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writes:I've been homeschooling since grade 5,... i've decided to go back to school now because grade 11 is quite hard to homeschool (i am 1 grade ahead of my friends). There is this guy i REALLY like,... he's charming, sweet, good looking... everything any girl could ask for. But since i missed the "crutial" years of school i've never had a boyfriend and i have no clue how to act around guys, how to talk to them, how to flirt, how to kiss... NOTHING!! I feel like such a loser, and before i dive into this head first any advice anyone can give me will help loads!thank you, xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): Hey, Im 14 and I just replying to your message.
It doesnt matter about that you dont know how to act around them just act yourself, take everything slow in what you do around him (your like) or any other boys for that. If you have a got a close friend ask them how to help you. Since they might of had contact before with boys.
Cheers. Nathan
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reader, Babi-G  +, writes (28 January 2007):
aww dont worry boys are pretty much the same as you at that age they worry about the same things kissing, flirting. all u need to do is be yourself if hes not interested in you then hes not worth it. just concentrate on school be yourself but also have fun dont worry about boys there not going anywhere they will be here all your life :)
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reader, ***la belle vida*** +, writes (26 January 2007):
 Aww darling, innocence is precious it should be preserved and cherished, once you lose its gone forever and never comes back.If many people could turn back time, alot would not have bothered with boyfriends. Well for one thing i started seeing lads at your age and got involved in other bad things aswell. My school work suffered badly, now i have no qualifications and little money, the best thing you can do is concentrateon your studys.
as for the flirting part its an instinct even eye contact can be flirting! its not a complicated skill you learn. best of luck honey xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): I agree with CD - some people your age act like they know so much about the other sex... in reality though, they know practically nothing! Don't worry about it. You're perfectly normal.
I know plenty of people who went to single sex schools and they hardly ever saw people of the opposite sex until they were 16! If anything it done them a lot of good! ;)
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reader, bamsidol4  +, writes (26 January 2007):
 well, just be yourself and stuff. dont try to be someone your not. well for me i like a girl who is her self, and doens act like she is all that and a bag of chip;s
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 January 2007):
 I'll be honest with you. At your age I don't think anyone knows anything about boys. That's why you get the fun of finding out all this stuff. You haven't missed out on any great wisdom, dnt worry!
CD
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