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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My "friendly" hot water bottle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I recently posted a question about wanting to masturbate but not having a sex toy. Well I found a solution in a massaging hot water bottle, I used the massaging part where you put the batteries, it looks and works like a vibrator. Well I used t...

How do you give a lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - How do you give a lap dance? What makes it feel really awesome and what is the best way to end it before the sex? Should the sex come after oral sex or no oral at all? and I need details please I have no clue what I'm doing?!?!...

I saw my grandma in a dream...

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17 April 2009 (F) - My grandma passed away last week (Tuesday) from cancer. I was somewhat prepared for this, but not really cuz she seemed alright even though she was very weak. Last night I had a dream that I was in Florida, which is where my grandma and auntie ...

My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me. I don't know why, I know he's not cheating because it's usually at his house with his grandma there and she would never allow that to go on. And when they do go out several of my friends ...

I want to give a "special treat" to my boyfriend.. Suggestions please??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My bf is amazing and I was wanting to do something a little extra special, something to wow him, whether it's with my body or a good position that feels amazing to guys. I thought about starting with a massage but once it gets to the sex I'm out of ...

Fast Moving World

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17 April 2009 (M) - Many of our teens are facing the world by themselves. Both parents working and barely having enough time to eat a sit down dinner with there kids. So who is listening to our teens? What are they to do when faced with drugs, sex, love and problems...

14, pregnant and he may be moving to Spain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hello anyone there i need help i have broken up we my bf about 3 weeks ago now heis thinking of moving to spain to be with his cousins we were together for 2 years we have only ever had sex 3 times this last week i missed my period so i wa...

Should I ask the 12th grader out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm in high school i'm 17 years old . i like this guy at my school who is in 12 grade i'm in 11 grade do you think i should as him out ? and i have been with a guy or two and everyone is mad that i keep talking to their man but if i don't talk to ...

Giving good head..suggestions please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really want to know how to give good head... and since this is a place where lots of people share their advice and expierience i would like to know what certain actions make this the most memorable expierience? ...

I have my whole life ahead of me but don't know if I could kill my child... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello. My name is Anna and I am 17 years of age. I have just found out that I am pregnant after being fourced to sleep with my boyfriend. I have not told anyone as I know they will be judgemental. I am only 17 and have got my whole life ahead of me ...

How do I make him come running back to me?

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17 April 2009 (F) - Basically a guy I've been sort of seeing in an offical way, we never see each other enough though we just speak online and texting. I sent him a text telling him we either start something or leave it and he didn't reply. So he obviously isn't that ...

My scars look really ugly and I'm dreading the summer.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really just wanted a male perspective on scars, but girlies if you have any words of wisdom that would be fab too. I have an ongoing knee instability that has required quite a bit of surgery and has left me with lots of long ugly scars, I really ...

He keeps calling me his ex wife's name by mistake... and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been dating for 11 months now. He has been sweet and all those things good and bad, yet it's all good. A few times he has called me by his ex-wife's name. He done it once or twice... The problem came in when this afternoon we ...

I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed ...

Had my period...can I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy. We used protection, im not on the pill but i think i might be pregnant. We had sex about 2 years ago and i fell pregnant then. That was protected too but still. I had what i thought was my period last week but it was ligh...

We make out then he ignores me afterwards...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - The other night me and my boyfriend got pretty intimate, not sex or anything, but we came close. The thing is, he hasn't contacted me or answered my calls since. I think he's avoiding me and I'm upset because that's the most I've ever done with a ...

Did I offend him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really really like this boy, and have done for years. He recently confessed he liked me too. We aren't going out with each other just yet but he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him, and i want to but i don't know if i should. I told him i di...

Am I cold hearted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm starting to think im cold hearted or something. Two people have died recently my form tutor that i had for 4 years and now my grandad. But yet.... tears do not flood my eyes, nor to strong emotions... Whats wrong with me? :(...

Out of my league....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - hey everyone i like this girl but i think that she is out of my league. We hooked-up(kissed) at a party about 3 months ago and some of her friends gave her shit for doing it. We talk like once a week texting each other, but i need to know what to d...

I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hey a quick question im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat...

I think I'm pregnant yet we're not supposed to be around each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Now i'm 16 and his 20. I have no clue what to do i think i'm pregnant by him which cause a problem cuz we're not suppose to be around each other. that's my mother's doing....

I've suspected that I'm bi since I'm 14. Could I be bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi, since i've been about 14 ive had my suspicions that i'm bisexual. because when i masturbate the thought of boobs really turn me on. but then when i sleep with my boy i really enjoy that as well. its strange. when i'm drunk i tease that i am ...

Can someone console me please? Why do guys not seem to fancy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and so far I have never been in a relationship with a guy. My (girl) friends say that I'm pretty and sometimes I believe them, sometimes I disagree. No guys have said that to me though. It does hurt a little that guys...

Is she just joking or are these strong hints from her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Agh, im so confused. basically, me and my best friend, who are both bi, have had feelings for each other for god knows how long. however, she is not out, and we are scare it will effect our friendship so we have decided not to do anything abou...

I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I ...

My best friend tried to finger me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand ...

How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see...

How do I keep my mind off him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Stupid question--please don't call me dramatic, I know, I am: My boyfriend will be leaving the country tomorrow for a while, and I'm going to miss him quite a lot. Usually we talk hours every day. Now that he's leaving, it seems as though I'll hav...

Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

Family problems and how to tell teacher she is my "mother figure"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I;m 15 and my family is going through a rough time. Always fighting now. one of our close family friends died last month and our best friends got divorced. My parents are always fighting. Alot of it gets pinned on me. I really want to reach...

Should or or should I not, travel with him this summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Ok, I know I may sound superficial, but in my culture, IMAGE is all that matters for a woman; the way she dresses, she talks, her actions and who she goes out with. I would like you to bare this in mind. My reputation is very important for so...

My life is full of bad stuff. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 (account age is wrong) and I just started high school. I think my life is just crashing down on me and I think I really need help. Well basically, life at home is no better either. I'm embarrassed to say that my sister is possibly mad ...

Give him a class ring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark i...

My vagina hurts and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My Vagina hurts. And i just can't figure out why. It hurts when i pee and when i sit down. The only thing that helps is pouring water on it while i pee. Can someone tell me what's the problem ?...

Approaching him about something new for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in an intimate relationship with a 17 year old guy. We aren't going out, we just have a mutual agreement to be what you would call "friends with benefits". It's an exclusive agreement, meaning we only sleep with ...

I feel like something out of the Jeremy Kyle show, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I feel like I am on the verge of a massive break down and everything is compouding onto my chest. I was sexually assaulted 3 years ago by someone who I thought was a mate, 2 months later my badminton coach and close mate of my dads started perving ...

How do I fulfil my needs without getting in a mess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, when I'm on my period I can sometimes still get really horny! How do I fulfil my needs without getting in a mess? ...

Where are the guys my own age???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm mentally mature for my age. I'm not conceited, yet I do know that I'm very attractive physically and my personality is a good one. Lately though it seems that I can't attract or meet any new guys, one's that are ...