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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hair can't be ignored, need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I posted this question about 2 years ago and people told me to ignore "it" n it'll go away. well, it didn't. I'm almost 15 and this is really embarrassing, but i have hair like everywhere on my body-not just like legs n my armpits but like on my back and my stomach. i can't do ... (135 words)

Worried about him using my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I went on here for my own problem once and have never been happier and all my problems were solved. Since then...Iv even become a little agony aunt for my group of girls..but one im really worried about. Ill tell her story, no real names used or whatever but I'v... (563 words)

Phobia taking over and boyfriend does not understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure if this is even the right place to post this, I just need an answer or some help, and quick! First off, I'm 19, and I suffer from a phobia of vomit. In relation to this, I suffer from a phobia of basically anywhere I have vomited in the past and situati... (288 words)

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks... (43 words)

Virginty not fully taken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a partner she was married for 9 years and she lost her virginity to her husband. They have a child but she gave birth through ceserian. She is now divorced. We have perfect sex with her and we love each other so much. During our sex, I went too deep that there wa... (117 words)

Dating, abortion, cheating, now a break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there...i am hoping you can shed some light on my current situation...i know i made a complete mess of everything...pls know that i am deeply hurt for my selfish/coward choices...and don't need anyone judging me...i need serious advice. So...i dated this guy for three an... (807 words)

Was what I went through admiration for a teacher, or just a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a pretty popular teacher). ... (1053 words)

He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he loves me. Even though he's supp... (453 words)

Am I fling or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So there's a guy who I'm talking to right now. We've talked a lot for the past three weeks. Some days we talk/im/webcam three hours, others we talk maybe one hour, then other days, we're texting nonstop. His girlfriend of a year and half just died a few months back. She cheated ... (427 words)

Before you all roll your eyes, I love my teacher like a father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - You all are probably so bored of hearing this topic! I am in love with my teacher! But before you Scream out in anger, its not in the way you think. A teacher at my school who has been here for about a year and a half maybe two years, taught me maths last year. Since then he... (306 words)

Body image questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 years old girly girl (im puerto rican and chinese) and i weight 100 pounds i have a six pack lately some people been saying that sexy and some say that is a turn off because im a total girly girl and they wound expect a girly girl that wears heels,goes to the salon and ... (95 words)

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to make it plain and simple i get ... (229 words)

How do we deal with an unlabelled relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Although we aren't "dating", my friend and I are definitely exclusive. We trust each other and care about each other. We never established a label on the relationship, so calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend all of a sudden is a bit strange to get used to. How would ... (59 words)

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th time, he and my ex despised each ... (193 words)

Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on her part. she knows this and ... (436 words)

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(... (56 words)

I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve been together since we were 17... (599 words)

It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be stronger, and said to myself i ... (193 words)

How can I find out if he is still interested without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and he asked me out a week after we met. We got really close very quickly after we met but then he had some family and health problems going on so he was distracted so we didn't really get to see each other, which was understandable. ... (215 words)

To top off a very bad day I think my relationship is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've not had a good day. Yesterday I went for an interview to apply for a 3rd year at university. My day started a 7am, from there I had to pick up all my friends who had an interview that day, take my girlfriend home, catch a boat in time for check in, get to the i... (356 words)

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other hand he tells you that you ... (93 words)

On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I don't know what this is caused ... (844 words)

If he cheats and lies about it does he really love you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a husband who cheats,lies,watch porno and never admits cheating really loves his wife?... (14 words)

Does anyone else feel overwhelmed by a series of misfortunes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) age - I feel cursed! Everything falling apart in my life!. There is no explanation why. And why everything.I,m totally normal,but I can't see any other explanation, how everything can go bad at the same time totally unrelated ways.. Within 5 years -death -car accident -losin... (104 words)

How can I make my mother understand she's being unfair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this isn't really a relationship question, but here goes: I'm 14, nearly 15. I have a little sister, who's 10, nearly 11. My little sister is, essentially, I spoiled brat. She gets WHATEVER she wants, and gets away with EVERYTHING. I LOVE to sing, it's one of the on... (300 words)

Should I protect other women from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way you been treated by men. Long ... (123 words)

Can you move from the 'friends ladder' back to the 'good ladder' if its an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright, I just saw the question asked by another member, and I want to take it one step further, and then maybe even a step further then that, Someone on here told me about the Ladder Theory, which I think is brilliant, my question, lets say you've recently broke up with a Ex, ... (158 words)

Am I falling for another loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys, I'm hoping for some insights. I've been dating a guy since around the middle of February. He broke up with his long term ex about a year ago but they spoke every day on the phone. He is still angry with her which suggests to me he still loves her and is not ... (586 words)

How reliable is a drunken proclamation of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are people more honest when they're drunk, or do they say things they don't mean? Last night around midnight, one of my old mates, who used to fancy me, called me while he was drunk. He told me that he really wanted to talk to me, and that he missed talking to me, and that ... (90 words)

My Girlfriend cheated but I can stop loving her should I try to get back with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Guys Ive never asked for relationship advice on the internet before so here goes ;) I had been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year when she cheated on me with one of her house mates.. I wouldnt have ever called the guy a friend but I knew if well enough... (505 words)

I'm gay. Should I tell this boy how I feel about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and gay and so in love with this boy.but he says hes strait but in class he be looking at me and sometimes smiles.but he allways talking bout how he goes out with his girl.but when he fround out i was gay he acked different.sould i tell him how i feel... (53 words)

We broke up, then got back together after he cheated, but I don't feel the same about him.

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. i used too LOVE him with all my heart, at the very beginning of our relationship i cheated on him multiple times , But i never told him, then 4 months later, we started having problems, i didn't treat him right, and ... (244 words)

He tried to force himself on me. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. he was really nice, opened doors for me, said sweet things, and seemed real cool. He seemed patient, didn't mind spending time with my family, and was real smart. he was older than me and seemed so mature, he never cursed or ... (323 words)

My friend confessed to flirting with my crush but she assures me she's over him. True?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So, my friend (we can call her suzie not her name though) was over at my house yesterday and we were telling each other secrets. She told me one that was about my crush (we can call him John) she told me that when she went to the same soccer camp she flirted with... (100 words)

I don't know if he is playing mind games or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - basically i met this guy in july.hers a description i found which basically sums him up because writing the whole story would be tooo long The first few weeks or month is sheer bliss. This guy starts off real aggressive, hot and heavy. He can't see you often enough, calls al... (578 words)

He says a lot of girls hit on him. Should I be worried?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, this guy I love, and he loves me, aren't seeing each other yet, but we act like we are. Anyways, he works at an airport thing, so he see's a lot of younger girls,and by that I mean my age 14. He's 19. But at times he will tell me that these 14 year olds just hit on him and ... (128 words)

I keep looking at other women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people ive got a problem, i currently have a girlfriend but every time im with her, i subconsciously look at other women's behinds or breasts?! i know its a bad thing but i dont do it on purpose! weve been together for about months now and she means alot to me.. how ... (103 words)

He's in an off-on relationship with another girl but I think he fancies me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I have liked this boy for a while and even before he started with this girl. They are on and off. I know he likes me and i like him. He always smiles at me and plays around with me and loves to make me laugh all the time. I feel like we have a connection when are ... (139 words)

He wants me to wait for him while he 'finishes things' with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologise in advance that this is so long! So me and my ex split up 6 months ago. We had been together a year and a bit, and saw each other loads. Towards the end he became distant and I knew there was something up. He confessed he had feeling for another girl and felt rea... (335 words)

My older friends are pregnant and it makes me want to have a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and i have older friends that is like 17, 18, and 19 and they are all pregnant and that makes me kinda want to have a baby because it seems like there life is good with the baby and the father. is that good for me to feel this way? should i have one? im so confused. ... (59 words)

When does a first kiss happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't kissed someone ever and was just wondering if when it does happen. Do you know how to do it? Were you nervous as well your first time?... (29 words)

I am gay, and eveytime my male friend kisses his girlfriend I die a little inside

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok let me introduce my self my name is kevin i am 16 i am a boy and i am gay but no body knows that i fell for this guy damn it he's so hot we're in the same class we're best friends and just my luck he got a girl friend recently and whenever we go out for a journey or a pecnic ... (272 words)

Help me with ideas for a sign for my class graduation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i graduate in 2012 i class really want to make a hand sign that say 2012 any ideas ?? The thing is we have to use 1 or both hands . it cant be something that we have to sign out like sign language i just need a hand logo. but im open to anything.. im not creative at all b... (84 words)

My ex is threatening me with "truth" tablets, do they exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone Im still in contact with my ex. The thing is my brother done something not horrible to him and my ex thinks im involved in some sor of way The other day he said something o me over the phone about hes ordered somehing on line to see if im telling th... (142 words)

I like my brother's friend so my brother stopped me seeing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i like my brothers friend and he likes me he told my brother and now my brother dosent let me see him and im 16 and hes 18 and if my dad found out he would be pritty mad and i cant stop thinking about him i dont know what to do any help??... (57 words)

My friend is pregnant again, and I don't want to have to help financially again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm probably going to get alot of backlash with what i'm about to write so I want you to read this post properly. I have been mates with this girl for about 10 years. In that time she has has 2 children that were accidents 1 of which I'm godmother to. I have always tri... (294 words)

I want to move out of the friend zone and into being boyfriend material

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey every one, ive got two quite big problems that have been bothering me for a while.. i go to a college in london right.. im 18, and (not being big headed) im a good looking guy.. well lots of girls like me.. im REALLY friendly.. sometimes TOO friendly, im quite a fli... (199 words)

My boyfriend is studying too hard, how can I get him to talk dirty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i m in a comitted relationship.well my bf is a bit frustated because his parents constantly scold him.the reason is bad performance in acaedemics.stdying hard,as well as devoting a bit time to me.but i am bit sad because he has lost interst in sexual things and doesn't do dirty ... (95 words)

I am starting to think is it my fault by boyfriend becomes abusive when drunk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are both 24. the thing is he is quite horrible to me when he's drunk. I don't really like to drink, but he'll have a drink of vodka in the house every weekend. I don't know what it is but we really don't get on when he's drunk. He gets quite angry and ... (306 words)

I can't decide which career path to take

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I can't decide whether to train an a midwife or a secondary school teacher, and this indecision is making my current relationship unbearable! My partner has supported me financially for the last 2 years (as I will for him if he chooses to undertake further study), ... (186 words)

Our friend is depressed because she can't pass her drivers licence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Morning, I desperatly need some advice. My friend who is 28 is trying to get her drivers licence, she has failed a few timesand after each test she is becoming more withdrawn. She hardly comes out with us anymore-infact my birthday is coming up and I've organised a nite outb... (170 words)

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after sex she had abdominal pain, ... (98 words)

My mother says I am sending the wrong message by giving a gift

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, my mom said it means u like a guy when you give him a birthday present and he's not your boy-friend?? is that true? im 15 he's turning 17 and she wont let me give my guy friend a birthday present. i dont think it is true neither do other people ive asked. i think my mom is ... (66 words)

I don't want to be romantic with a boy who likes me, I just want to get dirty with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this boy likes me but I think I just like him because I want someone to make out with and have fun with. I've known this boy since middle school and he liked me in middle school too but I NEVER even thought of liking him. Now we're in high school and we've been start... (181 words)

How can I make my boyfriend realize my worth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been in a long distance relationship for seven months now.my boyfriend and me both love each other a lot.of late, he has started taking less interest in me, he even lied to me once but i forgave him.we even broke up once but patched up within two days.his behavior is very ... (117 words)

Did she use me just to get pregnant? How do I stop the fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi me and my girl friend have been trying to have a kid her more than me and i almost feel like now that she is pregnant she got what she wants and is always taking me for granted i always been cooking and trying to make her feel good even when she thinks she looks good i tell ... (162 words)

My adult daughter's boyfriend "gropes" her in front of me... How can I deal with this?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age - I recently welcomed a young adult daughter back home after she started self harming because her same age boyfriend was disregarding her sexual wishes. He wanted to do some things she did not and forced these things on her. She is still his girlfriend and they have a lot to do... (116 words)

Why is he sexually abusing me? We're married, but he demands sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age - My husband of many years has always acted as if I am here for his sex needs. He has also said he married me for sex. He expects I will give him sex. Not that he doesn't tell me other things to do. The best he has improved on is to tell me hours before that he wants sex that n... (425 words)

Is it normal for an erection to be this sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question... I've noticed that when I'm fully erect, my penis is nearly impossible to bend downwards without it becoming very sore. I understand this is meant to be natural, but I feel as though mine is overly stiff. As reference, in most porn, the guy's penis can be ... (109 words)

I'm tired of crying over him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - at nights is the hardest n im tired of cryin. there is this guy im in love with. he liked mi first but when he liked me i didnt return the feelings then when i liked him i jus didnt wanna date him. but we admitted to liking each other. ive seen him go on dates with other girls ... (195 words)

Should I pursue her even though she cheated with others in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some serious advice from someone who can relate or can put themselves in my frame of mind. Quick outline of the plot to my story. My best friend is a girl. I have loved her for a long time. She has always known this. We met online 3 years ago and have seen a lot of ... (405 words)

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so recently i started dating a girl i really like. we talk to eachother a lot and i really like talking to her. so then the power goes out and when the power goes out at my house, it goes out for a while. i literally can't go a second without thinking about my gf. is this ... (83 words)

Three years on and he is giving me mixed signals ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. About 6 months into dating he told me he was moving to NY. I was devestated but told him I would rather have him leave than to stay and resent me. He told me that I was more than enough reason to stay. So ... (298 words)

The boy I have a major crush on said "maybe" to another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear _____ Ok, so i have this major crush on this guy in my class (You know how it is) anyway, everyone says he likes me, i even heard his sister say that he likes me. We are really close friends and we alwats mess with eachother. But i'm afraid to make the first move becau... (105 words)

After six months overseas my boyfriend is coming home

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now and he's coming back home the second week of March after a six-month tour in England. He joined the military nine months ago, so I've never had that "long anticipation for my true love to come back home" kinda thing... ... (121 words)

I do have feelings for her but the situation is too complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a lady friend that I have been cool with for awhile now. We had sex about about a month ago. At the same time I had a female that I was talking to nothing serious at all. Before this happened my lady friend was trying to work things out with her ex. She told me ... (410 words)

I told my friend, who told a boy who told the teacher I had a crush on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on my science teacher for a while now, and one of my friends knows. A few days ago, she actually had the nerve to go tell one of the guys in my class!! And if you don't think that's bad enough, that guy went and told my teacher. I was pissed at my friend bef... (128 words)

We were getting on great until I told him I have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by looking, like a love at first ... (618 words)

I need help getting healthy for summer

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been average size but lately I'm gaining more weight than what I would like to. I'm about 30lbs. Over my ideal weight.. Its february now but by summer I would like to lose 30lbs so I can have energy, be active, and look healthy for this summer.. Are there any tips ... (84 words)

How can I let my guy friend know I like him?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm friends with this guy and I'm starting to like him.. He's nice and has a great sense of humor, he has respect for women and he's just a wonderful trustworthy guy. I know he would never do anything to hurt me and I just want to be with him.. I've known him for ... (155 words)

I don't know how to act when I am romatically interested in people

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm currently having issues with relationships because I become romantically interested in people, but I don't know how to react physically. I don't crave sex or intimacy though i think it's nice. The problem is that I'm not used to it, so it doesn't come instinctively to ... (87 words)

I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!

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27 February 2010 (M)

age - How do I go about asking a friend if he has nude pictures of my wife? I have reason to believe he does, as he alluded to it once years ago. They would have been made years ago when she was younger by an old boyfriend {not the guy with the pictures). She doesn't know about them ... (230 words)

I'm pregnant and worried my lack of sex drive will force hubbie to see it elsewhere

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 36 weeks pregnan and sex has become a bit painful and uncomfortable for me and i no longer enjoy it. My husband realizes this and hasmade it a point to refrain from kissing and touching too much so that he doesn't crave sex altthough we still have sex they are all quickies ... (200 words)

Where do I go to find a wingman?

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27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am 20 and would like to ask you your advice on something if that is ok? I am a bit worried about getting a girlfriend because i have never had one before and pretty worried i won’t get one if i do not take action. I don’t really know how to go about doing it. I am at ... (247 words)

There is no joy in my life

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27 February 2010 (F) age - I feel my family life is driving me crazy. I have such a dysfunction in my family,that is almost hard to believe it. My husband works all the time and my grown kids are in trouble all the time. We have no intimacy, fun or joy in our life. My councilor says, I tried everything ... (173 words)

It's been two months I called and told him I was breaking up with him. How come he hasn't called me?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do now that my boyfriend of almost 7 years is not picking up my phone calls/returning them after I told him I called to break up 2 months ago. After I mentioned breaking up and hesitated, he took it literally and didn't call me back the next day. It's been about 2 ... (165 words)

My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do? We both love each other... (230 words)

I've watched her cry after bad relationships, I've told her how much I love her and yet she still wont give me a chance

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27 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been asking out the same girl for the past 4 years and she has turned me down every single time I have watched her cry coming out of the relationships she's been through and i'm afraid that she's going to be hurt by the wrong guy I ain't saying i'm the right guy for her ... (139 words)

I think he is telling lies and is with another woman

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27 February 2010 (F)

- OK it's this guy I Been seeing for like two months but knew him for about 3 years we live in the same building the time was never right for us to hook up until like 2 months ago he is 40 and I am 28 we spend ever night together and he haven't ask me out yet or talk about us ... (194 words)

My ex is getting into deep waters, should I talk to him or his family?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. I've been trying to call him a few times and left messages but he hasn't returned or picked up the phone when I called. He's a smart man and I've known him for more than 6 years now. He's very business minded, always t... (375 words)

We are meant to keep things casual but I am having feelings for him

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i've been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months and in the beginning we agreed to keep things casual but in the past couple of months i've started to have feelings for him but i haven't told him this. He has said that what we have is just a fling and i didn't say i disagreed ... (106 words)

Different Race or Religion, what would your family do?

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his family doesn't know about me yet. We live in different states, but we lived together for about a year though. He's 18, so he's legal. We are still soo in love. He wants to tell them about me, but hes scared that they will ... (142 words)

Why do cheaters get mad when they're caught?

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27 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do cheaters always continue to lie, even when they've been caught? Why do they become angry when they are found out? What moral foundation is there for this behavior (why do they think the way they do, and why do they think cheating is okay)?... (46 words)

Sex before marriage Part II

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27 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently asked a question about being intimate with my boyfriend, but keeping my virginity at the same time (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-keep-my-virginity-until-i.html)and got a lot of really insightful responses. (Thanks 2 all who took time to answer) Anyway, ... (162 words)