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writes:I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years now. We have had many rows over the past yrs and they have ended miserably. He can be very abusive and uncommunicative. I feel like he brings out the worst in me.I did break up with him and told exactely why. But right after that he is a totally different person. He cnt raving about how much he loves me. he suddenly wants to marry me and was talking about introducing me to his family. I am so glad that i am out of the country for a year. Im just with him right now because I do on some level feel affection for him and dont want to keep hurting him. Ive said pretty much what i had to to him but he still wants to be together.How do i get out of this? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
You've done the right thing by ending this. He changed so much that I think it's an act. He went from being abusive to wanting to marry you! This guy is a really bad bet. The best thing to do is tell him once and for all that it's over and that's it. Then delete his number, don't take his calls and don't contact him. He will be hurt, but then he's already hurt you and you need to move on. Find another guy.
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