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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Should I just sit and wait and see what happens?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have never been so happy today as I was. I have known my guy friend for two years now. We can’t stop this thing we started. He has always seemed like he liked me some days and other times he didn’t. I was really confused and everything I tried to make him see that I liked him ... (539 words

Could I be pregnant? Could the pound-shop tests be wrong?

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - here goes... about 9 weeks ago i lost my virginity, the boy never had a condom on and also i havent yet started my period. 68 hours later i got the morning after pill and took it! then 2 weeks ago i took a test which said i was not pregnant. to make sure i was no... (152 words

I like having sex but that's all we got... Should I move on or keep at it?

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well I knew this guy for about 3 years now and recently we had sex a few times. I liked it and all but we were never together. I know that he only wanted me for sex but right now I dont want to get together with anyone so I would always have sex with him. i like having sex ... (93 words

I wonder if a player could stop playing for somebody like me

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi :) Right, heres the deal, there was a guy I met when I went out with a friend from uni, he lives in her halls, we got talking and just had a spark, you know one of those people who you can just talk to for hours? Well, we did, for around 4 hours on facebook, it was so good,... (445 words

My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding an up and coming sporting event. ... (396 words

He is bad news, how do I let go!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - so hurt scared and angry overall confused. last week i told this guy that i like that i had a dream about him i didnt tell him what the dream was about. im gonna tell him ne time i see him i couldnt tell him then cuz i had to leave the dream is no big deal. i am conflicted ... (344 words

I fancy a school teacher and it's driving me nuts!

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey every1, ok Ive four years left of school and I've fancied this teacher since first year and it's driving me nuts! But I really want to know wheather he likes me back. So I'm going to tell you a few scenerios of why I think he likes me and ask you guys what you think. ... (273 words

Just because I don't talk much my school principal wants me to get counselling

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Moderator's Note: Identifying information removed from question. IM 15 years old i go to a highschool called XXX highschool (it the worst school in the bronx) i tend talk alot and im the popular girl in school i get along with alot of people on the other hand alot of people d... (206 words

Same day my boyfriend broke up with me another sent me a lovely gift

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - right my boyfriend fraser broke up with me today and i`m really upset but i still have feelings for him but 10 mins after he broke up with me a parcel came through the door from a boy called Sean who still loves me and it was a sphere of life which was silver and inside was a ... (93 words

Am I the rebound guy?

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Am i the Rebound guy? Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months now.. she was dating her ex for approx 3 years.. when i first started hanging out with her they were together and from what she said very much on the rocks... they lived together.. i liked her but wasn't trying ... (269 words

My boyfriend doesn't understand that women can "get off" through other means!

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok so my bf and I have been having sex for almost 2 months now. We've done it about a dozen times, I have orgasmed once out of the 12 times. While I realize that I'm lucky enough to be able to get that point since I know some girls never orgasm from sex, it's somewhat ... (432 words

Why did the guys from the lower socio economic areas bully me

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - there was lot of guys i have likes from council houses but they seem treated me very badly and i am nice to them i am not not from council house area.but they guys i have like are they insulted and be little treated me badly,hurted intentionly some don,t want even to be ... (154 words

We have broken up but he still texts and contacts me every day

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Im very confused with my situation. So, I was with my boyfriend for 8 months. For the first couple of months, the specific birth control I was on made me crazy. I would get mad at my boyfriend for the stupidest things and it would turn into blow out fights. I realized ... (180 words

What do these signs mean? Are boys driven away from because of my hobbies?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I need some guys opinions, If this other guy smiles and comes right over then hugs me, or smiles at me and stares while I'm on stage singing, or is letting me put his hand on his leg and puts his hands and legs on me, always tickling me...does this mean he likes ... (133 words

Motivation for weight lost, any advice.

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Basicaly I went on a diet before christmas and I lost 13 pounds in 13 days which was excellent I am obese so it was easy to do just cut out all junk, exercise etc... I quit my diet as my motivation just completly went out the window. Anyone have any tips on losing we... (74 words

Facebook the cause of my problems.

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. i have recently moved away for uni. we both decided to delete our facebooks because they just cause so many problems, worrying about tagging in photos and worrying about who we were talking to, not knowing them etc. but re... (159 words

He says my actions prior to our dating permits him to have sex with other girls

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend of 3 and a half years suffers from retroactive jealousy. I was no slut in the past, far from it actually, but still, he thinks I was and that's what's ruined us. He knows a guy to whom I gave a BJ to, he knows that guy was a close friend and that I used to have ... (692 words

Is he just a player, or does he really like me?

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Hi, there is this guy in my year and i really like him. We both are in relationships with people who go to other schools but when we see each other we always hug, grab each others behind, or just flirt. When we are in a group of friends we will alwa... (129 words

Not a wimp but can't stand the teeth.

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - ok my last post was about being insecure with the curve of my man hood.... the comments were very helpfull due to the fact I was about to be with this woman in bed you guys were right on she never made a mention of the curve my issue is that she is very agressive and rough in ... (136 words

What can I do about a needy potential boyfriend?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i met this guy, and he's really really sweet and we have a lot on common, but all i think of him is a really close friend. He knew when we met that all we were gonna be was friends because i'm gay, but after a while he kept asking me if i was sure i was a complete ... (233 words

Erection on and off. Is this normal?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and bf were pleasuring each other but he kpt going soft then hard and he'd lose his erection but then in would come back. Whats does this mean? he didn't seem embarressed or anything he just said that he masterbated that morning. then we continued and continued and he came ... (82 words

I don't know what to think. Boyfriend is still on dating sites.

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. Living together for 3 years. A couple of months ago I seen on our internet history he had been looking at escort websites. I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious and liked looking at the photos of ... (221 words

How can I lose weight and sexually satisfy my husband after giving birth?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, My question is relatively simple. I just had a baby two weeks ago. Can someone tell me what really works to help get off the baby weight and help tighten the skin back up? Also, right now my husband and I cannot have sex for obviously reasons, but we'v... (72 words

Unable to perform yet still aroused.

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26 February 2010 (M age - dear cupid my problem is i am 52 my partner is 40 its a new relationship although we did have one a long time ago we both regret not staying together 23 years ago we lost contact all this time but met again recently and realised we still love each other. the problem is in bed i ... (168 words

Secret vasectomy, how do I forgive and move on?

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married 13 years. We have an 8 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. In 2002 when my daughter was 4 months old, my husband made the decision to have a vasectomy without talking to me about it. I found out because he put his antibiotics and pain ... (296 words

How to deal with resentment?

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I'm suffering from resentment, its KILLING ME! The guy that I'm in love with, doesn't love me any more and he's moved on. I hate him , he lead my best friend on and did other things that made me feel small.I stopped talking to him so he has no clue. Me and m... (225 words

Drunken Cheating...what to do?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in college, but it had gone ... (237 words

Does the penis stop growing or is it a continuous process?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is my mom and others think she ... (264 words

I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was pressuring me into having sex. It ... (84 words

I want to get over him but I like him so much

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - So here’s the story: I’ve fancied this guy at school for about a year now. We talk on msn a lot and have done for over a year. Judging by our msn conversation you’d think we were pretty good friends, sometimes a couple. The problem is that he’s shy and quiet, and I’m the same... (287 words

Is it possible to lose 15 pounds in 5 weeks?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really want to loose at least 15 pounds before spring break. How can I loose it that fast? It's in 5 weeks, is it even possible? I just want to be bikini ready!... (34 words

What should I do about my feelings for this older man that works at my school?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay this is going to sound crazy but im 16 about to be 17 and im in love with a 30 year old. and trust me when i say that is not the worst part. he works at my school so i see him every day. he is the first person to give me that gut feeling your suppose to get when u fall in ... (191 words

Will giving her my number scare her off?

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have much time to come online. ... (65 words

I set them up but now I cant stand them being together!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - About a couple months or so ago, my friend had gotten out of a failing relationship, and she was really looking for someone who would treat her right. i was even looking for someone to treat her right. anyway, i met this guy and he seemed really sweet, we got to talking and i ... (313 words

What did she mean when she said this?

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month now, and she said she still needs time to forget about the bad stuff, and miss me. I hurt her by changing as a person. Like I got comfortable and I guess things changed between us. Like I didn't do the things I did ... (250 words

Should I wait for him to be done with his exams so he can talk to me again?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt, my question is i like a guy a lot we were talking to each other for almost two months and now he doesnt wants to talk to me because he says that he s having his exams in may and he has to prepare for that,he told me that he will talk to me when he is done wit... (79 words

She is leaving regardless of whether I am coming with her or not, is she being unreasonable?

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend of six months is moving away for a new job. She will be a 12 hour drive away in a state and part of the country I don't like. It's not a desirable location. She could have a good job and stay here, but doesn't like the company. This will also take her farther ... (90 words

Did she use me to make my friend jealous?

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my friend jealous and to see if he liked her? And when they got it together why did she keep rubbing it in my face? I would be very grateful if people to tell me what they think she was doing. Did I miss read her or was she u... (699 words

Should I tell a best female friend I've loved her for years?

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi I would like some advices concerning asking a girl out how I have secretly had feeling for years. I’m very confused of what I should do next and not very good at flirting or reading women’s signals. The situation is I have known her for 10 year we attended the same univers... (678 words

Should I give them the money despite working so hard to save it to make myself more financially stable?

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi I'm facing a dilemma here. After leaving an abusive relationship of five years (which also ruined me financially; also during this time the situation was so unstable I was moving from job to job, state to state and just handing over my paychecks) I have started staying with ... (392 words

We split up because he doesn't know what he wants, so should I stick around to find out or leave now?

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Im about one month pregnant me and my boyfriend are still living together but we broke up because he doesnt know what he wants. when his ex found out about me a year ago she started to call him more and more maybe because she didnt want him with my kids and she would constantly ... (425 words

Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with.... (52 words

Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?

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26 February 2010 (M - I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always either emailed, called, or had ... (325 words

What should I do when my ex that owes me $3000!! and a friend $1000

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26 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend cheated on me with 2 other women (unprotected).i stupidly forgave him cause it was with his ex and his roomate and he was drunk.. then he lied bt his father dying!!! to get $ from me cause he was expecting a inheritance..such bad morals..lied to my parents.A ... (503 words

Should I consult a doctor because I am having trouble getting an erection?

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi I am 20 years old I have not done sex anytime but when i have gone to do it my penis dosent stand ,I dont know y but when I was seeing some adult movies it was regularly standing what might be the reason behind it? either to consult a doctor or not??? ... (63 words

I'm having trouble with my virgin boyfriend!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi i am 17 and i need help. im not a virgin and my boyfriend is and we were planning on haven sex one day but he chickened out, and then told all his friends that we had sex and i was wondering what to do about it? and also how do i give him pleasure but dont do it to were we ... (76 words

How can I make her happy? I don't want her to regret choosing me over her family

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi any help you could give would be great im 26 and have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. this was both of our first lesbian relationship and we kept it secret for over a year because we wanted to be sure about each other before telling anyone. Anyway, we tol... (344 words

My previous boss wont leave me alone and wants sex with me!

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Howdy all well se i have been married for about 12 years now. I did make a mistake a few years ago i slept with my boss. Now he keeps on phoning me and tells me he missed me. me and my husband moved a few months ago to another city somehow he moved to the same city. And phoned ... (205 words

If you have genital herpes, should you expect to be alone or hope that someone will accept you?

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Should a person with genital herpes expect someone to accept them or should they expect to be alone?... (18 words

My husband is very rude! Am I doing something wrong?

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have noticed that when my husband goes away for work 1day or so and he is coming home he doesnt call me nor let me know he is save. Then i kinda freak out and say to him if been worrying if you're ok. I will kiss him then if he say something like he left later than he said he ... (964 words

Why do guys from council houses treat me so badly when I am nice to them?

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - there was lot of guys i have likes from council houses but they seem treated me very badly and i am nice to them i am not not from council house area.but they guys i have like are they insulted and be little treated me badly some don,t want even to be seen.why are they like to ... (160 words

Is there a way to convince him I am NOT nuts?

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I seem to have a problem with self body image and trust. I was seeing this guy who I really like. He is very funny, sweet, smart and honesty sexy as hell. I am attractive to many people but I am not a twig. I am a real sized woman. He never seemed to have a problem with my ... (144 words

I keep upsetting my work colleagues.

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26 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hello.l I am a female office worker who just cannot seem to get on with her colleagues mostly when it comes to interpersonal relationships at work, although I still socialise with them outside work sometimes. Don;t get me wrong, I have lots of freinds and an active social life, ... (273 words

Should I interfere in my daughter's relationship after the way he behaved or should I leave it alone?

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26 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I need some advice re my daughter. She is 21 and a student doing well at college. Unfortunately she got involved with a guy who although he seems quite sweet etc etc, is not working and not at college but after some pressure from her, is now enrolling for a course soon. ... (989 words

I'm 24 and haven't felt a strong, real interest in someone for years!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm starting to think something's broken in me when it comes to relationships. Are you supposed to feel nervous and excited when you're about to meet up with someone you like or is that just a teenage feeling? Because I'm 24 and haven't felt a strong, real interest in someone ... (127 words

My boyfriend has a seperate mobile phone just for his ex!

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26 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since but she was upset and wanted to ... (305 words

Just found out my boyfriend is leading a double life!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - This year I discovered that my boyfriend has been living a double life - a secret life - with another girl in a long distance relationship. Could be more than one girl, but ONE I know about anyway. He's a compulsive time keeper and was so good at telling lies and jugglin... (274 words

What was his mindset when he wrote this???

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - Recently I found out that my now ex boyfriend had been having an affair for what looks to be two years or possibly more. I found out about this just a few weeks ago and it's shattered my world. I'm trying to pick up the peices of my life and I am making good progress, but I ... (1269 words

Pregnant and scared my daughter will feel left out once the new baby comes along...

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've just found out that im pregnant and i feel really guilty bout it. Im 28 and i have a 5 yr old daughter already from a previous 5 yr relationship. Ive been single for 3 yrs so its just been me and my daughter weve done so much together she such a special little girl. We had ... (295 words

Do you think I should give him one opportunity to try and explain what happened and why?

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I recently found out that the guy I've been seeing for many years has been having an affair. I found this out after that wrenching, knawing feeling in my gut drove me to do some investigation work on the internet.. and sure enough.. because so many people s... (473 words

Bothered about her interest in my friends!

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi I've been seeing this girl for the past two months, and everything is great. We both just got out of bad relationships, and feel like we know what we want and don't want. We both communicate well together, and even the topic of jealousy has been discussed. I told her t... (210 words

Should I give him another chance and not pressure him so much?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Alright, where to start. I'm 16 and i've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's from a different state than I am. We met on Myspace and just got to know eachother. We thought we might try a relationship out just to see how it would work out, because from the ... (860 words

In a relationship that can go nowhere...

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26 February 2010 (F age - What do you do if you were living defacto - then he moves out to be with his 4 troubled childern - ages from 23 - 10 years of age. He is still married but not with his wife. We are still dating and getting on well but I rarely see him and there seems no way we can live ... (78 words

I love "IT" he literally hates "IT"

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay i'm 19 and i married a 30 year old.(yea i know i'm crazy). but as a child i was sexually abused for 10 years strait and now i can't go a day with out getting off at least once. now here is the problem my husband has literally told me that he hates "IT". we have tried to ... (158 words

No pleasure having sex...

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, im a 19 year old male, and ive just started having sex, yet all of the times ive done it i havent felt anything, its warm and all but no real sexual pleasure like when i masturbate, ive considered the fact i may be gay but that doesnt appeal to me any more than girls. wtf ... (61 words

This MUST mean she likes me right?

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, well, I posted a question earlier about how I wanted to ask this girl out without being too cheesy. She just told me she's going to have the house to herself and proposed that I spend the night... I don't know if I'm reading too much into this, but isn't that a sure sign... (62 words

Making my move...

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm going to be making a move on a chick I want I'm thinking of going in like moving toward her then saying what would you do if I made a move and while all this I'm going in for a kiss then saying what would you do if I kissed you then kiss her What are things I can ... (86 words

She feeds off of making my life suck!!!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Theres this girl that i hate with a passion pretty much if i was a super hero she would be my arch nemisis, since grade nine she has beeen trying to do everything like possible to ruin my life , in grade nine this guy i liked (my current boyfriend now ) is realated to this ... (495 words

How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I told her if I ever caught ... (105 words

I want to travel the world but my parents won't let me.

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - This is not really a question about relationships or anything but I am only 13 and I want to travel the world and be on my own but my parents won't even let me walk around by myself! What should I do?... (42 words

I am so bitter and angry right now!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem. In the past three relationships I've had, my ex-significant others have said the same thing to me after the break-up... "Any other guy would be so lucky to have someone like you. You'll make someone very happy someday." They tell me that I'm sweet and ... (637 words

His parents say driving 2 hours to see each other is pointless...

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Here is more about the guy that lives 2 hours away. He just turned 17 and lives in a small town. He is the most amazing guy I have ever met. He makes me smile and he gives me butterflies. Whenever I text him I don't know what to say because I never want to sound stupid. So I ... (185 words

Confusion between friends and lovers...

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I moved outta state almost 3 years ago and I am just now finding freinds. I have a friend at work and we always take our breaks together and text eachother (we haven't hungout outside of work yet) and I really like her. She's really cool and we have a lot in common being two ... (147 words

Why didn't he answer me?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently started to like a guy at my school. It's come to my attention that we have a lot in common. I wanted to talk to him about it but I had trouble because he was always surrounded by his friends. On Valentine's Day I was giving lots of friends chocolates and I saw him by ... (308 words

We keep running out of things to talk about...

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - Lately my boyfriend and I seem to have run out of things to talk about. He calls me in the morning asks me how my sleep was and what I'm doing today. Then he says he'll call me later. After work he calls me asks me how my days was. I ask him about work. I ask him his evening ... (173 words

Am I making a mistake liking this high school dropout?

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26 February 2010 (F - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another drink in his area..so he drove ... (314 words

How do I make him more comfortable around me? He's just so shy.

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - so i just started talking to this SUPER SHY guy. i mean SUPER SHY! he used to just stare at me, but then i started talking to him. hes friends w/ my bgf (best guy friend) and they talk about me and he likes me2. its just hes SOOO shy. he looks down when i talk to him, and... (101 words

Competing with alcohol!

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26 February 2010 (M age - I love my wife very much. But she drinks so much she was put in a cardiac care unit six months ago. The doctors said she had almost depleted her body of iron and her blood count was six. Yes that's right six. I was shocked as well as the doctor who told me. When I called the ... (201 words

Why does it always take him so long to cum?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for almost a year and when we have sex he doesn't cum. He told me he normally doesn't when he masturbates it takes him almost an hour to cum I'm not sure what I can do.. ... (42 words

Kissing with tongues is gross! Will I get used to it and like it eventually?

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26 February 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I made out with my best guy friend. He's 19 and I was wondering, is it normal for me not to like it so much right now? I mean I liked kissing but when we used tongue I thought the texture was kinda gross. Will it change once I do it more and I get used to it over the ... (63 words

She keeps crying all the time... is she that insecure?

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26 February 2010 (? age 30-35 - Ok, me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half now and her insecurities and lack of trust seem to grow on a day to day basis. I'm a Christian, and very faithful to my religion and my girlfriend. I never blow up at her, I write her poems, hold her for hours ... (257 words

Asian Indian girl asked me to become her brother?

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - I know a really nice Asian Indian girl who asked me to "become" her brother. Which is fine, because there's always been a platonic relationship going on.. but I'm worried that once that happens, I'm not even sure how it would work in future .. I don't know how the human mi... (223 words

How do I get over Miranda?

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26 February 2010 (M age 41-50 - There was a girl (Miranda) that I briefly dated when I was 17. The relationship was emotional, but never turned physical because she decided that she was going to see her ex-boyfriend again so, like a dope, a let her go. We both moved on and saw other people, but it hurt me to ... (341 words

She lied to me about her age...

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26 February 2010 (M age 36-40 - In September i travelled to Thailand, and met a Thai girl who is 28 (im 22) and the chemistry was there right away i spent the 12 days of my holiday with her and fell in love. A lot of people get perceptions of thai girls who want money and move out of there country. But ... (332 words

I'm scared now that I made the wrong choice...

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with a man I had been seeing about a month ago. We only dated for about 3 months, but it was the most intense whirlwind relationship of my life. I have always been a bit aloof in relationships, and considered myself to be strong and independant, had outside ... (354 words

Am I so wrong for not wanting to have sex?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not quite sure what has happened to me, but my sex drive has gone way down and it's putting a strain on my relationship. My boyfriend feels that because I don't want to have sex with him, the passion is gone and that I find him unattractive. He feels rejected when I say no ... (362 words

He's telling me to stay away from him after our encounter...

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26 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay so I've been on here before. I confessed to my best guy friend that i had bi-sexual tendencies and that i was attracted to him. And me telling him was after i had kissed him out of the whim. Yeah after that bold move..(stupid of me)..he ignored me for a couple of days. ... (288 words

My boyfriend is in constant contact with his ex!

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26 February 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 3 months has been having daily contact with his ex over the phone, either by texting or phone calls. He says he has no feelings for her and I am being paranoid by being concerned. I say if you have no feelings for someone then why have daily contact. He ... (139 words

My teacher makes my heart beat faster and faster... Help!

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey i am in deep love with my teacher i know you might be think it is not love but when i see him my heart gets faster and faster i dont know how to ask around him. and to make it worse he knows i like him and i see him like 5 times a week. i dont know what to do i need help ... (67 words

Is there any hope in convincing him that a relationship may be worth it?

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - There's a guy that I like. I like him a lot - I fell hard and fast for him (which is totally outside my personality). We've hung out and talked for about 4 months now and I recently got accepted into graduate school. He messaged me to tell me congratulations and we started ... (203 words

She really likes me but it's her sister I fancy! Help!

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl(Anita) that shows obvious interest in me but i refuse to give her positive responses cos i'm interested in her elder sister. Anita is always around me especially when she sees me in public and i can't drive her away. Now, i've got a very strong feeling of ... (74 words

Since I had sex with him he seems uninterested.

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26 February 2010 (F age 30-35 - I had sex with this boy, i really liked him but knew we wernt ever gonna be together, cuz i just knew basically... just whenever i see him in school now he holds my hand in a way of sayin 'you kool' sorta thing, like im just any girl to him, it hurts so much, I saw him today ... (210 words

Can there still be something there between me and my ex?

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I'm a bit confused right now. My ex came to see me today and we made dinner together and had a super fun time joking and laughing. Amongst other things we laughed at our in jokes. When we first got together we were good friends and we were best friends throughout our 4... (183 words

My husband has gotten his ex wife pregnant!

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for five years, lived together for ten. His son has lived with us for five years, and we have a child together (adopted). My husband recently had an affair with my step son's mom. This is the fourth affair, all with her. We decided to work it ... (118 words

We're drifting apart...

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26 February 2010 (F age 41-50 - god were do i start iv been with my partner for the past 7 years, i have two girls from a previous partner which he totaly accepts as his own, my only problem is we started to drift apart. i love him to bits but emotianaly hes not there weve talked about it and talked about it ... (258 words

Is it just me or does he act kind of distant?

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26 February 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I'm crushing on this guy right now... but I'm not sure if he is interested in me. The first impression I got when I met him is that he was shy- he didn't look me in the eye, but he asked me a lot of questions. The first time I saw him, I caught him staring at me. Now, I ... (303 words

She doesn't know if our relationship is working. What do I do?

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26 February 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for about 5 months now and we've been really close and in love etc. But recently she's seemed very distant, so I talked to her about it and eventually she told me that she is unsure if we are working and is unsure how she feels about me. I asked her if ... (162 words

Is this relationship wrong?

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26 February 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok heres the deal. I'm a 15 year old boy and I have a 19 year old brother. My brother had a girlfriend and they broke up. She is now 17 and really hot. My brother's ex girlfriend and I go to the same high school now. So one day I was talking to her (after they had broken up) ... (207 words

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