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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same ...

He told me he'll never change... does that mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for like 9 months. I love him so much but we always fight, I know fighting is normal but not all the time.. he has a really bad temper and he gets mad for everything and he always causes it. I don't know why he does ...

I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...

How can I not freak out when we go to these parties and see so many naked/almost naked girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I know problems like this must have been asked like a thousand times before, so I apologize. I'm in college and next week is the university's anniversary, so a lot of activities and competitions will take place. A lot of parties, etc. And there i...

Is he making me depressed too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I asked this question before but I think I need to go into more detail. I met this guy online about a year ago and we have talked every day since then, I really like him a lot but he lives in a diffrent state. We have never met in person and I'm ...

But I love her and want to be sexually with her. How can I make her understand that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - When I was 17 I was living a wild life, drinking, drugs and lots of sex. After my parents kicked me out I moved in with my uncle, got into a good drug program and joined a church group and took a purity pledge. I have dated girls since but never ...

How do girls masturbate? I'm not really comfortable with sticking stuff in my vagina yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I don't really masturbate. I’m not sure how to. Is that weird? Is that bad? Me and my boyfriend are doing a lot of stuff with hands. This is the first time either of us have gotten this close to another person b...

I feel like a sinner and I don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I feel so so dirty! A man on here helped me with one of my problems and we got chatting and he said he'd help me with any other problems. Anyway he started talking sexually and I did too cos I was so unbelievably horny but now I feel so dirty and ...

I feel disadvantage !! I feel like I'm not growing up at all !!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone I'm 16 and I feel I'm very innocent. I don't drink, I 1st kissed at age of 16th, I never dance with girl before, I never been on an airplain and I'm a virgin etc. I've seen many of teenagers doing something fun and enjoying thier lifes. ...

Help! I'm torn between two girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hi, well here's the deal. I have a girlfriend and she's great to me but I think I've fallen for someone else. The girl I like is very very pretty (I've seen pics and videos of her) and has a sense of humour and but we've never talked before. She ...

Pull out and pray!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Ok I had sex with my girlfriend we only had sex with out a condom for like 3 or 4 minutes then we used one. What's you opinion on the chances of her getting pregnant? Her period was 3 days before this. ...

I'm afraid I hurt his feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hey, there is this boy I've liked 4 ages and we used 2 be quite close. I still see him often and the other week, my friend asked him if he'd go out with me. The thing is, we were surrounded by people and I'm really shy so before he could answer I ...

Why is my life so miserable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I just can't handle it any more! It seems like there just seems to be dozens of more crap by the day! My life has always been complicated and hard. I hardly know any of my family including my brother who to be honest has broken my heart and the rest ...

Some questions for you to answser about a friend I'd like to be more than a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him ...

Should I play him at his own game? Tease him and make him chase me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Me and my friends have been hanging around with this group of lads for quite a while now and basically one of them is what you would call the stereotypical bad boy, good looking but he knows it, cocky and is so persuasive and convincing. The thing ...

Does he REALLY only like me as a friend? I can't get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've liked him for almost two years. I think he found out that I liked him (`cause everyone else knew). He keeps on staring at me and when we talk he always puts his arm around my shoulders. There was this one time where he had his hand around ...

I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the ...

I like him, but he's a player. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and ...

How do I find more independence when my boyfriend is away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly a year and half has gone away for a week, and i miss him terribly. I've found myself doing nothing, just feeling sorry for myself. How do i create more independence in my relationship, and stop myself feeling so bad when...

Confessions of an Agony Uncle

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - On the 4th of November 2008 I signed up for a name and posted my first answer on this site. It was some quiet advice on career choices. Last night I posted my 100th. Just a bit of general advice on sex. In between I've gotten my ire up about ...

Now I'm scared I could be pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18, I met him through my friend from school whos dating his best friend (she's 13, he's 17). We've been together 6 months now, and he's never asked for anything sexual at all. My parents have met him and appr...

The test first showed negative, but then positve. Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - So i posted a question a couple days ago about being pregnant and i took two tests. The first one i took waited two minutes and nothing happened. When i looked at it about 2 hours later it was positive. Then the next morning i took another and with...

My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...

I'm 17 and I'm a sex addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - ok im gana get down to the question i love having sex i just do its a part of me but am i over doing it i mean i wana have sex 24/7 im an addict i need a woman's oppinion how do i stop cuz i wana have sex 24/7 with my fiance all the time and im only ...

Is it wrong to like being a tease?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - is it wrong to like being a tease? I used to have very low self esteem and guys would use me but as i have grown up i am a more confident woman. being honest, not trying to sound like a snobby bitch but when i go out clubbing i feel like i can get ...

Is there a way to salvage a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - is there a way to salvage a relationship once it has gotten to the point where the person your with is continuously disrespecting you? my boyfriend is always calling me a slut, whore even a cunt. He is overly jealous and tries to make me feel guilty ...

Is using mirrors during sex fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Do you use mirrors during sex? How so? Is it a fun experience to have sex in front of a mirror or mirrors? What makes it fun?...

What do you guys think? Do I no longer want boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm in a really complex situation right now. ok, I had an ex for 10months but we dated back in high school (the senior years) its been almost 2years since our break up, but during that time we'd use to flirt and always looked like we were going to g...

Mum had an affair, and possibly still is.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - About 5 months ago my mum had an affair with my dads friend. My dad was furious when he found out and extremely upset, my mum sounded like she wanted to leave him completely for the other guy. I found all this out gradually while overhearing their ...

Best friends like the same girl. need advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Ok i have been talking to a girl, who i will refer to as L, for the past 4-5 months. We frequently have very long and interesting conversations through IM and texting (different colleges) and we have hooked up several times. A few weeks ago L bega...

14, in love, and both of us are ready for sex. But I'm scared of the pain.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - OK, I don't know what to do... I started a relationship with this guy I've known for years about a month ago. So far, we've only had oral and manual sex. It's clear he wants to go all the way, but he's reassured me that he won't do anything I'm ...

I love him, he's all I ever think about. What should I do?

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13 April 2009 (F) - Well im thirteen, and ive like this boy who's in my year at school for about 2 years on and off, and ive told him a few times but everything went awkward, but this time i told him and he was fine with it, and we were talking about it last night and ...

Follow up: In love with 2 teachers.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-gosh---struggling-under-the-pressure.html Please please please help! I am completely head over heels in love with 2 of my teachers! I have no idea what to do....these feelings are so strong. Can someone help...

Addicted to the internet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - This has nothing to do with love or relationships, but I think i'm addicted to the internet!! I sound like a sad loser that doesn't have a social life, but i'm simply on it more because there's nothing to do, and I have no money. Especially bore...

Can people notice any smell on other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I always take my bath or shower immediately before bed but then during the night I do some self-stimulation and become quite damp. I am a bit afraid that I will have odor during the day. During the course of the day my underclothing may become damp ...

I really like him. Should I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy who have seen a couple of times and he asked me out, i said no because i didn't know him very well but now i have grew strong feelings for him and i have began to like him. i have asked him out and he said 'dunno' and them people ...

My parents took my mobile phone and now I cannot contact my bf anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - once when i joined in my college..i was very happy and i got a new brand mobile.and my number unfortunately spread to some gangs of boys..and they started like a good friend and finally they were torturing me saying that they would come in gang and ...

Is my girlfriend being unfair by not forgiving me my mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a relationship for eight months. I love my girlfriend but, alas, I've made some stupid mistakes. Considering that our relationship is long-distance, it's been difficult on me as I'm a guy and had recently lost my virginity (to my...

Torn between two great guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Im really into two different guys and i dont know which one to go with. They are in the same band and they are both very talented, extremely nice and supportive, and cute. Which one should i choose???? Guy 1 six years older than me mature s...

What to do with the 2 boys I like .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - dear readers , im a senior in high school and im so confused i like this guy(well i like his image and he is all that i have ever wanted in a guy friend.) and he knows i like him, but i find it so hard to be myself around him,i lose my train of...

I did what I had to do on facebook. What's next for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - There is this girl I like, this is the same girl from my other question, and she's been avoiding me a lot. I tried to convince myself that I could get over her, but I cant. She was my first love and I've liked her for a long time. Well I did some...

Any tips for first time beautiful sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in love. We have not done it but will. How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us? ...

Love at first sight and coincidence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - What do you think about love at first sight and coincidences? How i met my bf was we were both coming from school, i was coming from high school night school and he was coming from college night school, we were at the same station and got ...

Confused! Is this love? Should I give him some space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for about a month now and a half, how we hooked up was him revealing his love for me and i gave him a chance finally. I have been hurt many times with ppl cheating on me and it is taken me a while to stop being scar...

I like being with my boyfriend and find it hard to break up...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi I've been going out with this guy for 3 years now...but for the past year we have been falling out and things aren't what they used to be....he's very jealous and sometimes controlling but on the other hand he can be so sweet and fun...la...

I don't know if I even stand a chance with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago