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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible just to give up on love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've stopped contact with her. I... (126 words)

How can I tell him my name and continue to talk with him without looking silly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have said hey to this guy and he has said hey back but I have yet to tell him my name and I was wondering how to tell him my name without looking really stupid.... and the thing is, I'm am a sophmore and he is a senior so.... plz help... (53 words)

Why am I so affraid to have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my problem is kinda weird. I have no problem getting guys, a lot of guys really do like me but what we do is just hook up. I've only had one boyfriend and that was a very long time ago. Everytime a guy asks me to be his girl i cant run away fast enough and i really ... (137 words)

How do I introduce myself to the guy that caught my eye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so i like this guy and i have said hey to him a few times....i smile at him make eye contact all the usual stufft that a girl does when she like a guy...but i havnt tod him my name yet..so how do i introduce myself to him without looking like a total moron..thanks!!!... (54 words)

Is she really a friend, please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I are proper close. I love her to pieces, I really do. I would do anything for her. But sometimes I've noticed that certain things that I do for her (like give up spare time to help her, spend money on her, give her things, etc) she doesn't do back. I don't ... (396 words)

My parents don't like me talking to boys I'm not related to, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i like this boy he is 18 and he is American, I am younger than him by a few years. My problem is that my parents say I am not allowed to have a boyfriend or date or communicate with any boys I am not related to. All my friendz know about this, besides I have never had ... (84 words)

He only wants sex and attention when it suits him. I am also feeling unappreciated, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I have been together for five years now. I just had our baby a few months ago. Lately I don't feel appreciated. The only time he ever shows me any love or attention is when he wants to have sex or touch me. When I'm exhausted from working and dealing with the baby ... (110 words)

Should I just let it go or do something about it?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this rumour going arounnd school and everybody has finally left me alone about this but one kidd. Every time I see he him he starts making fun of me for it. My friends said I shouldn't take shit from people like him. Should I just let it go or do something about it?... (57 words)

How can I make this friendship based relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. It started one day when I noticed this guy in my gym class. He was quite handsome... and hot. I scolded myself for not noticing him before, and I began to wonder what he would be like to talk to. I remembered him from the very first week of gym class, th... (481 words)

I feel like a stalker and dislike it. What do I do?

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18 November 2009 (F)

Why was his underwear all sticky?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 4 years and I have a kid. My partner is 31 and i'm 28 and i'm ok looking not to me but he thinks i'm ok so anyway i wanted to have sex a few days ago he didn't. Now when i was doing his load of clothing i found his underwear sticky and wet. I asked him about and ... (123 words)

How can I get beyond my insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I am so insecure about myself =/ When I'm not with my boyfriend (ie: during class, or if hes busy with homework, with friends...etc.) I get nervous and my mind starts to work over time and thoughts run through my head...I know he likes me! When were together I'm totally ... (484 words)

Why won't any man have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fantastic (yet quirky) sense of... (149 words)

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down a lot and has made my self... (361 words)

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it quits and just be friends or try ... (105 words)

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX' condoms for like my firs... (58 words)

Do I still like my boyfriend more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking of ending it. I've always been an undecided person, so I'm seeking for a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months. We're both 16. He really is a great guy; Calm, kind, patient, loving and funny.... (459 words)

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. Today he told me that he ... (86 words)

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?... (38 words)

I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my other friends told me to egnor ... (275 words)

I have a boyfriend but no friend to talk to if I have a problem or just for fun. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone :) Its not really a question question, just kind of needed some other people's views and opinions, or someone to listen really! I have a lovely family who i am quite close to, however when i was growing up they always kept themselves to themselves and don't really ... (389 words)

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his way over, then I didnt hear fro... (445 words)

I need a friend to talk to, but my friend always steers the conversations back to her problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

- I have this friend who i've known now for nearly 7 years and shes one of my closest friends, shes 3 kids 2 of which are my godsons and i do love her to pieces however i am at the end of my tether. She is forever ringing me and texting me telling me about problems about h... (389 words)

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good friends and then more. I us... (389 words)

I feel so stupid because I fooled around with this guy at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help, I feel so stupid. This is long - sorry. Me and a guy at work have been flirting for a long time I have always said never to a work thing but one day we were both working late and one thing let to another and we kissed, a bit later it happened again b... (339 words)

He's getting me a promise ring for Christmas. What should I get him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I get him for Christmas? He's getting me a PROMISE RING. So, im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We've had a great relationship, we've been together for basically 6 months, but we both know that if we met sooner, we would have been together a lot longer, we'r... (194 words)

Why do women sleep with married men?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

18 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not there actually want them ... (96 words)

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. but just these past 2 weeks i ... (150 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad thinking abt pregnancies and ... (75 words)

How can I dress more attractively?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!... (45 words)

Obsession or Procrastination? How can I focus on my work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm supposed to be writing a thesis but find myself thinking about my lover all the time, and scouring pages like these for answers. I don't think badly of him or suspect him of anything (except being a gorgeous rascal), I just wonder about him and when we can meet up and of ... (142 words)

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the wishy washy behaviour and ... (678 words)

I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. Yesterday, my step daughter in law ... (269 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I am tired of staying home all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. When we first started dating we went out often. As the years passed, we found ourselves staying home more often. Recently, I have wanted to go out, so when the situation presents itself, I go. I usually ask him if ... (176 words)

Love Triangle: Should I wait and see how things go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, I'm in a dilemma. I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but he has a gf that he has been on and off with for three years. The complicated thing is that in between their relationship she was married and had 3 kids.(He has no kids with her) She is still married though ... (137 words)

Problems in the family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am turning 22 this January. I have a problem with my dad. He has a mistress. My mother is always upset with him. My father left our house and went to live with this new mistress. I am really bothered, because I don't want my family to come to an end. I love my family, ... (92 words)

Is it possible to change a man's mind once they've settled on a course?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've written before about my boyfriend who is going through a divorce and that I feel as though he has been showing less interest in me as a person recently and been a bit complacent towards me - even though he did make the effort to see me whenever he was free and I l... (424 words)

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After we broke up she began a rela... (394 words)

I am desperate to meet someone. Why am I having trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I am a woman in my mid forties. I was in a relationship with a man a while back but, broke up. I still see him since we travel in the same circles. It took me a long time to get over him. I really fell for this guy and it has been about five months since we... (454 words)

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about three weeks ago that she began ... (459 words)

I have a date and I don't know what to talk about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

- ok i need help and pretty fast!! I just accepted this date from a guy i have liked for months and months. Well i don't know that much about him and previously on dates lets just say i suck at them. When i'm out with my friends im this bubbly outgoing kind of person who reall... (196 words)

My husband is abroad and doesn't send money or call to talk.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 41 years i been married for almost 14 years and we have 3 kids my problem is my husband i was asking myself if i need quit my marriage, my husband and i do not talk regarding family matters, sex do not say i love you he did not talk to often we leave the day as silent if ... (182 words)

This girl is horrible to me. Could it be true she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hellooo :), i have a question about a girl in our class. I've been wondering if she fancies me or not, but its a bit complicated. We both did a college course last year and everyone that i have kept in touch with from that course said they thought she fancied me. Im also going ... (203 words)

I'm going to prison for 6 months. How will I cope?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you are all well. Ok here is my problem, I am a nice middle class women of 28, I have guy I am with and another think I may end up with, a good job and a nice flaty I rent with some friends, I went to University, did a degree and have lovely friends. Now h... (212 words)

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on the laptop to notice me. I've ... (181 words)

Is this dream telling me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream last night that my boyfriend and I were getting married. We were at the movies with our friends, and everyone was all excited for us. But we were such in a rush to get married that we didn't even have rings or anything planned. He didn't even get me an engagement ... (85 words)

How should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have been really nice even when ... (163 words)

I've never had a penny off my ex-husband, is it too late to do anything about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age - i left my hub 10 years ago we stopped friends. ive never had a penny of him. is it to late to do anything about it?... (26 words)

He can masturbate without a problem but when it comes to sex he cant keep it up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This coming Friday is mine and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary. I've been living with him for a while now and I love him so much. He means everything to me and we can talk and be together all the time and never get the slightest bit tired of each other. But our sex life ... (200 words)

Am I more committed to our relationship than he is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - this is an update and question in one. i wrote once how my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and i only see him once during the week and on the weekends. he doesn't feel the need to see me more. i got brave and asked him to come and see me on a night he ... (181 words)

Am I wasting my time with him? Why would he cut off contact all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a few weeks ago and had a lovely first date. We stayed up until the early hours just talking and laughing and kissing. He walked me home and gave me a kiss goodbye. Since then, our communication has slowed. He has stopped texting first but always replies, and it is ... (164 words)

Any ideas what this dream means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream last night that my boyfriend and I were getting married. We were at the movies with our friends, and everyone was all excited for us. But we were in such in a rush to get married that we didn't even have rings or anything planned. He didn't even get me an ... (73 words)

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a bartender. he hates it with a ... (125 words)

How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depressed because i couldnt handle the figh... (204 words)

Who do you think likes me more? I'm drawn to one guy but I'm not sure if he's interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have some male friends, two of which I am concerned about. The first one is a guy I work with, let's call him Daniel, and the second is called Gary. Dan and I have known each other for just over a month now, through work mainly. In the work place, he is very quiet and t... (245 words)

Should I give him time before I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My ex and i might get back..i contacted him in late august..he said he can't just jump back into things and that we would exchange calls and then meet and see what happens. Sometimes it would take him a few nights to get back to me and i kept letting it go until i felt i j... (408 words)

Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or maybe bi. i think this because ... (265 words)

I know nothing about dating! Has anyone got any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old male who has never had a date because I've always been to shy to ask anyone. I am, now, perfectly confident in myself and can talk to girls much more easily. The problem is I don't really know absolutely anything about dating and have quite a few questions; ... (203 words)

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in her way and a kiss is only jus... (268 words)

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him anymore but I basiclly the ... (353 words)

To others it seems like there is not a lot to lose, but to me its the world!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a major problem i've been in love with this guy for the best part of a year and a half. We were friends and were in the same class, i really thought he liked me, he used to get really nervous around me, like sometimes he couldnt talk to me and he stared at me a lot, ... (1059 words)

How do I keep my boyfriend happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have been with my boyfriend seven months now, but i have known him for years... we both love each other and are very close, i can be myself around him. but sometimes i feel that i could be boring him, do you have any tips on how to keep hold of him? any tips on how to ... (75 words)

What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to that will help me. Have you any ... (85 words)

Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right cause she just says it for a la... (228 words)

I want to stop cheating but my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi evry one i have a serious problem,my boyfriend have got sex problem first i thought may it was me then i cheated with another guy but dat guy was fine.i love him and i want to stop cheating but my problem is he don't satsfy me,i have tried every thing to turn him on but i ... (164 words)

I realised I couldnt trust my boyfriend but only after we had unprotected sex! How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel completely betrayed. I was dating a guy for six months and thought i could trust him. He started doing things that made me believe otherwise. So I broke it off, then I realized we had sex a couple of times throughout our relationship without a condom. Now I'm driving ... (198 words)

My husband just never wants to sort things out!! He expects me to be fine.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice here. I've been married for just over 2 years now. My husband is a wonderful man who's totally commited, faithful, caring and hard working. But...if we have an arguement, he doesn't like to talk about it afterwards. Now I'm a very emotional person and I n... (289 words)

I feel as if I have given my all to this guy but I'm worried I might not get anything in return!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and am now in a long-distance relationship with a guy who I love very dearly. In fact, it was falling for him which made me realise that my previous relationship wasn't working. I feel as if I have given my all t... (298 words)

Is a Christmas gift a sign to a girl that things are starting to get more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for about three months now, and we haven't really had any sort of talk about the status of our relationship. I really like her, I'm pretty sure she likes me, and we have a lot of fun together, but I don't want things to get too serious and I ... (193 words)

How should I explain how much this bothers me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay my husband of 2 weeks is in nursing school. He started last May. Now before this I never looked at his phone he never took care in keeping it on him. He never really got texts unless I sent them. Things were smooth sailing. So about 3 weeks ago he starts talking about this ... (288 words)

To date or not to date?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to a guy for almost a year and the past 2 months we've been spending more time together. I have a couple of questions.. he has bad credit and short on money. I feel so shallow when I think of that being the dealbreaker for going to the next level. Is it a ... (135 words)

Advice for last minute exam preparation?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Any tips to how to cope with last minute preparation for exams? I am really desperate now argh~~~... (18 words)

I suspect my girlfriend is having cybersex behind my back, am I just being paranoid?

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It's a long story, I've been with my girlfriend for the last 6 months, we have an internet relationship and we have met up about 10 times (we live an hour away from each other). We love each other to bits but I suspect her of having cybersex behind my back. We have each o... (443 words)

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and he became abusive physically ... (489 words)

Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he still smoked weed but his mom ... (459 words)

Insecure & Losing My Mind...

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me... I'm really suffering. I have done countless Google searches, read through hundreds of forums and advice columns, and sought the help of family, friends, and even my significant other, but nothing will silence my thoughts and nothing will debunk my ... (1533 words)

When is this man going to feel like having sex with me? I'm considering an affair just to get some action!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im tired an sick of my sexless relationship! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years now. we have a 15 month old baby together. we r not married yet (dont ask) He is been working a lot lately, and I do understand that, but I do too, as well as I go to college and when ... (293 words)

Is he too dominant in bed?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think maybe my bf is to controling in bed. wen we have sex he is always moving my body into positions and he dont ask me if stuff is okay. sometimes he pushs my head to his penis and then holds it there and then he thrusts. sometimes this hurts me. is this normal for guys to ... (74 words)

I don't know how to handle her and her lies anymore!

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18 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - First of all, trust is very important to me in a friendship. A friend of mine, who is in her mid 20's, is a HUGE liar!! She tries to avoid conflict or make herself look better, but she still lies. For example, the things she lies about include: at her job she lied and said she ... (308 words)

Ovulation, Pregnancy, The ex-factor. Help!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, so I have some questions. See me and my ex-boyfriend had unprotected sex (he has a girlfriend) and Im like bugging out I may get pregnant. See I already have a two year old with someone else and this is the same exact time of month I conceived her only two years ... (259 words)

Am I wrong for thinking we had something going?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im really confused about this guy.He says he is scared of a relationship and doesnt want one,but to me I think a relationship is pretty close to what we have already been doing,except without the title! Let me explain some of the details with my situation.I first met him last ... (367 words)

Getting it up (first time)

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18 November 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hi people, I have a concern I'd like to get input on. I'm 18-22 and a virgin; I was about to have sex several times after making out but every time I couldn't get a full erection, or of I did, it fell off quickly..I just didn't seem to be that turned on. So it was too weak ... (187 words)

I've got a boyfriend now so how can I stop this urge?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and i have a problem and i need help. well in the past i had this one guy that i gave blow jobs to and now that im in a relationship i have nothing else to give because i love the person im with. so one day they asked me to come over but i alread knew wut they wanted so ... (236 words)

My girlfriend lives in a defense mechanism and won't let me inside.

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a somewhat new relationship. We've been talking for months and months, but only a few back actually made things officially exclusive. Anyway, my girlfriend has a tendency to keep to herself about things that bother her. She remains quiet and to herself (making it ... (158 words)

I have a great relationship with my boyfriend... but there's something missing...

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a sweet, loving boyfriend who worships me. He is trying to improve his life, it took a while, but in an effort to not lose me he started community college six months ago,is maintaining a steady job although it doesn't pay much, and has matured a lot since we first ... (294 words)

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was her very first serious ... (114 words)

I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second world war. Please tell me... (68 words)

He wants me to change everything about myself!!!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a baby together but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not?? He tells me that i need to change and dont know what i need to change?? When i ask him he tells me "everything" and i dont want to so wh... (68 words)

Confused about what's going on with my relationship...

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for years and she's my best friend n all. She recently wanted to give us a try n 2 months into it I'm just not sure about my feelings! One minute I'm like yes I want to be with her, then the next minute I dont. Small things irritate me about her n I think ... (156 words)

Make up sex! Is this normal?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that every single time that me and my fiance have a falling out we always end up having make-up sex? I've told him before that I think he chooses to bring up an argument a lot of times is just so we can have sex. And sometimes this makes me think that sex is all he ... (71 words)

Help me get over this "desire!"

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?... (12 words)

I know more about books than women... help!

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, this is another story of my life. i have decided to write those things down coz i cannot keep them inside me any more. I have started to like this website (I have received quite helpful advice), but I'm curious to see if anyone has an answer for this one. I'm sta... (295 words)

Is it bad to talk to yourself?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to talk to yourself? I dont do it in public but if I'm by myself such as in the car driving I usaully talk to myself. The reason I do it is because I dont have nobody else to talk to all my friends that were always ears have babies now and they barely have time to ... (144 words)

Does my boyfriend not care any more?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we've gone through some tough and good times. Like at first he was the one that was all over me, telling me how much he liked me and so on. And I was always the 'mean' one if you will. But then he kinda messed up bad and we broke ... (199 words)

Any good tips for online dating?

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I turned 22 a couple of weeks ago. I've decided to try this online dating malarkey now. basically, how do i present myself in the best possible yet most honest light, and have a chance of finding someone? i always used to associate online dating with all the negative ste... (162 words)

How can I learn to be more confident and get over the fear of rejection?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, There is this guy that i strongly like and I've known him for almost 2 years. He's more than a friend but less than a best friend. Sometimes it looks like he likes me and other times it doesn't and i'm so confused right now. I can't handle this any more so i'm just ... (116 words)

He's introduced me to his family. Does that mean he's serious about me?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy introduce you too his family and bring you around them? I personally wouldn't bring any guys around my family unless I was planning to keep him around. The reason I asked is because I met all my ex boyfriend's family and was always at his house but then he ... (73 words)

Overly jealous fiance???

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he always insist that I bring up ... (144 words)

A bad experience in bed!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whether he meant to or if it was an acc... (117 words)

Is this normal? Am I pregnant?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have missed my period for five monts and I have had backaches and headaches, my breasts have been itching a lot lately and all I do is eat. I mean I always ate a lot but now I just can't control it. Can anyone help me out here? Am I pregnant? I haven't been to the doctor ... (115 words)

My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not need a dirty b****** like you... (200 words)

How can I get closer to him?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I really like this guy. We're pretty good friends. We always talk on the bus and during gym. Well he just had his heart broken a couple weeks ago, but he's doing a lot better now. I just found out today that he had known all along that I liked him. Now he doesn't ... (180 words)

I need your advice... I'm in love with my first cousin...

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my first cousin but he lives far away from me, we talk alomost every night but i rarely see him, the problem is that we are only teens so we can't travel alone, I want him to visit me but its gonna be hard for him to do that as my uncle and my mom are not that ... (77 words)

They wont let us see each any more!!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I've been in my relationship for 1 year and 2 months so far. We've gone through a lot and overcome it all. The fact we didnt see each other after we met for 5 months, was because we had to get each other's parents to like us, and the fact we got cheated on and lied to ... (516 words)

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

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18 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another off and on, though never at the ... (484 words)

I want a meaningful relationship with another girl, but I don't now how to go about it!

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have a meaningful relationship with another girl, but i don't know really how to go about doing that. i haven't ever dated another woman before. i've looked up some chat sites and such, but they all seem to just want sex now and i really don't want to do the ... (62 words)

Is he interested or just blowing me off?

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18 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met M two weeks ago through a common friend of ours. He liked me and I liked him but nothing happened. A few days later we were talking on facebook and he suggested we go have drinks. We finally went out on a date and in the end he ended up coming over to my place and we ... (245 words)