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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have never had an orgasm even after 8 different lovers and 1 vibrator

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and I have had 6 different lovers. Not once have I felt what its like to have a vaginal orgasm. I just bought a vibrator and it did absolutely nothing for me. I don't think I even get "wet" anymore for sex. I think I've had a clitoral orgasm. I'm not quite sure. I'... (100 words)

We kissed at a party - how do I talk to her without freaking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "accidently" rubbing up next to her, making sure we sat next to each other all the time, the usual stuff. Later on we en... (331 words)

Married man problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all My boyfriend died a couple of years ago and i have never really got over him, i met a man in june this year who took an interest in me, saying that he would help me get over my boyfriend's death, and that he would look after me and show me a good time, he is marr... (194 words)

Help! I have sex with too many people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya guys and girls, well my problem is that I have this sort of sex problem :S I have good sex but with too many people. I dont mean to sound slutty and i know thats how im coming across but i dont know how to put this in words properly. basically i've recently found o... (202 words)

Is Penis size that much of a big deal now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am sure this question must have been asked hundred time but all the girls i have dated think that i have big size penis, because i am originally from africa, and some of them get kind offended when they discover i have an avarage one. So is Penis size that much of a big deal ... (57 words)

Is it too late to hook up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and this guy dated last year, we were really good together however i moved away so couldnt see him anymore because we both admitted that a LDR wouldnt be that good. well i have actually moved back to my old place now and have found out that this guy is still singl... (84 words)

Awful step mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to be long, i really appriciate anyone who takes the time to read this and any advice I will be sososo happy with!(: Ok, I'm 15, and my mum and dad split up when I was 5. I've always been close to my dad. He see's me about one a month, used to see me once a week. ... (654 words)

My best friend wants me to go out with her cousin... thing is I don't find him attractive at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, well My best friend wants me to go out with her cousin, he really likes me and we've been friends for a long time. I know he likes me but i dont like him more than a friend however she's my best friend and i dont want to hurt his or her feelings by turning him ... (340 words)

I would have loved to have worked things out with her but she didn't give me the chance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I really like this girl, and recently we had a relationship but it lasted for about 3 weeks. We were having a good time together, but two people had always got in the way. I trusted her a lot, but I didn't trust them both, and this was affecting our relationship, and ... (173 words)

A question about anal sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If I have sex anally, and the guy is not wearing a condom and sperms inside of me, could I still get pregnant or is that only from the vaginal area?... (31 words)

Should I be worried about this half-used box of condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for about 5 months. He's absolutely amazing, treats me well, listens to me and respects me. Early in our relationship I told him that when it comes to being intimate I want to take things slow. I still haven't slept with him and we're gradually getting to ... (182 words)

How do I continue seeing my girlfriend when she has feelings for this other man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im in a bit of a predicament. my current girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. i stayed with her for a month, and things were going great, really great. i found out about this guy that she was talking to her before me, he is in the army was in iraq ... (139 words)

I need advice here! What am I doing wrong???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old, and just feel like I am never going to meet a eligible man. I have had boyfriends in the past, the last one ending quite dramatically. But since that, I haven't even meet a man that I would consider getting involved with. I am have a ton of friends, I go out ... (227 words)

My friend is getting in the way of my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 weeks tommorow. Every time we go out in a large group, loads of people come out. But i have this one friend who i used to be really close too and now i can't be becuase i'm busy every day!! But when we're out, i'll be stood next to my ... (114 words)

Will I ever be able to get him out of my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I should have done this a long time ago, but today is really weird for me. As my username shows, I am suddenly confused. Its a long story so I'll try to keep it short.(I failed!!) I was with a guy for two and a half years, I was 17 when we met, 19 when we got engaged a... (1264 words)

I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age - Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first time I met him. He said we ... (199 words)

She is moving to be with me, but I am having second thoughts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am stuck and don't know what to do. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. She is 6 years younger and is still in school. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now. I've done everything I could to make it work, and it seemed to for a while. He... (511 words)

Help! I like him... but does he like me enough???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I've had a few relationships, most of them ended badly. I go for the 'bad boy' type I think. I've been cheated on a lot and it's really knocked my confidence. Recently I met a guy who I really liked, but he got really clingy, and then I met one who i was attracte... (305 words)

I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m scared and I don’t know why! I’ve never been in a relationship before so I don’t know what it feels like. Ever since my best friend’s cousin R started hanging out with me I been questioning a lot of things. I know that I like him and I’ve even told him how I felt about him ... (414 words)

I'm female and in love with a "straight" girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm bisexual and I'm in love with this amazing girl. She really is just amazing in every way. But anyway, we've always seemed to have a bit of tension between us and I had noticed her to be different around me than with other people. Other people had noticed it too and ... (227 words)

Desperate girl looking for a reply...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm new at all this stuff and I don't really speak in english nor type correctly.. To start with, I would like to point out the fact that I really feel I love my boyfriend, the drama comes when he just seem to doesn't care about me anymore. We have beeing together for just... (273 words)

Do I say anything to him... or don't I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may sound simple but this is a tough one because my mate means more to me than anyone on this earth! I have two options: Option 1 = I tell him i love him (he already knows i like him he's been told before by a mate of mine and i also admittd it to him once when... (329 words)

In love with a married women but should I wait for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am new to this site and have a few questions that I am hoping to get help with. I have been having an affair with a married woman for almost 9 months. She is fantastic. Neither of us thought we would ever be in this situation ever. We are both fairly non-sexual peopl... (450 words)

Have any experience with past lifes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Does anybody believe or have any experience here with past life's? When me and my husband meet many years ago, we had a feeling, like Déjà vu. And we both thought we are one person, like other half.. and it is not just romantically, but really strangely. Hard to describe, but ... (100 words)

Is this guy actually interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on the bus exactly a week ago Basically, something that happened on the bus made me laugh and I really couldn't stop laughing! We were squashed up at the front of the bus as it was rush hour so there wasn't any seats. Anyway, he laughed at how much I was laugh... (340 words)

We have nothing in common so why do I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am friends with a guy whom I met at work. He is 3 years my junior. We seem to get on well when we hang out, apart from his music taste. He has an enthusiasm for rock music, or songs of that genre, and he also enjoys playing the bass lines to them (on his bass guitar). The ... (182 words)

Questions concerning oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

25 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys! just a few (kinda weird) questions on giving oral sex. my friend was saying something about putting pop rocks in ur mouth right before you give a guy head and that it feels good for them. i dont see how tht would feel good... sounds painful! lol but guys, or girls if... (181 words)

What is the future of marriage with no sexual desire?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) age - Hello, I was reading a lot about marriages ,what falls apart, because of sex. I wonder how common is that ,that a man has erection problems in their 40;es? And what happens ,if their wife stays without sexual intimacy for the rest of the marriage? I think I do have the same ... (79 words)

Oh my god - why would a guy just ignore you right out of the blue??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh my god - why would a guy just ignore you right out of the blue?? with no explanation or anything, it just don't make sense to me, i really like this guy so much i would do anything for him and he knows this. We have been back together after a 6 month break for 3 months ... (129 words)

I don't understand why would she block me and stop talking to me when she told me she would give me one more chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know if my ex still has feelings for me and that she has blocked me out her life. We broke up 8 months ago and went out for 6 months but she live down south now. anyway it all started when we had an argument 1 month ago cause she told me that she had a boyfriend and i ... (395 words)

Why would a husband try to tape record his wife secretly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would a husband buy a recorder and hide it from me? I found a recorder in my vehichle and asked him if he knew what it was. He said it looked like a recorder. I said, oh maybe it belongs to one of our kids friends. He went on to his own business. Later I asked where did ... (182 words)

How can I make our relationship more interesting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have started hooking up again.. but its beginning to seem like a chore more than anything else. What do i do to make things more interesting?... (30 words)

I feel like I need my space! Is this the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Been Together with my Boyfriend for Six Months now, we both love each other and are really close and get along very well, but i woke up today and realised i need space, i dont wanna break up with him or anything because i love him, but i just feel like i need to breathe for a ... (293 words)

He is 17 I'm 13 and I really like him A LOT !!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Their is this 17 year old boy im 13 who is in my form because he is my mentor.. I really like him a lot, he looks at me and smiles and looks away and sometimes stares at me and when i notice, he looks away, then looks back when im not looking.. so one day i asked my best fri... (384 words)

I want to protect my friend. Should I tell the school nurse about her (who just happens to be my mum!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, just a 'quick' question. This one's not about me thank god. Basically, one of my friends got completely wasted and ended up losing her virginity at 14 a couple of days ago. I've been sworn to secrecy, but (always a but) I have a small problem of my own. She drinks like a ... (150 words)

Please help me, he likes me one day.. then hates me the next.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - PLEASE HELP ME! I cannot let this go and need your help! There is this boy and i have liked him over a year now. Im only 13 but I actually feel in love with him. On some days, he seems really interested in me and I feel like we are getting somewhere. Then the day after, h... (120 words)

Good guy or bad guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 38 and still so so confused! A lot of relationship/dating advice I have seen, says "Be the bad boy, dont be a wuss" So now what? Leave it a few hours before answering her text messages etc? She seems to be pulling away from me, of course I dont want that and have asked ... (94 words)

What do guys find attractive in girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya ok, this a question for you guys out there. What do you find atractive about a girl?? Skinny? Even if she is pretty she has to be thin?? You wouldn't mind if she was a bit more "padded"?? please give me your opinion?... (52 words)

My boyfriend hugs other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ok I have a boyfriend, and ive got a big problem. Everyone always says he flirts with other girls, EVERYONE. And i can tell, he ALWAYS hugs all the girls at our school, and when he does, he puts his arms around their waist. I get so pissed and he says he THINKS hes not ... (68 words)

Should I let my daughter visit her father for a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my daughter's father and I have been broken up for about a year now. Since the holidays are coming up I decided to put all of our differences aside and let my daughter go back home with him.(Recently moved out of state) Now she has never been away from me for more than a ... (143 words)

What is the law?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I love him and he loves me....... (58 words)

No-one has ever touched me in a physical way and I really want to experience it, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My first relationship just ended...and it went for two years so naturally I'm a bit upset right now. She never really wanted anything physical so we never madeout once and so I've never kissed a girl...i thought i was doing the right thing by waiting but it bought me to tears ... (183 words)

Guys, would you really love someone enough to let them go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up. He feel into legal trouble, financial issues and family issues. I tried to be supportive, my life just kept progressing. We were happy together but we didn't spend as much time together since he was working to pay off debt and his lawyer. We broke ... (132 words)

Is she playing hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - heey, I would just like to know what is going on here, a girl class mate that i knew for 3 months, we really fit together and we have fun but as friends first but offcrse i knew she cares about me cuz she showed her interest by hitting, teasing, being jealous s... (335 words)

I think I like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl, she used to date a friend of mine, but I had never really talked to her until weeks ago (because I didn't really hang out with them), and they happened to break up at the same time. So we've been talking to each other a lot lately, for hours and stuff, and ... (139 words)

Clingy friend who wants to be more is driving me insane!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who has been in love with me for the last 3 years. I have tried to be sensitive towards his feelings but it is getting to the point where I can't handle being the reason for his happiness or misery any longer. I have continually told him I only want to be ... (178 words)

His wont talk to me and acts beyond weird...does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i aint to sure whats going on here. I have a guy mate who yes i do like, Ive never thought of us than anymore than mates however other people and myself have noticed he doesnt exactlly act the same with me as anyone else. There are many girls that like him so it cant be ... (426 words)

He says vaginas are gross and doesn't want sex anymore. What can I do to have sex in my marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are very much in love, we have been married less than a year and we have been together about three years. Before we got married, sex was great. I was intimate and exciting. I am very much aware that this stage will fade some as time passes, but things have ... (504 words)

Am I being unreasonable to expect him to help out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The other day, my Italian boyfriend says to me "why do you always get quiet whenever you clean the kitchen". I tell him that it would be nice if he were to help someday, even just once, too. Immediate defenses go up and he tells me that it is my job because I am the... (276 words)

Will I just sound needy if I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my ex broke up back in August. We still texted each other every now and then. We were getting along really good and then one day she says she wants me to leave her alone, so I do. I deleted her from my facebook and I deleted her number from my phone. she has dated ... (176 words)

If I date my friend will It ruin everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have a friend. We are pretty good friends. We talk a fair bit and we see each other around school a lot. I have just found out that he likes me. Apparantly a lot. He is so great. Like perfect. He is nice and funny and good-looking. But he is my friend. Is it bad to d... (98 words)

What can I do to not be so wet all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have a problem with my vagina.it is usually very wet at all times and it makes me feel uncomfortable coz most of the time it makes my pants wet.what can i do so as to be comfortable?... (40 words)

My wife wants a threesome with another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age - My wife wants a threesome with another man. She says she loves the idea of "spit-roasting." I am disgusted, when I first met her two years ago in Church she was innocent and caring, and she saved herself until our wedding night. I don't know where she's getting these kinky ... (75 words)

Is my best friend jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i'm a girl and i have this best friend of mine who's a girl. she's a bit of a loner but she's still pretty close to me. we've been best friends for a year or so now... i have a lot of best friends now and try to go out of the way to make all of them feel special. sometim... (181 words)

My client keeps on mentioning our drunken evening of flirtation, what is he really thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So My Client and I went out for a official party once and I got drunk and there was a lot of flirting..Nothing happened but he did give me a talking to the next day. We spoke about it a couple of weeks later and said it's all behind us. My problem is I have a feeling he is ... (87 words)

For the men out there: Why would my husband be looking at naked pictures of women but not masturbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...I need a guy's point of view on this...and obviously if a lady would like to add, then all help would be appreciated. It's to do with porn! (like thousands of other questions on here!!) why does it seem to be such a problem? My husband's been watching it recen... (171 words)

He dared me to slap him and now he is holding a grudge against me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy. We chilled and everything. Everything went good until near the end where he had to leave. I was joking around by pretending to slap him. He said go ahead slap me I dare you to. I slapped him, but not to hard. Now he is kind of holding a grudge against me ... (89 words)

Is it possible am I just not cut out to have a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at my wit's end! I would really like to have a boyfriend, I have never been fortunate to connect with someone in that area. I don't walk around desperately trying to find a guy nor do I declare it a horrible night if I didn't meet a guy, I don't shy away from men when ... (269 words)

Was this a one night stand or should I take the lead in the next episode of our sexual encounter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I slept with this guy and we pursued each other not even 3wks. The pursuit was extremely intense and the sex was even more intense. However, he had sex with me, I held back a lot, because for me it way too soon. but he reaaaaaly went in...... I came alot..... He did not ... (114 words)

What are people's opinions on hen parties and stag do's and strippers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 20 years old and been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 years. Our relationship has been on the rocks a little over the past few months and were not as close as we used to be. I have been invited to go on a hen party at the weekend which i said yes to back along an... (245 words)

Do I consider this relationship over? Do I give him space and try and move forward whilst hoping he'll get back in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope someone can help - It might be a long story! About six weeks ago, I reconnected with an old classmate on Facebook. We got chatting and sharing stories. I told him about a recent break up which I'd gone through which although was for the best, still hurt a bit. ... (1605 words)

So I'm thinking about leaving this absolutely wonderful relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m bisexual, and met my girlfriend in high school. We dated for three years when, this last April, she broke up with me. It was not entirely unexpected- we had hit a bump, and communication had pretty much completely broken down between us, leading to a lot of fighting. ... (1294 words)

How do I deal with a self absorbed friend and how can I give her witty comebacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a good freind (friend only) who I get along with, we get along well mostly. She is very self absorbed, as she has a few health issues and works only 2 and a half days a week, she has in past years been a workaholic.. she has had an abusive r/ship in the past, (years ... (367 words)

I've never had a partner question my love for them as often as she does! What do you guys think of the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sooooo..... I love my girlfriend..a lot...we have been a couple for a year and a half and through this time have had a lot of ups and downs...we dated for 6 months and then moved in together...within he first few months of living together I realized we are exact opposite... (1125 words)

Our mutual friends tell me my boyfriend is chatting up another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello guys... i m a 20 year old girl...i am in a relationship for last 4 years...this guy was very sweet initially...he proposed me and we spent lovely time together...but recently i dont know what happened, but my bf has stopped calling me and some of our common friends ... (130 words)

Three guys like me so who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here's my problem. For most of my life, i've dreamed and prayed to find someone who had feelings for me, and hadn't found anyone. Once I turned 17, I felt hopeless, because in my family, everyone falls in love/marries very young (My parents began dating @ 13). But then I ... (242 words)

I'm bisexual and attracted to my roomates

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

25 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I'm a 14 year old sophomore. I'm a closeted bi. I guess I'll get straight to the point. I'm having feelings for two guys. One is my roommate and the other is a senior. My roommate could also fall into the criteria of best friend since I tell him about a lot of things. ... (155 words)

I have no idea what he is feeling and I guess he doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is quite a long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly 1 year last week. We have a long distance relationship and have from the beginning. We talk and have always talked allll the time whether through texting, phone, email and we see eachother every ... (957 words)

Is it normal to be doing that on a daily basis, or am I just weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I'm 16 this year and found myself hooked onto gay porn. I watch other kinds of porn as well but I seem to like gay more the most. Not lesbian porn though I find that sort of gross (no offence to people who like them, it's a personal thing) I feel guilty that I've ... (105 words)

6'3" 200 lbs, 21 and still a virgin!

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 almost 22 and haven't really started dating yet,and I'm still a virgin. The problem is I never really seem to be where the girls are. I'm not shy or anything, and I'm not bad looking(6'3, 200lb), I just never seem to be able to meet new women. So , is it that unusual ... (69 words)

My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating on me because i have gained s... (243 words)

Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?... (40 words)

Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of contraception/sexual protection ... (241 words)

Feeling miserable over missing my bf! Is this relationship worth it?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, in college. My boyfriend graduated from college this year and we are staying practically on opposite ends of the country. My problem is that he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. If I call him, he says he will call me back in some time but that some ... (164 words)

Erections around guys!! Am I gay?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does getting erections more often around guys than girls mean I'm gay. Or am i getting all worked up about nothing... (21 words)

I am literally love sick over this guy! Help!

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i was thirteen when i knew him i loved him more then anything in this life and i still do maybe way more , well i left him cause i had to move to an other country for some reasons for over a year now am 19y this summer i went there for vacation and i met him we had nice... (284 words)

I don't want to hurt his feelings! So how do I turn down this guy's unwanted attentions?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started talking to a guy via work email. He works in a different part of the country and we started talking by accident after a case of mistaken identity. On the first day he made an inappropriate comment, but I rolled with it and glossed over it jokingly. From ... (220 words)

Do I leave my current gf for the old fling? Or just wait to see what happens?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a in my late 20s and find myself in a sticky situation. Currently dating a great girl with a good head on her shoulder, good job, and comes from the school of thought women should cater to the man and men are meant to be providers. Great cook and fun to be with. Been with ... (346 words)

He's been hurt from past relationships..how do I get him to open up and like me?

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25 November 2009 (F)

- I am interested in a guy who likes me too. However, our problem is that he is too hung up on past issues. Apparently both of his previous girlfriends cheated on him. I want him to take a chance on me, I want to get to know him. While he is interested, he is too cautious for ... (177 words)

My ex bf's new wife has a brother...and we are seeing each other! Is this going to be a problem?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok where do I start? When I was 17 I had a child with my boyfriend/fiancee at the the time. As time passed we broke up. Dated for about 3 yrs. Now our son is almost 6 years old. My ex has married another woman that I know. No hard feelings. I'm completely over him and we are ... (226 words)

How can I makeout properly with her? And any good songs for me to play on the guitar for her?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I now have a girlfriend and I really like her. We have kissed, and tried to makeout but that didn't work. We started, but then we bumped lips and teeth and it stopped. How can I makeout properly with her? And what are some good songs to learn on guitar to play to her?... (54 words)

My wife says that some of the texts were to the wife, not just this married man! Should I verify that with the wife?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age - I've been married 22 yrs. and everything seemed perfect. About a week ago i checked my cell phn bill and saw text msgng charges. I checked the bill and figured i would need to cal cell phn company and have another argument. when i looked at the detail i noticed all the text ... (351 words)

How can I show her I have honestly changed and want to be the man she needs?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I broke up with my girlfriend of one year. We spent everyday together and fell deeply in love. The moment after the break up I knew I wanted to right things and get her back. But she seems like the type of women that doesn't just let anyone back into her life for no ... (202 words)

How do I know if he is right for me? And why am I fantasizing about other men?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a loving relationship for over a year and a half but lately, it feels like things have changed. I haven't been wanting sex as much and I'm afraid that it may be because he isn't exactly in shape, but he never really has been, either, so maybe I'm just losing ... (170 words)

Is it normal to need a heating pad and darvacet for your period?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my mom said she is gonna take me to a gynocologist next week when shes off. i thought i was off it this morning but i started again in 4th period. the only thing that helps is darvacet and a heating pad. is it normal????... (45 words)

Do I tell someone about how abusive he was to me?

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25 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - me and my bf broke up about a month ago and i am heartbroken even tho he was very abusive. he would torment me about being raped before we got together, smack me, shake me, scream in my face, call me names, and even spit on me once. it was horrible but i cant help but feel ... (241 words)

She's been lying, going out to wild parties and clubbing behind my back!

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately my girlfriend has been lying, and going out to wild parties and also clubbin behind my back. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years now. We had broken up back in March because of this. We then got back together in July, and everything was going good until her ... (193 words)

Why do I get turned on when I'm grinding against a guy?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i get turned on when i am grindin against a guy?... (13 words)

Clingy boyfriend!

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am living with a super clingy boyfriend. Yeah... I never thought I'd ever have a problem with an overly clingy, affectionate man, but its been happening to me for over 3 years now. I am still so much in love with him but to an extent he's almost pushing me away with his... (106 words)

How can I know it I have what it takes to be a second wife?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I know it I have what it takes to be a second wife? His first wife was his highschool sweetheart and they have two kids together. She makes his life a living hell now. They divorced because she cheated eight times. I'm just afraid I'll always feel like a shadow wife. ... (63 words)

My wife has no sex drive but loves me very much. I don't want to cheat but what can I do?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am bored with my wife. She has no sex drive and I don't know how to get her going. Every other part of our marriage is great. We get along great, in fact, we love each other very much. Everyone says how lucky we are to have each other but if they only knew that we have no ... (175 words)

Is sex with my wife once or twice a week too much to ask?

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25 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is sex with my wife once or twice a week to much to ask? We used to have sex 4 or 5 times a a day then we got married and she just stopped wanting me and I don't understand what I did or if I don't look good anymore. We have only been married for a year and a half and now we ... (77 words)

I think my teacher may have feelings for me!

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help... I think that my teacher may have feelings for me. He gets me out of class and I go to his classroom. I catch him staring at me and he always gives me good grades on assignments. He does things that he doesnt do for other students. The worst part is i think im... (66 words)

How can I tell if hes hiding something?

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25 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my Fella for almost eight months now, im 17 and hes 23. i would say we are very close and can tell eachother anything, we have alot of fun together, had a few ups and downs but nothing major, we always make up the next day! he was the first to say he loved me (im his ... (354 words)