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male
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30-35,
*ikeg23yall
writes:hey well i have made a big mistake. i cheated on my girlfriend and was unfaithful in the first month and a half of our relationship but after i realized how bad i felt i told her about it. she gave me a second chance and i am greatful, but i feel like because she doesnt know how far i went with the other girl that im hidding something... i told her i mess around with another girl and cheated was that statement alone enough or should i have told her details?
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reader, DocSilverback +, writes (27 January 2007):
 First of all, it wasn't a mistake. You knew exactly what you were doing. Be thankful that she has forgiven you and gave you a second chance. Don't go into the graphics of what you have done. It's guys like you that give good faithful men a bad name when it comes to trust. STOP IT! You're still young enough to learn from this!
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reader, cd206  +, writes (26 January 2007):
 Absolutely not! I think by telling her about the cheating (although it was the right thing to do) that you've hurt her enough. She's forgiven you so move on and DON'T do it again.
CD
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reader, x lana x +, writes (26 January 2007):
 noo!!!! you never tell a girl the full details, just telling her that you went with another girl is enough to hurt her! you sound like a decent bloke telling her in the first place... but don't tell her any more... she knows you cheated and thats enough, she obviously likes you very much to stay with you. don't hurt her even more.
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