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writes:Ok there is this guy at my high school and im a freshmen and neverhad a boyfriend and he's a sophmore but he's suppposed to be a junior but he had to go to rehab. And he has a very big sexual past. I know he likes me a lot and he's really nice to me, but I hear a lot of bad things about him. Everybody in school knows him and are friends with him, but they tell me that he's only being nice to gain my trust so that he can get me drunk or ill give him a blowjob or things of that nature. and that he has a reputation for this sort of thing. But if I hadn't heard anything from anyone, I wouldn't suspect anything negative. He's very nice to me and to my friends, and he's actually been taking things with me very slow. He's asked me to hang out a few times but I decined because I don't know what will happen when he's alone. But I think I like him backSo my questions are...Next time he asks to hang out, should I go? Should I confront him about the things I have heard? What do I do if he tries to get me to give him oral?He's so much more experienced than me and I really don't know what to do. Please help!!Thanks! 3
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Hey lucky you, you already know this is not a good person to be with, you already know he has been to rehab, his reputation has preceded him, you are aware there is a chance he may get you drunk and ask you to perform sexual acts on him.Heed the warnings, never forget these warnings, although it seems to me you very much want to see for yourself what the "bad boy" image is all about.Pre warned is pre armed, dont do anything silly.
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reader, CarlyJohnson  +, writes (15 November 2009):
All I have to say about this is people are telling you he may want to get you drunk so he have have sex with you, do you want him to? You are young and inexperienced. Your first time should be good, with someone who really likes you! Not someone who just wants to have sex with you for the sake of it. This guy has a bad reputation and has been in rehab which is obviously a bad sign. I would take control of this thing between you. Have you seen the movie "John Tucker Must Die"? because it actually gives you some great advice for teenagers. But if it was me I would just stay friends with this guy. He may seem nice but he probably isn't.Good Luck!
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