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What does it mean when a guy has condoms?

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Question - (23 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

He has condoms at his place.. when I go to see him he's got condoms when we are going to have sex.. basically he has condoms in his room.. does this mean he's ******* other girls as well and that girls comes over to have sex..?? Please is he sleeping around??? What does it mean when a guy has condoms..?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

it means he wants to hav sex with you duh!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2009):

It means he's a switched on responsible lad. I'd be FAR more worried if you got back to his place, got to THAT point and then he said "Oh no sorry, I don't have any thing to use, let's carry on anyway."

If he's dating you then OF COURSE he's going to have them as he would NEVER want to get you into bed after wanting you all night only to find out that you couldn't do anything because of pregnancy and STIs.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

I agree with what the first comment has to say. I mean I keep condoms in my bedroom and sometimes on my person when I go to see my girlfriend. This is not because I am definately going to have sex with her but it's just to make sure that if things decide to take a romantic detour I am protecting her from having kids. If a guy didn't have condoms when he was going to have sex with you then he is not worth bothering about (unless he forgot he was going to have sex which I wouldn't bileve because sex is a pretty big thing in a guys mind)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

Nope to all your questions. You should be flattered actually cos he has those specifically cos he wants to have sex with you and is responsible enough to protect you both when you do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

I think you maybe slightly overreacting no offense, having condoms is a precautionary and maybe they are just around in preparation for you coming!

if your in a relationship with this guy, and obv having sex with him then i think there would be other factors that show he would be cheating, such as change in personality, lack of interest etc.

Dont stress about the condoms.

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A female reader, Dream_Girl United States +, writes (23 January 2009):

Dream_Girl agony auntthere's no certain way to tell if he's having sex with other women, unless of course you find their clothing around his place.

maybe he just wants to be safe, in case something happens heat of the moment.

i wouldn't worry about it too much, unless he's trying to pressure you into doing something with him.

but just in case he might be seeing other women, use those condoms he carries.

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