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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel as if I'm not attractive to her any more as she never wants to make love to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Dear reader, I've been with my girl for the past 3 years, we've had our share of problems, like every couple must see. But during the last 3 or 4 months she has not been very interested in sexual contact. When I talk to her about it she always says that our relationship isn... (174 words)

Help! How do I let him go...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he always changes the subject. ... (87 words)

Hey guys, I don't want to get my hopes up but... could I be pregnant at last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 20 years old and officially late for my period.. I was due on saturday, and am usually very regular. Me and my fiance have been trying for a baby but it hasn't happened in 6 months of trying. I was beginning to assume that he had something wrong with his sperm due to years ... (147 words)

What can he do to make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend can't make me cum! We're not having intercourse, but we do have oral and he fingers me. I've made him cum dozens of times! It's not hard at all! What he does to me feels amazing and I really like it, but he says that he feels bad for not being able to make me ... (85 words)

I miss my ex so much, but she wont answer my calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I miss my girlfriend so much. My girl friend and I just broke up after about 3 years. I miss her alot it hurts me not to be around her we have broken up before and we have gotten back togther but this time feels diffrent she usally calls and we talk even though we arnet ... (111 words)

I married in haste, and now he has changed for the worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I feel kind of weird writing this but I have no one else to talk to and I seriously don't know what else to do. I am 20 years old and just got married Oct. 9th at a courthouse to the guy I was in AIT training all summer with (for the army.) He is active duty and I am not. ... (1135 words)

My friends all went to Malawi but I am home alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been feeling so so down recently! I guess my self confidence was absolutly crushed when i was turned down from a school malawi project - a project were 25 people head to malawi and help renovate a school or building etc and basically make a huge change in so many peoples ... (311 words)

I( want a baby but my boyfriend wants to wait

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,im 17 iv been with my boyfriend for a year now and we live together and everything, its going great ...but for years iv wanted a baby..but dont no if i should try for one ..i want to but he wants to wait a while..he doesnt understand everything will be fine..he wants one to ... (116 words)

He wanted to date me, I said no, now I want to say yes he is saying no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im starting to feel quite depressed the boy i like told me he likes me too but it 'isnt the right time for a relationship' he used to try to go ou with me all the time but i didnt want to then and now ive realised i do like him after all. its horrible knowing he doesnt want a ... (69 words)

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after three years together. Right ... (476 words)

I am worried I may have miscarried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so heres my thing, I am/was a few weeks pregnant. The thing is, today when I went to the RR I had some very thick, stringy discharge that was clear, very stretchy, it didnt break at all. And it had a little blood in it. I'm worried I may have miscarried early? Please if ... (86 words)

Should I tell my mum and dad I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm gay what's the problem with it? I want to tell my mum and dad but I know they will freak out, my parents are really homophobic, that's why the only people I let know I'm gay are the guys I date, none of my friends know because I know it will end up on facebook and my ... (144 words)

Is this something that happens with military men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up due to his stress level and the upcoming tour in Afganastain. He said that he loves me unconditionally but doens't know if he is coming back, he is scared and that I should live my life and move on. He told me to gog away and I couldn't wait my whole ... (147 words)

I can't resist my cousin, is she leading me on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone,sorry, its a big question. So, i am 20.everyone say um handsome and all that. But i am single all the way,something happens when i am around girls i am interested in and i feel nervous.cant talk,cant flirt etc.ok, so In short my problem is, i asked out some one ... (271 words)

If a woman asks a man for some space is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a female who is 38 yrs old. I had recently been in a relationship with a 32 yr old man. We have only been together for a little over a month and told him I needed some space but my intension was not to completely break off the relationship, on the contrary I just need to ... (167 words)

What do girls like the most...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont mean to sound unromantic about it but i want to know the best way to pleasure a girl, I want to take my girlfriend on a date to her favorite restaurant and then have some fun afterwards on like our aniversary and i want to know what girls like the most... and i do mean ... (59 words)

He stopped all contact with me. Why could he not at least have told me where it all went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 44 and divorced for 5 years. While on vacation in Florida (I live in New York) I met this guy on the first day there and we spent the rest of my vacation together. It was great, we instantly hit if off, we had so much in common, we talked about everything, he told me how ... (362 words)

Help! I am in love with my best friend's sister but I don't know how to tell her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend's sister but I don't know how to tell her. Any ideas?... (20 words)

I know she loves me and this is just mind games she's playing. How do I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Never wrote like this before so here goes. I left my wife 3 years ago, I still loved her but the relationship was one sided, I left to see if she cared, as it turned out she did not want me back, leaving her and four kids. So to cut a long story short, I started to move on ... (504 words)

Boyfriend of 5 years foresees our relationship ending in a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 5 years, since he was 19 and I was 20. We've lived together for approximately 3.5 of those years. 6 months ago, when our previous lease was about to expire, he said he wanted to move out on his own. I was shocked and we had arguments about ... (682 words)

How do I ask her if she's bi or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm bi, and I'm in year 12 at school. At school, there is this girl i fancy in year 13. I'm really attracted to her, and I can't stop thinking about her. I want to be with her. I don't know about her sexuality, I just know that she's quite boyish. I don't know what to do. ... (147 words)

Why??? What have I done wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I met this girl on a school trip to china. we spent a week there and everyone got really close. When we got back she text me a lot, i invited her out to the cinema with some friends and we both had a really good time. I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but then she suddenly ... (140 words)

Will he ask me out or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - few months ago i met this guy, well I have to admit that I liked him since the first moment I saw him but i really didn't think that anything could happen between us since he's sooooo shy and serious. with time he started paying more attention to me and giving me flirtious ... (445 words)

Am I being emotionally used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - One of my best friends is a girl who I have really, really come to like. We spend a lot of time together. Often times I think we spend more time together than her and her boyfriend. And therein lies my problem. I'll admit, it's a common one so I'll refrain from asking the ... (186 words)

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We now live together in an ... (229 words)

How can we solve his erectile problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) age - So everyday, I think about leaving my husband. He is totally cold with me, and distant. we sleep in the same bed, but he doesn't touch me. He says he loves me and he will always stay with me. He has erection problems also, and he does not know why. But the doctor says he does ... (237 words)

Our long distance relationship just isn't working...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boo are in a LDR. I was prepared to split up as the distance is so big, he was really keen about keeping it going. My compromise was to talk every day, be it phone, skype, msn, letter you name it. This didn't happen. He started making excuses, like after being on... (144 words)

How do I overcome this and learn to feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - like 5 months ago a guy i reallllly like sat their after we came from a party where i got really drunk! he sat in his house with his friends and told them how he thinks im boring.. this still hurts my feelings up till this day. i dont know if because he said it to his friends ... (289 words)

Am I too well endowed at 14?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and my penis is 10 inches long and about 6.5 inches around when hard. Is this too big for sex? One of my friends saw it and said it was too big to have sex. Will it get any bigger?... (42 words)

I'm going with a "man-child!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend Jonah and I , have been together for a little over a year. We've had our ups and downs, but I love him very much, and he says he loves me too. He's a kind man, and very much like a child. This boyish part of him was what I fell in love with, he was so simple, ... (264 words)

I want to end it with him but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't! He lives near Southampton and I live in Wales. W... (218 words)

How can I get noticed more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way home boys are always looking an ... (80 words)

Why do boys always mess me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing wrong. At the beginning they ar... (221 words)

Text messaging problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently I discovered that my gf of 9 months had texted one of my really good friends at a party (she had been drinking) and the day after without telling me. I found a peace of paper that she had written this on (i think it was part of her journal) and i didnt know what it was ... (132 words)

My girlfriend won't open up or relinquish some control!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am in a 10 month relationship with my girlfriend. We have been living together for 4 months now. My problem is that ever since things have been slowly going downhill. She is a control/clean(ing) freak, she never wants to visit with people or do anything that doesn’t involve ... (323 words)

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but underneath it all things ain't so rosy and... (339 words)

Thoughts on rebounding...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a general question about this rebounding phenomenon. I've never done it myself, as I give myself time to heal. I may get physical with someone, but I'd never dive into a new relationship, because it doesn't feel right to me if my heart isn't in it. So when someon... (155 words)

I've tried everything too make her fall iin love with me again... help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 9yrs and we have been together for 14yrs. We have a 12yr old son beautiful home. Gave her everything surprises, gifts, parties, vacations. We were head over hills about each other, but we also had financial problems at times. But in the beginning of ... (269 words)

I need my mind to be put at rest as I'm really worried...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im a bit confused... i started bleeding really lightly it started off brown and ended a pink colour, the bleeding only lasted for 2-3 days on/off...im confused because it was ten days early as well, i usually bleed heavily and it lasts for 5-6 days (my normal period).... (172 words)

He's either sleeping or at work, how do I make him see how neglected I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a military wife, I met my husband in highschool and we've been married for 3 years now. He's working a lot more now so most of the time its just my almost 3 year old daughter and I. The continuous work used to bother me, now I don't care. Part of the reason is because he ... (349 words)

We kiss but she says we can't date, I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl.She is older than me and I think we like each other because we eat together,study together,play together and it has even gone to the extent of kissing and romancing.The problem is that she say we cant date and i dont know why.I have fallen in luv with this ... (66 words)

How do I get "free" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I have a problem, I used to be an exellent student I didn't repeat any class and everybody was respecting me and I was always the hard working girl, but in the beginning of my adolescence something changed inside of me, my parents and my sister became like strangers to ... (132 words)

I don't know what's wrong with me. I only like guys with blond hair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok here goes, for some reason i think i like guys if they have blonde hair i know that sounds really picky and i think thats y i didnt go out with a boy hu was just like me (personality wise) i mean the guy im in love with the heaven an bak and have been is, my best friend hu i ... (110 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend my friend is coming to see me (us) in a few weeks time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I moved to London with my boyfriend earlier this year, everything is great, i just miss my friends! my best friend in the whole world is coming to london in December to visit her family and me too and she has assumed we will do something together for new years eve... The... (211 words)

Super cautious NOT to get pregnant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I just had sex for the second time and he made sure the condom was on, every 5 minutes, and when he was about to ejaculate we took it off then i did oral sex on him, when we were done i checked if the condomwas leaking or anything and there wasnt any moisture outside ... (81 words)

Where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi... I have been on this site for a couple months i think, used it before and have given advice. I just want to ask where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship? I'm 28, with an Asian background and rarely meet guys, and dont get approached much coz Im ... (86 words)

14 and want a baby...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle when it crys will just be ... (103 words)

I love him so much but I want to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!... (23 words)

My boyfriend and brother don't get along... how can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and my brother don't get on, I'm not sure why but apparently there were some messages sent between the two of them but neither of them are willing to say what they were about. My brother and I always fight after my boyfriend visits and he is very hard to talk to, I ... (116 words)

Am I right to feel distant towards him for the way he treated me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost two years came with me to visit my mother and brothers for Thanksgiving. The first 3 days were great, he was sweet, he did not accuse me of anything or call me bad names. Then on the third night, he needed cash at an ATM so I drove him to one. We ... (651 words)

His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy and I like him a lot but his ... (114 words)

His family's jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and very much in love with my 49 year boyfriend of a year. We've had a lot of ups and downs through having so much grief from everyone. He treats me like a princess and the only issue we have with our relationship is other people. Six months into the relation... (628 words)

If he remembers lots of small things over the last 3 years we have been together does this mean he really cares for me?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf tends to remember many small things or events for the past 3 year we've known each other. we've been together for almost more than year. Does this show he really cares for me? or loves me truly?... (40 words)

What might of happened for her to lose interest that fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What do i do? I posted a question relating to this issue a few days ago but now i need to konw what i should do now. Heres the situation. Ive liked this girl for a month or two and just recently asked her for her number, which she agreed, later that night we txted each... (510 words)

Does she really like me? Is it worth waiting for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - a few weeks ago, a girl came up to me who i didn't know and just started to talk to me. we got on really well swapped numbers and everything and we went out a few times. she kept telling me how much she liked me and how she really wanted to be with me. so, i asked her out, she... (172 words)

I think this man has stolen personal information from me, can he do any harm with that sort of info?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have just had to go to a local newsagents and ask if they could print some stuff out of me. It was about 30 pages of documents including job applications, email details and cv details. It was obviusly something the guy doesn't usually do and i thought he was d... (131 words)

My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to leave england and go back and... (169 words)

I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love with me. I really apreciate ... (188 words)

Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he tells me everything is ohkay " ... (94 words)

I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a jerk he is but at the same time ... (74 words)

I so want us to get back together and be exclusive but he doesn't know if he can do this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend and he was crushed. A few months later, we still were talking/rekindling things. I spent Thanksgiving break at his apartment with him, and we realized we are totally not over each other. We had agreed to sleep with other people, but I found out that ... (136 words)

I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my boyfriend because i still love my ... (109 words)

Although the sex is terrific, I never orgasm with him. Should I bring this up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How or would you tell a man that although the sex is terrific, you don't have an orgasm with him? With another man, I can climax multiple times, but the sex seems mechanical. With the first guy, I am satisfsed more although I never cum with him. Apparently, he doesn't reali... (130 words)

Emotional and physical love... the differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age - For a man, to live a life without ejeculating is hard, I am in a relationship with a celibate woman who finds it no problem, that is the difference, men need to express physically their love, women are quite happy having no physical relationship... why is this?... (48 words)

How do I change my jealous feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - five months ago I ended it with my boyfriend of 7 years. He had a huge problem with drugs and could be aggressive and abusive. My family begged me to leave him and so finally I did. It felt a relief and I really felt I had moved on. That was until I learnt that he is going out ... (328 words)

Please help, I need to get this idiot out of my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , Yes iv written before when my then boyfriend was being bad, distant and cold. He kept calling i rejected the calls and avoided the texts. then he turned up at my doorstep a couple of days later begging for anothr chance and I gave him one (despite this guy never compli... (333 words)

Your opinions on this... How can I help my friend to see sense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my best mates has been sleeping with her ex bf for god nows how many months now, and we have only recently found out about it, The thing is her ex has a gf who is pregnent with his baby and is due this december, I have told my mate to stop this but she is not list... (244 words)

What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old friend a lot. So much that ... (794 words)

Should I marry my student or just be his mother figure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old who's divorced recently. I teach. One boy who's 22 yrs old came to me as a student and in due course i started treating him like my son and he calls me mom. suddenly we ended up having physical relationship. now i am in fix as to whether i should stop this ... (102 words)

Sex has grown pointless to me. Do I need help?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if this is normal or not. Everytime I get physical with a guy it never does anything for me. No amount of fingering, oral sex or sex in general feels good to me at all. I've never had an orgasm from someone else and it's just frustrating to see the guy really ... (97 words)

I feel like I have nothing in my life compared to my friends...

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am approaching 29 and feel like I have nothing in my life. My freinds are all off getting married, having kids, buying houses, in great jobs etc. I live in a shared house with a 25 year old and I work in dire job for 22,000 a year, same as most 20 year olds. I ... (200 words)

On and off boyfriends...

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 months, anyways it was june 2007 ... (312 words)

How can I sort this whole phone mess out with him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys, sorry this is drawn out but I don't think it will make any sence otherwise A while ago (febuary) me and my closest friends had a massive falling out(i'd rather not go into that though) none of them would talk to me unless it was to threaten me. one of them was a gu... (323 words)

I feel there is so much still left unsaid between us, where do we go from here?

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30 November 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally abusive and insecure at times... (400 words)

He has a girlfriend but wants me

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this guy for a while but he's had a girlfriend as long as I've known him. I noticed he's been flirting with me somewhat since we first met but I assumed it was just his personality. Recently though, he's been asking me to kiss him and blatantly asking me for sex ... (139 words)

We both have new lives but he wants to resurrect the old

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im really confused here dont know what to do this guy was my first boyfriend as you know relationships has thier ups-downs.iwas 14 years when we started dating and he was 25yrs ,as i was young lot of things happens between us until we end up not seeng each other.unti we ... (303 words)

I am in a relationship for 5 months but cannot have proper sex

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 5months.we culdn't hav proper sex as his penis penetrated only half..i don't kno why this is hapening..plz giv sugestions.... (29 words)

My boss forgets I have a life

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boss keeps putting on the schedule with out asking me if I can work. HOw can I in a nice way tell her I have a life? I also dont always get my full 8 hours she is always rushing me through my work. I am thinking about working a different job on the week ends. I am afraid ... (75 words)

My husbands wants to reverse his "op"

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - the bloke iv been with for the past 8 years was forced into having a vasectomy from his ex of 10 years,it was a case of if he didnt have it done then she told him she would end the relationship,when he did have it done she still ended the the relationship,he had it done 12years ... (111 words)

I am angry at rapist's low sentence

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey people. I just got something that's kind of bothering me so I figured that I would post it on here. I just found out something and I am not entirely sure how to react. I have known my girlfriend for two years and I can honestly say that I have loved her since the very first ... (269 words)

I want to kiss my girl, but my Mom might be watching

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a date saturday night with my girlfreind. I have dated her before and we broke up. We got back together about 2 months ago via email and have been talking on the phone. We are going to the movies and my mother is chaproning us. I want to let her know I like her (maybe a ... (66 words)

I would love to hear your love stories and if it worked out...

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I feel I'm in love, but I am just curious about your love story? Did it work out in the end? Still together? Can't dream of anything better? Please share your story, with me, I've known him since I was in 1st grade and he was in 3rd, I skipped 8th grade and we ... (72 words)

Now she has found someone else I want her back

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - After a few months of ongoing fights and quarrels, I made the biggest mistake ever: I cheated on her. After a few more fights, we broke up and went our seperate ways. A couple months after we broke up, she started dating this other guy. I realized how badly I screwed ... (273 words)

I am torn between my wife and my lover

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I leave after 13 years? I have a 4 year old and a 3 month. I am a 32 year old male I've been with my current girl friend for 13 years we never married. I will refer to her as my wife. I have had my lover for 3 years. off for 1 and on for another. For a total of 5. My wi... (455 words)

I feel like she is using me and I don't know what to do about it.

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend of one year and I recently broke up about a month ago. She knows I want to fix things and get her back in my life. We still text everyday and there is no resentment towards each other. Over the holiday weekend we met at a bar with some mutual friends.She came ... (169 words)

Best positions for full penetration??

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate me fully. Can anyone tell me ... (65 words)

What can I do to keep my relationship alive?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Wow I don't know, me and my girlfriend we been together for two years and we were happy, by july 19 everything has changed, she acts like she don't know me no more every time I'm talking to her she doesn't listen to me. I love her, we have one son who is one year old and I ... (101 words)

Should I tell my sister in law that I'm in love with her?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of years younger. I just want to ... (183 words)

Why does he keep disappearing on me? Is there something he's hiding?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone online a couple of months back and was surprised to find that we clicked almost instantly. From our very first conversation, we were chatting daily for hours. A couple of days later, he shared that he had broken up with a long-term girlfriend of more than 10 years ... (603 words)

Is not being able to get over a crush normal? How do I get over him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i reallllllly like a guy that is a known flirt. i dont want to be in a relationship with him cuz he is a known cheater. but at nights i still dream about him and i still check his acebook statuses and stuff. is this healthy will this help me get over him? there is no one nd ... (109 words)

Why would she wish that I was two years older?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - me and this girl are good friend tho shes 2 yrs older than me. we go to the same school so i see her every day (small school) but one day she started saying stuff about her wishing i was 2yrs older i was wondering wat she couldve met by that? and this weekend she invited me ... (104 words)

Could someone help me on a couple sex questions?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to know the chances of getting pregnant if the male has had a std for more then 2 months. i dont know all the details because i am doing this for my friend. but i would also like to know how do you know if you are allergic to a condom?... (54 words)

I'm afraid he isn't over his ex. How do I talk to him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i met this amazing guy 7 months ago but its my cheer friends ex.so me and him have been dating for 7 months now and its been great. me and my cheer friend arent friends anymore because of it. but theres a bigger problem then that. i made a fake myspace as my ex cheer ... (133 words)

I am fourteen and afraid that I'm pregnant. Who do I talk to?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so Im 14 and Very Very Veryyyyyyyyy scared! I think i might be pregnant... Ummm....Ive missed my first period but theres no way for me to be able to get a preg. test. Im soooo Scared. I cant tell anyone because None of my friends would never understand and we hate m... (58 words)

What do men experience during their 'first time'? How can I help him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who is a year younger than i am. He is 18 and i am ninteen. We have been together for a year and half now and he wants to lose his virginity with me. I am not a virgin, but i really dont know how will i "guide him." We have talked about sex, we know what ... (123 words)

How do I reconnect with her?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my question is how do i reconnect with a old girlfriend when she is much more succesful and attractive then me without being that friend. we just started talking again and it seems that she is somewhat intrested in me but i just dnt know since ive been out of the game for ... (59 words)

What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys? How much outgoingness? How much confidence? More of a child, an equal, or a mother? I don't think an equally shy partner works. They tend not to talk much. Neither of them draws the other out. I don't really see ... (167 words)

He makes me feel worthless. What should I do?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really, really like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. He is always starring at me, but when we speak on IM he says he has to go but never leaves. He is always flirting with other girls and he never speaks to me. He makes me feel..worthless or unimportant. Can anyone ... (58 words)

How do I make his last name mine legally?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mom and me havent gotten along since my dad left, and that was in the 6th grade. Im 25 now.Shes done so many wrong things to me to where today i have disowned her, i cant forgive her and move on . I have talked to my fiance about my plans to legally change my name so she ... (126 words)

He used to talk about taking vacations together, now he doesn't answer my calls. What happened?

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30 November 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi I saw this guy that I use to work with about 5years ago. When we worked together he was married, but when I saw him, he told me he was divorced.He asked about taking me on a date. He called me the same night. The nights leading up to our first date we talked a lot. He asked... (202 words)

Will she ever get over her divorce and show that she loves me?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age - I am not sure what actually should i put here...I am so sad, confused and depressed that it is all mixed up. I am in a relationship with a woman 2 years older to me. I love her a lot. She is divorced and I have never been married. She has this nature that she gets angry and mad ... (355 words)

Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no results and I've actually never ... (328 words)

He wanted sex and I said no, so he broke up with me. Did I do the right thing?

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30 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi friends, I need to talk to you,I would like some advice and but I don't want to go into full detail, but hopefully enough for you to help me. I had been dating this guy for 2 months until tonight. He ended things, because we were not having sex. He tried to have sex... (295 words)

What to do about his bad boy behaviour...im having his baby...

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend/father of my unborn baby is a big pothead. I get so mad because he constantly smokes around me. He stays drunk Thursday - Monday. He has no job but is in college 2 days a week. When he is by himself he doesn't smoke weed as much as when his friends come over. So ... (124 words)

A few pregnacy questions?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have some questions about being pregnant, about the first trimester actually. Forgive me if it's TMI, but these are a few things I would really like to know from people with experience, not just another doctor brushing it off as anything. :) with that being said, Has ... (132 words)

Why did he break off the proposal? What can I do?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend for about a year and a half. I loved him, and he said he loved me. One day he poposed. I said yes, and everything was just great. Then, about three hours ago, he called, said he didn't want to get married, didn't want to date me at all, but he still loved me. ... (161 words)

My ex and I are friends, so why does he keep pushing me away?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up a year ago, but we have remained friends. He keeps telling me that he loves me but that he can't be in a relationship for various reasons. We are not sleeping together, nor have we since we broke up. I'm smart enough not to do the friends wit... (462 words)

Is he being too shallow? Or does he love me?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great guy and takes care of me. he didn'... (408 words)

How can we work through our financial issues?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a married man, in his mid-40s who is having a bit of trouble over my wife's bankruptcy. I myself have gone though it as well, but for some reason, I find myself getting angry about hers. It's a bit more complicated than mine, in that it involves an ex-boyfriend who loaned ... (217 words)

How can I prove that I'm not cheating and that I love him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my bf for already 9 months and i kinda have been messing you like flirting around but i love my bf so much and he knows that so he just forgets about it well on one of our dates we were at the park havin a great time and a boy texts me sayin i have to ask you ... (114 words)

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal age for a girl. She says if ... (71 words)

Is it too soon to see a lawyer? He left me 2 weeks ago without any money!

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband walked out 2 weeks ago. we were just fighting everyday. we have been married 11 years but together 20 years. i love him and want him home but he wont even talk to me. he came by last week to get his stuff and told me he loves me,hugged me,and kissed me bye. now i ... (201 words)

Is it possible that my husband is gay?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A married couple should be sleeping ... (74 words)

How do I tell her that I don't want her to always be the dominant one?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have sex often, however she is the more dominate one I think she believes that she should be the only one who touches or gives pleasure,however I am not that kind of lover I too would like to pleasure her I don't know what to do or how to say it to her. I'm ... (74 words)

I love him?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 13 and i like this guy but he dosnt know i like him how do i text him and like tell him that i really like him without him freaking out.. ... (32 words)

Do I tell her how I how I feel, and how?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship. Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pretty face, I had my best friend r... (269 words)

Is it wrong to send sexy text messages?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it wrong to send him sexy text messages...the man that i love, i send him a text today. that said hey babe,thinking bout u right now wondering how it would feel to touch you...mmmm and kiss you all up..omg dnt u wanna play. ill be the teacher ur the obedient student...guess ... (87 words)

I feel used, confused and I'm hiding from this man!

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, I really want to talk to someone about something that has been going on in my life for almost 3 years ago...but no one in my daily life really want to listen; so I've decided to be a part of this website to be able to communicate with you all. when I was 16 ... (328 words)

Got back together with an ex, but I think he's still in love with his ex!

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18, i first met my ex when i was 16 we started dating and were serious right off the bat...well i ended the relationship then restarted it then ended it then restarted it again...then after i graduated i broke up with him..i had many reasons for this...anywho about a month ... (275 words)

He wants to take me to the beach but is it to meet up with another woman?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im 44 year old female ... i've been living with a guy for 3 years now..about a year ago i found text messages to and from a female coworker.he apparently was interested in..i confronted him about the text and although i was devastated i chose to forgive him and try to move ... (208 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm gay?

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30 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - how do i tell my mum and dad im gay?... (10 words)

I love my husband but am living with an ex and I love them both!

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 13 years, eight of which I have been married. Well my husband and I split up a few months ago and I started seeing an ex who is 30 years my senior. I have always had feelings for my ex and could actually say that I loved him even throughout my ... (205 words)

What do I get my 15 year old b/f for xmas?

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30 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a 15 year old booyfriend and i cant think of a single thing to get him for christmas. we will be together for 8 months in december. so any ideas on what to get him?... (38 words)