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Archived questions from: 20 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's taking steroids and busy with work and the gym - is this why he doesn't feel like sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 2 months we are both married, in the beginning we were having sex 3 times a week, now he works 60 hours per week, spends time off at the Gymn, with me and says he doesn't feel like sex. Every time I say to break up,...

Should I marry him if this is how he acts with porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - my fiance watches porn. It has been two encounters where I have been sleep, wake up to find him in the other room butt naked looking at a porno movie, and butt naked sitting in front of the computer. I guess he was going to masterbate to it until I ...

My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually. We've been together a year and a half now, and recently he's been asking me to spice it up a bit with how I do uno stuff with him.. But he has never once or gone down on me or properly...

I feel I can't give him anything he has not already had, what can I do to feel better about myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - i am looking for advice preferably from other women. i have been with my partner 1 1/2 years,he has two kids from a previous relationship. we love each other dearly. my problem is, when i think of us having kids (he's happy to have another)i cant ...

Should I consider this marriage/relationship to be over or should I try to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have only been married for a year, but we have been together for over 4 years now. When we moved in together we got off to a bad start, I was pregnant with our son and I found out he was sending e-mails to other girls and always ...

I don't know how to stay, I don't know how to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - what should I do if my husband never does anything for getting better. He is not touching me, he is not doing anything else just works. I have no more idea... I tried, talking to him, changing things.... I'm taking care of myself. I hate to leave...

How can I advice my friend to choose the right guy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - My best friend (who is female) and I are always there with advice for each other when times are tough, but this time I don't have advice, so I would like your help. Hopefully I can keep this short because it is really a long story. She star...

Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he ...

My ex toyed with my emotions, like this new guy is doing. They know each other. Weird? Not a coincidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - There is this guy who I have gone out on some dates with over the last 3 months. But nothing really ever evolved from them. He would turn hot and cold so I was too scared to ever tell him how I truly felt. As soon as I would show some interest in ...

He flirted and then didn't tell them I was his girlfriend... do I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - hi...i have a question,..i have a live in partner for 8 yrs,and were happy and inlove,,but this past 2 months till now something change,he talk to me and tell me that he's flirting with other girls and the worst thing is " the other girls are my co ...

I'm pregnant and have just found out my partner has ANOTHER baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of almost 7 months have gotten pregnant. This isn't the problem though. After he left his wife September of 07 he immediately began shacking up with this other chick for a little less then 2 months. Well she up and left him ...

Am losing or lost her! She said she needs space...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Been with this girl for 4 years now and suddenly things are going down the drain. To cut the long story short, she bought a house and wanted to move in, being this is my first realtionship I was scared and freaked out and told her I was not ready ...

If I can't have his whole heart then I don't want any part of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man for the past couple of months and we have fallen in love. We both feel like we've known each other in another life. Everything just happened so quickly. Problem is I found out the he is married and has a newborn ...

She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (of 4 years) is extremely nice and always helpful and she will let me do whatever I want like if I want to go hangout with friends she will let me. She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her. I ...

Nothing you've ever seen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had been dating for a long time about two years or so and for some stupid reason about two months before we broke up I told her that I had cancer, everything was fine, I have absolutely no idea why I did it and I regret it ...

Am I wrong to be insecure with where I stand in this relationship?

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20 November 2008 (F) - Well here it goes, I have been doing online dating and talking to guys for the past couple of years since I separated from my child's dad, I have talked to a lot of guys and met a few in real life with no connection. Until about 4 months ago I had ...

My lesbian lover makes me mad as hell sometimes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I am 26 and I am a lesbian dating a 42 year old woman and we are both virgos we have a lot in common and then we don't on views of life and etc. She makes me feel mad as hell when she says things that I don't feel she be said example. When she ...

We fight all the time! How can I avoid this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a woman I'm madly in love with for 1 year and two months now. Throughout the relationship, we've had some ups and some downs, and a lot of those downs have led to breakups and makeups. the truth is I had a real big ...

I feel betrayed and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - hi everyone my problem is that I'm so parrnoid I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I love him, he says he loves me but I think it's just because of the way I look and our good sex life... he complains about me as a person quite a lot... I...

Am I too young to move into an apartment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My step-dad is a real jerk most of the time, and I've had ENOUGH...I'm good in school, I don't stay out late (if I ever get to go out, he never lets me), I dont usually yell back (lately I've been defending myself a lot more) and even my mom has ...