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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I barely know him but I told him I loved him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ok I like this boy named Bryan I barly met him and I barly know him yet, I find myself telling him I love him. He told me that he really likes me to so I asked him out. He said NO. So we went on being franns and now he wants to get closer but he ...

He said I am annoying when I 'mother' him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - hi. so i have this really big problem. well not really big. but i really like this guy and i cant tell if he likes me. he makes it so confusing. like everytime we talk hes mean to me. but hes nice to everybody else. and i've talked to my friends ...

My boyfriend never calls or talks to me in class!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and he never calls me! unless i tell him to since we started going out he only called twice and thats because i told him to. and at school we barely ever talk or see eachother because were in ...

Is he interested, or fancies me? or doesn't like me in that way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked ...

Am I using condoms corectly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - when i put a condom on it only goes like ahalf way down and it wont go any furthere..... is this rite o and is it supost to be so tight it hurts???...

Should I tell my b/f that his cousin keeps sending me text messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend we have known each other for about a year and half and we have been dating for ten months and everything is great with him i love been with him and everything. the problem is a cousin he has he knew that his cousin use to have...

Severe period pains...any home remedies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I came on my period today and I usually get pretty bad pains, but because I take paracetamol they usually take care of it. But today were out of them, and my mum forgot to pick some up, I'm sure many women posters have them bad so if anyone knew of ...

Should I give this wonderful guy a chance? I still can't get over my cheating ex b/f!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I have a problem i just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because he was cheating one me,,,,, Now i trying to move on but i found out one of my guy friends is in love with me he even proposed i'm just 16 so idk what to tell him because i'm so h...

I'm too shy and I'm gonna lose my first love because of it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got 2 problems. The first 1 is: there's a boy in my class and he's like madly in love with me but I don't love him! He keeps getting me stuff you know many presents and I couldn't refuse them ...

Lesbian vibes? Now what the hell is that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I don't know, I am in a very awkward situation. All my friends think that I give off lesbian vibes and the reason is all the girls fall head over heels for me.. one of my friends introduced me to this gay guy and he couldn't stop staring at me, ...

Should I tell him that what he said upset me or should I just carry on like normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Earlier on today me and my boyfriend were speaking on msn when I went to get dinner and he usually puts "I love you, so, so much :D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" but instead he just put "kk, talk ltr xxxx" - I know I might be overreacting but I was ...

Follow up: 16 year old male dating a 20 year old female (with a baby boy)...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - Mod note: This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-16-dating-a-20-year-old-with.html Hi, I previously wrote about me dating a 20 year old with a baby boy but I forgot one very important detail - she's married and he knows but he d...

Why yes one minute and no the next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ok so basically i no this guy hes rlly sweet 2 me he has told me he luvs me and that im gorgeous and sexy. i luv this guy 2 bits but wen i ask him if he would like 2 go out 1 minute he wil say yea i would love to date a girl like you and the next ...

I think I am a lesbian! Am I in love or in lust, with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - hello im a 17year old girl and i have a serious problem... i love my best friend who happens to be a girl. we kiss when we are drunk and recently we had sex (however girls have it) and ever since i find it impossible to forget about her. i find my...

I took the morning after pill in Feb, but am I now pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - i was wondering, i took the morning after pill one hour after i had unprotected sex.it was on february the 24th, 2009. then i felt terribly sick and then in a few days had some spotting. i then saw my period on march the 20th, 2009. i had not had ...

My sister asked me about masturbation. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - My sister asked me "What is masterbate?" She's 11 and I was shocked at the time to I just told her "You'll find out when your older." because I couldn't think if I should tell her or not. So, what should I do, should I tell her what it is if she ...

What is your opinions on his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Right. So before I start I don't want to be lectured for the subject of the question. I know that having a relationship with a teacher is wrong, I just want your opinions on his actions, so if you could leave it to that it would be great thanks. M...

Is meeting b/f's relatives a good sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone so recently my boyfriend came back from school and we spent a lot of time together. On Sunday it was our last day together before he had to go back to school he invited me to go to the city with him and meet his relatives. We've ...

My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...

Does he like me, or was it just the alcohol?

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7 April 2009 (?) - first off I'm 15 and I have a crush on my next door neighbor he's 18 . Him and my 25 y/o cousin were drinking on Saturday night. Then came inside to watch a movie and i sat in a chair next to a table where his ipod happen to be at . so my neig...

Have I missed my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Well i'm 13 and over msn i have a best friend who has just currently turned 17, ive met him a few times and goes to my school. we were really close, and he liked me and i liked him but i didn't realize that he liked me so i didnt say anything. we...

What should I do? Who shall I choose between these two boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi =) okay so I've been really good friends with this boy for round about 4(ish) months but I think he's starting to like me. He usually says stuff about how he thinks I'm really funny and cool ect. Last night we were both on web cam on msn doing...

Does this mean he is really in to me in a big way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Just really wanting some second opinions. I've been wit a new guy now for a few weeks and everything is going good, really good in fact, but this last week he's been acting differently. Good differently, and I just wanted to say some ...

What should I do to lose weight and look good this summer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hey,I'm 14,probably over 10 stone,5ft5! i have huuge legs! im really conscious about my thunder thighs and they wont go away! i exercise.eat healthy,drink water,i hardly ever have sugar or fattening things.im overweight and i don't understand why!im ...

What are good exercises to get my flat belly back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I've always been pretty thin, and able to eat what I like, without watching my diet. But recently since leaving school, I feel like I've put on a little weight and am developing a belly.. I'm trying to diet by giving up the things ...

My b/f keeps lying to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - im so confused, me and my bf have been together 9months, through out our relationship iv caught him out many times lying, he lied about his job, he didn't tell me he had a daughter until after we slept together (he nos that i wud have never got invo...

Should I confront him or just leave it and hope it all works out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ive been going out with my bf for about 7 months now and i thought things were going really well. Ive met his family, hes met mine and we all get on really well etc. The only thing is we haven't had sex yet. we tried once but i was nervous as it w...

Why does he do these things to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ok, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and i am only 18 we have a WONDERFUL relationship for the most part, when we're together were so happy and are inseparable, until he's with his friends. ill call him and he'll be e...

Just curious about pet names :-)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - This isn't serious. Its a serious question but like, not something I'm worried about. Just something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We got together the same day we met and since day one, he calls me ...

I am attracted to my b/f's stepdad. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - hi i need some advice. I'm a young girl and currently in a relationship with a boy my age and have been with him for 10 months. I really like him but recently I've been starting to get on really well with his step dad who is much older than me but ...

13 yo and in love with my chat friend in the US - and he is 7 years older!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - ok so basically i go in2 a chat room but simply to talk to my cousin who lives in US. i have recently met a guy in there with is 7yrs older than me. he is sweet and caring and i feel like i can talk 2 him bout everything. i have fallen in love with ...

Why can't boys ever be nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Why can't boys ever be nice? Well some are but most of the guys in our world our JERKS! So here's the story........there is this boy in my fade that I really like and somehow he had found out! I'm guessing one of my friends asked him out for me behi...

She goes with guys for attention...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - Hey all i'm wondering what i should do...i'm in love with this girl...but she went with another guy and did some sex related stuff. I can't stop thinking about her, not sure if its anger, heart break or something else. I've tried talking to her ...

My ex cheated on me with two of my friends should I go back with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - My problem is that if madly in love with my ex boyfriend. We seemed like the perfect couple we were always happy.. We were together for 3 years 8 months and after 2 years of dating i found out he was cheating on me with my bestfriend in the whole ...

I'm 15...He's 26. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I need help very badly, so please stay with me. About more than a year ago i just turned 14 before i went away to israel for vacation. i met a guy who worked there who worked at the pool deck who was 11 years older than me. i did not know this tho...

In love with my female teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I think I might be in love with my female teacher. It's not that I want to date her or anything it's kinda like a mother/daughter thing. I don't know how it started but I've been reading her husband's blog and I know a lot about her. There's just ...

Should I let him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Ummm....hey all cupiders! Instead of givin u the whole boring run down here's how it is....okay I had a friend some of u know him cause of what I've told u....but first of all he was my best friend, then I fell in love with him yadda yadda, then he ...

His dad won't let us date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Earlier this year i asked this guy out. He said yes and we dated for a total of two days. Early in the morning on day three he texted me saying that we can't go out anymore because his dad won't let him. He said we could still be friends but I ...

Are there really guys that like petite girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I've been wondering this for the longest time - are there really guys that like petite girls??? I'm Asian (maybe that has something to do with it?), 5'3, and barely 90 pounds. I've had boyfriends (so I guess people must find something attractive) ...

What can I do to get together with her...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - I am in love with a girl, and she is in love with me, it's been this way for quite a while now, but her mom found a dirty conversation between us and hates my name, she has never met me before but I don't want to go into the relationhip with lies of ...