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The guy wasn't interested when he was single, but he is now, since he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

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Question - (25 September 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

About 5 months ago I told a guy that I really liked him but he turned my down and exclaimed that we should just be friends. I told him that I had got the wrong impression and he was giving me false signals. Now he tells me that he was stupid to let me go and we should start seeing each other. The only problem is he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

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A female reader, Pinky Poos +, writes (28 September 2005):

Ever heard the sayings 'Grass is always greener' or 'you never know what you've got till it's gone' or maybe the most important 'you want to have your cake and eat it'

This guy is stringing you along honey. He didn't want to commit to you before, but enjoyed leading you on. However now he has a girlfriend he has an excuse not to commit to you. My advice would be to make him squirm. Date some other fella's and make him see what he is missing! Have fun and let him know you are a one man girl, so when he's single tell him to call you up and you might be free for a drink!

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A female reader, Delila +, writes (26 September 2005):

Try finding someone who isn't so confused about their feelings. It seems to me this guy is playing someone for a fool and if you don't want it to be you then run for the hills. You could try just asking him really simply what he means by what he said. But I personally wouldn't waste my breath.

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