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writes: hi,i'm a 17 year old girl with a big dilemma about a guy. well,last year i started my first year of college and in my history and law lectures there was this guy who used to stare at me. he was seriously sexy in an intense way but all the girls were all over him cos he was clever, charming, way too self assured, arrogant and provocative. so i didn't like him. i ignored him for weeks and then he realized. once, we had a fight but then i made up with him and unconsciously i flirted and stufff... but nothing else happened we didn't go out or anything.i knew he had this wierd obsession with me but now i don't know what's happened. he doesn't look at me anymore and kind of ignores me. before i almost felt like he was a guy in love with me... what's happened? what's gone wrong? someone please reply soon...
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 The guy might be the reincarnation of Ted Bundy, so you better be careful. LOL.
It sounds to me that you two are playing a game of cat and mouse. One is interested, and the other isn't. Then it's vice-versa. You say you think he could be a guy in love with you. How could he love you if hardly knows you? You don't love someone simply by staring at them. However, he might lust after you.
I think maybe he's playing the game . . . even better than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): It could be a million things... maybe he has met someone else?
Maybe he thought he didn't have a chance with you because you never gave him any encouragement? He might be trying his hardest to get over you.
Maybe he never really liked you as much as you thought he did, and you just blew it out of proportion in your mind?
Who knows? Have you tried asking him?
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reader, hopeless_teen_ +, writes (24 January 2007):
To be honest it sounds like this guy could be playing hard to get if he was that obsessed with you. and also, it sounds like you actually like and miss this sexy, intelligent etc. guy's attention *wink*
Be caeful though, if it was in fact that you liked this guy then your mind MAY have been tricking you into thinking this guy liked you so much. So make sure he does / did really like you. You could try doing some research and asking around to find out about him.
But if not, then why not ask him about it. Try and get it so that it's just you and him and ask him out. Clearly you both like each other so who knows.
Not much else I can say really... lol
Good luck, x x x
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