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Loving your best friends crush?

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Question - (4 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay Cupid, here is the story.

I am a 14 yr old boy, and every tuesday and wednesday i go to an athletics club.

There is a girl (lets call her Lucy) there i fancy. However, Another boy (Lets say Dave) in my group one year younger than me also fancies her, and i know that as a fact. He is one of my closest friends.

What i need is:

To make Lucy love me

To make my friend not fancy her (optional, but preferable)

And to make sure that Lucy doesn't fancy Dave.

I would like to stay friends with Dave, but i really love that girl. I think, if anything, she loves him more than me and that hurts. I want to find a resolution that preferably keeps everyone happy.

And please, dont say move on because she is the girl of my dreams, i'm not gonna just let her go.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

Then you have to talk to Lucy. The only way to see if this can move forward is by getting to know her and talking to her.

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