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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He told me he might be moving soon but I like him sooooo much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help, ive been going out with this guy for almost a month, and i really like him, but not just like, i love him but im not IN love with him. He told me he was moving next summer and im cool with that, but he recently told me he might be moving in december, what do i do? ... (61 words)

Serious sexual dysfunction without a cause!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) age - What can you do if your husband is permanently, sexually off? It started few years ago. In our early 40's. Now, we tried everything therapy, medical investigations but there is no answer, why is he the way he is. No medical cause, and not clear what is the cause. He totall... (211 words)

Do I confront him with the things I've heard about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok there is this guy at my high school and im a freshmen and neverhad a boyfriend and he's a sophmore but he's suppposed to be a junior but he had to go to rehab. And he has a very big sexual past. I know he likes me a lot and he's really nice to me, but I hear a lot of bad ... (253 words)

My ex has a new girlfriend. Should we continue our secret relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?... (38 words)

I'm afraid to give him space in case too much time passes and he moves on.

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I pretty much fell for him and more than anything I at least want out friendship back. We were talking for 3 months. "summer romance" haha. Well over a month ago he started needing space. His best friend told me that he's afraid to get close to anyone. He was hurt pretty b... (266 words)

Should I be concerned about his fetishes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 2 years who I love dearly, constantly talks about sex. He masterbates at least 2 or more times a day. We do not live together, but we spent the weekends together and some nights during the week. We both are 53 yrs old. He has started telling me of a lot of s... (220 words)

How long do I give my ex space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that if you want to get your ex back, you have to give him time and he may see that he misses you. What do you do when you have children? He calls the boys every night, and he comes over to drop them off every other night. What do I do?... (57 words)

I keep dreaming of a man 23 years my senior!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how much do dreams mean when it comes to terms of love? I keep dreaming that me and this guy are really close, like, cuddled up, I can feel his skin and his warmth in my dreams and I'm always dissapointed when I wake up. I do have sex dreams and I'm not sure how I feel about ... (146 words)

Which boy should I choose: the old or the new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i like this boy, quite a bit and i have been told that he likes me back. he has even told me over the phone. But the thing is is that i had promises to this boy, who i have had alot of history with, and i was meant to get back with him, but i ended up developing feelings ... (134 words)

Is it wrong to have sex during your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him.... (35 words)

How can one tell if they're bi-polar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if you may have Bipolar? I am not quite sure if i should be asking for your help as i am no 100% sure i have symptoms or not. I don't really know where to start either. Neither of my parents have been diagnosed with the illness but i have become worried t... (416 words)

My mum is ending an 11 year relationship. How can I best support her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, ive written to you once before and u were all lovely and made me see sense. However im writing to ask for some advice on how to support my mum. she has recently told me that she is splitting up from her partner of eleven years. things have been rocky bef... (219 words)

My jealousy cost me a friendship with the girl I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a girl,whom i use to like her so much. used to talk everyday n hang out weekends together like friends. some how i started feelings for her n felt jealous about her friends. i totally went possessive. i told her that i had feelings for her but she said "i don't... (126 words)

I think he likes me, so why is he flirting with my friend in front of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy at school that i like and everytime we see each other in the hallways we have this slow moment and just stare. we dont really talk we just say hi and hug. when im with one of my friends he flirts with them right infront of me. im not tryna say im cocky or... (90 words)

I have no emotional connection with my husband and am so unhappy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have always been a smart girl, but I believe that I made a very bad decision. I met my now husband as a freshman in college. He sought after me for six months, but I began dating someone and did not return the calls. Well, after 6mths the guy I was dating and I... (1605 words)

Why are my friends so immature about sex?

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14 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why is it that when I think of a guy I really like and him having sex with me I get horny...but most of my friends are not mature about stuff like this(example: they are always doing the 'thats what she said' and laughing about penises and think oral sex is gross) which is very ... (93 words)

My girlfriend maintains contact with her ex. Should I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of four months is still friends with her ex. Not only does she still talk to him, she is still friends with his family. His aunt cuts her hair for free. She visits his family's restaurant where he works and gets food for free. A couple of months ago she a... (67 words)

I need a light at the end of the tunnel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up, to the point where I dont want to do ... (180 words)

My ex is dating a 14 year old and trying to sabotage my new relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have split from my ex boyfriend for nearly a year now. he had ended our relationship for a couple of weeks and got with a 14yr old and i will say he is 19yrs old. whilst he was out with his new girlfriend i was in my flat with his best friend who i have known longer tha... (264 words)

Was his friend trying to get us together or get in the way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was sitting in the cafeteria and the guy I like was sitting at another table with his friend..later another one of his friends walked in with a girl that likes him too. So the girl like stops and doesn't walk over to the guy I like but his friend does, and he tells him to ... (353 words)

She needs her time alone right now. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend needs to be alone right now, I have no doubt's that she's the love of my life so I'm going to do everything I can to keep her. We've been together for 2 years. We met on the west coast and fell madly in love and dated for a month. She then moved to another... (1145 words)

My 10 older siblings only contact me when they want my support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a full abdominal hysterectomy including my ovaries removed almost 16 weeks ago. I’m 42. My sister hasn’t contacted me for the past 13 weeks My sister Jane (she’s 55) is the only one of my 10 older siblings (most of whom are now in their 60’s) whom I told I was... (419 words)

She loves me but doesn't want to get back together because of the text I sent her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so towards the beginning of summer, I came out of a really bad relationship for 7 months and it hurt because she dumped me for another guy... anyway, I went to my friends for comfort and this one girl who I had a crush on me before the previous relationship had just come out... (459 words)

He wants to have sex but I don't. Should I just use him to practice kissing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice: I have been interested in a guy a work for some time and he is really into me. The only thing is he doesn't want anything serious and I did at the time, but I realised that it was never going to happen, so because I like him so much, I thought I would ... (235 words)

Does a man get angry if I won't perform oral sex until he's cleaned himself off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a guy get upset/angry if when giving a hand job and he asks you to go down on him because he is about to come and he didn't have anything to clean him self afterwards and you refuse? I mean we were just making out and things went a bit further but I was shocked that he ... (78 words)

Dating a colleague with a history of despression. Should I listen to my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and have made friends with a guy at work. He is three years younger than me and we seem to get on great both at work and hanging out. My family have perceptions about him, as he has a short history of depression and comes across as distant on first meetings. Howeve... (140 words)

He says he likes me but now he's trying to provoke me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - question! what the helllll is wrong with men?! ok a guy that i know likes me he is 20. He liked me for a very long time but last year started showing his feelings more! then this year i told him i liked him but i dont wanna date him all he has done since then is annoy me... (110 words)

Is it possible to be in love but not know it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a question. Do you think its possible to be in love and not know it, and look back to realize that you were in love? I think this has happened to me, but I'm not sure if its just my mind playing tricks on me. Just an idea, Any opinions on this??... (59 words)

He said if I died he'd move on. Does that mean he doesn't really love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a comited relationship with a guy since 4 months. we both really love each other..but i feel he doesn't love me much..because just for fun i asked him a question. da question that i asked 2 him was, what wil he do if i die? he said after my death though he'l keep lov... (136 words)

I had sex with both brothers, but fancy the younger one. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, this is very dramtic. but heres the story. I met a guy. He is 15 and i am 15. he became pretty close friends and by pretty close i mean really close. he kind of ended up falling in love with me. Well he was a virgin and i took his virginity away. he was the 2nd guy... (366 words)

I think he likes me. How do I find out for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy, we are really good friends, i know he likes me and i like him. when is he gonna ask me out? or for me to be his gf? i've know him since the august like somewhere around the 20th, and we became good friends, i really like him and it seems and looks like he li... (92 words)

No man has seen me naked because of my stretch marks. Should I get a tummy tuck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my late 40’s. I have no confidence when it comes to my body. I am on my 3rd divorce and each one of them have cheated on me (I don’t blame them) as I will not show my naked body to anyone. Everyone always says you got nice figure but they don’t see me naked. NOT only... (175 words)

Why don't boys want to kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so... i'm about to turn 16 and i mean ive had plenty of chances but whenever a boy wants to kiss me they either think i wont want to, think it will be awkward after because ive neve kissed anyone, or believe its better if we dont because i deserve a better first kiss than them. ... (186 words)

What can I do about my embarrassing facial hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello!! im only 14 years old and i realy like to flirt with boys but ive recently noticed that i have some excess hair on my face, its almost none at all but sometimes it makes me feel self conciuos. so my question is...if i shave it off with a razor, will it grow back dif... (74 words)

I can't cope with losing my ex-girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im missing my ex :(, the pain is so bad, i feel like i wont eva get a girl like her again because she was so different to everyone and so beautiful i feel like i gave her everything, and to my mistake i made her my world and cared so much about her, and she called me the pe... (387 words)

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much and he satisfies me sexually... (109 words)

Can one catch an STD through oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to know if you can catch STD's through having Oral Sex? Thanks :)... (19 words)

Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter. We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a month, but im really warmin t... (103 words)

What would you say if your 16 year old daughter asked for a hotel room?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this question is mainly aimed at mum's opinions but any others are welcome, and I'd rather you say what you think within reason and without too much of a lecture thanks. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend 1 year 8 months, I'm fifteen and he's sixteen. And no ... (314 words)

Help! How can I ask him out without making it seem so obvious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i really need help here im in love with my best friend! the problem is if i ask him out and he says no then everything will become really awquard around us but if i dont ask him then my head will probley explode!, so how can i ask him out without it seeming like im asking him ... (64 words)

He's still living in the same house as his wife and it's causing major problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age - I am seeing a guy who i met 3 months ago. He is still living in the same house as his wife, they are getting divorced, she refuses to put the house up for sale. He says he hates her and yet he allows her to spend his money, go out for meals with her friends, away for weekends... (182 words)

Is he able to tell I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy that I really am attracted to at work. I work in a hospital and he is one of the nurses in the department next to me. I have only just (past 3 weeks) started working there and noticed him around about last week. Let me just say first of all, I have this trou... (818 words)

He likes me but doesn't talk to me after school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my best friend/crush Rob sat in front of me on the bus and when I talked about a teacher he liked that I have, he would turn around and ask what they said trying to be into the conversation. Even if I didn’t talk then he would turn around and pretend like he wasn’t ... (430 words)

How can I stop having these wrong feelings for my sister?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a serious problem. In the last 5 months or so, i dont know how... but i always accidentally end up watching my 15 year old sister naked. many a times its changing clothes, or her coming out of bathroom. we have adjacent rooms, so it increases the probability. so ... (93 words)

Life as someone's slave is hard, especially when they treat you worse than a bit of shit on their shoe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - if i knew what to do i wouldn't be here but i need help and advice the man i'm with has left me with no friends and feeling like my life isn't important enough to discuss sometimes i feel if i start talking who'd actually listen. i'm with my partner 6 years were 3 year toge... (730 words)

I'm angry hurt and confused about this dilema I am in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, a friend in my social circle had been flirting with me. Things progressed, and we made out, fooled around a few times. I'm a virgin and didn't really want my first time to be casual sex, as he continually stated how he just wanted to have fun. I knew at the ... (485 words)

Am I right or wrong for agreeing to have sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii......i have frnd named sunny.we are family frnds.i know him from my childhood.he is a very good frnd of mine.he undrstands me in every situation.at first i used to be a good frnd of him,then without my notice i became very affectionate of him.i can't be without talking to ... (347 words)

He would rather sit and watch porn than have sex with me any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, Can anyone give me any advice? Is there something seriously wrong if my partner of 20 years doesnt want to have sex with me any more but would rather watch porn?... (35 words)

Am I being unfair to my ex girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age - [Moderator Note: Question orginally poster under the heading 'Do I owe my ex closure?' Link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-owe-my-ex-closure.html] Hi, I'm in a bit of a quandry. I posted before but there were a couple things I left out. I was with my ... (504 words)

Walked in on my boyfriend with a guy in his bed. Is he gay or did he think it was me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfreind went out with friends last night and probably got a bit drunk. Anyway when i called to his house this morning he was in the bed with his friend (a man) but thats normal as sometimes they just crash in the same bed if theres no free beds. Anyway, his friend was ... (159 words)

My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They do not sleep in the sam... (569 words)

Losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend with benefits always used to arrange to see me, now it seems the other way around if I didn't put the effort in I could go a month without seeing him. When I do ask him to meet me he normally would. The time he did choose I was busy then the next I was at college ... (169 words)

Why does a girl try to make a guy jealous? Could he like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if the guy I like has any interest in her, they do know each other and used to talk, but now they don't talk anymore, I don't know what happened but he ignores her and acts like he doesn't know her. She's competitive towards me, and I'm guessing because she knows ... (153 words)

Help me with the problems I am having with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If you recently knew that the ex told (and maybe is still telling) everyone:you love him,chasing him and he don't like you. In reality he was dating you but without the others knowledge. He told you he is interested and so on.Will you tell everyone that one of the guy friends ... (239 words)

How do I prove I haven't cheated on my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for a good 6 months now. I am a straight arrow and I love her and will never do wrong by her. However my gf is very insecure because of her previous relationship. I have this school friend who I told everything about her but I deleted ... (172 words)

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side who really wanted to be with... (474 words)

I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any experience with the same thing? ... (64 words)

Lost the weight, but need to lose the extra skin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im not sure where my question would lie. I have been working out and lost alot of body fat but I have all this extra skin from my abs and stomach. I really want some advice on what to do here. I work out with a trainer and whatch my diet very closely and I only see it when Im ... (111 words)

Lately she has been acting like she is mad at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for around 2 months now, and lately she has been acting like she is mad at me. For the first few weeks everything was fine, we got along, we kissed, we cuddled, that sort of stuff. For about 2 weeks now she has been acting like she is mad at me, and ... (93 words)

I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about it. please guide me. ( i am 1... (63 words)

How can I do better in school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a university student and my friends and groupmates doubt my ability to do well in my studies. It is definitely not a good feeling and I am beginning to feel increasingly inferior and lost the confidence in myself after this. Exams is next week and I am drown in saddness I ... (101 words)

Cheating... or all innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so my boyfriend is sooo sweet and perfect. at first he didnt want to show any affection in public, i think he was scared. i am his first long relationship but now he shows all affection in public and we are very very close and he is awesome! but, lately he has been rude ... (130 words)

Is there a chance that this relationship can be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the last five months I was living with my boyfriend. He moved in only a few weeks after we started dating but we have been friends for several years. Things were going great, our kids got along well and we all had fun together. The problem is we drank a lot together and we ... (160 words)

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a long term, loving ... (344 words)

She surprised me by saying she wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Allo My girlfriend and i have been together for two years, and we're fine and dandy. Recently though she surprised me by saying she wants sex. She surprised me more then by asking 'What if I was drunk and I had sex with another guy at a party and I didn't know what I was ... (109 words)

I want to kiss my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I want to kiss my boyfriend. okay so im in the 8th grade and I realy like this boy. The thing is less than a week ago he was going out with one of my friends and she broke up with him. I asked her for premision and now im going out with him. The problem is that while he was ... (121 words)

The wounds are really deep and the healing process is being tough...pleae help me with your advice...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm Luque , and I'm 23 years old. I'm feeling really lonely and without any direction, I've been feeling like crying all this week and I really can't describe what I feel, it's like a deep deep sadness, I've been through a lot of stuff in the last 4 months, my parents found ... (201 words)

I've fallen for somebody who doesn't want a relationship with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a huge fix.I've fallen for somebody who doesnt want a relationship with me.He's scared of commitment and also according to him our schedules dont allow us to see each other enough anyways.We met almost a year ago,and I kind of assumed he didnt want a true relationship ... (342 words)

Help!!! I think I am in love with my teacher.. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I have a big problem. There is this teacher at my school. He is single, and he is 24 years old and I am 13 and I think that Ii love him. He is an awesome person and I dont know wat to do about it. I need advice. Am I wrong? Should I give up? Will he get in trouble?... (68 words)

I am thirteen...How do I tell the guy that I like that I like him?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Here is the problem. I have known this guy since i was like two and i am 13 now and he is almost 17. i used to think that we were just friends because i didnt like him. i know he likes me because i talked to my dad and the day before our convasation my dad was talking to his ... (127 words)

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend of us.i find nice ... (145 words)

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his email i seen a email tht he ... (270 words)

How do I get my husband to stop cutting me off when I talk?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I would like advice on how to get my husband to stop cutting me off when i talk. I don't know if he does this on purpose but i have told him that he does it to people and he said he would work on it. He will cut me off in the middle of talking just so he can say what he ... (131 words)

What should I do? No contact for two weeks! Should I change my facebook status to get the upper hand?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - last month my boyfriend and I had a huge fight which leads to me threatening him that i will break up with him if he doesn´t change and he said ahy don´t we end it now. I was really shocked and asked him what did you say ?? he repeated what he said and i asked why? are you ... (281 words)

I think I love him and I think he likes me back. I want to have sex... but will it fit?

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14 November 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I have a couple questions. my first question is that I have know this boy since i was 2 years old and i always thought of us as just friends and now i think i love him. I am 14 and he is almost 17. I think he likes me back but i just dont know wat to tell him and my secon... (87 words)

My life is one sad tale....

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14 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey aunts.I'm a 14 year old guy and turning 15 in a few days. My life is so complicated but yet too simple at the same time. I don't know what to do. Everything pretty much sucks for me. I never get anything easy. Everything bad always has to happen to me. I don't really h... (225 words)

His comments are stuck in my mind! Should I let it go? Or confront him?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend almost 4 months, and we're getting on great. But he's having some problems with his ex - she's pregnant with his child, due in January, and she's trying to stop him from seeing the child etc. When he was with her, he told me she changed him, but he's ... (240 words)

If all he wanted was sex, why is he still talking to me? But if he really likes me why wouldn't he take me out?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy that lives in the same dorms as me at university. we got talking and he has invited me in a few times. But then he made a move on me. and he also asked me if i would be up for having sex with him. He was clearly just up for some action which i was not!... (206 words)

They judge him because he's a different race!

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I really like this guy. He flirts with me all the time, but I try to ignore it because I don't want to get things started because he's moving away next year. He's an awesome athlete, will most likely go pro. some day. He's taller than me by about 3 inches, hardly any of the ... (103 words)

My fiance will have a dabble with crack here and there... and now I'm not so sure I can handle it!

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been bought up around a drug infested enviroment.. I've never really found it a problem being around friends who do such drugs as ecstasy, amphetamine and weed. I've dabbled myself but left it at that. I've always been against heroin, ketamine and crack.. Yet my fiance ... (178 words)

I'm a heartbroken fool.

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14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old male who's a fool and heartbroken. I met my childs mother in high school. She was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. We moved out together when we were 18 and have been living together ever since. Last year she did me the honor of giving birth to our ... (583 words)

What should I do about this guy I'm stuck on?

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14 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so every girl has that one guy in her life, there might be a couple of others, but either way its always gunna be him and you will never be able to get over him. Well i think ive found him. He's absolutly gorgeous, and i can't stop thinking about him. I have never actually ... (361 words)

Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?

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14 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen online (i.e., Realdoll, Candy ... (103 words)