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writes:I need some advice:I have been interested in a guy a work for some time and he is really into me. The only thing is he doesn't want anything serious and I did at the time, but I realised that it was never going to happen, so because I like him so much, I thought I would just see what happened knowing that he would never be my boyfriend.I am ok with kissing etc. but he now wants us to have sex which I want to but for me sex should be when you are in a relationship which I know is silly.Should I just come clean and say to him that I wont sleep with you because I like to be in a relationship before I sleep with someone (although the truth is, is that I am a virgin)? The thing is I have never had any interest from guys and he is confident and that's what attracted me to him and I suppose because I knew it wasn't going anywhere I just wanted to know what it felt like for someone to kiss and hold you and know he might be a bit annoyed if he thinks I have just been stringing him along because I always knew that I wouldn't sleep with him because we weren't going out.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 November 2009):
It isn't silly to wait for the right guy at all. But you are kind of stringing him along. It would be better to stop kissing him etc, because he will end up a little hurt bu it all. Wait for the right guy. He's out there.
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