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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Married and hopelessly lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??... (29 words)

Best friend becomes boyfriend of the girl I like, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, so I have a problem with two friends of mine. Currently I have just started my second semester in college and everything is going fine. While in college I have spent most of my time with these two other friends, one girl and one guy. We are basically a like an ... (474 words)

Rejected by mother and father, fearing rejection as an adult. Falling for guys who give attention.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together for almost 12 years and have a son together. Its the 4th time now where she has developed feelings she thinks are love, with a guy she has gotten to know, who has charmed her, treated her well and shown her attention. She has then become confused as to ... (362 words)

I'm considering getting my cartilage pierced and was wondering how it's done

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This has nothing whatsoever to do with relationships but I'm hoping someone can help anyway. I'm considering getting my cartilage pierced and was wondering how it's done, i.e. do they numb the ear first, use a needle or gun? And also with me being a female, am I supposed to get ... (86 words)

Is Three A Crowd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when he returned, he returned with ... (398 words)

Feeling self-conscious when I'm on top during sex?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to ask other girls out there for their opinion on feeling self-conscious when you are on top during sex? I don't know why I feel that way. I'm not a heavy girl, however I do have an issue with my stomach because I have a curved spine so my back arches inwards quite a ... (252 words)

I want the one I cant have...

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17, and i won't let a guy i can get even get close to me. though guys i can't get, (for example someone who is taken) i really want.in fact, i really like, and sometimes think im in love with him when i am with him. is there something wrong with me and what can i do to ... (62 words)

How do you really know when you love someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I may love someone but I don't really know, how do you really know when you love someone?... (20 words)

How do you get over cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get over cheating????? Is emotional or physical worse from a woman's point of view? Is a man's point of view different? Thank you x ... (36 words)

I'm 14, and I think I'm rubbish in bed

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK well I have a great fantastic boyfriend but I don't feel like I really show my love for him and that he doesn't get what he really wants from me and that im rubbish in bed.... (37 words)

What happens with "the friend zone"?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - um well this is not a question as such but is the "friend zone" a load of rubbish. I mean can any relationship last if it didnt start out with friends. and usually being friends gives a better understanding of some meaning you can form stronger bonds... (47 words)

He said he was dating to teach his ex girlfriend a lesson. Where does that leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I really like this guy and we've been out a few times but he is still in touch with his GF and I recently found out that he decided to start dating as a 'payback' (according to him) to 'teach her a lesson' for some lie or other she told him. They've been together ... (241 words)

I always thought Valentines day was about the guy treating the girl. Now my boyfriend thinks I don't care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This Might Sound Bad But I had No Idea That I was Supposed to Buy Something for My Boyfriend For Valentines Day. We're Going on 4 years Now and Every Year he always Does something Extreme For me and I Love it! Though I have Never Bought Him Anything for Valentines Day. I ... (114 words)

I haven't seen my boyfriend for a year, and we have never kissed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im nina, and i was just wondering, I wil be seeing my bf soon. we havent seen each other for a year so it's hard and frustraiting but were still together. . . we chat, and text on the mob. we talk about everything, so one time i had the urge to ask him about sex and so, but ... (188 words)

He took the condom off and then fingered me. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have had sex about 3 times now,and one of the times after we were done he took off the condom and then fingered me a little later, i asked him if he had any semen on his hands and he said that he whiped it off, so he thought. Well my period is irregular cause ... (180 words)

7 years, now long distance. He says we should see other people. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend and I have been trying to get work in another state. He just informed me he got a high paying job in the state where we both have talked of going. He said he's going to look for a place there this weekend. He also said that we should see other people because it will ... (122 words)

He is playing with my emotions and stopping me from moving on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a coworker for six months and even though I'm 26, it was the second time I've fallen for anyone. We both work at the Holocaust Museum in D.C. where there was a shooting last summer. We were both there that day, but I was in the middle of it. Experiencing that really ... (396 words)

Is sex under 15 a good idea?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I have been wondering if sex is a good idea under 15. I have been really curious after a sex ed lesson earlier this week and as such am fairly confused on what to do! My boyfriend is lovely, as always, but I can tell just by looking at him that he is as curious if... (88 words)

I want what I cant have. What do I do?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime i fall in love with a boy, i suddenly find out they have a girlfriend. Now im not saying that iv been in love alot. 3 times... and i think this is turning into the fourth. His names George and iv known him for 9 months and really got to know him well. I met him when i ... (190 words)

I don't want any other mans baby, but we are not together anymore

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this isn't so much that i don't know the right thing to do, but i'm having a hard time with the problem. My ex and i, before the engagement was broken, were talking seriously about having children. we'd come up with names and everything, already set up the way the nursery ... (322 words)

Does the morning after pill upset your monthly cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, In October I took the morning after pill after unprotected sex and went and got checked out and all the tests came back negative. I missed my period in November but came on again in December as usual. However in December I had close contact with my boyfriend but di... (144 words)

I want to end the relationship because she has put on too much weight

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age - I am trying to find a way to end a relationship with a woman who has simply become too obese for me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is there anyone who can give me some advice?... (39 words)

I thought a guy was good looking and now I'm scared I might be gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My name is blair and i am a 13 year old male. Starting about 2 to 3 weeks ago ive been having thoughts of liking guys looks. Ive always liked girls and theyve always turned me on . Now that im worried that im might be gay for some reason girls arent turning me on as much. And ... (111 words)

How can I use my fingers to make her orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to please my girlfriend like she pleases me. im not going to have sexual intercourse til we are married. how do i use my fingers to make her orgasm?... (31 words)

My BF thinks my friend's a slut and doesn't want me hanging out with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) age 30-35 - One of my oldest friends asked me to hang out this afternoon. I haven't seen her in a while, so I was excited to see her. However, I know my boyfriend doesn't like me hanging out with her. We're both very insecure people, let me elaborate. The other day he told me he feels... (703 words)

Is my friend telling the truth? Is she pregnant with my BF's baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Iv Got A Big Problem. Im 18 Years Old Iv Been With My Boyfriend For 3 Years Now And We're Engaged And We Were Trying For A Baby. But... I Got A Text From A Old Friend Who I Blamed My Boyfriend For Cheating On Me With Her He Claimed It Was Just A Kiss But I Think It Was More ... (180 words)

Should we rekindle a first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just met up again with my first love, Matt, who I went out with for 3 years, 18 years after we parted ways. In all that time, even through my past marriage, I never stopped thinking about him and all of the "what ifs". Last year, we got back together for a short time, I ... (301 words)

I've had sex - if I tell the doctor I haven't, will it make a difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mums putting me on the pill soon seen as I'm neary 16 and I've been with my boyfriend 2years. The thing is, we've already had sex a few times. So if the doctor asked me if I was already "sexually active" and I lied and said no because my mum was in the room, would it make a ... (60 words)

My boyfriend gave me the same engagement ring he gave his ex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my boyfriend gave me an engagement ring that was previously used by his ex girlfriend. He says that he redid the ring, but the diamond is the same. It makes me feel uncomfortable. There is also a plus, when we started the relationship i got so hurt because the way they... (101 words)

I feel like I have lost all respect for myself after what I did in the past.....how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so last year was a really bad year for me and i spiraled out of control. i did some pretty bad things that could potentially really hurt people i know and love. I began experimenting with drugs, drinking A LOT of alcohol and basically i was just dependent on alcohol n drugs ... (388 words)

Do you think he still loves her and is just too angry to get back with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles. I am dating a guy for about 3 months now. He does not want commitment he sayd and he just says 'let's see how it goes'. We usually meet up on a Saturday for a drink or meal and maybe once during the week. My problem is how long do I carry on ... (444 words)

I'm so confused and I don't want to lose either of them as a friend!

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! I am very confused right now and just don't know what to do, so I'm hoping you can read this and give me some advice or just some support sort of thing... Well basically I have a guy best friend and me and him and my other best friend (who is a girl) are all ... (629 words)

Would you prefer a real rose or a fake one?

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4 February 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Valentines help! I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks and have planned to take her out for a meal on valentines. I just wondered though, I'm planning on giving her a single red rose, but wanted to know on whether that rose should be real or fake? I'm freaking out it, ... (65 words)

Straight man with a weird fetish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I believe I have a fetish. I am a straight man, and I get very turned on when I feel fear, anxiety, and terror towards homosexual activity. It happened first at 15 when I felt a very weird uncomfortable feeling while watching two guys hold hands on tv. I had a lot of ... (173 words)

Any advice on how to keep things cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I was going out with a guy, he was really sweet but suddenly things turned sour. He told me he loved me very much, wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he was really hurt when I told him we were going to fast, because, as he already knew, I just got out of a ... (745 words)

He has me so down and depressed I feel trapped!

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4 February 2010 (F) age 51-59 - My husband has always seemed to find slightly twisted ways of running me down on a semi-regular basis but last week has really made me want to leave. In an argument in which he told me I was taking too long to study and change my career (I'm doing a degree and some other ... (209 words)

I feel so guilty for his anger issues! Would it be best for him if I was not around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months now and prior to that we were close friends for a good many years. He's always had an anger problem; he's never been violent toward me or any of his friends however he does get verbally aggressive and take it out on i... (435 words)

Should I be moved out by now? Should I feel like less of a man for looking after my mother?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 yrs old and still living at home with mom. I'm not completely a momma's boy... but I do love her a lot. Hey she'll always be my #1 girl. Well my parents have been divorced for along time and I've always been the man of the house. I'm not a mooch, I pay rent and mai... (293 words)

Confused and laughing - don't know if my boyfriend is gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I recently are taking a break so he can try and be in his child's life (long story). I just found out that he signed up for an adult friend finder site, and has his profile to looking for males and joined a couple groups about Bi-males. I have NO problem with ... (91 words)

My boyfriend has been locked up for three months, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am an just 18 and my boyfriend of 3 months just got locked up for 3 months..i was pregant with his baby but i lost it due to stress my family were putting on me..i miss my boyfriend soo much..i want to move in with his family when i turn 18..how will i cope with him gone ... (69 words)

Why are ex's usually hot and cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering in general why do people say things like "im not in love with you anymore" or "i dont have feelings for you anymore" or "i know what im doing and i know what i want" only to later say they didnt mean any of it..or, there actions dont show it. Particularly i... (320 words)

How can I be sure he loves me and not just the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months im 13 and hes 15 and when we first started dating i new he was with me for me but we had sex and now thts all he wants and i dont no if hes only with me for sex now and when i say no hes gets upset and makes me feel bad ... (90 words)

He gets calls but he doesn't answer..he just looks at the screen & puts the phone down. Does he sound dodgy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend.:) we really like each other go on dates..but taking things slow.we flirt and he calls me all the time..we talk till Morning.. but on face book.. when girls say they like a celebrity or anythin..he always has to comment tel him the to keep dreaming.. and ... (139 words)

I want to create the perfect..love mind game..any suggestions?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've always believed that love is a state of mind..if it wasn't satisfied it becomes an addiction,,,it's all a game.. a mind game..i want to create the perfect..love mind game..any suggestions?... (34 words)

Could this be fate telling me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK so I started to talk to this girl on yahoo poker for months now. She is really beautiful but I wanted to be just a friend. She seems so sweet and perfect and the more I talked to her I just couldn't stop myself from liking her more than a friend. She fits into almost every ... (669 words)

Is this man dishonest or someting else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello , 2 days ago i was asking for a solution to my problem . I have some update but let me remind you my story. met a man on a dating site. i contacted him first then he sent me hello message for free. Then he dissapeared for 1 month then suddenly he added me as ... (650 words)

We were in love and were together for ten years and now it is as I don't exist

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm very distressed because my partner and I split up a few months ago and recently saw each other around Christmas time but didn't sleep together. We have unresolved issues and I wanted to meet to talk to him. We still have feelings for each other but he now says he is ... (617 words)

I really don't think he loves me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend that I love so much, but I dont think he loves me the way I love him... the reason is because I call and text him almost every day but with him it's not like that. I asked him last month, why is he acting in such manner? He said nothing.. I asked if he ... (111 words)

I need to know how I can find out how he feels about me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi am looking for some advice. I am a 27 year old Single mum of 1 and I met a 24 year old guy about 6 months ago. We work together and get on really well. In the last few months we have been flirting etc and about 2 weeks ago as we were dancing at a party and he kissed me. My ... (181 words)

Boy, revenge is sweet...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age - Hi, my wife recently cheated on me with a guy who lives in a small town about 10 miles away from me, anyway to cut a long story short I found everything out, confronted my wife and then I confronted the guy in question and gave him the mandotary punch on the chin, this seems to ... (213 words)

Runaway student!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23. I want to be a dentist. studied two years already but in another country because in my country it was not possible for this course but from the first day my mum wanted to stop me. she cries every day telling me not to leave her... but as I already passed those hard days ... (224 words)

Should I tell my friend I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok theres this dude who ive been friends with for forever for the same amount of time i love him should i tell him if so how?... (27 words)

Please help me understand what my fiance wants from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,just new here trying to get some advice... i have a fiance for over a year now, we have this long distance realationship, . i dont know why he had the attitude of being so "negative thinker" . i cant understand him, if we are together theres no problem i see, we are happ... (169 words)

I need some direction in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im nina... there are alot of things happeneing on my mind and i dont know what to do. i dont know what i want. i mean im really confused and adding on that i cant think straight in my business class (im taking a diploma on it) so its important. Its office managment and a bi... (193 words)

Do I have to be alone so that everybody else can be happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. havnt quite done this before. so growing up I've had a couple girlfriends. nothing serious or anything. I havnt had a girlfriend in quite a long time. almost a couple years. I met a girl at my work. we are extremely close. she knows I have a thing. unfortunately she has ... (404 words)

I just wish she would try to understand ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im 18 and im with a girl who i love very much, but have had some past and present issues that are just bothering me too the point of no return. im so jealous lately and here are the reasons why. first off..she left me and cheated on me the last time i was with her. almost 2 ... (429 words)

He has unresolved issues with his ex, who seems a really nice lady

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I have just started seeing a guy who is a divorcee and after he split up with his wife he had a long partner for about 8 years. He is 51 years old with a grown up sone at college. I am a bit worried because of the way he talks about his ex GF and wife. He saw his ex ... (380 words)

I am falling for a married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I would like to have your advice on this situation and please don’t judge me if possible. Well, you will agree with me that we have little control over our feelings. At my place of work, there is a man who really turns me on. I have a crush on him and it’s been a long t... (204 words)

Am I wrong to be glad he is not somebody other girls would be all over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When it comes to height and weight, I'm right smack-dab in the middle of all that is average for someone my age. I'm just under 5'5" and 117 lbs. My boyfriend of over five years, however, is not what you would call "petite". He has a foot of height over me and carries about 150 ... (235 words)

I feel I am no longer the light in his eyes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, My partner and I have been dating for just under 2 years now. When we first met, he was loving, attentive, told me I was the woman of his dreams and lit up whenever he saw me. he did all he could to make me happy. I know that this is part of the 'in love' stage that... (307 words)

I keep comparing my husband to my ex, how can I stop doing this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a relationship for last one and half years. before that i was very practical about my life and family. but all gone vain when i met the guy. he had everything i dreamt of. for his family and my family i had to marry another person,two months back,who a very simple and ... (97 words)

I don't have a mother or aunt to ask

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there well see my dad raised me up and talked to me about my peroids and how it works. i think it tooked alout of guts for my dad to talk women stuff with me. So my friend from shool told me the best is that you dont bath or wash it down there on the first day of every ... (104 words)

We talk a lot online but face to face it seems he doesn't want to talk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have this best friend who is a guy that I have been really good friends with for about 5-6 months. As you have probably guessed, I have really fallen for him and basically just want to know if you guys think he feels the same because I'm unsure and don't exactly have the ... (217 words)

Drag me to love...

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Someone likes me and I think that I like him too. I don't know how I liked him or why and I am trying to forget him because I am afraid of falling in love because I live in Egypt and here you can't love until you enter college and if my parents I don't know what would happen ... (76 words)

He says he has stopped talking to his ex but they are best friends, it drives me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. They've been apart for years now and she also has a boyfriend. I know he has no feelings for her and I know he loves me, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable that he talks to her. ... (169 words)

My husband has a serious drinking problem

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4 February 2010 (F)

age - i've been married for 10 years; my husband has a drinking problem and it's worsening. He has promised to attend AA meetings. I'm thinking of leaving him. Is it right to leave him at this point when he has promised to attend AA meetings?... (46 words)

How to get back in the saddle again?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a 7 year relationship so now that I'm single again I don't even know how to approach a woman, it's been a long time since I've hit on women. What should I say? How can I go about this? ... (48 words)

My boyfriends sex drive is much higher than mine

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i love sex. But he wants it alot. He respects when i dont but when he cant get any from me he jacks off and he watches alot of porn. He says he is just like that and he cant help it. Why does he have such a high sex drive and is it wrong for me to feel bad that ... (79 words)

We talk a lot and have sex but he doesn't want me for a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'ev been talking too this dude for 8months now. I like him alot and we spend a geat amount of time together i see him about 3 time or more durin a weekday and we see each other every weekend. He is the only dude I have sex with, and over the monthes i have grown attached to ... (287 words)

My mother wont give my very, very shy boyfriend a chance

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating a guy ive known for years hes been a close friend for years. I live with my mother that has had a bad past and is single by choice and whom i am close with like shes my best friend. But hes not a socialble person with people hes just getting to know [my mom ... (214 words)

I believe he has changed, but my mother says he is a jerk!

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 18 years old My boyfriend is 24 We first started dating when I was only 13 After almost five years together He changed and I knew something was wrong I kind of knew he was cheating I believe that us women just know that kind of things we get that feeling and we just ... (431 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend because my heart was elsewhere,but now the second guy is pulling away

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know where to start..I broke up with my boyfriend for 7 years because I am in love with a guy who is my bf’s friend. I am 27 years old already. I had physical intimacy with this guy for 4 years and I’ve been keeping this guilt feeling for so many years. I wanted to ... (614 words)

My boyfriend doesn't show me affection

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a few months and he does not show emotions at all but he takes care of me he tries to give me watever i ask for ..... Everyone has told me to leave him but i care about him....he took my virginity ...he is my first i care about him so ... (137 words)

I need to change my wardrobe to help gain some confidence

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - umm well im tired of myself not feeling good wen i dress up, i want to feel good when i get outside with my frends, so my question is how do i feel better? new clothes? and i do have very minnimum clothes to wear and i do try to make the best of it but i just dont f... (122 words)

Two failed engagements, I am now reluctant to try again

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a boy of 25 i had 2 unsuccessful engagement yet now my family is insisting to engage me again and sometimes i also feel to engaged but due to problems i had in the past with my x-fancies i can't deer to... maybe due to the mood i had i have faced those problems ... (59 words)

I can't tell the difference between love and infactuation

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4 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What is love? And how do you tell the difference between love and infatuation?... (14 words)

How does religion affect a relationship?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well most people think that religion is everything, I don't know about that because I am an atheist, I need to know if religion plays an important role in relationships or not, if so can you explain to me how. Also for all of you stereotypes, I am not a satinist, hate god or r... (119 words)

Do all men only worry about how good a woman looks?

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4 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - How important are looks to men? The ones who show an interest in me seem to only ever care about the way I look. I had one boyfriend who even said he loved how anywhere we went together, all the guys would be jealous of him because he'd got me and similarly all the women would ... (84 words)

I want to lose weight but am so lazy! How can I be super motivated?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 yr old and have always been overweight by 10- 15 lbs since high school. 8 yrs in marriage, 1 child and have gone up to 170 lbs at 5'3" height. Have PCOS, irregular periods and sleep apnea. I really want to lose weight. I have so many insecurities and lack of ... (188 words)

Both guys are cheaters, should I just get myself a new love?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i just got back with my ex about a mouth ago and he's in the army but i know that he have girls calling his phone and all way walking away when i am around.... Now my other ex boyfriend wants to get back with me and he cheated on me to many times and i dont trust him....what ... (87 words)

My girlfriend wants to drop out of school and I feel it will affect our future together! What can I do?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is currently home schooled and her mom is planning on signing her out i ask her all the time not to drop out to finish school and also meet better ppl while shes in high school i dont want her missing out on the experience, I feel like its going to affect our ... (93 words)

Boyfriend constantly observes my eating habits and makes me feel bad about my weight!

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I was looking for some advice. My Fiance and I have been together 10mths. He is a great guy. the problem is that I am a bigger girl and he is skinny and tall. he wants to help me lose weight and not have any health problems down the road, but he is constantly at me about it. ... (143 words)

I don't know if I love my husband...

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know if i still love my boyfriend cause everyday we argue and am 23 and his 37 we have 3 kids together and one thats not his which is the oldes. I mean he has nowhere to stay if i tell him to leave my house.but he screams and is always in a bad mood and i feel like am ... (88 words)

Should I tell this woman's boyfriend the baby might not be his, but my boyfriend's?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so ive previously been writing about questions i have concerning my boyfriend and i. well the story gets more interesting every week. to give you a summary my boyfriend and i have seen dating for about 10 months..in that time we broke and got back together. i guess in that ... (234 words)

How long shold I wait for him to get over his last relationship and be ready for a new one with me?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy. Who is still getting over his last breakup. It's been affecting him pretty hard. We hang out, we fool around (no sex - his suggestion and we both agree), we have the best time when we're together. He's told me the reason we aren't dating is because he's not over ... (173 words)

My friend thinks she has to stay thin or else guys won't like her.

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4 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My friend is in her mid 20's and she has lost a lot of weight within a few months. She says that guys give her attention that she never got before when she was heavier. Guys that rejected her in the past are now asking her out, but she just likes turning them down because they ... (230 words)

How can I give my girl the most sexual pleasure?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I give my girl the most sexual pleasure? Itsa not that we don't have enough but I don't think I'm giving all I'm getting... (26 words)

Should I just call it quits? Or am I an idiot?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In a nutshell: I've never had a relationship with a girl, but I'm now in one with someone. She's wonderful and things have been great. But I feel like it won't work and that she should just see other guys. I partially want to do this because I now feel like I have to keep t... (114 words)

I've tried to use a tampon but it just won't go in.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Omg!!!! I am a 13 yr old girl. Iv tried to put a tampon in and it just won't go in. Iv read the directions but I don't understand the pictures all they show is the tampon out then in... (40 words)

Mind Games or Is it really over?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone online 1.5 months ago. I blew him off for a week after our first conversation and apologized. I let him know I was talking to other people but nothing serious so I wanted to get to know him better. We met 3 weeks ago. He has a foot fetish (which scared me at first... (879 words)

Is my girl selfish for not returning oral sex?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a question; Would it be selfish of my girlfriend not to return me the favor if I gave her an orgasm with cunnilingus? I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm with this technique. I must admit it felt great and Id certainly do it again, but Id like to get it back t... (102 words)

What is holding him back from marrying me?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for 7 years and now we have two kids together. I am ready to get married but I don't know if he is. I tell him all the time that it is time to make a true commitment but he just dont understand. All I want to know what is the problem why is he stringing ... (74 words)

Why do guys keep falling for me???

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a problem with a few guys. That totally makes me sound like a slut, but I'm not. The first one is my ex. We had liked each other for years before we finally got together, and I was really happy while I was with him, which is rare. I'm usually not very good in relat... (310 words)

Help me figure out if my relationship is worth saving??

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current Boyfriend a little over a year. For the second time since we started dating, I'm thinking about breaking up with him. (the last time was in Nov.) Basically, I've been kinda peeved about how he doesn't really express affection much (in a way that I'd... (188 words)

My new boyfriend is moving too fast!!!

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 weeks and he's already talking... sexually. At first, he was really nice and sweet, but then he got my cell phone number and texts me things about sex. He asks me about personal things and it makes me really uncomfortable. He keeps ... (115 words)

Guys put me on a pedestal and never see the real me.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I always end up with guys who put me on a pedestal and don't seem interested in getting to know the real me. You know how everyone says when you notice the same pattern recurring in your lovelife, it's a good idea to look at the part your behaviour plays - well I did. I ... (171 words)

New to romance and all I've got to practice with are college guys

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've recently matured quite a bit from the shy, quiet girl I was in highschool who only had one male friend- and he was gay. I've lost a little weight, changed my hairstyle (I used to cover my eyes with my bangs all the time), and dress better. I'm not the most gorgeous girl ... (262 words)

My boyfriend is not happy with my decision to go through with my pregnancy.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago I found out that I'm pregnant with my boyfriend at 26 years old, and have decided to keep the baby. My boyfriend, 31, who I've dated for 1.5 years (with 5 month break) doesn't want a child yet, but agreed to "be supportive" yet feels like he had no control over ... (319 words)

My boyfriend posted a pic of his private parts on line.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend posted his privates online, as his messenger picture. I don't know if I can trust him again and this really hurts. We've been together for 2.5yrs,(Sept 15th 2007) and have a 18month old son, Joseph, and I am currently 16wks pregnant. When we met, I was drinking q... (166 words)

Heartache over different sex drives - what to do?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I love each other very much and have been together for a number of years BUT keep experiencing quite a bit of heartache due to differing sex drives. I have a very high sex drive and could easily have sex every day while he enjoys it if it is every four or fi... (261 words)

How do I get him to stop fighting with me so much?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - We have been dating for awhile and we tend to get in fights just i feel like its my fault when we get mad at each other he tries to take the blame and never listens to me. how do i get him to stop fighting with me so much?... (50 words)

My best friend won't shut up about it. He does not deserve to be getting what I want!

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm about to turn 22 in two days and I have never had a girl friend, never kissed a girl, and am still a virgin. It never really let it get to me before. Until last summer my best friend and his girlfriend started having sex. For about the first month after he just couldn't ... (652 words)

He kissed my forehad the first time we met. Is this too fast, too soon?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just met this really really cute and funny guy; but we just met like today and he wants to get really close really fast! He kissed me on the forehead and keeps texting me if its ok if we should kiss and hold hands already! This is bothering me; but i don't want to hurt his ... (62 words)

I said Hi on Facebook to the guy I like and he didn't even know who I was.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really liked this guy that was in one of my classes. We would talk occaionally and my love for him got deeper and deeper. Then just know i was on Facebook with him for the first time. I said hi to him and he replied, "Who's this? Do I know you?" I was crushed. I thought i ... (123 words)

I want to have sex but I want her to make the first move.

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a virgin and i have this girl i have known her my entire life she realy likes me she wants to have sex i am ready to have sex but i want her to make the first move what do i tell her or do for her to make the first move?... (63 words)

I think I might be pregnant

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Allright so my boyfriend and i had never had sex before until this one night when we decided to see what it was like. Well he ended up putting it in one time. he didnthump or anything it was just in and then out and we stopped. He never had an orgasm. This was around january 15 ... (115 words)

What signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy and him possibly fancying me?

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello =) I'm just wondering what signs there are that a guy likes you? the guy i like is 12 years older than me, i guess you could say that we're friends. I'd just like to know what signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy and him possibly fancying me? ... (75 words)

I want to patch things up with my ex boyfriend.

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, My bf and I broke up 4 days back. We had been together for 1 and a half years and he was the one really keen on me and told me he loved me – I eventually fell in love with him. He lost of his job cos of his drinking and then everything spiralled out of control. ... (893 words)

Why does my butt bleed when I go to the toilet?

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i feel really embarrsed but wen ever i go number 2 my butt bleeds out blood and i kno you cant really determin my problem but i just want to kno wat could be going on thx... (46 words)

I was not invited to myown girlfriends birthday dinner.

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4 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its my girlfriends birthday this weekend and im having her over saturday but sunday her family is taking her out to eat and i wasnt invited maybe because her brother doesnt like me that much im just not sure i feel hut because her and her family have been invited to every ... (111 words)

I'm antisocial and my mom wants me to do something about it

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4 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm antisocial and my mom wants me to do something about it. I'm 16 and I've lived in the same place for like 8 years and I have some people I talk to at school but not out of it and I really don't mind. I don't have the same interests as anybody here and Idk really what to ... (63 words)