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He says he likes me but now he's trying to provoke me!

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Question - (14 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

question! what the helllll is wrong with men?!

ok a guy that i know likes me he is 20. He liked me for a very long time but last year started showing his feelings more!

then this year i told him i liked him but i dont wanna date him all he has done since then is annoy me talk about me when im not around amd even hit me sometimes like playfully!

i still like him but idk what the hell is wrong with him? does anyone know whats wrong with him? hes not interested what?

any suggestions would be helpful

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

It might be worth just giving him some time. If you really like him, you could say. He'd probably grow up in about a second. But if you don't want to date him, then you'll have to give him time. And also be aware that he may stop liking you and like another girl.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009):

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so when and if he grows out of it do u think it wud be fair to give a relationship a shot with him?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2009):

Yes, he likes you a lot. What you're saying is the sign of a guy who likes you. Guys take longer to mature about these things. He fancies you, but hasn't got a clue about how to get your attention, so he's doing things that he knows you will notice. Playfully hitting you and saying you're boring are both classic signs. He will grow out of it, but not until his mind has matured a bit more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009):

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thank you caring guy... but y hit me we are not in elementary school! and talk about me? he says im boring...he never acted like that when he liked me but this year i told him i liked him. and things change cuz i still didnt wanna date him! recently i told him i dont like him but i still do! what to do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2009):

He completely fancies you and is trying his best to attract your attention in some way. It's a thing men do. He just really fancies you, and annoying you means he's on your thoughts, even if it's for the wrong reasons.

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