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I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?

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Question - (17 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey

a quick question

im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat me up so we ignore each other now..

she is on the big side and doesn't take regular showers.. my concern is she has the whole ann-summers collection of sex toys! im talking everything! (this must of cost her thousands) i kno this cus its not exactly hiden, she has em everywhere in her room n they easy to spot when i just go in there for sissors or something..

i hear her most nights using the sex toys and its rather disgusting, i no i use them but i dont make it obvious like she does, when she does finally get a boyfriend wont he be worried about how many sex toys she has?

i have caught her on webcam stripping before, and im guessing she does strip/masturbation shows on msn now, so iv bin told by mutual male friends + i get the impression from her facebook she sleeps around, she goes out sometimes at night for 20mins, other times for a whole night, she doesn't have a boyfriend but she has a bag with body lotions, sexy clothes, sex toys, condoms, dvds etc,

i kno this sounds horrible but i think shes either an escort or a prostitute. shes going to ruin her life if shes not careful.. any advice?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntMove out! I wouldn't want to live with anyone like that, but apart from that it is her life to mess up.

If she needs help point her in the direction of dear cupid!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

Unfortunately she is 23 and it's her own life.

She can go out and do what she wants.

If you are worried about her then try being a bit nice to her. Talk to her, start building up a friendship again. If she has someone to talk to then you can point out that you are worried about her.

If you go in and say you think she is doing something wrong she'll just get defensive and it'll turn into a screaming match.

Build up your relationship so she can be open with you about what she's up to and you can check she's safe and ok.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntLeave her to it! Its got nothing to do with you what she does in her private life, if you are concerned then tell your mum or dad but don't approach her, she won't listen to you as you don't even speak to each other! If she's big and doesn't shower I'm guessing that she can't get an actual boyfriend and so she is having sex to fulfil a need. I'm sure she'll come to her senses. X

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