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writes:Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?
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reader, paiutegirl +, writes (15 November 2009):
i am in the same situation except that me and my ex have a 13 year old daughter. he has had other girlfriends while he has been with me and is once again starting a new relationship with someone else. he has been coming over to see me still but when he leaves after sex i end up just feeling used and pissed off at myself. i have now realized in the last two weeks that things will never be like they used to be. all you can do is try to remove yourself from this situation for your own well being. i have decided to do the same. good luck to you.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 He loves you so much he broke up after your mis-carriage, didn't make the relation "official" in all that time and is now seeing someone else.
Sorry you lost the baby, but girl, you really do need to take those blinders off.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (15 November 2009):
 OH COME ONE ORIGINAL POSTER!!!!
I don't know...jeeze thats a no brainer...Leave him alone. If he cheats with you he will cheat ON you...DUH???
Plus you are a cheater'[s enabler, which makes you look a bit of a slag
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 no, no, no dont stick around. This man has no respect for you, dont sneak around having sex with him behind his girlfriends back. Just do your best to get on with your life, build a future for yourself, finish school, get a good job, start saving for the future, dont give it or yourself away, when you start acting as the person you want to be you will become it, and that will attract guys to you who are not users and losers.Good luck!
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (14 November 2009):
 If this man truly loved you, he would not be messing around with you and dating someone else!
I am sorry that you lost your baby, I know that it can be a very difficult thing to experience and come to terms with, and both you and he share a bond with that situation that will never be broken.
The closeness might still be there, and you may have deep feelings still for one another but for your sake, and his, you should really think about backing off of him and seeing what happens.
If he is allowed to date other women while you're messing around together, he might take you for granted. If you make a clean break now, he'll realise that he can't have his cake and eat it and will have to make a choice to be with you, or the other woman.
You really have to remember that she has feelings too in all of this and people are going to get hurt, including yourself.
You are in a position to walk away before it gets too much.
If he loves you, he'll come back, minus the girlfriend.
You deserve nothing less than 100% from him or any other guy, so be strong, break it off and concentrate on you.
Best of luck xxx
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