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writes: The first time I had sex was yesterday. I just got off my period 3 days ago so there is a lower risk of pregnancy. We used a condom and he seemed to know what he was doing. However, between my butt it was extremely wet. Could this have just been from him slipping out of me once and it rubbing there or could semen have leaked out of the condom. There was semen in it when he came out of me but not a large amount. How much should there be? Do I worry about it?
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 * Do you have a big ass crack? * Martini, you've just made me choke on my coffee with laughter. Anyway, to the question, I would agree with the others that its probably just your natural lubrication and the lube from the condom too and sweat. As to your concern about there not being much semen, some men dont produce that much at all while others produce enough to fertilize a small town so I wouldnt worry about that. Take a test if the worry becomes too much just to set your mind at rest and next time you have sex, check the condom afterwards okay. Take care of yourself.x
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reader, pink fraggle +, writes (24 January 2007):
 did the condom split and did you check. id just like to say though good girl for using a condom. Men on average produce about dessert spoon of ejaculate so no it wouldnt look much! Also you do get wet during sex so the wet bit was probably just your juices. dont worry yourself too much next time you have a quick check for splits. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): You sound so responsible, all the care and steps and checklist of precautions, good thing your on top of taking care of yourself, but you sound as though you are more afraid of sex, it should come natural and be enjoyable, no fear. the moisture there is no surprise but maybe your not ready and would benifit form talking with your mate about the relationship if sex is that important. Good luck
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (24 January 2007):
 Such a way with words Martini... chuckle..
Yes its most probably the lubriaction from the condom mixed with your secretions and a little of body sweat. Condoms can sometimes have a funny feel to them and can have like a wet feeling left behind. It sounds as though you did all the right things, and as it is your first time its understandable that you are concerned its only natural.
Big up to you for being so responsible about it.
Of course condoms are not always fail proof, but if used correctly in the main they are. I think this time around is probably because its your first time and you were not sure what to expect and your worried about the risk of pregnancy obviously, so i think its actually more you worrying and the wet bit was probably not as much as you initially thought. Try not to worry unduly as im sure it was just the wetness of the occasion and not semen, but even I cant say for sure on that, but do try to relax... if at any point you become unduly concerned please go to your doctor.
You could if its within 72 hours go along and get the morning after pill if you are really that worried, but I wouldnt recommend taking that unless you really did have a mishap... but its an option for you if your that worried. But im sure it was just the condom and bodily fluids from you and so on.
Relax a little and take care x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): Do you have a big ass crack? I'm sure the sweaty moments of sex can lead to sweaty cracks, let alone sweaty armpits, neck, and anywhere with creases. Plus have you not noticed it could also be your own natural lubrication leaking out of your vagina?
Of course, you ARE worrying about it, otherwise, you wouldn't have posted this question up. If it worries you so deeply, you can go take a pregnancy taste. Take it a few times if you need to. That's all you can really do.
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