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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why can't I just be cool and have fun with people like everyone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry that this is so long. There are just some feelings that have been consistently bothering me that I need to move on from, and it's hard to explain. I'm a pretty average white guy. 6 foot something, a little geeky. I'm a a student, starting to get older and beginn... (951 words)

Should I ask her out, or is she just being kind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl in high school i really like but i can't tell if she likes me back. i first me her when she asked me to help her on her essay and ever since its been going up hill. i asked her to go to the mall with me and friends she said she couldn't. she askes me tutor ... (123 words)

I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am scared of getting close because of the way my ex treated me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 22 and have a lovely boyfriend who is 25 weve been together for one year but the problem is im too scared to get close to him physically and its starting to put a strain on my relationship. My previous relationship before my current boyfriend has effected me emot... (634 words)

My husbabd can go months without touching me so I ended up having an affair with my best friend. I don't know how to deal with the guilt of lying tho!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for nearly 5 years. My husband is 10 years older than me and he is a good man and great husband but we have no intimacy. He can go months without ever touching me and I know he is not having an affair. I have tried talking to him about this but he starts ... (170 words)

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is and why it is being ... (110 words)

I wish I could be more fun but it feels like hell trying to accomodate each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but I am seeing a lot of problems so I will have to explain everything I detail. At first our relationship was great. We had great sex we talked and it seemed like it was time to live together, we had our differences such as I ... (649 words)

Another teacher crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I want help so that I can get over this crush of mine. It is really bothering me, because firstly I only want to be friendly! And secondly this GUY (obvious wasn't it?) is a TEACHER. I can't fancy a teacher! It will ruin me! I don't want to enjoy it, or just let it flow...I ... (359 words)

3 years of marriage and it's already going downhill.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years with one child and had the "perfect" honeymoon stage; but for the last year it has been heading straight down hill. Like any other marriage, it has needed it's work; but has been neglected on her end. We attended marriage counseling for 1 year ... (155 words)

I feel to dependant on him, it's making me insecure.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and things are great between us but recently I've realised that I'm too dependent on him. I used to hate school and was the first to take a day off when I wasn't feeling quite 100% but since he came into the picture, I've be... (275 words)

My ex says he does not want to be held down and that women are arseholes, yet he has sex with me eveytime we meet up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so i dated this guy for 3 years then we broke up and we both started dating other people. the girl he was with though lasted a year. after they broke up he took me to niagara falls and for the past year i have seen him 1-6 times a month since he took me to niagara there ... (133 words)

Are we going out? Will he formally ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK here goes, I really like this guy and introduced myself to him, a shy foreign exchange student. We started talking a lot in outside his classes or the library and after one amazing conversation, we exchanged number. I initiated that. The first week or so I did most of the ... (213 words)

I am 19, want to get engaged and pregnant but I am afraid of my parents reaction.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner (both 19) have been together for a a year and 2 months we love each other dearly and are mature for our age. We have talked alot throughout our relationship about having a child and also getting engaged. It seems like forever that ive been wanting to become p... (419 words)

I become depressed as soon as my husband walks in the door.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband and I have been together for a total of 4 years, married for 3 of them. In the beginning our relationship was fantastic, sex was amazing and couldn't wait to get our hands each other type relationship. We were each others best friend and hated being apart. Nearly a ... (620 words)

I need advice on repairing a mother-daughter relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this has nothing to do with a romantic relationship. I need some advise on how to repair a mother daughter relationship. I just recently gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, it is my moms first grandchild and she is thrilled to be a new grandma. She was actually in the ... (436 words)

I'm shy when it comes to asking girls out. Can someone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - can anyone tell me how to ask out a girl? i know this sounds stupid, but i mean i havnt asked out anyone only been the one asked out. i really dont no how since if i try talking to girls i become a good friend to them but i wanna ask them out before this happens. i just wanna ... (81 words)

I am worried the stress I cause my girlfriend might make her miscarry our baby.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am 18 and my girlfriend is 19 and she is pregnant.. But we both want the baby we both tryed to get pregnant let me tell you a little about us we tried once and had a miscarriage because of stress and we tried again and she is pregnant again but i think we might l... (194 words)

I have a crush on a man-whore and want to loose my virginity to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello im 13, and 14 in a few days i have this big crush on this boy and he has one on me, but he is known to be a bit of a man slut if you know what i mean. well he has had sex a good few times, i really want to loose my virginity to him, he is so sweet. but i need the confiden... (140 words)

He says he has to get off MSN - but then I see him there 20 minutes later. Is it just an excuse not to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy i thought he liked me but i think he is shy we chat on msn alot nt much in person cuz he is shy i think when he goes of msn he say he has 2 go and says bye then he dnt sign out till like 20 mins later does this mean he is only sayin bye to me cuz he dnt want to ... (123 words)

I watch porn but am insecure about my man watching any sex scenes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ok I'm 23 and iv be in a steady serous relationship with a guy 32yrs old and I love him to death. I am terrified he will watch sex in films and music videos and wish I was like them girls. I'm very pritty myself but this doesn't change how I feel. I'm not fat either I'm a ... (132 words)

Peer pressure about sex, should I give in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok at my age not alot of the people i know are still virgins i sort of am. but its like it dont matter. it feels like if i have sex then i wont be invisible to them anymore. mu girlfriend want to have sex but i think its abit early. but does it really matter or is it o... (72 words)

Am I the only one scratching his nut-sack to a bloody pulp ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, here goes a big gulp of pride swallowing. I mean I just want to say that I am worn out, and tired of frigging scratching my freaking balls (scrotum) to bleed unto a bloody pulp. Sometimes they too soft and moist, so I scratch; but other times they too dry and I just lock ... (110 words)

I am in love with a married man but want to get on with my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, unfortunately im in love with a married man, who is muslim too and im not. im seperated from my husband but at the time, we were trying to work things out. i think i knew it was all over though. he left me over two years ago while i was pregnant with our second child... (791 words)

My wife cheated on me and I think she's still with him. How do I prove my worth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife cheated on me and I think she's still with him. I begged her to give me another chance, but she said she didn't know if she could make us work anymore. She thinks she's in love with the new guy and has said that sex with me had become unsatisfying and is the ... (222 words)

She wants to kick things up a notch and have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok new problem i have been seen this girl for a while now and its going great. she want to kick things up a notch as she want to have sex. we have done some of the other stuff like kissing and feeling each other but that was about it. i have been dreaming about this for a... (252 words)

Is this really love I feel, or comfort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, this is unnusual. im inlove with my schools resource officer. we spend a lot of time together. im comfy around him and can tell him anything. when he looks at me i get this feeling thts to hard to explain. when i come around the corner and i see him standing there my ... (98 words)

My husband wants me back, he says he's stopped drinking. He's had several chances, do I give him another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with B since i was 19 and he was 20 . are relationship has always been a little rocky we have 2 kids and been married for 8 years i have son from a previose relationship and he never treated him like his own . he is an alcholic and i have begged him for years to ... (214 words)

I want to please my girlfriend more, should I buy her a vibrator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I want to buy my girlfriend a vibrator for this Valentine's Day. I want to please her in different ways; kisses, caressing, massaging her breasts, going down on her, penetration, etc. And, well, now I wanna buy her a vibrator for a change. So, any advice or reccomendatio... (79 words)

Are backstabbers better than being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this seems unimpornant, I know. But I'm really having problems with it. I feel like all of my friends are backstabbers. They don't really care about me at all, and I feel like they don't want to be around me at all. I don't know how to handle the fear that I'll be ... (110 words)

HELP!! I had uprotected sex after two weeks of taking the pill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on saturday night,, eventhough he didnt ejaculate in me im concerned i could become pregnant as im only on my first packet of logynon contreceptive pills. Along from this i had sickness and diarhea on monday- tuesday and i know this ... (70 words)

How can I get boys to be interested in me instead of just slaggy girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heya, I am pretty confident and love to have a laugh. Sometimes i feel like im really not popular with boys and if i am, its because they want me as a friend. They seem to love all the slaggy girls who will do anything for them. There is this girl in my year who whenever im ... (145 words)

How can I change my look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im fed up of the way i look, i no beauty is on the inside an everythin i dont mean like that...i mean, i look the same everyday and every night (when dressed up to go out). the only thing that ever looks different is my clothes, i try to changer the makeup i wear, wear it in... (133 words)

First time sex on my wedding night, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Okay, I've just got engaged :) and I'm waiting for my wedding night until I have sex for the first time and I was wondering if there are any first time stories people are willing to share with me. It doesn't have to be wedding night first time, any first time will help since I ... (63 words)

Was this an orgasm or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hiii, I'm 16 and I've got a question about orgasms. At least I think thats what I'm talking about. Anyway, I was with my boyfriend yesterday and he was fingering me for the third time (third time with him, AND third time in my life) and he suddenly put his whole palm down on ... (148 words)

Cheated on, wanting him to change, and continue to give him the chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [paragraphs inserted by mod for ease of reading.] I met this great guy in the army little under a year ago. We stayed up all night talking when we met and had every thing in common, it was perfect. We started seeing each other every day and soon become inseperable. maybe a mont... (1051 words)

I can't seem to read guys feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sounds vague but you all sound so experienced with men and women relations. I'm kinda cold and never notice these or never bother to actually..but is it possible for a guy to harbor feelings for you and yet u never see him or are in touch. is it possible for a guy to have ... (88 words)

I am terrible at making new friends. How do I out myself out there and meet people I can hang out with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my first year at college, and I never realized how horrible I am at making friends. This wasnt my top choice and I had no intention of making friends here because I thought they werent my "type" of people. But now that Im in my second semester, I see that there are ... (295 words)

Men have a natural hatred for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (Mod Note - Op's own title. Text edited for clarity) can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,e... (207 words)

My boyfriend has repeatedly looked up pictures of a girl he knows. Sometimes while looking at porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has repeatedly looked up pictures of a girl he knows. Sometimes while looking at porn, other times while not. We broke up over it a year ago, but I just found him doing it again recently. Does this mean he has feelings for her? I know for a fact she doesn't like ... (90 words)

He told me he loved me after one day. Creepy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this may take a while to read, and it's pretty complicated... Basically, I kinda liked this guy at my school for a while and we talked and stuff, and everything was fine. Until a few weeks ago, I met a boy whilst I was out with some friends and we got on well, we kisse... (356 words)

I regret giving up my religion and having a baby. I feel like an old housewife when I should be out having fun!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a relationship with my partner for two years and we have a 2mnth daughter, I left home and changed my life, i gave up the religion i followed and have a totally diffrent lifestyle. Lately i have been so unhappy with the choice i made i regret haveing a baby and i ... (201 words)

I am a virgin but think about doing threesomes, porn and striptease. I am really confused about my morals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to wait until i have sex so my first time can be with someone i am in love with...but at the same time the thought of having threesomes, for example, makes me feel really aroused. also i feel desperate to have sex, i matsturbate very often and watch porn, (which i even ... (130 words)

My partner has not wanted sex ever since I had a baby.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay ive been with my man for over a year now. when we first got together we had a great sex life! about 6 months ago right after we had a baby he never wants to have sex, he always has excuses.. and it really hurts i feel like he dosent find me sexy anymore, whats the deal.. ... (93 words)

Is he shy? Just being nice? Should I bother waiting for him to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Shy, or just being nice? Met a guy on public transport. We have a lot in common, have good conversations when we see each other. However, don't see each other very often (mostly 1-3 a week) because we both have demanding jobs that can take unexpected overtime. Thi... (184 words)

Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?

This question has 70 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? I don't do that! I don't look ... (536 words)

He does not talk to me in person, only by email. Is he too shy or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy in my school, he's in two of my lessons, and I think he likes me, but I'm not too sure. When we're in our computer class, he e-mails me (he always starts convos first-I never do, too scared XD) and we often have funny and quiet random conversations. Those co... (258 words)

My husband get's mad when I wont have threesomes. How can I get out of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I caved to a threesome with my husband, and I don't want to do it again ....but he gets mad and insists that we do. How do I get out of this situation?... (34 words)

I've suffered from premature ejaculation for over 2 years and need to find a way to last longer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've suffered from premature ejaculation for over 2 years. Me and my girlfriend were going out for 2 years before we broke up. I always lasted about 15 seconds before I ejaculation. We tried different positions and everything but nothing seemed to work. There was this one tim... (192 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend who has been talking to girls behind my back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a deliemma. I had a baby two weeks ago, and since my booyfriend has been looking at porn and messaging girls on my space, telling them he wants to have sex with them. I found out the other night and since I've just been a wreck. It hurts SO bad. I feel worthless and ... (456 words)

What sort of questions can I expect at my job interview?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all im going for an interview soon and is is to work with children (cache course level 3) i wondered what type of questions they will be asking exactly. i have a rough preporation but need some more ideas.. thanks darlings. ohh and has eny one had an experience on a s... (68 words)

My vagina just does not look right.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heey. ive been wondering lately if my vagina lips are saggy or loose, they do seem different to others i have seen even though i havent seen many. mine just doesnt look rite and i need to know how to get rid of the saggyness, do you think excercises would help ?. please h... (56 words)

I need tips for first date conversations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im going on a first date tomorrow we are both shy people with out alcohol and have only met face to face after a drink. please give me some tips and topics to talk about but nothing to cheesy as i am 18. i now i must be myself but what else will help..??... (57 words)

What would be an appropriate valentine's day gift for a fwb?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to be spending valentines day with my closest friend. he and I have been real good friends for 3 years but have been fwb, too, for the past year and a half. we both agree that we're closest to each other of everybody we know. he's really special to me because I lost ... (144 words)

No matter how well I treat her she cant be happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend. we have been dating sense we were 16. our relationship was amazing for the first 2 years and the physical side of the relationship was great, then she became more and more distant and the intamacy just about ended which caused seious ... (273 words)

I stayed up all night plotting and rehearsing revenge on my hubby for watching porn! But I watch it myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I did a google search to see if I could find some answers to something that's been bothering me. I am 8 months pregnant, and my husband told me last night that he had been looking at porn again. We have an open relationship, and really don't keep secrets. But, it hurt me so ... (181 words)

He's insecure about relationships in general, and seems distant now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, long story short: met this guy a month ago, we've talked every day since weve met and hung out as well. he has told me many times he has feelings for me, i was reluctant to develope feelings at first. this weekend he had a party, i had a lot of fun with him and all his ... (238 words)

Is it illegal to sleep with my Uncle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it illegal to sleep with my muums brother who has a different mum and hes the same age as me?... (21 words)

I had sex with my cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - (parts re-written by mod for improved clarity) hi mr cupid, im 28 years old and single. when i got into vacation from abroad,i went to my grndma's province to visit them,then i met my pretty cousin. at her age of 18 she has lots of friends. she invited me to drink with... (170 words)

Is she into me just as much as I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl who used to date my best friend i used to talk to her everynight allnight on msn. she then broke up with my mate and i began having strong feelings for her i told her that i liked her but i then made the mistake of telling her that i loved her even though ... (219 words)

My life is everything I swore it would not be. I want out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help!!!!!! I'm 23 married and have a 2 year old son but believe it or not I want to get away. From a young age there were three things I'd always said I'd never do/be 1 live in a village 2 play the little housewife 3 have kids but guess what I am all of th... (177 words)

Relationship fading, because of video games!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little bit more than 3 years. We started off pretty well until we moved in together, he loves me and I love him to death. We always fought regardless of him moving over to my house but i just feel miserable. His temper skyrocketed and ... (455 words)

What are his intentions with these mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys. My long-distance boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Friday night. It was an amicable break-up, and one I kind of agreed with. I took it well, agreed we needed to go our separate ways and didn't make a fuss as I would do in the past when we argued. He was ... (397 words)

Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke down and told me how he had ... (369 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently wrote about finding condoms in mine and my bf's car and how he bought them for us and forgot them there. I also mentioned texts between him and some girls were, well lets say he crossed the line.(8 mnths ago) Well what if I do get the strength to leave but I ... (99 words)

Is it a good idea to get her a going away gift before she leaves for Australia for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl have been hanging out quite a bit recently. I got her number at a party a few weeks ago and weve talked a few times and hung out a couple but just recently been going over to her house, she invited me to a hockey game with her, and we always have alot of fun, ... (291 words)

Am I just being paranoid that he will use me for sex due to the way I have been treated in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been getting to know this guy.. he calls me a lot.. and he actually does call me when he says he will:) the thing is he keeps asking me if i like him..i like talking to him.,,hes good looking, sweet..he seems like a gentleman.. but i don't know if i like him that wa... (210 words)

Is it safe for a woman to take viagra?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends got some viagra from his dad and wants us to take it together. Iv read the packet and health risks but it stil says its for male erectile disfunction. Is it safe for women to take viagra (pfizer 25mg)? And if so what are the known effects for women? And have any ... (72 words)

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. A few months ago, I found out that he got his officemate pregnant.She was on her 5th month that time. I know that this is mainly my guys fault, but I found out that the girl knew all along that I'm living with my ... (915 words)

As soon as she came back from travelling her feelings changed, how could this happen so quickly?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been really good friends with a girl for the past 15 years,we get on really well, usually have fun and laughs together and she had helped me through problems with my ex and witnessed the fallout on both sides from the eventual breakup a few years ago. About halfway ... (759 words)

I cant get motivated to go to school.

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never want to go to school. I mean, when I get there, the lessons aren't so bad. I just can never motivate myself to get up and go! It's not becuase I'm tired in the morning, I just feel whats the point? And I know I should go, I really do, I know I miss out on work and... (104 words)

I'm 19 and my bf has a 16 year old daughter who is doing everything in her power to split us up.

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has a 16 year old daughter. i'm 19 and he's 50 - she's had a problem with us being together for the whole year and a half we've been together. at first i tried to get on with her but she started being devious and trying to get him back with his ex (who's 21 - so ... (552 words)

I made out with my friend and now he has stopped calling me!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, am very distrubed, i had a friend, we have been together for aby 6 months, no sex but be shared good times together, but one day, we decided to make out for the FIRST time, and after that, he never called again. i called and texted him, he refused to reply, am so hurt and ... (72 words)

My ex and I agreed to be friends, ..so how often should I text ot talk to him?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend split up because we go to different schools and it makes it very difficult for us to be in a relationship right now, although we managed on and off for about a year, so we've agreed to be friends and keep our options open. How often do I text or call him... (196 words)

I really care about her and would like to know how she feels.

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i have this girl and i was her first well that was the one and only time we had sex then i move away i'm back now and she has a kid (not mine) and a old man and we have became really good friend like so good we talk ever minent we are alone if its not not on the phone its ... (142 words)

Is it a bad idea to mention threesomes to girls that I might be risking not having 1-on-1 sex with?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I just got out of a 6 year marriage and for the last two years or so I've been obsessing about threesomes. I'm a very people-oriented guy and make friends fast and keep them for a long time. I always love being in groups and I've always thought 3-or more arrangements would ... (241 words)

Why do I want my ex wife around when I'm out and flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel so bad for my ex. We had a marriage for 6 years, and recently got divorced. I'm living with her till I get a job and can move out, we are trying to be friends, it's working pretty well, but she's noticed that I'm never home. Not only do my friends feel so much more at ... (206 words)

I don't want to get too comfortable as friends if perhaps we both want to go farther.

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, she's 25. it's been 6 years since i seen her last, i had a huge crush on her before and we hung out a lot but i never really put on any moves on her. i didn't have a lot of confidence back then but these days i'm VERY cocky. She just got out of a 6 year relationship, ... (155 words)

Jekyll and Hyde, Narcissistic Personality Disorder? What is this about?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age - I never left him, everytime I do it just falls apart but I have changed . I was right of being suspicious about the other woman. He plays away, he has sexual affairs yet he tells me I am the only one he loves blah blah blah.. I know him well looking at our relations... (928 words)

I just think if a guy likes u he will be in touch everyday! am I wrong? Do I need to be more patient??

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone could share some opinions on this and if i'm expecting too much! Ok so met this guy (kinda knew who he was before but not really to chat to) he took me number, we were texting all week he was always asking questions about me to get to know me, he works... (355 words)

Now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability suddenly makes me unwanted.?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm divorced now, was married for 6 years. Now single, confident and trying to get back into dating. During my marriage I seemed to always get vibes from girls that seemed to like me, but now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability suddenly makes me unwanted. I ... (107 words)

Should I disconnect the friendship or should I play smart and act strong or should I move on and forget what had happened or should I wait for him?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (Modf Note - Op's own title) I met this guy online while playing poker. Then he traveled from another country to come see me and take me on a vacation. We spent a week of vacation together. We made out two times but didn't have any sex. After the trip we talked it over. T... (200 words)

How can I tell if an old flame actually likes me or just wants to be friends...?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i met up with an old falme on saturday night for a quick drink, but now im getting mixed signals. How can i tell if he actually likes me or just wants to be friends...? after meeting with him i went out with a couple of girlfriends, i texted him thanking him for the drink... he ... (238 words)

Does having a drivers license - or not - affect getting dates?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - will not having my drivers license in a rural town affect if girls will date me? Due to slow and unmotivated parent still dont have it. Its the root of much of my hesitance to date, does it matter?... (40 words)

Do guys kiss and tell?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - if you kiss a guy or he kisses you, will he go and tell everyone about it? is it possible if i ask him not to tell, that he won't? please help me (im 15)... (35 words)

I am confused about orgasms.

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to reach orgasm by self ... (46 words)

He did not even tell me her got back with his ex!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend that i've been foolin around with for 8 months and i really like and i wish we could be together but he has a girlfriend/babymama and when he's with me sometimes he does'nt even go home that nite...he spent time with me 4 my b-day,x-mas etc.but him and his ... (81 words)

Should I be happy with our friendship or fight for us to be together?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so last year around April I met this guy named lets call him Jonny. He is 29(I know, I know...)he is attractive, down to earth, sweet, romantic, hard working, real ect ect. We texted for awhile right and then decided to hangout one day. So he picked me up at his house and we ... (918 words)

How do I go about having sex with my cousin?

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9 February 2010 (?) age 26-29 - ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. we always end up talkin ... (178 words)

I want paybacks on my best friemd!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - wow my "bestfriend" has always screwed things up for me but i always forgive her becuz she can be nice sometimes. she has started rumors and made fun of me and stabbed me in the back so many times i lost count. its too much stress when we fight and she says shessorry a nd shes ... (102 words)

Has having a long distance relationship ruined my chances for a normal one?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a pretty big dilemma. Let's call my boyfriend- B Question. What should I do with my relationship? I feel stuck. The past six months or so I can't help the feelings, or lack thereof I feel towards B. We have been together for more than 3 years and nearly two year... (423 words)

My fiance tried to sleep with my best friend! Should I leave him?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-lied-and-cheatedand-yet-can-be.html Above is a link to my situation. I am still with my fiance. I am writing this to tell all women to GET OUT when someone cheats. IF you read the above, and think I am stupid for staying, you are r... (1017 words)

Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started dating, i was with a not... (227 words)

Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I become quite cynical about th... (313 words)

She broke up because I can't see her enough. Any advice?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and for the past month she has been hurt because she say's that i have been distancing myself from her. in the beginning of the relationship i was still in school with her so we hung out everyday. then in the summer she went on a ... (422 words)

The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't think she would be ok with that.... (424 words)

He's 12 years older and I'm scared to move forward.

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but the age thing scares me I ... (119 words)

How long is an average 13 year old's penis?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - how long is the averge penus of 1 13 year old ... (13 words)

He won't discuss Valentine's Day and I feel like he doesn't care anymore.

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are complicated right now and we are trying to fix things. weve been together 4 years now. its almost valentines day and he hasnt said anything to me about going out. i already got him a gift and a card, and im just waiting for him to ask me. he hadnt so I go ... (195 words)

Will she come back to me and ever get over her fear of marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me tell u in short story. I am in relation with this girl from 1.5yrs. Its long distance relationship. Well we never had fight. We both are loyal to each other. Trust each other very much. Our parents have no prob in our marriage. Everything was going fine with us. Suddenly ... (364 words)

I can't choose between the nice man and the emotional one!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with a lovely man who treated me well, but didn't have much in common with me. It was a hard decision but I felt I really needed more of an emotional connection. I started seeing another man and we became heavily involved. I am absolutely crazy about him but he is ... (161 words)

Why is my boyfriend such a control freak??

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9 February 2010 (F)

- Why are men such control freaks? I can't stand it! My boyfriend is so bossy it drives me nuts. Yet God forbid I ever make a suggestion about anything he hasn't thought about in that "brilliant" mind of his, and I am "nagging" him! WTF! How do you break a man from acting like ... (146 words)

He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem...me ,,,him,,,,or what?... (60 words)

Why does he ask for my help then insist I am wrong?

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9 February 2010 (F)

- What do you make of this frustrating situation? My b/f and I took a road trip recently. He set GPS to destination, yet still insisted that I read the map. When we stopped for lunch he glanced at the map and pointed out a small highway that looked like a shortcut and said, "I ... (274 words)

My ex and I still talk but I don't know how he feels about me. How can I find out?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ...so me and my ex still talk and stuff but we r not 2gether anymore ... every now nd then i spend time with him ...nd have the greatest time ever... he still tells me he loves me but ..we dont talk as much as we did b4 ...only when he basically i guess starts missing... (129 words)

My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was yak!...i said whether he wants me to ... (88 words)

Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I sneak at her. I could see her ... (131 words)

My girlfriend lets people walk all over her. How can I change this?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so i have a kinda Big problem here. the thing is that my gf thinks that its her goal in life to make everyone happy and please them all the time, even though she says she doesnt know why she thinks that, but she still feels she Has to. one of her "friends" started spreading ... (311 words)

How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her legs and mentioning how soft ... (109 words)

He flips out everytime I mention our future!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a committed relationship for three years and my boyfriend and I live together. I've never, ever rushed him into anything or put a time line on our relationship, but whenever I try to just approach the topic to just see if we want the same things out of life, he ... (224 words)

She's married, she's 36, and my teacher. But I love her!

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my English teacher. I don't know what to do. She is married and like 36 and has 2 kids but I can't stop thinking about her. I try to stand close to her and sometimes even just touch her by mistake but not really. I even told her I love her but she acted like I ... (189 words)

Can anyone tell me how far along in my pregnancy I am?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks all who get back to me =) I'm currently pregnant and Ive been using a baby calculator on my myspace to keep track of how far a long i am. But my husband says that it's wrong. So I was wondering if anyone could tell me how far a long i am. The doctor told me that ... (89 words)

What motivates a guy to be nice to his ex?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Aunties! Thanks in advance for reading-- I'm just wondering what motivations a guy might have to be abnormally nice to his ex. He never tends to be as nice or sweet or thoughtful as he's being, except when he pretended to love me. Could it be because my on-and-off bf of... (93 words)

Am I incapable of being in love?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had some of the greatest relationships but wonder if I am incapable of love. Guys get really attached to me and I dont know I cant get into the love part of the relationship. I get “blaséd about the whole thing. I wonder if it is because there is maybe just one thing ... (131 words)

I seem to "cum" throughout the day. Is this normal?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a girl, i seem to 'cum' throughout the day making a mess in my undies. its very annoying and im wondering if it is normal or if i should get it checked out ? :/... (36 words)

I'm secretly talking to a guy out of state and my dad saw the phone bill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok.. Where to start. Well first off, Im gay. Noone knows that though. Except one guy that i met on myspace/facebook that lives in a different state. Hes been really great with helping me out when im having "Down" days, but now i have a problem. He keeps wanting to send picture ... (155 words)

I want guys to notice me and not just my friends around me!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a big gurl or you can call me fat i never had a boyfriend in my life each guy i like either had a gurlfriend or never think of me as a gurl at all i want to know how do i get guys to notice me and not my friends beside me ? ... (55 words)

I'm being abused by my husband but have no where to go. Should I leave or stay?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my husband has only increased his drinking since our marriage 8 years ago. he has quite grand ideas about himself and considers himself to be a blessing to humanity. He started physically abusing me from the 3rd month of getting married, even while i was pregnant with the ... (411 words)

Should I go for him or to forget him completly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so theres this guy, ill call him joe. joe is new this year. im 13, and hes 14 and were both in 8th grade. ever since he got here i thot he was cutee and nice. we became instant friends. but then he broke his leg and wwas out of school for a whilee. and while he was gone i ... (287 words)

He says I'm needy, is it me that needs to change, or him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been arguing because, when we are together, he often zones out and does not reply to what I am saying. I always respond to his concerns, but if he is zoning out (which happens often, even though we only see each other one day a week), he ignores me and ... (269 words)

I am inexperienced, did I put her off?

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9 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am inexperienced when having sex and need some advice. 1st, I hung out with this girl for a while (one month) and always pleased her. We had sex once and my nerves got to me and I came pretty fast. For about a week we still messed around but I didn't try to have sex with... (452 words)

I love him but I can't handle our differences what do I do?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I really love him but I am not sure if I am in love with him. When I began dating him I had self esteem issues and now that I am more comfortable with myself, I'm not sure about our relationship. He has always been ... (233 words)

Public situations making me ill!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope someone can help me please.... My work involve dealing with people on a day to day basis, which is fine but there is a problem. I cannot stand up and talk infront of a crowd. When there is a workshop or training, i'll be there fine, but when time to introduce my my... (232 words)

Does my boyfriend drink too much or am I reading to far into it?

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to ask peoples opinions on what you consider to be too much drinking when it comes to your bf/gf? My bf is a really great guy, his drinking is mainly while watching hockey with the boys, which doesn't bug me. It's about how much/how often. His typical is he drink... (358 words)

My mum is flirting on the net, do I tell my dad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am seeking advice on wot to do. here goes-my mom an dad have been parting and getting back for about 2 years. her version is he`s got a fancywoman. his version is she is meeting men off the internet. my husband spent 3 hours fixing her laptop which had bad viruses. he shouts ... (213 words)

Should I make a big deal of the fact we have no official anniversary date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy about 3 months now and just the other day i had a fight with him about when we started dating because he hasn't actually said to me that he wants me to be his gf and what not.. he just started calling me his gf about a month and a half ago.. before that ... (258 words)

I want to do something nice for valentines without spending a fortune!

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to do something nice for my boyfriend( we've been dating for about 2-3 months) for valentines day but i dont really know waht to do.. ive never had a boyfriend before and ive never celebrated the day before could some one give me ideas on what to do or what and if i ... (120 words)

Still living together after they wanted a divorce, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A man tells his wife he can't do their relationship anymore and wants a divorce. His wife is devastated, but has since "accepted the facts of the situation". This was 3 weeks ago. In the last 3 weeks, they have separated the bills (not legally set it on paper), opened up ... (280 words)

Will me leaving him before cause us problems in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my now BF almost 8 months ago. At that time I was 'chasing' the hot, popular guys and he was more of a quiet type and never pushed me into anything. We had about 3 dates and I called it quits because I couldn't see that 'spark' with him. I also met someone else at the ... (303 words)

I'm struggling to make friends in high school

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9 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - iv started high school and things havent gone very well for me. My biggest problem is making new friends. I had "best friends" in middle school who were horrible to me and im no longer their friend. and now im trying to become friends with new people but it dose not seem to be ... (153 words)

Am I doomed to be alone for the rest of my life. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old male, and its been 5 years since I've had a relationship that matters. It lasted for 10 months and she decided one day that it was over and that was that. Since then I've had maybe 2-3 attempts trying to start a relationship with a girl, but it ends up the ... (193 words)

The constant want of attention is catching up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend well over a year now, and i think theres something wrong with me I constantly want attention. We see each other most days after work and we normaly have a day or two off in the week where we have time to ourselves. But when we'r together i constant... (319 words)

I don't mind being a little kinky, but I don't like pain either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We started having sex a couple of months ago. He is the first guy I've had sex with. I love him and I know he loves me as well. My problem is this. I know that he has sexual fetishes, like BDSM kin... (431 words)

My wife doesn't trust me. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys Since i moved to America from England last year, i've really struggled making friends of any kind, so most of my social interactions have taken place online. Today i woke up to a nasty note from my wife, she's gone through my e-mail address and found an e-ma... (276 words)

Has he gone off the boil?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy a week ago. We hungout Sunday night and Tuesday night. He's 35 has a 10 year old. He's been divorced for a couple of years. When I left his place Wednesday morning he said he would be in contact soon. Well I know that he does have his daughter Wednesday ... (96 words)

To cuddle... or to be cuddled?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

9 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - just a general questions.... Guys! I know this is gonna sound stupid but honestly do guys prefer to be cuddled or to cuddle the girl? I'm just wondering as many people say it's all a guy could dream of is to hold the one he loves but im just wondering! Thanks... (51 words)