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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does my wife not trust me with financial matters?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife and i are so in love with each other, the only thing is that we disagree on the finances. every time there is a discrepency in our budget and i take care of it she wants to call and see if she can get it taken care of faster. example: there was a discrepency in our ... (207 words)

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to her. Do you think the fem... (479 words)

What was SO HOT while we were drunk wasn't the same when we were sober!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So im 14, and he is 18. I met him at my friends party and we made-out that night. We talked every weekend after that and he always asked me if i wanted to chill and i would always be busy or he would but it would mostly be me. Then, on halloween i wanted to see him so bad so i ... (249 words)

Is it too soon for me to stay the night?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age - I've been seeing a fantastic woman for 3 1/2 months now. She is in the process of divorcing ,and has 2 kids, aged 16 and 18. They still live in the marital home.The problem is my girlfiend feels awkward me staying the night because of the children. The husband left her... (112 words)

What to do in a situation like this?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - You are 27 After 6 months you cannot forget about her. You are learning Korean and plan on visiting Korea because you have been inspired by your emotions to do so. You try to convince yourself that this is not obsession You know you will never have her. It hurts... (63 words)

How often is too often seeing each other while dating?

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3 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - So how often is too often seeing each other while dating? Or how much is not enough? We work together so we see each other every day. Although this probably shouldn't count as seeing each other, it's hard to guage. Right now we see each other every Saturday evening into ... (129 words)

I want more intimacy but not sex.

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. I've met his family and friends and he calls me his girlfriend. One night, about a month after we started going out, he said he wanted to sleep with me. I told him I wasn't ready and he said he understood. He hasn't pushed me to do ... (196 words)

Double trouble!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for a year, I was his first girlfriend, first everything basically. He's the most amazing guy I've ever dated. We've stuck by each other through loss, fights with friends, unemployment, and other situations. It made things really hard. Being more ... (238 words)

19 and never had a girlfriend. Please help!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i am 19 but i have never had a girlfriend, and its to the point that i have never properly kissed a girl. I have friends that are girls, and i am told i am a nice person. I play sport, do music, lots of different things, but i havnt met any girls that either are interest... (139 words)

What is so wrong about me and my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying to me about looking at porn. I ... (97 words)

Help me win my girl back, its childish young love but its driving me mad !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok basically, about a week ago I went on a school trip with the music department to New York, and me and a girl ive known for years got quite close. Throughout the 1st few days we were holding hands alot and were hugging alot, but neither of us wanted to get together ... (260 words)

Abnormal discharge

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost seventeen, and I began my periods when I turned about thirteen. I think it was a few months before my first period came that I noticed the discharge from my vagina. Though I care for my mother, I didn't and still do not feel comfortable talking to her about this sort ... (311 words)

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is pretty often. i'm starting to ... (86 words)

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and lie about going out to bars ... (652 words)

How can I Deep Throat a boy without gagging?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okey my problem isnt a really big one but a good answer will really help me in my situation. i want to give my boy friend the best blowjob ever and i kno this question has been asked alot but i need some tips on how to deep throat with out feeling like i want to be sick and... (126 words)

Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. I recently started to have... (298 words)

Is my good friend just busy or is she upset with me?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, in the past week i have been confused by the way one of my best friends is acting. We've known each other for a couple of years and are within a tight circle of friends. We usually meet up for lunch every couple of days, and chat away online most nights. Ho... (171 words)

I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt now coz he is back on that site ... (109 words)

Is my ex leading me on?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't happy. i have always been good... (226 words)

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a cuple we were together 5 years ... (88 words)

I'm afraid my 20 year old marriage is over. Am I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married 20 years. My husband was laid off from his job, but got hired same type of work at a company in another state. We own a big home here and have a big labrador pet. I can retire in a year so I could not go. He left, calls me regularly, has been home a few ... (162 words)

Should I confess my love for her and risk losing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - HI All, This is SRSG. My question is like I am in deep love with a girl she stays in X country and i am in Y country.I got to know about her when we use to work together at one place and its been 4 years i am in touch with her. I will be calling her every now n than, but ... (155 words)

I'm confused! Do I love my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. I live in Illinois and he lives in Pennsylvania. I know many of you will say it's a long distance relationship and it doesn't mean anything, so just quit it, but it's not that simple. We have met twice on 2 ... (214 words)

I want to spend quality time with my boyfriend, but he just uses my house as a flop-house!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and spends the rest of the day ... (133 words)

Could this Senior be a Cheater?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there is this sweet senior, and he will always come by me and touch me a little. hug me, hold my hand. and when ill text him "hey" he will text me " hey cutie ;-D". the thing is that he has a girlfriend who has been away. and im afraid she might be cheating. WHAT IS ... (62 words)

Is it wrong to want to date my friend's ex-boyfriend?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine hooked up with a guy over the summer. (Mostly likely as a rebound as she had just broken up with her boyfriend of a year). They slept together a couple times and then she told him she didn't want anything more from him. At the bar a couple weeks ago, we met u... (273 words)

My boyfriend has always been faithful, but I suspect he might cheat!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he's an outgoing person and funny. he maybe starting a new sales job where he will be working with alot of women. he's divorced and i know that his ex and him both cheated on each other numerous times. he says... (109 words)

Boyfriends make me feel drowsy. Why?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering...everytime I am with my boyfriend I feel extremly tired. Like we will be sitting close (touching and holding hands) and all of a sudden a strong wave of drowsiness come over me. So I lay my head on his shoulder; but I dont sleep, I just rest my eyes while we... (136 words)

I feel like I'm her brother and not her lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I'm 22 and I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now. This is my first proper relationship. Shes 19. Things have been okay. But its starting to feel abit like a brother - sister relationship, instead of lovers. Plus the fact that we've still not had sex. To ... (92 words)

How do I wow my girlfriend again? She seems to have changed!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 and a half months, its been exciting and stressful,alot has happened but i love her, there was a problem with her ex who kept phoning her and trying to come round and one day he did. what made me angry was she let him in. ... (201 words)

While I love the way things are, I want room for more in the future.

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes I'll try to be brief. Im 39 divorced with two childen in a relatioship with a divorced guy no kids who lives an hour away. Weve been together over 2 years having broke up several months back as he had never said he loved me and didnt fight for me when I questioned ... (346 words)

I feel like a social outcast! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - At school there has recently been a kind of friendship break up of 3 of us, when one of my friends got really mardy and blamed us for things we haven't done, and so on. We had a big fallout, especially between my 2 friends and now they don't talk and i don't know if she's ... (223 words)

My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. After repeated requests ... (296 words)

I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in febuary :( Whenever someone ... (1205 words)

My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!

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3 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been going through tampons like ... (131 words)

I told a guy I like he's "Buff" on MSN. Now everyone knows I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I like this guy, i think he's sooo cute, but! I've never spoke to him face to face...only through msn. and i accidentaly told him he was 'buff' and in my mind tht meens 'fit'. So i was with all my friends and he just came back from lunch with my friends b.f and his best ... (245 words)

I want to shower my girlfriend with gifts, but is it too much if we are on the rocks?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend are sort of on the rocks- it nearly ended last week but i've booked a surprise holiday to Vienna for our first year anniversary tomorrow and although she doesn't know where we're going she's agreed to come and we'll hopefully have a good time as we get on ... (215 words)

Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. I use the somewhat non-descript... (604 words)

We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the same.. :S WHAT THE HELL... (73 words)

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regarding her...she gets defensive t... (619 words)

I will seek help, I am obsessed about my ex-girlfriend. Do we still have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've posted about my situation numerous times. Brief recap. Dated for a year and a half. I started of as a confident dude, then started losing confidence, low self esteem, etc. My ex is beautiful. She broke it off, but we still continued to hang out like a couple. She woul... (310 words)

I suspect I am not my girlfriend's first choice. She is so unhappy with her life!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My gf was crying again yesterday. She says that she has given up so much to be with me. She gave up her accommodation which was rent free for the last 4 years. This she regarded as her independance. She wants a house with land and outbuildings to turn in to a studio - basically ... (539 words)

My Co-worker likes me... right?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently read a Question pertaining to a situation of a Guy with his co worker. She had a boyfriend yet had told others at work that he was taken/hers. Someone I work with also does this with me. Ive only known him for about 4 months, close as a friend for 1-2 months (... (427 words)

I won't be naked without the lights off!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an affair with a guy. this guy i loved him so much. The first time we met i was really shy to look at him in such a way that i could not even take off my clothes when the light was on. I will just wait until the light was off thats when i will take off my clothes. He ... (192 words)

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on the sofa with his ... (405 words)

MEN: What are some suggestions about activites for a first meet?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am meeting a man saturday night that i have been texting or the last 3 months. he is living an hour away and is going back home that night. i really need some suggestions as to what we could do on that night; where to go, etc. a few answers fom the men reading this would be ... (61 words)

My ex keeps contacting me. What is she playing at?!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - havne't heard from the ex in 2 weeks. I've dropped off the face of the earth and avoided her. Sunday night i get the text message. "I have a book, movie, and a bowl belonging to you. Let me know if you want them". She has had these items for over a month now. I have not looked ... (356 words)

My friend saw me naked! I'm so embarrassed!!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - had any body ever had embarrsaing moment before cuz i had one not long ago when my friend walk in on just when i was geting out shower naked and she see my privet parts what should i?... (38 words)

Sex makes me feel guilty and shy!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am shy to tell my boyfriend when i want to have sex so help me on what i should do. But sometimes after having sexual intercourse i feel guilty. ... (30 words)

I quit my job to be with my girlfriend! Is she cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid... I have problem with my girl friend now, she is divorced with two girls, and i'm divorced also, after 1 year living together i was reassigned to work 2 weeks on site and 2 weeks on leave, after 4 moths i found that she love somebody else, he is one of her eleme... (132 words)

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because we're not going to get ... (621 words)

What Do Some Girls Like about being cum on?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do some girls like to be cum on? What do they like about it? Is it true that most girls do not enjoy a man ejaculating on them?... (31 words)

Do girls have a problem with a curved penis? And what skin tone do girls find more attractive?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi...i'm 18 years old boy,i have two questions. 1. I don't know why but i have a slightly curved penis.Its very little bent downwards and slightly curved to its left,perhaps its coz of the way i masturbate as i masturbate pressing my penis on the bed. I would like to as... (112 words)

Is Polycystic Ovarian Synrome hereditary?

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3 November 2009 (F)

- my sister has just found out that she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and she is trying for a baby. The doctor said it may be harder for her to conceive because of this. Does anyone know if it is hereditary?? Its just that a few years ago when i was seeing my boyfriend at the ... (120 words)

I want to get to know her better, how do I talk to her?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys hmmm how do i start this.... well i know this might sound wussy so here goes there is this girl who lives across my house who looks beautiful i have been seeing her around the village a couple of times and talked to her once i think and from that conversation she seems ... (133 words)

I'm overwhelmed with the thought of something happening between my girlfriend and her ex!

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3 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My girlfriends Ex is coming down he is threatening our relationship and me(we use to be friends) im terribly in love with my girlfriend.I get the feeling something might happen this makes me feel so empty and unhappy and agitated and a voice in my head keeps going this is the ... (107 words)

What should I do about my ex-girlfriend?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl met in senior year of high school and we had a bunch of the same classes. I liked her in high school but I didn't really care about girls so I never really got to hang out and get to know her. Then we both went to college. I stayed in San Diego and she went to ... (415 words)

How can I talk to my gf to make this better?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my gf have been going out for a week, i like her so much...we always ask each other about past relationships...sunday i heard her past relationship lasted so long because they had sex, then i asked her about it and it put her is a really bad mood...she said she was ... (105 words)

Have I made the right choice by giving up on my friend and starting a relationship with his ex?

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3 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1: Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months now with the girl of my dreams.We are very happy and wish to spend the rest of our lifes together. However there is ... (551 words)

Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for the rest of his life, that he lo... (206 words)

Romantic gift ideas?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flowers, surprise teddies sent to... (102 words)

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if we can meet often because he ... (263 words)

I'm scared to have sex

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Earlier this year, I had a chance to lose my virginity with someone I was seeing. But once we were naked, and I was about to insert my penis, I just couldn't..i lost all confidence, and didnt have the guts to go in. Since then, I've thought about it lots, and am not sure if I... (176 words)

In a relationship where he's never said I love you

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3 November 2009 (F)

- My bf and I have been in a relationship since June this year, and he has never said "I love you". He says he loves being with me and can't imagine his life without me. He says he thinks I'm perfect like an angel. When songs come on that talk about love he will grab my ... (337 words)

My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

3 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the truth then so be ti. She ... (127 words)

Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but cared about no one. Then I met one guy in ... (706 words)

I have a "pimple" down there... what could it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Okay so I had sex with only 3 ppl and and shave when I know im going to have sex..the question is that I have this so alike pimple on my private area that seem never to go away.I don't know what is it cuz I shaved down there and I think i cause a lil pimple to form but when I ... (145 words)

Alcohol takes over me and I attack my husband... do I have a drink problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help guys...? I'm not sure what to do anymore. When I have far too much alcohol (which isn't often) I have attacked my husband (scratch and bite)(I'm sounding like a wild dog which I'm so ashamed of)...it's as if I have a blind rage and the following morning, I canno... (215 words)

She is confusing and I don't know what to do

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i was dating this girl for a year and a half. everything was good. i made the decision to enlist in the military. during the couple months beforei left. we grew really really close. i ended up getting discharged cause of a health condition and came home around 6 or 7 weeks ... (336 words)

Why is ex really flirty now?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so my boyfriend recently broke up with me and so far its all been okay. him and i are still friends and we get along well. lately though he has been getting really flirty and im not sure why. we have only been broken up for about 3 weeks. i dont want to directly ask him if ... (93 words)

She broke up with me, is seeing another guy and yet says nothing is going on

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend recently broke up with me after 4 years and 2.5 year old twins. she started talking to a guy she just met and im losing my mind. she said nothing has been going on and i called him and he said the same. but she continues to talk to this guy and i am worried that ... (156 words)

Can you go from sexually active to abstinent to make sure he's the right guy?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, umm, I have been sexually active for about two years now and I have had three partners, two in which i have been serious with, and one, was just a one night stand. after that one time, i kinda felt guilty about it because i did it out of spite. i dont want to continue to ... (203 words)

My co-worker has a b/f but tells everyone I'm taken?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a little confused by this situation. this girl I work with is dating someone else. we are really good friends. lately she's been acting real different. she's been questioning my past relationships, about my beliefs over cheating and such. after she tells me im a great guy ... (149 words)

He loves another woman he met online... what next for our marriage?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i have been married for almost 6 yrs we have had children from other realtionships and also have children together. he took a job where he was away from us and i supported him but i missed him terribly and looked elsewhere within a friend for support never ... (236 words)

Is it ok to love with the mind, not the heart?

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, is it healthy or ok to love someone with your mind than your heart? what i mean is to love him/her based on there decisions, beliefs and how they treat you ... (33 words)

What else can I do?

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3 November 2009 (M) age 30-35 - We have 5 semesters left at college. Mabye i seem unqualified to say that we are perfect for each other considering my extreme bias, but you are just going to have to trust me. Her problem has always been she was unable to commit to anything because she is uncertain about the ... (155 words)

Don't know if he likes me/how to approach it?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I noticed this guy at school and I thought he was kind of cute. I only noticed him because he would walk down the hall with the guy that I had a crush on. Last year he would look at me and point and stuff like that as I walked by, but I thought it was because the guy ... (266 words)

What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.

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3 November 2009 (?) age - I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have consistently said ‘no’ to any... (149 words)

Faced with choosing bewteen my education and marriage. Why can't I have both?

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3 November 2009 (F)

- I am confused about my future. I have been in a relationship with my bf for almost a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 25. Lately he has been talking about getting married and having kids, within the next few years!!!! To me that is very scary because I am only 20 years old ... (380 words)

How can I convince my boyfriend to stop stressing about my health?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what's going on. Ever since my boyfriend found out that I'm about 20 pounds underweight, he has been a bit over-protective than usual. I've explained to him that my doctor has put me on a good diet and I should gain some weight in the coming weeks, but it's like ... (156 words)

I am VERY happy with my boyfriend, but still mourn the loss of my ex. Please help!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23 Im having a really hard time getting over my ex finacee. I was with him for a 1 1/2. We loved each another very much but he had some insecure issues. I let my mother get into my head and i left him with a ring in hand and a broken heart. We were both hurt. ... (287 words)

I'm losing sleep over my lost love! Please help!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im 16 years old she 16 years old, i love that girl to death but shes in love with someone else, we dated in the past and broke up, i been in several relationships after that but everytime i kiss these girls i close my eyes and see her, i want that girl back but shes in love ... (75 words)

My first cousin got me pregnant!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more than fifteen years we finall... (183 words)

We flirted and kissed even though I have a boyfriend. Now I haven't heard from him in two days! What happened?!

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved back to my hometown and have been meeting a lot of my friend's friends. They are all really chill, and one in particular immediately sparked a more then friendly interest. i soon found out that he did too, he started by putting his arm around me and flirting ... (772 words)

I just can't STOP looking at porn! Help!

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've tryed to stop looking at porn and porn videos ill stop but then go right back. how could I stop it?... (23 words)

Does he love me or is just afraid to be alone?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf about a month ago for a week because i thought that i was too young to be in such a commited relationship. after that week or so though we got back together and are now dating long distance. i found out when we got back together that while we were broken ... (293 words)

Is it normal to act differently after a break up and reunion?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex recently got back together,after 2 and a half months of no contact ( my choice) he called me one day and told me that he still loves me and misses me alot and if he can have another chance, i agreed! since we have been back together he tell me that he missed m... (206 words)

There is no feeling depending on how I masterbate!

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3 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why do I not feel anything when I finger myself, it does not hurt either(which is good) I want it to feel good but there is no feeling for me.... (30 words)

Does my former one-night stand not want to see me again?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a one night stand with a man i thought i would never see. But today I ran into him and the wierd thing is that i asked him for his number, and i sent him a txt, but he hasnt replied. i really like him and after that night i regretted not getting his number. I am wondering ... (78 words)

Is this sophomore with a girlfriend being too friendly?

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3 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i am a freshman in high school, and i am involved with theatre. not if have have ever been involved with theatre you know how close you get to the whole cast. well there is this senior who is always hugging me, around me, will touch me, hold my hand. the problem is that ... (63 words)

I lie alot and I don't know why I do it

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3 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've realised I lie a lot and I don't want to I don't know why I do it. There are a few big lies i've told. I've cheated on my partner and not told them - I regret it, hugely, I love them, it was a mistake at the beginning of are relationship but because of those reasons ... (241 words)