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writes:me n ma bf have been getting along fine but this last week he has been himself. I met him on Sundaii he ifngered n i pleasured him but then on Mondaii he promised me to wotch a film with me he dint so he sed tuesdaii he dint he sed thursdaii he dint n he sed tonight but i doubt it. I love him alot but I think he dont want me no more. On msn if i say hi he will o brb (be right back) and wont tlk to me till midnight. when he does tlk to me he wil just saii stuff like ok or lol or summin. I told him I love him and he dint say it back he just says ok even though he has sed it plenty of times before. He ust to always text me to ring him now he dunt and if we do tlk on the phone he wont hardly tlk. :( He ust to tell me not to go when i was going and he NEVER EVER ust to put the phone dwn buh now he lets me go and he insists on putting the phone down without saying bye love you he will just say bye. When we texted on a night time if i dint reply ad fallen asleep and he would saii i guess you have fallen asleep. well baby i love you loads and loads etc... now he just says oh fine don't reply but he will be the first not to reply. He sed for me to meet him on Wednesday and then he changed his mind and sed he was busy and I asked for todaii and he said no. He wont online the other day all day and he dint contact me but then when he did i sed where have you been he sed been busy and then he sed can a go for a shower a sed why u asking tht n he sed well you might wonder where av been a sed sorry a was worried incase summet had happened to you. he sed W-E(whatever) Sorry this is long but I really need to know if he wants to be with me like he sed he loves me but he don't say it no more and when I say it cause a mean it he will just say okaii. Is this a sign of him not wanting me no more? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): girly you don't deserve to be treated like that, no one does...kick him to the curb... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): I think you just made that up. I don't think that this is a real situation b/c it seems like you are purposely trying to mispell everything to mke everyone believe that you are 13-15 years old and I guess I would too b/c this situation is very shameful. At your "age" you shouldn't be thinking about boys and whether or not a boy is going to call you back, but you should be worrying about getting an education b/c an education will better you as a person....not a snotty nosed kid that is only concerned about getting in your pants. If this story is true, I feel that you may lack self esteem and are looking for someone to love. Your first mistake was meeting someone on a Sunday and becoming sexual with him on Monday. If you had given yourself enough time to get to know this guy, that you "love"; You probably wouldve seen signs and KNOWN what type of guy that he was instead of ASSUMING what type of guy that he was. How can you be in love? You don't know anyone after 1 day and you barely someone after 6 mths b/c it is a known fact that you are dealing with the representative of a person when you first meet someone b/c they are trying to impress you. It takes time to KNOW someone and it takes time to LOVE someone and its going to take time for you to learn that you deserve better and deserve respect b/c its obvious that you have lost all respect for yourself by allowing someone to use you for their sexual needs. In life, you will see that sex isn't everything and sex isn't going to get or keep a man b/c there are millions of girls like you that give sex away daily, so you are not unique. To me, it seems like he got what he wanted so now he is going to the next girl that can give him what he wants/needs at the moment. I think that you should move on, learn from this experience, and learn to love and find yourself b/c at the end of the day; you are the one that has to take responsiblity for your actions and deal with all of the mistakes that you have made. I blame you b/c you should have said NO to his sexual advances. I hope my comment helped, but we all know that change starts with YOU!!!!! You can't control what he does or doesn't do, but you can control what you do and what you allow him to do.
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reader, MartiniBaby  +, writes (23 January 2009):
Ok ew his attitude is a complete mess, he has no reason to be acting like that. And look whatever I say can mean nothing to you or it can mean something, but take it however you want to take it. That boy has possibly found interest in someone else, now, there could be a possibility that he hasn't and he may just want to time to himself but you're the one being treated badly in the meantime while he's trying to do whatever. I tell so many people that if he doesn't care then you shouldn't care either. Ok it might be hard to do and it may hurt you deeply to do it because you love him and it does seem like your way in too deep with this boy.
But if he's pulling himself away and you're pulling back but he's pulling even harder then just let go and let his ass fall because you shouldn't be tolerating that Shady Nonchalant attitude. It's like you're making the sun rise for this boy for him just to see where you're coming from and how you feel, and he just shines you a flashlight and cuts it off before you even got a chance to see what side he's trying to show you. It's not fair. But if you feel you need to stay with him and that's what you want to do then, do you. I'm just saying leave that boy alone because he's a waste of time and there are more than one boy on this earth, and I'm pretty sure you could get more than 5 if you wanted to. If he really loves you like he say he do then make him show it, leave, and if he doesn't care yes it will hurt but its better that you found out ahead of time.
But before you leave his triflin butt, if he comes over tonigh talk to him about how you feel and why you feel it and how you would like to be treated once again because you miss it and you miss him. You don't want to leave him but that's what his actions are signaling you to do. =]
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reader, didda123 +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I think you should drop this dirty rat he is playing mind games with you!
He knows he has you hooked and is enjoying the game. I know it is a torture for you and you will have to be very strong but i think it is for the best that you give him his marching orders pronto!!
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday whatever day he never seems to keep his date with you.
Involve yourself with your friends you will need them to help you through this but you are worth 100 times better than him and i have no doubt you will find it once you start enjoying yourself without him holding you back.
Some men start to act this way when they don't have the bottle to actually come out and say that they want out of the relationship but i think that is very cowardly and honesty is always the best policy.
Be strong you can do it hold your head up and drop him x
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