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I don't know who he is anymore. Is it even worth trying to salvage this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Right now, I feel like I don't know one of my best friends anymore. (btw, this is a bit long) I met him almost 4 years ago now. On an online forum. We just clicked right away. just by random chance really, i just replied to something he posted. He suprised me, I was ready ... (930 words

Dating a different race...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1727 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so here's my problem. I'm 16 and have always been attracted to all races, it's never been an issue until recently. I'm white, and have become really close friends with this guy.. who's black, we're very flirty with each other. I like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me ... (242 words

Even more confused..what is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - ***UPDATE*** Now I'm even more confused.... after him breaking up with me and me asking him for space he noticed this morning I was on yahoo messanger for a while so he felt the need to question who I was talking to. He got really mad when I asked why did it matter. ... (543 words

Are we damaging my cervix?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is it dangerous if my partner repeatedly hits my cervix during intercourse? its uncomfortable and sometimes painful, but the good makes up for the bad. i'm just worrying that we are doing some damage. i don't bleed and it only aches a little bit afterwards. thanks... (47 words

Her sexual desire has gone, help me find it again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - my wife has really gone off sex and seems somewhat distant. ever since we got back together after she cheated on me nearly 2 yrs ago our love life has been slowly sliding sideways. she does tell me that she loves me more than anything and she doesnt know why she has lost her ... (136 words

My boyfriend and I get along great... but I kissed my ex, do I tell him and risk losing him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1602 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have been dating a guy for about 4 months and it is pretty serious. We are planning on living together. The guy is sweet, caring, everything a girl can ask for. But the thing is i have kissed my ex-boyfriend and I'm debating if i should tell him. They both alr... (95 words

The Etiquette of Casual Sex!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would appreciate only responses from people who are not going to offer their own moral judgements on the following situation... Recently, I experimented with one of the 'casual dating websites' - no really seriously at first, but then I started chatting with someone who... (370 words

Single for 4 years now it's starting to get to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - ive been single for 4 years now and its really starting to get to me, all my friends are dating and going out on coulpes dates and im getting left behind. im also completly usless when it comes to asking girls out or giving hints that i like them or picking up hints that th... (95 words

Birth control patches... does anyone have any experience in using them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1673 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am just wondering if anyone has experience on the ortho evra birth control patch and if it helps you? I am currently on the pill but I am looking for different options. Can anyone clue me in on this, not that I am asking you to tell me everything because I know that I... (85 words

I don't want to tell my mum when my practical exam is in case I fail...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am about to take my practical exam in a few weeks, and am worried about it. I have decided to keep the test date to myself to Mum, her boyfriend and some of my friends. I am planning to share it with my friends nearer the day but for Mum and her boyfriend, I don't intend to ... (148 words

A poem about how I feel...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1673 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi, I cant help but feel I Dont belong here Anymore, I try and make the most of life but my chin just hits the floor, I'm tired I'm weak I'm loosing control. I have no zest for life I'm gunna walk throught the door. If I walk then I roll if I roll then I'm done that flashing... (138 words

Do I just back off and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was sort of seeing this guy from uni and although we get on really well and have a good connection i could tell he had doubts. He said he was scared of getting into a relationship but then he would continue to be encouraging and flirty/romantic with me. The thing is, is that ... (134 words

Any advice on how to turn a friendship into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this guy friend who I've known for over a year. We used to be quite close but after a long break of being on holidays and stuff during the summer we didn't get to even text much, although we don't have deep conversations like before, we still have a playful relationship ... (296 words

Does my husband want me to have a baby now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (? age 22-25 - We've been married for 2 years but dated for 7 before and we're both 30 (knew eachother when kids) Hes the kinda guy who loves kids. Anyway basically whenever we are making out he always like rubs and touches my stomach and just like holds onto it. And when we we wake up h... (124 words

Sleeping problems...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have had no decent sleep in the last week and i have sleeping problems anyway as they are heridtary on both sides of my family. my mum has terrible trouble trying to sleep as do i before like 4/5 am. i can feel tired go to sleep but wake up every hour to two hours. i always ... (150 words

Asking out a girl typical teenager problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Theres a girl who I've started hanging out with with another couple at work, and recently we've gone out every week all four of us, and I never liked her that much before but now its crazy i do. And the more we keep doing these couply dates the weirder it is that we are not ... (168 words

How do I handle my online dating friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have recently joined a dating website and have started emailing a guy that seems like a great prospect. I was the one who first send a short "ice breaker" message to him and he responded very positively. We have since been emailing very long emails (from both sides) and ... (203 words

Body insecurities...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm so very insecure when it comes to my body. I don't know, I think this maybe has turned into an anxiety disorder like OCD or something. I can't stop comparing myself to other women who look better, whether on the street, the mall, the beach, whatever, and of course on TV ... (662 words

I regret dumping him and would do anything to get a second chance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm so confused! I was hanging out at my friends house, and a bunch of people were there, including my boyfriend at the time and one of my ex-boyfriends. It was really strange to hang out with both of them in the same room, and it made me realize that I A.) still have feelings ... (202 words

Am I bi... straight... or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - i'm 18 years old and i'm a bit confused. I don't know how to really put this... I like guys but i don't like how most act and treat women and me. I'm not sure why but one day i was just chatting on the internet and i got a message from a girl about the same age as me. I tho... (421 words

My friend is being too obsessive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hello everyone, I have a problem, at school there's this girl who I was nice to and we became friends, but now she's too obssesive, she waits for me after every class, intimidates my other friend, make me feel really down when she always complaines that life is 'poo.' I can'... (79 words

Can friendship turn to a romantic relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is it possible to be with someone romantically that i have been just friends with for years and have it actually work out?... (23 words

Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - i got pregnent with my ex last year and he ended it, i had an abortion and it just seemed he didnt want to bother and was not there for me, but now i have strong feelings for him again. Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my abortion?... (58 words

What to wear when having sex for the first time...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - hello! as im sure you know, its valentines day coming up and me and my partner will be having sex for the first time! i know i want to do it so please dont tell me to make sure im ready as ive already been through all of this in my head and i am definitely 100% sure! my ... (293 words

I asked my ex out and I'm not sure if she's interested. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - well it's simple. I asked my ex out and i'm not sure if she's interested. Ok my ex broke up with my 6 months ago as of February 5th. yesterday I asked her to go to the movies with me this weekend. At first she said yes, but at the end of the school day IO asked her again just ... (259 words

Should I go for it and risk his feelings or should I just stay back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have liked this guy since I first moved to my new School and we are both in the same year and even both take geography. I really want to try and ask him out but I'm not sure if he is gay. Now I maybe being a bit stereotypical but he seems very gay by the fact he hangs ro... (162 words

I have a phobia of talking on phones!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I hope this question doesn't come across as pathetic, as it is a genuine problem. I have a phobia of talking on phones, i've done a little research and have come across other people who have the same fear. I'm okay with talking to some of my close friends and my parents over ... (319 words

How can I let her see texting her ex is hurting our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - lingering ex bf this girl I am dating tells me she isn't talking to her ex. I notice her texting someone who I am certain is her ex bf while we hang out but when I ask he about her relationship with him she tells me she doesn't talk to him. what should I do to let her see t... (67 words

The ultimate love triangle...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - dear cupid, There is this guy i REALLY like (lets call him chris) to be honest i think i love him but the guy has no idea that i even know who he is, i really want to talk about him with this boy who knows him (lets call him joe) and who is one of his close mates so he can ... (154 words

Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?... (13 words

Why do guys confuse women all the time! Come on guys, let me know your thoughts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am so very much confused. I am in a relationship that is not the greatest and hasnt been for such a long time now. Recently i have been talking to my partners brother a lot as i lean on him a lot for emotional support and he knows this, this has been going on for just under ... (341 words

Am I just their cook and cleaner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been with this man for three years taking care of his teenage son, cooking, cleaning, helping feed and so on, with the understanding when he turned eighteen this man and i would be alone. now i find he's going to be underfoot till who knows when. This teenager has no ... (179 words

Would you keep going back to a bag of nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok. the guy knows im very nervous with men, he has been my friend for 5 years, always been good to me, he is very sweet he seems unhappy but wont talk to me, has a girlfriend, then one day out of the blue he shows more interest and you tell him no and he keeps trying, you give ... (150 words

How do we deal with people who are jealous/envious of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - My partner and I are in an age gapped relationship. I am the older woman, 38 and he is the younger, 21. We have been together for 3 1/2 years now and have never been so much in love! I left my disfunctional marriage to be with him. I have 2 children ages 18 and 9 who have ... (456 words

Would it be wise to meet with him again seeing as we want different things from life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy on the weekend, drunken girly night out, first night out properly since I split with my ex 2 months ago (I've been a total hermit but also had a promotion at work so been concentrating on that). I haven't really been interested in guys since...But as I said, met a... (258 words

Should I wait for him to sort his head out or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - My ex just split up with me, told me he didn't know if he felt the same way anymore and didn't want a girlfriend. We have been together about 5 months and it was a big shock to me. Though i do think he still cares about he told me he still really likes me and would not be able ... (269 words

Is my boyfriend lying about cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - There are rumors going around that my boyfriend cheated on me... I am scared that they Aren't just rumors... What do I do? I already asked him and he said they weren't true but he has lied before... he can lie again. Do you think he is telling me the truth? Am I over-reacting ... (60 words

His parents won't let me see him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok. i have met this guy on the internet because it's really hard to find someone who wants a relationship. well the thing is im 19 and he is 16 and no matter what i do, his parents intervene they say tht he is a minor an ill call the police on you if you dont stop calling. the ... (118 words

I don't think, I can forgive to my husband for his sexual let down.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - I don't think, I can forgive to my husband for his sexual let down. He totally cooled out a few years ago, and has problems with psychological erectile dysfunction. I mean he is healthy, but not able to hold an erection. But no diabetes or anything like that.... He also spends ... (240 words

How can I help her raise her self esteem and let her know that I care for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Last night my girlfriend told me that she believes that she is not good enough for me. She told me that she likes me. But she said that she has low self esteem and feels that her life is not going to be a good one because of past decisions she has made. She feels that she is ... (279 words

When should I give him his prezzie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, My fiances' birthday is the day after Valentine's Day. Okay, my question is: should I give him his Valentine's Day gift(s) on his birthday, or just give him everything on Valentine's Day? ... (36 words

What is wrong with being friends with an ex? Need opinions please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i have so many times read about exes on this and the advice given to such problems. But I have a question... What is your opinion about being friends with an ex? Well, I know it is best to just forget about them totally but what if in my case, i would feel worse... (213 words

Friend to a boyfriend. Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am currently dating a guy who i have known since high school and that i was friends with for a while. Hes older than me hes 24 im 19 and i know even though i am young that i am a very mature for my age. he asked me for my number while i was at work one day because he want... (211 words

Is it okay for my teacher to hug me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hellooo so i have this HOT teacher, i literally love the man, (well i have a crush) and the other day, i had a massive fall out with my mate which resulted in me crying. i was walking down the empty corridor like this, and this teacher saw me and stopped teaching to come... (184 words

What was so wrong with wanting to have a future with the man you love and discussing it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my man have split up after a year together. I felt he didn't want the relationship to progress, and proved myself right eventually... i think? I can't get over it though. I couldn't understand why he never asked me as a plus 1 to a wedding or a social occasion or why ... (300 words

My boyfriend is a pushover but I want him to become strong and confident.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1726 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating a great guy for the last four months. He is intelligent, generous, kind, loving, considerate, responsible, very nice to everyone. We have lot in common and we have a lot of fun together. The thing is I think he is a pushover and lacks confidence. He t... (485 words

One minute... and it's all over!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been togther a little over a year. We have been friends for almost 6 years and while we were friends we did sleep togther. When we first got together we were on fire but know let's just say it's been 3 months and the last time only took a minute. (not ... (67 words

Would a man forego the SuperBowl for a first date with an attractive, successful woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - I met a man that is very charming. He lives out of town. He seems to say all the right things. He claims he had tickets to the SuperBowl in Miami this weekend but would rather come out and visit me and will cancel his plans. My questions is to the Super Bowl enthusiasts is: ... (79 words

Fiance just doesn't seem to want sex! Instead watches porn and takes care of himself!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a 25 year old, my fiance really doesn't seem interested in me in bed. He kisses me all the time grabs my butt but just really doesn't seem interested in sex! Just recently I found out that he has been wathcing porn on the computer. He is 38 so there is a 12 year difference ... (108 words

What exercises can I do to lose the fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hello. well i am 15 and weigh 11 stone 3 pounds at the moment. i feel so fat as i used to be 10 stone 5 pounds so i have put on weight in the last couple of months. i feel horrible. is there any ways to lose fat, (without mentioning diet - as i eat very healthily and don't... (123 words

What is up with my ex's behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex and I have been trying to be friends again. And the one day we went out to movies and coffee. And it really felt like a date because he insisted on paying for everything and taking me home. However the next day he was really distant towards me. I tried to talk to him o... (210 words

Can you make yourself ejaculate faster whilst masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - is there any way to make your self ejaculate faster when masturbating?... (12 words

Does he mean it when he says he never wants to get married again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - PLease help! I went on a date with a man that is twice divorced and 50 years old. His first wife cheated on him and the second wife took him for everything financialy. We met the other day for a casual meeting. He is nice and funny. He was with a friend and said I am never ... (114 words

We have broken up so many times before and she has always come home, but I'm worried that this time it is different!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I have recently split up from my fiance of nearly 4 years and im finding it extremely hard. we have a 2 year old son together and have not long moved into a new house. this month i have made mistake after mistake and she had had enough and left me 1 week ago. i really dont ... (362 words

He treats me like I'm his girlfriend, but he is gay! I don't know what to think.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Hmm really need some advice... For the past year ive become really close to my best friend who knew my other friends before me. Id like to point out at this stage that he is a boy and is gay. Anyway i love him to pieces and dont know what i would do without him, he's my be... (367 words

Half the time I ejaculate with little to no sensation! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am a guy and have no problem ejaculating or reaching ejaculation. But I don't always have an orgasm. I definitely do about half of the time and its great, but the other half of the time I ejaculate with little to no sensation. What can I do? It's not a mental thing bec... (92 words

I met a man online, it seemed okay at first, now I am not so sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Help please, I met a man on a dating site. i contacted him first then he sent me hello message for free. Then he dissapeared for 1 month then suddenly he added me as a favourite and paid money to become a member to send me a message he told me thanks for contacting me an... (435 words

We met online and out of the blue he asked me a question I didnt want to answer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1713 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've met this guy online,we have engaged in nice conversations so far via messaging and we talked a few times on skype.The last time we talked he randomly asked me If I thought of him.I didn't know what to say.Of course I had thought about him but I didn't wanna admit it that ... (57 words

I like two guys one is nice and handy the other lives some distance away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I like 2 guys. One of them is my age and I spent sometime hanging out with him a few nights ago, at his house, alone and we confessed to liking each other. The other guy is not my age, lives further away and we've liked each other for a while. What do I do? ... (55 words

WHen does the act of sex usually end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - When you have sex, when do you normally finish? once the man has an orgasm or both? thanks... (21 words

I am sexually attracted to my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi guys, this is kind of silly. I am sexually attract to my bf and all, but when ever we are alone and, well... I know that we'll any moment start the foreplay I kind of freak out. I have no idea why I act this way. Any advice? ... (51 words

Her bad attitude cause me to break up with her, did I make the right decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - me and my girlfriend were together for about 7 months. I decided to end it last night because i feel like enough is enough. Every time i go out into town she has a problem with it, she is off with me when im in town and off with me the day after and i have to justify and e... (192 words

Why doesn't my husband wear his wedding ring?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - My new husband is always forgetting his wedding ring. It drives me crazy and a little offended as well. I asked him if he doesn't want to wear it and why, he says that thats not it and I don't believe him. Why do you think he doesn't wear it?... (52 words

What do men think about a woman moving in with them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - What do men truly think about a woman moving in with them? Does it reduce "the chase"? Does it reduce the chances of asking her to marry you? Do men see it as "Why buy the cow when you're already getting the milk for free"? would you respect her more for NOT mov... (95 words

I feel stupid and unable in everything I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I feel for a few years that Iam stupid and unable. I suffer from a social fobia and I go to psycholog and also have here pills which I can take. I am trying to overcome this in small steps. For example I found a job where I have to communicate with people. I try to be ac... (746 words

What can I do to survive until my ex moves out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I've been posting on this site over the course of my relationship...I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago. I was in a controlling relationship, and even though we have a 10 month old infant I had to end it. So, we're living together until she moves out in april. The problem ... (109 words

My mother is making life so difficult for me and I'm 26!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - My mother is making things really difficult for me. I've been with my BF for almost 6 months...it's my first serious relationship. He's a great guy and treats me well. I also live with my parents as I bought a property with them last year. I slept over at his place 3 mo... (378 words

How do I approach the first guy to tell him I've met someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I met someone about a month, saw him probably 3/4 times and text him a couple of times a week. Last time I saw him we were in a group and he pretty much ignored me all night then left without saying anything to me or anyone else. Because of that a bloke that he sort of knows ... (129 words

I missed taking 2 pills and think I might be pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - Im on the microgynon pill for 6 months never missed any. But last month in January I missed 2 pills but i doubled up the next day. Then I had my period on 21st jan it lasted one day mostly brown discharge :/ then i had unprotected sex that day with my boyfriend. My period ... (122 words

If I loose 20 pounds and he's suddenly all romantic, do I accept him, or slap him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age - I've been married for over 20 years and have 2 lovely sons, 16 and 19. The oldest is away at college, the youngest a High School Junior. He drives 30 min to school. He's not into sports, has a few friends, but mostly goes to school, to work and is at home. I'm afraid if I ... (303 words

Did I do something wrong by going out when my bf wanted support for an exam?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - well, i am feeling so guilty and i want you guys to give me your opinions.Yesterday i went out with my work colleague (our xmas outing: a lil bit late). We had a meeting before and i didnt want to go for the party after, i said i wouldn't go, we went bowling and dinner. So well ... (348 words

We are both like a pair of rabbits, but how can I take it to an even higher level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age - Here is one that only women with a high sex drive can help me with. My girlfriend of six months is an old high school interest. We met after both having kids and long marriages, she has always owned part of my heart and while I sometimes feel like an old fool, I am an ex... (160 words

My partner of 4 years will insert a vibrator, accept oral, but wont give me anything in return and just tells me to 'sort myself out'.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi. I am 23 and my girlfriend 25. We have been dating for just over 4 years and living together for 3. In all the time we have been together we have never had sex. We tried at the start of our relationship but it hurt and she has been reluctant to give it another go ... (522 words

I want to keep in contact with my teacher as friends, so how do I approach him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1726 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am graduating from high school this and I want to keep in contact with my former english teacher. I want to keep in contact with him because he was a great help and over the years we have developed a friendship. How do I approach him and what do I say? All help is apprecia... (60 words

I've had meaningless sex and didn't enjoy it. What can I do so that my next time is enjoyable?

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2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Petra at home, I love your comments! More advice please! Yes the times I have had sex are really spaced apart. The first time I had sex was June of 2008. Then again in July. Then again in August. All with the same man. Then I didnt have sex til Feb. I got drunk and accident... (278 words

I dated a known cheater and now he has cheated on me I have trust issues.

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2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I apologize if my question is long, but you must know all the details for it to make sense. I also changed the names of the people. Thank you for listening I really need advice. . Spencer and I met last year in May,(we have been together for almost nine months) and when... (709 words

Why do men hurt the women they love? He was my friend for 7 years.

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2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been really close friends with a male coworker of mine for seven years. When he was much younger, his girlfriend did some serious damage to his ego. The way he told me was like a joke though when we first met. Over the summer, we grew very close. We have never been ... (626 words

I was close to lose my virginity, then I told him I wasn't ready, what should I do?

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2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - hi im 16 n i think im ready to make love i want it so bad then i think about the situations behind it i am so close 2 losing it then i tell him im not ready everyone keep saying wait as u get older u start feening for it what should i do 2 take my mind off of it????... (62 words

She asked if I would have unprotected sex with her, what should I do?

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2 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - hello, my name is lachie. i am 14 nearly 15, currently single, i have alot of feelings for a family friend of mine, i know she has feelings for me to, but both of our parents dont want us to be togeather, and the other night, she asked if i would have un protected sex with her, ... (72 words

I like her but I don't want to interfere in her relationship!

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2 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - Okay, I moved churches a year ago, and day one, I met this girl. First thing I did was ask my older (and wiser) sister who's 32, to find out about her. She's a country girl (we live in Alabama lol, what else do you expect?), and she loves to express it, but she's got enough ... (312 words

When wuold it be best to try and have sex? Before her period?

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2 February 2010 (M age 18-21 - me and my gf will be attempting to have sex for the first time, for both, soon. before she said that she only got her period about 4 times a year, but recently she started getting it every month, and she did around this week. i wanted to know, when wuold it be best to try and ... (68 words

What does one do with themselves, when they realize their life plan and biggest hope will never happen?

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2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well, I'll try to make this short, but I always wanted to have kids. Or I should say I thought that I'd have kids by now. But I don't and I doubt that I will find someone before I am infertile, to be biologically honest. I recently got out of a relationship which was somewh... (639 words

Do I need to let her go home to her family and trust her? I'm afraid she will meet her ex.

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2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I need advice on whether to be ok with my fiancé, soon to be wife, going back home for Christmas. Her parents and some of her family live in Florida. About 3 states away. Her sisters live in Texas. She moved here with one of her sisters two years ago and goes home to vis... (642 words

What do you think my chances are of being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so me and my bf had sex 2 days after my period twice and both times he went in me, then two weeks later he did again I should start my period in a week so what do you think my chances are of being prego? =)... (48 words

How can I get my male friend to take a chance and date me?

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2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really like my guy friend and he likes me, but he does not want to date me since he has a kid which Has always complicated his relationships and made them end bad. So how can I get him to take a chance with me? Should I get closer and show him how much I care about him? Do ... (71 words

Help me interpret the mixed signals from my ex?

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2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex and i were together off and on a total of 3 and a half years. When we got back together it was because we had been spending so much time together and both knew we still loved each other. We confessed to each other that being apart felt wrong. Well two weeks into being ... (403 words

Should I reject her again or try to hang out at least once?

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2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - A month and a half ago, I ran into my best friend from grade school. We had also been friends in high school. She is the only person I spent significant time with for most of my grade school years, and that bond kind of spread to high school (we went to different schools), ... (571 words

Any advice how to move on so I can be happy?

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2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - I think after 4 years of dating my boyfriend I want to move on. Im sick of everything hes put me through, and I can't trust him. He's my first love, etc. so I'm not sure how to just leave. I've tried to before but I love him so much I couldn't stay away and kept forgiving him. ... (69 words

What little things do girls do that you love?

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2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - okay, i know i'm young, yeahyeah. blahblah 'dont have sex,' blah! thats not what i want to hear, what i want to know is little things that you love that a girl does. and i dont just mean during sex, but other times too, like to be romantic or 'sexually arousing' you know, nice ... (64 words

I feel as if he is holding me back from finding someone that is going to be a more energetic boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - well this is really weird i am 19 years old and a female. i have a boyfren of a year and one month that cares so much about me but i do not feel the same. my bopyfren is an amazing friend i feel like we can b bestfrens cause he is always there for me but its not the ... (316 words

I'm loosing my virginity on my 20th birthday, ...advice needed.

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2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - so in a couple of days i will be 20, and on my 20th birthday my bf is taking me away and we have discussed us sleeping together then. I am aware of the big step, but am also aware of how ready i am with him to proceed with this. He is also aware of my virginity. But i am curio... (166 words

My parents would not approce of the age difference, ..and her parents wont let boys over until she is 18.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have a slight problem, i started talking to a girl through friends and she is one of the few girls that i have enough common interest with that i can really have a good conversation with and have fun with. Everything seemed awesome till i asked her age, i assumed that from ... (330 words

The only girl I've slept with would not let me come inside her - even with a condom. Is this normal? I am not sure what to do with my new girlfried.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1301 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - I dated the same girl for 4 years and she's the only girl I've had sex with. We broke up a few months ago and I'm starting to see someone else now. The entire time I was with my ex I never came inside of her at her request, even with a condom on. I never gave it any thought ... (117 words

I have a guilt riding on my conscience about trying to take someone away from someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Could really use some help here. I just started a new job and came across the most beautiful girl I have ever met. The problem is that she is in a relationship with another man. The thing is that she has been in this relationship for over four years and she wants to get out but ... (232 words

His porn has become a problem in the bedroom!

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2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and weve had some problems with is porn addiction. i left him bout 7 months ago because he had such a problem with not only porn but datin sites and personals ads. i left him for about 3 months but we never totally seperated. ... (265 words

How do I break up with him, without hurting his feelings too much?

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2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello. I'm in need of some advice here! My boyfriend and have been dating for a month, which is a pretty short time. I just don't feel attracted to him, no "spark". I've felt a spark when kissing my other ex-boyfriends...not my current one. I feel like he is smothering me too; ... (128 words

Is dating someone who is financially unstable with stress and anxiety issues worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is broke. After working as a stock broker and earning a very high income, he began suffering medical issues from the stress and pressure of the job. He eventually quit this job so that he could improve his health and found something that is less stressful but ... (459 words

Was it rape or attempted rape?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is this rape or attempted rape? I'm 18 years old now and when this first started i was 17 almost 18. Well my mom wanted me to get a job. so she asks her friend who i didn't really care for about letting me work for him. she has known this guy since i was lil (maybe 8 years n... (600 words

Is he REALLY my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - My friend only talks to me when he doesn't know its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didn't want to till him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. How can a friend e so ... (154 words

How much money will we need?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 22-25 - How much money should me and my boyfriend save up before moving into a place of our own? I currently live with my mum, and he lives with his mum and step dad, but i'll be moving in there in the summer and we'd like to get our own place as soon as we can. I'll be finish... (154 words

Does he deserve another chance after everything I've put up with from him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello again! Well I took everyone's advice. I got closure on my ex-boyfriend, and have put my whole heart into working it out with my baby's dad. I thought things were going well, we weren't fighting, we went shopping for baby stuff, and talked about moving in together in June ... (533 words

Should I go with him to the dance?

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2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - ok i found out from my friend that my boyfriend is going to ask me to a dance for valentine's day. By that time it will be five days before our one month but i have known him for almost a year now. Should i go with him to the dance and if so what should i expect of him?... (62 words

Could masturbating too much cause infertility?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is masturbating more than 5 times a day normal? Is it healthy? Could I risk infertility if I continue doing so?... (24 words

Valentine gift???

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2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 21 years old. She comes from a rich family and has pretty much everything she needs. Valentine is coming up and I'm struggling to find a perfect gift for her. It has been suggested sending flowers but I felt that's not enough. What else could I gi... (71 words

Why am I still so shaken up over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (? age 18-21 - hii, im 16 and my new boyfriend, steve, is 19. we`ve been together for 2 months. i did not lose my virginity to him but we had sex for the first time together last night. he is the second guy i have had sex with. so let me give you a little info about this. i was raped last ... (268 words

Help!!! How can I get him to like me again???

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2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay well theres this new kid at school and he moved here in like september and i went out with him for like 2 weeks when he moved here, but then we got in a huge fight becuz he told me a secret that i told one of my friends and she told everyone, so we broke up. well the thing ... (186 words

I find young girls attractive, but I want to maybe seek help.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - I don't know where to start.. I'll explain it to the best I can. Please be kind and understanding with your replies. It IS normal for a guy to find girls attractive from when they can start to create a child. (Puberty). It is just society today, etc that has changed thin... (534 words

Falling for the impossible

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 18-21 - I have been friends with this guy a long time and i just recently discovered that i love him but we only have like a fling we cant be together but we kiss sometimes and i want it to be more than that but i know its not possible but i just hope this doesnt affect our friendship ... (75 words

Do you think he's just frightened to "come out"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok there is this guy that I was seeing since June 2009 until January this year, he says he’s bisexual and likes girls more than guys, but he told me he would never have a relationship with a guy or have sex with a guy, but after a few weeks of knowing each other we was texting ... (446 words

Can this guy be sexy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 22-25 - Can a normal guy (say, an 8/10 in looks) be very confident in his own skin around people, yet be obviously nervous around girls he likes (but isn't with), and still be sexy to most girls who look 9/10? ... (40 words

Did you have to train your boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

2 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I recently got into a relationship with a guy. Although he is much older than I am, I often have to instruct him in proper behavior. This is anything from wearing a belt (so the top of his rear isn't showing) to making mature conversation (so he doesn't gross people out at ... (98 words

I am very confused and not able to forget her past.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

2 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I recently found that the girl i am going to marry had sexual relationship with 8-9 people. I asked her before we got engaged about her past relationships but at that time she told me that she was a virgin. But somehow i got the password of her email and i come to know about ... (153 words

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