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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I've liked him for so long, maybe it's God's plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy forever and let's just leave it at that. I've barely talked to him. I've tried to get over him, I really have. I'm involved in a band and I've tried to take my mind off him. But when my mind isn't consumed with my daily activies, ...

Family problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - The past couple of weeks has been hard for my family. My sister and I are constantly biting each others heads off at the slightest wee things and I'm just wondering does she really hate me or is it just a stage of life everyone goes through? I am ...

Is it dandruff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I don't know why but for some reason, all of a sudden today all these little flakes have been falling out of my hair.. it's probly dandruff, why would it start today??? I've never had it before, I tried to brush the flakes out but there were a ...

I need your opinions here...Just friends???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if ...

One day at a time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - My first day passed of no smoking! And I feel great! Few times in the day I craved it a little but overall it's been ok. I'm just hoping tomorrow, the craving does not get worse! I did a cold turkey one, no nicotine patches etc, I think willpowe...

I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father figure to her child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Life is complicated a lot! My best friend told me today that she likes me. I used to be in love with her but never said anything. The problem is that she recently had a baby and I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father ...

How do I ask him if we're "officially dating"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 week and a half now.. And I don't know if it is offical yet. How do I ask him without looking stupid?...

Periods... or lack of them!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and I will be 15 in August. I haven't had my period since June 2008. I don't know what's going on... it's almost been a year since I havent had my period. What's wrong?!?...

My parents don't even know I'm dating and I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my ...

First time sex. Next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought ...

How to get into a reltionship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy. Ive been cinema with him before. We hardly see each other in real life because i rarely often bump into him at the bus stop. But we regularly speak online and texting. And hes normally fine and flirty. I really don't know were ...

I'm freaking out! My best mate grabbed my penis at the urinals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-...

Should I marry him, knowing how badly he wants to abort our child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old. I recently found out I am pregnant. My 26 year old boyfriend, who already has a 3 year old son, wants me to have an abortion. He is an amazing father but says we should wait to have a baby until we are ready, do it right, get marr...

He still has porn in his computer. I feel like I cant trust him anymore

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was looking through my husbands computer and i found some porn movies i was shocked because i thought he stopped watching long time ago what should i do ? i will talk to him about , but how can i make sure that he doesn't watch again ? i feel like ...

Would this be too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...

Who should it be? A, B, or C?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - well.. I have been single for years because I chose it to be that way. See, I'm too much of my own person and love to be 'free'. But now I am thinking of giving it a shot. Here's the dilemma... One guy, (A), I have known for almost two ye...

I'm in love with my college professor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm an 18 year old catholic girl living in England, which means i can't have sex before marriage and nor should i agree with extra marital affairs. Usually i would stick to this because i am quite devout, but i have found myself falling for my Poli...

I'm scared of telling her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - i'm so frustrated with myself....!!! i have a really close female friend and i love her to pieces, but i've yet told her how i feel...im such a wuss--im scared of telling her... it's sooo hard being around her with her not knowing, and her...

I don't want a BJ. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I have a new gf and she wants to give me a blow job but i dont want her to because i think it is to degrading. How do i tell her?...

I am in love with my english teacher.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am in love with my english teacher. There is a fourteen year age gap between us, so I know honestly that nothing can ever happen. I've felt like this for so long, and sometimes I just want to get over it, but othertimes it feels like I don't want...

13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...

I am a terrible flirt! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Ok well, recently, I split up with my girlfriend of about three years. This has happened before in the past with us, but this time It's most likely for good, which is alright. However, I work with another girl who I really like and have sort of been...

My friend likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My best mate likes my boyfriend and i really don't know what to do about it.I can't say anything to her in case she falls out with me.I have told my boyfriend about this and he says he doesn't like her and i am worried because in the past i have ...

How can I educate my friends on my disorder? How can I help myself overcome it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hey, i need help, im a 15 year old girl with social phobia, generalized anxiety disorder and Avoidant Personaltiy Disorder (SP, GAD and AvPD). The thing is non of my friends understand, they just think im being rude when i don't go to sleepovers...

How do I get things back to how they were?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on ...

What should I do to be his friend? I have a crush on him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy that was once my friend, but we never really talked then. Now we're like strangers, and we fell out several times. He can be really mean but also very nice.For 4 years, i think i talked to him for about 10 sentences. If i ...

Avoiding seeing girls in bikinis!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I'm freaking out everytime when i see girls in the bikini !! I could be embrassing me but the reaction of what my ex gf did to me is that im freaking out everytime when i see girls in bikini even on TV. I dont know if im overreacting but...

2 questions: 1 on my LD boyfriend and 1 on my boy friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this...

How do I get rid of the blue vein marks on my chest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Eww help, i can see blue veins under the surface of my skin on my shoulders and boobs, what makes these so visable and what can i do to make them less visible/ dissapear completely? and no im not on pills or sexually active (apparently that makes ...

Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age diff...

14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ...

How do I get him back to being a little more sensitive like he used to be?

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6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing and I love him to death. We've been dating for about 6 months now and I am madly in love with him. I know you're thinking I'm too young and don't know what love feels like and 6 months isn't that long but I am serious. I'm ...

Why did everything change after he became ill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I just admitted to myself that I like this guy who lives about 12 hours away from me... (for obvious reasons it would be kind of hard to admit... he lives pretty far.) I consider us to very close, we tell each other everything. and I mean ...

How do I prove Id' make a devoted boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - well, heres my story, i really like this girl and i dont quite know what to do she always refers to me as her big brother and its upsetting because i want to be more than that if any girl or guy out there can give me some advice on how to win her o...

No boyfriend! Because I'm too skinny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Im 15 years old and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I think maybe it cause im not that skinny or not that pretty. Some people laugh at me cause I've never had a bf. All my friends have had one. I just don't no what to think. ...

Why is sex with my current boyfriend so painful when it wasn't with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - right well basically, I'm 16, (17 in 3 weeks) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, he's 20, so he's almost 4 years older than me, but that's irrelevant. :) I was 14 when I got my first real boyfriend, and we were together for 14 ...