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Is 9 years too much of a gap?

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Question - (4 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi everyone

i like this girl who i don't know i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are a good few years apart i wanted to know

is 9 years too much of a gap?(i know that it shouldn't matter what other people think but i just want some of your opinions)

my other question is

what should i say to her? and is there any good chat up line tips that anyone could give me. (because i haven't really had a girlfriend before)

i left school early this year and just so you know i don't go into clubs and stuff because i don't really drink because i play football for a proffessional club academy and i don't drink alcohol so that i can stay in a good healthy shape

please help me thnanks in advance god bless

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009):

Hello. My partner is 15 years younger than me. We met and made friends first. Try that with the girl you like. If she likes you too, as a friend, thats a brilliant way to get to know her rather than trying to chat her up. All the best.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

The chances of her being impressed by some little teenager using a chat up line are ZERO!!

If you want her then get to know her.

But to be honest, I don't fancy your chances.

Talk to her and be her friend, see what happens.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

Rather than ask this girl, you really need to get to know her. I'm in a relationship with an older lady, and I spoke to her for four months before doing anything because I wanted to make sure we were doing the right thing. It worked. Take your time in getting to know her.

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