeks later and now i feel like its too late. i saw after the ... (201 words

I want to show my Ex that I still care for her and I still want her back, but she's just been ignoring me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I want to show my Ex that I still care for her and I still want her back, but she's just been ignoring me. We broke up almost a month ago (It would be one month on feb 14th). She tried the old "lets be friends" but I told her that I couldnt do that and had to just take a brea... (476 words

I want to finish things with him but feel like I'll be kicking someone when they're down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hello all, I probably already know the answer to this question but I wanted to bounce it off everyone. I'm divorced and an older woman, so I should know better. My boyfriend is no kid either. He is divorced and his ex-wife constantly keeps his 9 year old from seeing him. He has ... (314 words

Now everyone thinks I'm gay and I'm not! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 16-17 - Hi i am blair and i am a 13 year old male. For some reason i had a fanasty of being attracted to a specific player on my hockey team. I dont know why i was attracted to him and i couldnt get the stupid thoughts out of my head. I kept on staring at him but i dont know why i was. ... (82 words

Hi libido verses low libido... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now.. almost 2 years. Lately he's been very stressed with work and other things.. we manage to have sex maybe 3 times a week, but i initiate this every time. He says he never pleasures himself because he doesn't get the urge. I'... (241 words

Tough Decision! My boyfriend or my new love???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have a big dilemma which is ruining my life right now.. I have been in a relationship for four years with my boyfriend that I really love. However we got in a big fight and I moved out. It's been two months since I have been living on my own. Now he's begging me to come ... (175 words

What can I say to my mother to give him a chance despite our age differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'll be 16 in 2 months and the guy im talking to, steve, turned 19 yesterday. im a sophomore and he graduated last year. hes soooo sweet and just everything i could ever want in a boyfriend. the thing is, im scared to tell my parents. especially my mother. my last boyfriend was ... (251 words

My best friend is getting married to my ex-girlfriend! How do I get over this?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

11 February 2010 (? age 26-29 - My best friend and girlfriend left me? I cheated on her several times. And thought she would never find out but after a while my bf and her started talking and they got very close he realized what a asshole I have been to her he fell in love with her and confessed to her that... (132 words

I cant cope with my husband's penchant for porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice! My marriage is, for the most part, amazing! I am crazy in love with my husband, and he feels the same way for me. There is one thing I cannot seem to get over. He has a penchant for porn. When I don't think about him looking at it, it feels silly to h... (376 words

How do I relax & just let him please me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey, am dating this guy..hes really sweet, Amazing, good looking.. and i love make love with him.. he loves pleasing me..always asking what i like etc: hes soo great:) ok the thing he says he wants to go down me..but i feel nervous cos no guys is ever done that..i dont l... (96 words

My friends and I created a fake Myspace and now I have fallen in love with the guy we were pranking!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1618 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I feel sorry because one day my friends and I was playing truth or dare. So, I picked Dare they dared me to make a fake myspace and to post a fake pic. Three days later a lot of people was adding this fake myspace. But there was this one guy that caught my eyes. It was Internet ... (362 words

He keeps putting a lot of pressure on me, should I date him again or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Ok so im a 14 year old girl. this kid i went out with before is 16. he keeps trying to go out with me again. he used to text me to try and get me to send him a pic of me naked and would get mad when i refused. he would tell me im weird and no one likes me cuz im immature. i ... (98 words

I feel like I am cursed being the ugly one in class

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hi i am a girl who is 16years old. i am not so goodlooking as others are in my college. i feel disgusted and it irritates a lot when i see goodlooking people around me. girls tease boys with my name. it feels so embarrassing that they use name to tease guys so that they feel ... (119 words

Is it too late to give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I got mad at my girlfriend and she broke up with me after a year of dating she said she didnt think i trusted her and told me she couldnt take me back so soon and that she needed space. she let me see her after a week and said she still loved me and we spent the night together ... (136 words

Have I got my boyfriend enough for Valentines day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - For valentines day I got my boyfriend a necklace and card. I was wondering if that would be enough?... (19 words

Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 1618 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be hurting my bf?should i talk ... (67 words

I've got no money to buy my girlfriend a Valentines present!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Valentine is three days away and i have no money at all to buy anything for my girlfriend,this is our first valentine together and my first ever. What should i do?... (31 words

Can I kiss him after I blow him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I'm planning on giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Can I kiss him immediately after or do I need to wash out my mouth first?... (24 words

How do you work out your pec muscles and get rid of belly fat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - hey! i know this is non related to love or anything but how do u work out your pec muscles? i am male soo and i have like lower bellyfat and i hate it, and i do run about 2miles every week, and i havent seen a change in those areas so help plzz thankss ... (59 words

Should I date her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Ok so I dated this girl during hoemcoming and I left a stupid text on my phone saying I was going to hug this girl friend thats just a friend and she ditched me for her ex right in front of everyone and she tore up a 20$ corsage that I did hours or chores for her to have ... (185 words

Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost immediately after starting, and ... (401 words

Waiting to be struck by Cupid for Valentines Day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - How long after you date a guy for him to know that he is ready to be in a committed relationship or dating u exclusively? What does it mean if he say, "You may not know it. But, you may already like me. We seem to click and should be in a relationship. But, I don't want to ... (160 words

How can I get past my fears of being in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am a 27 year old woman, virgin, and has never been in a relationship. My longest relationship was for 2 months. Every time I meet someone, I freak out and end the relationship. I hate this about myself. This is the one thing I am missing in my life, and I trul... (271 words

What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness? Getting literally or figuratively beat out of it, or being treated with a gentler kind of love?... (26 words

I told her I didnt want to be with her anymore and now she is claiming to be pregnant and having miscarriages, is she faking and should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - so i had sex without a condom (dumb idea i know) anyways i never really was worried about her being pregnant but we had gotten in a fight the next day and she brought up the fact she was nervous about it. It was on my mind for about a week and we talked about it from time to ... (262 words

Is it wrong to kiss your best friend while your on a break with your boyfriend?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, my boyfriend and i got into a really big fight and decided to take a break. So, about after a week into our break i called my best guy friend over to make me feel better. We kissed. It was unexpected and neither of us planned it. We both agreed it didn't mean anything it ... (91 words

I love my boyfriend, yet I miss the way this "fling" guy used to hold me and kiss me!

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Alright, I am a college gal (junior). I started dating this guy in high school, then we went to two separate colleges in different states. We continued a serious long distance relationship, visiting each other every few weekends and such... seemed like it might work out for the ... (335 words

I feel it is not fair that my wife wont give me anal sex when my ex-partners enjoyed it so much!

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11 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - do girls like anal sex, Ive been after my wife for 7 years and she just won't give it too me. I feel like thats not fair, Ive had other relationships where my partner enjoyed it sooooooooo much. how do i get my wife to try something new, we've talked about it and thats only ... (77 words

I still can't get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Here's the situation. The guy i've liked for months knew I liked him, and told me he liked me back. (This was a few months ago) But like eventually, he told me he had family problems and problems with his friends and didn't have time for a relationship. (A few weeks ago) ... (148 words

I don't want to be written off as a failure in life...

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11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - When I was younger and still learning how to socialize, I made many mistakes and the group of friends I had at that time gradually wrote me off as a failure at life. I recouped later in life. It took some time to get over the losses and mistakes I'd made, but eventually I made ... (278 words

How do I ask a 12th grader out on a date?

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11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - hey how do i get a date with a 12 grader girl i am 14 and there are hot 12 graders that i want to go out with? well what i want to know is how to ask a 12 grader out on a date? ... (49 words

Does he behave this way because he is jealous or because he loves me?

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11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - since my boyfriend doesn't like when i smile at people ,who smile at me do you think he is jealous or because he loves me?... (25 words

How can I get my best friend to believe me? She is dating my ex and he is only going to end up hurting her!

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11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been broken up for about three months now. He broke up with me so I still have feelings for him. My best friend likes him and they went out before we were friends. He broke my heart and hers many,many times and I don't want to see her get ... (142 words

How do I ask my partner to leave without having any detrimental repercussions to my property assets?

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11 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid Readers… Here’s my question. My de-facto relationship status of 2yrs and 7mths is at a dismal end and I'd like to know how to ask my partner (D) to leave without causing or having any detrimental repercussions to my property assets? For the last few months I... (301 words

I'm starting to think there might be something wrong with me, could my psychiatrist be right about me?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have never been in a relationship.I am starting to think their is something wrong with me, i finally get the one guy i want and i run after 2 months. I never let it get serious and only kissed him once. Shortly after he and my best friend started talking. I let it go and did ... (139 words

We used to be good friends but now that we are dating we fight all the time ....

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for close to 6 months now, and before that we were very good friends for quite some time. Now that we're dating all we ever seem to do is argue, and although I do truly care about him, I know this is not the person I want. We want ve... (95 words

Does kissing a guy make me a whore?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend, we`ve been together for about 20 months now and + he is the best and most sweetest guy I have ever know. The problem though, is not him, it`s me. I have very strong feelings for this other guy. This other guy has a girlfriend also. I don't know if he likes ... (244 words

How often do men become platonic friends with their ex girlfriends?

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11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - How common is it for guys to want to be long term friends with their ex girlfriends? does this happen with alot of people, or do i mostly date guys who want to be platonic bff (best friends forever) after a breakup? not a complaint really, just a question.... (49 words

I admitted my past to him, now he wants to date other girls as well as me

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11 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - bout six years ago, I had a really, really close male friend who I was head over heels for. We were friends with benefits for a while. I thought - as a typical, inexperienced 15 year old girl - that this would make him fall for me. It didn't, although he was always really ... (644 words

My boyfriend has suggested a threesome, I'm worried I might feel jealous if we do

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 20 years old and have been in an a serious monagomous relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now..sex is great, we don't fight, and we love eachother...Recently he brought up bringing someone else into the bedroom or maybe even having an orgy. We're pretty straight ... (210 words

I asked a girl to my prom, she accepted, now I am worrying about it all

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11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Okay so I'm in 11th grade and like a girl in 9th. So I ask her to go to the prom. She says yes with extreme happiness. So for a few days I think she must like me. But now it finally dawned on me that probably the only reason she said yes was because most freshman don't get to ... (165 words

I am 13 and I am conteplating giving my boyfriend my virginity for valentines day

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11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - ok. so me and my bf have been together for like EVER. we've been together so long that i lost count of the months. befor i lost count it was like 18 months. anyway i love him so much and i want to please him for v-day(if u know wat i mean) but im only 13. hes the sweetest most ... (128 words

He now is seeing another girl, and I want to get him back!

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11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy over 1 year. We are not exactly in a relationship but I believe he was interested in me when we met first time in person. We met online.. He lives in the other state, so usually we talk on the phone. We talk like at least 3 days a week and ... (461 words

I feel like I am a push over for him

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I feel like I sold out. Basically, around 2 years ago I started a new job in an office working for an insurance company. It's a great job with great pay, and great people, I'm really happy there. One workmate i bonded with in particular was a guy called Richard. I woul... (559 words

I've never been kissed and worry that I'll be bad at it

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11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - So this guy and I have been talking for a few months now, and hung out twice. We both like each other, but are not dating yet. The thing is I am 17 years old, and have NEVER been kissed!!! I kissed boys when I was like 5, but Ive never been truly kissed. I dont know if I ... (101 words

How do I control my nerves???

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11 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Well here goes. iv always been self-conscious. and worried about what people are thinking and saying about me. i dont know how i feel about myself anymore. and i really like this boy and he likes me. i really want to meet him, we both do but im really scared i dont know how to ... (84 words

Is he interested in me or just being nice?

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11 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been going to a counselor for the past 2 years and can't ask him because he is the one I need advice about. About 2 months ago I developed an interest in him and there are some things he does that makes me wonder if he is interested also. He always makes eye contact to ... (170 words

He gives me higher grades than the others and that makes me feel good...

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11 February 2010 (? age 18-21 - Alright. So the question isn't does he like me, I already know that one of my teachers this year does. I have no interest in him for the record. He's a middle aged man, around 45-50 would be my guess and he's married with I thhink 3 daughters. He's my favorite teacher ever and ... (213 words

Depression and love

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11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay I admit it. I am at a stage in my life where I am the typical Nice Guy. The one we hate to love. I'm the nice guy because my situation in life makes me insecure, lonely and very needy for attention and affection. Because of this when any girl comes around I accept it and ... (342 words

Should I explore life and leave my current boyfriend?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, i have a BF and we've been together for a year and a half. He is about 8 years older that i am, im 21. Do the math. Our relationship is good and strong. The only thing that is kinda bad is our sex life. There isn't 1.. 1 night a friend of mines went to a bar to relax after ... (197 words

My ex is dating a supposed friend of mines! How do I deal with this?

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11 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently just got a divorce, have 3 children, and just found out that my ex is dating a supposed friend of mine. How do I deal with this? Just a few weeks ago we were in a relationship again, and with no notice he's sleeping with her!! I feel like I'm losing my mind!!!... (55 words

He dumped me for being too prude!

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11 February 2010 (F age - so my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me for being too prude... he is now all flirty with his ex gf whos a whore...i feel broken so hurt. i feel like apart of me has died. i have delet with break ups before but not one like this. i loved him with all of my heart. he was my ... (146 words

A Valentine's Poem!

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11 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Is this valentine's day poem good enough for her? she's pretty romantic so I'm hoping she'll like it You’re more beautiful than a starry night The sight of your smile clears away all my fright You’re far smarter than the average bear You put forth the effort that could ge... (263 words

She was back in town and I didn't even know... why is she so distant now?

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11 February 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been seeing this woman for almost a year and a half. Last May she went back home to New Brunswick to be with her sick mom. We were having the long distance relationship thing and it was ok. I recently discovered she was back here when she said she was still back home. ... (96 words

What do you guys think... Should I tell him I love him?

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was dating this guy a couple years ago and during the summer he kissed me. The next day he told me that he regretted kissing me. After that summer he stopped talking to me. The next year my mom invited him to my graduation party. When we were alone he told me that he was ... (109 words

Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!

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11 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite a door mat, she mad a mug ou... (1451 words

Boyfriend's behaviour might be giving me second thoughts...

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11 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i've been with my boyfriend for three years now and i thought i loved him with all my heart. In my eyes he could do no wrong, hes gorgeous funny trustworthy and my best friend in the world. The only problem in the relationship was that he can't handle his drink. When he's been ... (234 words

Sex with next door neighbour .

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11 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I came home just over two weeks ago and was working on my computer when my neighbours "beach ball" came over the fence, next when I hear a knock at the door and she was standing there in just a small bikini, and was Rather drunk, she came we had a couple more wines together ... (166 words

We shared great moments, but was I looking for too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1624 days ago

11 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I met a girl a few short months ago, and I was drawn to her immediately. She came to the country on her own far from family and friends, and although she was sociable and cheerful I can sense she was someone who was lonely in a crowd. I was unable to find an opportunity to ... (1114 words

How do I crush these desires before someone gets hurt?

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11 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello, Basically I have a pretty big problem that has been on going for nearly 5 years now. It concerns my ex. I won't go in to detail but basically I went out with this girl on and off for about 4 years, the relationship was always shaky, partly because I was very depressed at ... (524 words

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