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writes:Hello to anyone that replies to this question I really need some advice. I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend is 15.We'be been going out for 6 months and recently talked about going all the way as it were. I want to know whether I should wait or not. I really dont know what to do. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, mum2be +, writes (23 February 2007):
It is illegal for you to have sex with your gf until she is 16 anyway. The law is there for a reason... so girls like her don't get hurt. I am 15 years old and am pregnant, and trust me, you gf does NOT want to be in that situation!!!!!!!
be patient, it is for the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): hey please wait for her and dont let her loose the only thing she can never get back
CASSIE
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reader, hopeless_teen_ +, writes (24 January 2007):
I agree, wait at least until she's 16 man. That's the legal age, and I agree that you need to make absolutely sure that she is ready for that. It can be a big step to take in any relationship, let alone one with an age difference.
Anyway, good luck man.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I don't know when you're legally "allowed" to have sex in the UK, but since you're 19 I would recommend to maybe wait a while.
Also, a lot of it depends on your girlfriend. She needs to be ready to take this step in your relationship or else the sex is going to be rather pointless to her.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 January 2007):
 Can you wait until she's 16? The thing is that if you go all the way now and she tells anyone you could get charged with rape, despite the fact that it was consensual sex. That's the problem with these relationships with big age gaps. Sex is always an issue. I'm sure you both can control yourself for however long it is until she turns 16. When she's 16 just listen to her and if she's not ready carry on waiting a bit longer.
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