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Why would he laugh at my suggestion of us getting together?

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Question - (4 October 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I talk to this guy every day at work, if im sad he does something funny to make me laugh. He tells me all about himself and asks about my life as well. We get along so perfectly. We're both single and he doesn't talk to any other girl half as much as he does me. I gave him my msn a few weeks ago and when i asked him to add me he laughed same as if i mention us getting together.. he laughs...

I seriously don't understand?? Am i missing something here? We're like two peas in a pod... but its frustrating me soo much!! Every chance we get we're together talking and when we cant be too close we're smiling at each other or just gazing over at one another.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009):

He could be embarrassed about the vulnerability of letting the cat out of the bag :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009):

It could mean a lot of different things. He could be uncomfortable, or he could be assuming you are joking, or he could be trying to send you a message that he's not interested, or even sending a message that he really is interested. Him just chuckling is not revealing enough to call it.

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A female reader, answersqueen United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

hi maybe he doesnt understand how you feel about him if you talk to him seriously about this then maybe you could find he feels the same way. The other thing could be that he only see's you as a friends and if you get together it could ruin your friendship if you did end up breaking up.

HOPE this helps

Answersqueen x :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009):

use the touch test.

Touch and hold his hand, look into his eyes and smile.

If he likes you he will hold you if not he will push away.

either way you will know.

Be carful though, he may just be looking for an office buddy.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

He might just be shy or nervous about it all. I'd ask him again and ask him to seroiously think about it. If he still laughs at you, then you have to accept that he isn't relationship material and move on. All the best.

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