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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Had a row, he went to ex's flat, stayed the night, do I believe that nothing happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? ...

I regret breaking up with my ex, but if I tell him how I feel it will look like I'm tying to stop him going away with his so called friend....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Last year i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years and i think ive made a mistake in doing so. the reason i broke up with him is because 1 night i was walking home with my boyfriends best friend who lives on the way after a night out. when i reached ...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus... i said...

I'm afraid of being alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm afraid of being alone. When I don't have a guy giving me attention, I feel empty. If I don't have someone at the time pursuing me I find someone. It's not hard to find a sucker. I tried to be alone but when I feel like i want to be al...

Can a girl still conquer a guy who says he only wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - A friend and I became super friends and confidants.His girlfriend left him for another guy 1 year ago and after having been his girlfriend for 7 years he cannot get over the loss, therefore I had refused to say anything about it. The big mistake I ...

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

Why do some women want to control their ex boyfriends life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Simple Question: Why do women control or want to control their ex boyfriends? even after several years ,and several new relationships. Ex. I have a friend who remains friends with some and/or still contact ALL their ex's, but completely gets ...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

Sometimes I cant stand my boyfriend and he hasn't done anything wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I need some advice. I dont know how to feel about my boyfriend/relationship. Im usually not a indecisive person. Its still a very new relationship. We met on Halloween 2011, and made it official on November 10th 2011. Before I met my current bf, I ...

Can it work with an ex the 2nd time around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Is it possible to date an ex and have it work out the second time and lead to marriage? My ex who broke my heart 5 months ago is back and wants a second chance. He says he loves me and i never stopped loving him. We dated 8 months and broke up when ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

My b/f got both me and his ex pregnant at the same time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her Chantel cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnap...

Ex and I are talking again should I assume he might like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over ...

What's your opinion of guys who flirt with their ex, while the guy is still IN a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I just wanted everyone's opinion on this. I ask because my ex still flirts with me even though he's got a girlfriend. He's even said to me once how do I know if he ain't lying about being in a relationship, and that I should pretend that he's still ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...

My ex seems like a new man. Is he interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over him and we thoug...

My ex wife is upsetting my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I'm 43 and divorced 5 years from my ex wife Janet. We have one daughter together Amanda who is 13 and is living with me because she wanted it. We split up when she told me she was having an affair and when i asked her was it me or him she choose ...

I feel like I'm second best and not what he wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I could really do with some good advice on this my boyfriend of 11 months and I were talking. A couple of nights ago we were fwbs first I said to him. It feels like I like him more than he likes me he said it isn't true its just how he ...

What hope is there for this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Bit of a long story so please bare with me. Met my girlfriend at work 5 years ago, she was an Assistant Manager of 21, I was a 38 year old employee. Despite the age difference we hit it off straight away and started dating almost immediately. During ...

Is it alright to invite my friend's ex boyfriend to a dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Okay so i wanna ask my guy friend to a dance and i also like him... but my friend used to go out with him but not really since it only lasted a day but she broke up with him cause she didn't see him that way. Now recently she decided she liked hi...

My ex-girlfriend and I still like one another but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I really need help with this situation and it would mean a lot if I can get as many responses as I can, thank you. So me and my ex been broken up for about a half a year, we broke up once which was for 4 months and then we got back together bu...

My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - So I have a list of issues and I do not deny I need therapy but I am here to vent something...I would love the comments and the advice but I'm not really asking for it, I am but im not. I want guidance but I know what to do I'm educated intelligent ...

His ex's home and mobile numbers were back on his phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I was looking through my boyfriends phone contacts and realized that the mobile and home number of his ex girlfriend who he was with for years was back on his phone (new phone and sim card from old phone had number on it). I waited to see if he ...

I am wondering..does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Me and my ex split up about a year and a half ago now. I ended the relationship for several reasons which I won't go into. When we split up, I cut all communication with him in order to move on. However, he kept trying to contact me and I just ...

Should I drop all my male friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have a bf who I love to pieces... but I still talk to all of my ex's, I think it kinds of bother him in a way... he brung it up before but I told him it nothing to worry about. I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I really dont ...

Why is the ex still trying to be in contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - I broke up with my girlfriend of four years about eight months ago. Things weren't going well for one whole year. That precisely happened a year after she joined a course. But she opted for break up a few months later. But we were in contact until...

I loved him so much but he treated me bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Why would you want to hurt someone that loves you so much? is something wrong with me? I loved him so much I thought he loved me too.. He was so nice so sweet, I felt for him and he told me he loved me everyday. But then he broke up with me...

Her ex and the father of her child has no idea about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 5 months, her ex had to move into hers for reasons I won't disclose for about a month. I was cool with it the because I trust her. Any way he's moved out now and I found out he has no idea about me, w...

One final meeting with the ex to talk things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a few months. Now that I think back, it was really unsatisfactory. I put up with a lot of crap and I was miserable but I put a good front. I mean, I was happy, but only when things seemed to be going great. So we ended it...

I miss him but don't want to come across as clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - The guy i like a lot is definitely still in love with his ex. It was obvious, cause it was his status on facebook today. I'm worried about him, cause he gets pretty depressed when he thinks about her. Should i ask him if he is okay? But before y...

This guy used me and I dropped him out of my life. Then why am I feeling jealous about his one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - Coming up 2 years ago I fell head over heels for this guy I knew through a mutual friend. We became best friends so quickly and we had an amazing bond. He began purposely leading me on and generally finding fun in messing with my head. But I was ...

I love my boyfriend and my ex boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I have been in a realationship with a guy since 7 months. We both love n care for each other truly. I am very happy bieng engaged with him. . . But there's a new problem coming up. Before this relationshp, i had an ex boyfrnd. That time i broke up ...

What should I do in this terrible relationship situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - So me and my now Ex girlfriend previously were dating for 8 years. I am 22 now. Ya i know thats crazy weve been together since we were 14. we are both eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners as well. Anyways I am not trying to toot ...

Am I just another notch on his headboard? I don't feel I matter to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. During that time, we split twice. The first time was for 3 weeks, the second time was for a month. The first time we split I had assumed he got cold feet. Recently, though, I found out that his girl...

Do you think it would be a bad idea if we did get something going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy. for security purposes, we'll just call him luke. we met about a week ago and have talked online and texted pretty much nonstop. we've also talked in person several times, and each time went really great. th...

Just ended an abusive marriage, my ex is still living with me, and he's emailing his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Is this part of his game playing. I recently ended a 7yr relationship. My ex still lives at my home but will be moving out shortly. The reason for this was because he was abusive to me one night after he had been out. Whilst i reaconise that he has ...

She is not ready to commit to a relationship. We both care for each other... any advice please?

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24 January 2012 (F) - In may last year I met a girl through my friends at a nightclub. Her name was Laura. We hit it off straight away and started texting immediately. After about 2 weeks we started seeing each other. She was so amazing. I had never met a girl like her. ...

Friend and family dumped by dad, now he wants back in but she wont listen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I need elderly advice please. My friends father practically kicked her mother brothers and her out when she was 2. Reason? He had a new cindrella. My friend like me is 20 and never wants to marry. She says men are things she does when less busy! Her ...

The new wife acts up in front of the child!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Im having major trouble from my exhusbands 6th (and current) wife. My child tells me that everytime my child visits, its a none stop picking and fighting with my ex and his wife. My child feels uncomfortable being there. Well thro out their marriage ...

Should I choose my ex over my current?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I don't think I'm over my ex.. About a year ago my friend, at the time, and I got together. Everything was perfect I was as happy as can be. Thing is he's 5years older than me and at the time I was 16. My parents didn't like the idea at all and this ...

Have we lost our spark in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost two years. He's really great to me, very kind and caring. In the beginning we had a little issue with his ex because we moved kind of fast into our relationship without recovering from the previous ...