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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, There is this lady i'm really in love with and have tried all can to make my feelings known to her but anytime i tried, the more she gets mad at me and warns not to raise that issue of love. Cupid, what amaze me is that she responds to my calls and sometimes complain when i try not to call her. i consulted a friend and said she is only trying to 'stretch' me which i don't think it is so. the fact is i can see from her gestures she also likes me. i really need ur advice on how to get to the heart of this younglady because things are really not okay without her!! pleas help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Spear  +, writes (14 February 2010):
Dude if she is getting pissed off because u mention the fact u love her and she knows how u feel about her get out of there she's not interested in you in that way.she thinks of u as a friend only.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (14 February 2010):
 Sounds to me as if you're trying too hard! She apparently does like you, but feels pressured with all your talk about your feelings and it makes her uncomfortable. No doubt she is aware already of how you feel, you don't need to keep impressing it on her!
People are, by nature, at different places emotionally in relationships. One may feel more attached and "in love" than the other. Perhaps the one who is more reserved will come to have stronger feelings - but sometimes not.
Your best bet is to take it slowly, and talk with her about things you and she find interesting: politics, news, movies, books, how your job(s) are going, share amusing stories and jokes, just enjoy being with her without (no matter how much you may want to) rushing her.
Good luck!
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